"everything happens for a reason"

Dopameme · July 02, 2016, 05:27:39 PM

i can't be the only one who instantly gets annoyed at people when they say shit like this. it's such a half-assed way to get someone to feel better, and it's even worse when the person agrees with them

discuss widely popular sayings that are complete bullshit

Naru · July 02, 2016, 05:48:22 PM

"god has a plan for them" really fucking irritates me

Pippen · July 02, 2016, 05:52:48 PM

I like "everything happens because of a reason" better than that.

Verbatim · July 02, 2016, 05:54:43 PM

when i lose something, and people say shit like, "well, it has be to somewhere!"

yeah no fucking shit, skippy

FatherlyNick - fuck putin · July 02, 2016, 06:02:55 PM

I generally have a gripe with comforting - mainly because everyone tells me I suck at it.
Instead of saying shit like "It will be okay" or "I'm here for you" I always jump straight into the mindset of "Okay, how do I help this person?"
So yeah, I see stuff like "It will be okay" as totally useless. How will it be okay if no one does something about it?

Coco · July 02, 2016, 06:04:22 PM

Quote from: Verbatim on July 02, 2016, 05:54:43 PM

when i lose something, and people say shit like, "well, it has be to somewhere!"

yeah no fucking shit, skippy

"Where's the last place you put it?"

Aether · July 02, 2016, 06:06:27 PM

Everything does happen for a reason, if it didn't then nothing would ever manifest into being.

I don't see how any of that requires some sentient force orchestrating it all, however. Cause and effect is purely cause and effect.

Verbatim · July 02, 2016, 06:08:35 PM

Quote from: Aether on July 02, 2016, 06:06:27 PM

Everything does happen for a reason, if it didn't then nothing would ever manifest into being.

I don't see how any of that requires some sentient force orchestrating it all, however. Cause and effect is purely cause and effect.

yeah but the implication is that shit happens for good reasons

ie. it's all gonna lead up to something wonderful some day

challengerX · July 02, 2016, 06:13:34 PM

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Elai · July 02, 2016, 06:18:11 PM

"Shit happens" pisses me off.

Winy · July 02, 2016, 06:22:30 PM

Get this from my mother a lot, but I'm not gonna be a dick and rip apart an age-old phrase from her.

DAS B00T x2 · July 02, 2016, 06:29:27 PM

Quote from: Callus on July 02, 2016, 06:18:11 PM

"Shit happens" pisses me off.

Brah, that's my fucking motto.
Shit happens. Now fuckin roll on.

ಠ_ಠ · July 02, 2016, 06:58:37 PM

Pippen · July 02, 2016, 06:59:44 PM

Quote from: Varg on July 02, 2016, 06:58:37 PM

I don't mind this God.

R o c k e t · July 02, 2016, 09:27:45 PM

Everything does happen for a reason, but sometimes that reason is stupid as fuck

Dopameme · July 02, 2016, 11:05:23 PM

Quote from: Aether on July 02, 2016, 06:06:27 PM

Everything does happen for a reason, if it didn't then nothing would ever manifest into being.

I don't see how any of that requires some sentient force orchestrating it all, however. Cause and effect is purely cause and effect.

like verby said, there's an underlying implication that it's a good reason. what I'm saying is that, how are we supposed to even know what these reasons are? cause and effect can only do so much. For example, i have a dog that accidentally eats too much chocolate and dies. The cause is consuming the chocolate, and the effect is death. Where is this supernatural "reason," ya know?

Dopameme · July 02, 2016, 11:06:30 PM

Quote from: Callus on July 02, 2016, 06:18:11 PM

"Shit happens" pisses me off.

i probably say this too much

aREALgod · July 02, 2016, 11:07:01 PM

Quote from: Naru on July 02, 2016, 05:48:22 PM

"god has a plan for them" really fucking irritates me

But He does

Dopameme · July 02, 2016, 11:09:39 PM

Quote from: aREALgod on July 02, 2016, 11:07:01 PM

Quote from: Naru on July 02, 2016, 05:48:22 PM
"god has a plan for them" really fucking irritates me

But He does

but how do you know that?

aREALgod · July 02, 2016, 11:10:34 PM

Quote from: 🍄Tryptameme🍄 on July 02, 2016, 11:09:39 PM

Quote from: aREALgod on July 02, 2016, 11:07:01 PM
Quote from: Naru on July 02, 2016, 05:48:22 PM
"god has a plan for them" really fucking irritates me

But He does
but how do you know that?

