What about teachers?
Quote from: Ender on February 03, 2016, 11:09:37 PMalright, as you may know I'm shit at explaining so I'll do this a bit differently.Growing up me and my brother were spanked by my Mom and Mamaw (southern-ish way of saying grandma). Whenever we back talked or did something very bad we would get spanked and told that it was wrong to do anything of the sort. I also remember very well getting sent to sit on the steps to the basement as punishment. When I had to sit on the steps as punishment it never stuck with me the way a spanking would. A spanking taught me to avoid Doing wrong things out of the dislike with getting smacked with a hand or spatula in the according places.Now I'm going to compare it to some of my newer cousins who are very young whose parents do not spank. Theyre fucking awful to be around in every way, and I'm saying this in the most polite way possible. They scream, they push, they punch, they self centered, they talk back-showing no respect for those that are older, and more.I'm talking about 10+ people here,maps well.Well, again, I'm sorry to hear about all this, but thank you for sharing.About your cousins, though--so, are you telling me that there's a causal link between corporal punishment and good behavior? Do you think if your extended family believed in corporal punishment, your cousins would be more well-behaved?I won't pretend as though I know your family, but it seems to me that there would be a lot more factors than that. Spoiling your children tends to be one of the biggest and best ways to turn your child into a brat. My parents neither spanked nor spoiled me--and I was extremely well-behaved (compared to my peers), if you can believe that.I just hope you're not trying to make a correlation = causation type argument.
alright, as you may know I'm shit at explaining so I'll do this a bit differently.Growing up me and my brother were spanked by my Mom and Mamaw (southern-ish way of saying grandma). Whenever we back talked or did something very bad we would get spanked and told that it was wrong to do anything of the sort. I also remember very well getting sent to sit on the steps to the basement as punishment. When I had to sit on the steps as punishment it never stuck with me the way a spanking would. A spanking taught me to avoid Doing wrong things out of the dislike with getting smacked with a hand or spatula in the according places.Now I'm going to compare it to some of my newer cousins who are very young whose parents do not spank. Theyre fucking awful to be around in every way, and I'm saying this in the most polite way possible. They scream, they push, they punch, they self centered, they talk back-showing no respect for those that are older, and more.I'm talking about 10+ people here,maps well.
Quote from: PSU on February 04, 2016, 09:40:03 AMLol you don't even have a kid. Don't tell me how to parent when you're still a teenager. Aight?Then I guess you should never ever criticize gangsters and drug dealers because you've never lived that life.
Lol you don't even have a kid. Don't tell me how to parent when you're still a teenager. Aight?
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Quote from: Verbatim on February 03, 2016, 11:12:53 PMone studyHouston, we have a problem.
Quote from: PSU on February 04, 2016, 09:52:40 AMGangsters? Well no I've never been in a gang. So you're right.No. You don't have to be in a gang to know its fucking retarded. QuoteDrug dealers? That's another story.LOL Oh god. Yeah a story. Exactly. A fairy tale. Don't try to be something you're not. QuoteOT: nothing at all is wrong with hitting your child. Fuck this new age parenting bullshit when no children are disciplined.Hitting solves nothing. I know kids who would get hit all the time and they still ended up fucked up.
Gangsters? Well no I've never been in a gang. So you're right.
Drug dealers? That's another story.
OT: nothing at all is wrong with hitting your child. Fuck this new age parenting bullshit when no children are disciplined.
No, fuck this society where some of us think it's okay to harm the weakest and most fragile members of our society--whereas if you so much as slap an adult, you'll be pressed with assault charges. Fuck.(Not that you shouldn't be charged for that--but this is the most pernicious double standard I've ever seen.)I'll try to respond to you later, Ender. I'm trying to gather a few studies I think you should read, but really, you'd do well to study the subject yourself, I think. Anecdotes are all well and good, but they're still just anecdotes.
Quote from: challengerX on February 04, 2016, 09:55:36 AMQuote from: PSU on February 04, 2016, 09:52:40 AMGangsters? Well no I've never been in a gang. So you're right.No. You don't have to be in a gang to know its fucking retarded. QuoteDrug dealers? That's another story.LOL Oh god. Yeah a story. Exactly. A fairy tale. Don't try to be something you're not. QuoteOT: nothing at all is wrong with hitting your child. Fuck this new age parenting bullshit when no children are disciplined.Hitting solves nothing. I know kids who would get hit all the time and they still ended up fucked up.Don't try to be something I'm not? You don't even know me other than words on a screen and a picture or 2, get real.Hitting solves everything. And I know kids who didn't get hit who never had an ounce of respect for their parents because of it. Hitting works.
No, fuck this society where some of us think it's okay to harm the weakest and most fragile members of our society--whereas if you so much as slap an adult, you'll be pressed with assault charges. Fuck
QuoteDrug dealers? That's another story.LOL Oh god. Yeah a story. Exactly. A fairy tale. Don't try to be something you're not.
Quote from: challengerX on February 04, 2016, 09:55:36 AMQuoteDrug dealers? That's another story.LOL Oh god. Yeah a story. Exactly. A fairy tale. Don't try to be something you're not. That's the plotline for Season 5 of PSU Adventures™, stop spoiling shit.
Quote from: Fedorekd™ on February 04, 2016, 11:32:00 AMQuote from: challengerX on February 04, 2016, 09:55:36 AMQuoteDrug dealers? That's another story.LOL Oh god. Yeah a story. Exactly. A fairy tale. Don't try to be something you're not. That's the plotline for Season 5 of PSU Adventures™, stop spoiling shit.You're living up to your name
Quote from: PSU on February 04, 2016, 10:10:29 AMDon't try to be something I'm not? You don't even know me other than words on a screen and a picture or 2, get real.Yeah ok good for you. QuoteHitting solves everything. And I know kids who didn't get hit who never had an ounce of respect for their parents because of it. Hitting works.>hitting solves everythingThere you have it.
Don't try to be something I'm not? You don't even know me other than words on a screen and a picture or 2, get real.
Hitting solves everything. And I know kids who didn't get hit who never had an ounce of respect for their parents because of it. Hitting works.
Quote from: PSU on February 04, 2016, 11:45:55 AMQuote from: Fedorekd™ on February 04, 2016, 11:32:00 AMQuote from: challengerX on February 04, 2016, 09:55:36 AMQuoteDrug dealers? That's another story.LOL Oh god. Yeah a story. Exactly. A fairy tale. Don't try to be something you're not. That's the plotline for Season 5 of PSU Adventures™, stop spoiling shit.You're living up to your nameThanks, Dad.
I know you're a shitty internet troll that doesn't leave his basement.
Quote from: PSU on February 04, 2016, 12:04:29 PMYou're one to talk. Like I've said since B.net, prove I'm a "troll that doesn't leave his basement" and I'll leave forever. Hold on let me waste my time hacking you and spying on your life so I can get you to leave a forum. Your little "challenge" is about as fair and realistic as me asking you to prove I'm a girl. You know this, and it's why you keep saying it. Because it's an impossibility to prove something like that, and then you can go on saying "haha get fucked kiddo I'm the best nobody can prove I'm a troll" when literally everybody on this website knows you're a troll.
You're one to talk. Like I've said since B.net, prove I'm a "troll that doesn't leave his basement" and I'll leave forever.
None of us need to be a parent to know hitting a kid solves nothing. It makes the kid fear/resent his parents and authority figures, and the kid will just learn to continue doing his bad behavior more sneakily.