Because God has a plan for everybody

Dopameme · July 02, 2016, 11:13:38 PM

Quote from: aREALgod on July 02, 2016, 11:10:34 PM

Quote from: 🍄Tryptameme🍄 on July 02, 2016, 11:09:39 PM
Quote from: aREALgod on July 02, 2016, 11:07:01 PM
Quote from: Naru on July 02, 2016, 05:48:22 PM
"god has a plan for them" really fucking irritates me

But He does
but how do you know that?

Because God has a plan for everybody

Quote

but how do you know that?

Verbatim · July 02, 2016, 11:16:15 PM

i bet you could crush midget's head like one of those empty malted milk duds

Aether · July 02, 2016, 11:24:29 PM

Quote from: 🍄Tryptameme🍄 on July 02, 2016, 11:05:23 PM

Quote from: Aether on July 02, 2016, 06:06:27 PM
Everything does happen for a reason, if it didn't then nothing would ever manifest into being.

I don't see how any of that requires some sentient force orchestrating it all, however. Cause and effect is purely cause and effect.
Where is this supernatural "reason," ya know?

As I said, I don't see how one is required.

Dopameme · July 02, 2016, 11:34:38 PM

Quote from: Aether on July 02, 2016, 11:24:29 PM

Quote from: 🍄Tryptameme🍄 on July 02, 2016, 11:05:23 PM
Quote from: Aether on July 02, 2016, 06:06:27 PM
Everything does happen for a reason, if it didn't then nothing would ever manifest into being.

I don't see how any of that requires some sentient force orchestrating it all, however. Cause and effect is purely cause and effect.
Where is this supernatural "reason," ya know?
As I said, I don't see how one is required.

i mean, i agree that it isn't really required, and pondering common platitudes that have stood the test of time isn't necessarily productive, but i feel like people should know why what they're saying is senseless

aREALgod · July 02, 2016, 11:53:53 PM

Quote from: 🍄Tryptameme🍄 on July 02, 2016, 11:13:38 PM

Quote from: aREALgod on July 02, 2016, 11:10:34 PM
Quote from: 🍄Tryptameme🍄 on July 02, 2016, 11:09:39 PM
Quote from: aREALgod on July 02, 2016, 11:07:01 PM
Quote from: Naru on July 02, 2016, 05:48:22 PM
"god has a plan for them" really fucking irritates me

But He does
but how do you know that?

Because God has a plan for everybody
Quote
but how do you know that?

Because He does

Dopameme · July 02, 2016, 11:56:39 PM

Quote from: aREALgod on July 02, 2016, 11:53:53 PM

Quote from: 🍄Tryptameme🍄 on July 02, 2016, 11:13:38 PM
Quote from: aREALgod on July 02, 2016, 11:10:34 PM
Quote from: 🍄Tryptameme🍄 on July 02, 2016, 11:09:39 PM
Quote from: aREALgod on July 02, 2016, 11:07:01 PM
Quote from: Naru on July 02, 2016, 05:48:22 PM
"god has a plan for them" really fucking irritates me

But He does
but how do you know that?

Because God has a plan for everybody
Quote
but how do you know that?

Because He does

seems like your faith is highly irrational, bud

Zonda · July 03, 2016, 06:35:21 AM

Tbh I think people know bad shit happens for no reason, but the idea terrifies them so much they need to reassure themselves there's some ultimate goal that justifies said occurrence.

I know sometimes I get severe anxiety and I'll tell myself almost anything to ease that tbh

Mattie G Indahouse · July 03, 2016, 06:48:31 AM

"God is real."