Quote from: DAS FOTZEZERSTÖRER on December 01, 2015, 07:40:04 AMIt's the jarhead's own fucking fault that he hooked up with a transgirl. That's the default assumed status of Filipino callgirls.You're just mad that he's a Corporal and you're a Private.
It's the jarhead's own fucking fault that he hooked up with a transgirl. That's the default assumed status of Filipino callgirls.
What are your thoughts on transgenders not letting the person they're about to have sex with know that they're trans?
Uh, the person just doesn't have sex with them. Not telling someone your genital situation has no bearing on the oral sex agreement. If the situation had ended with oral sex and he didn't touch her privates, this "rape" wouldn't have even been felt. Consent wasn't violated literally anywhere. Guy wanted to get his dick blown by a woman, he got his dick blown by a woman. Just so happens that woman is genetically male. Turns out, expressed gender actually matters more than birth sex because no straight man wants to bang a ftm.
Quote from: eggsalad on December 01, 2015, 09:39:10 AMUh, the person just doesn't have sex with them. Not telling someone your genital situation has no bearing on the oral sex agreement. If the situation had ended with oral sex and he didn't touch her privates, this "rape" wouldn't have even been felt. Consent wasn't violated literally anywhere. Guy wanted to get his dick blown by a woman, he got his dick blown by a woman. Just so happens that woman is genetically male. Turns out, expressed gender actually matters more than birth sex because no straight man wants to bang a ftm.obviously, when it comes to sex, your biological sex does matter to people--otherwise he wouldn't have killed herit matters to mesorry--i'd only ever want to receive or give oral sex to a cisgendered femalethat's my preference
Literally what
Quote from: challengerX on December 01, 2015, 10:00:31 AMLiterally whatGenitals aren't relevant information unless the sexual acts involve the genitals.
Quote from: eggsalad on December 01, 2015, 09:39:10 AMUh, the person just doesn't have sex with them. Not telling someone your genital situation has no bearing on the oral sex agreement. If the situation had ended with oral sex and he didn't touch her privates, this "rape" wouldn't have even been felt. Consent wasn't violated literally anywhere. Guy wanted to get his dick blown by a woman, he got his dick blown by a woman. Just so happens that woman is genetically male. Turns out, expressed gender actually matters more than birth sex because no straight man wants to bang a ftm.obviously, when it comes to sex, your biological sex does matter to people--otherwise he wouldn't have killed her(not saying it was justified)it matters to mesorry--i'd only ever want to receive or give oral sex to a cisgendered femalethat's my preference
To require disclosure before anything is initiated seems unreasonable to me as I figure that there are a number of people who, upon being committed to getting intimate, will no longer care if they are transgendered or not where they might have avoided the situation entirely to begin with.
Why does it matter in the context of oral sex.
Quote from: eggsalad on December 01, 2015, 10:14:22 AMWhy does it matter in the context of oral sex.because that's not my sexual preferenceit's that simplesexual preference is not rooted in logic or rationality, it's rooted in biologywhich is anything but rational or logicalregardless, i can't help what i like
Quote from: Tsirist on December 01, 2015, 10:11:30 AMTo require disclosure before anything is initiated seems unreasonable to me as I figure that there are a number of people who, upon being committed to getting intimate, will no longer care if they are transgendered or not where they might have avoided the situation entirely to begin with.there are also a number of people, like me, who are always going to carei can love men, women, transmen, and transwomen all the samei can be intimate with them all the samebut i'm only willing to be sexual with one of those four things, and that's ciswomentherefore, i'm someone who would appreciate a bit of honesty and disclosurecall me a bigot
Except biologically your dick gets hard because of things about a woman other than her genitals. Features which a transwoman exhibits.
No one is saying you have to have sex.
Quote from: eggsalad on December 01, 2015, 10:21:44 AMExcept biologically your dick gets hard because of things about a woman other than her genitals. Features which a transwoman exhibits."biologically female" is not a feature that a transwoman can exhibit
Quote from: Verbatim on December 01, 2015, 10:27:32 AMQuote from: eggsalad on December 01, 2015, 10:21:44 AMExcept biologically your dick gets hard because of things about a woman other than her genitals. Features which a transwoman exhibits."biologically female" is not a feature that a transwoman can exhibitSo when you look at pictures of people on a screen do you somehow automatically know what their birth gender was or are you just not aroused by anyone period until you know what they were born as?
Quote from: Tsirist on December 01, 2015, 10:30:23 AMQuote from: Verbatim on December 01, 2015, 10:27:32 AMQuote from: eggsalad on December 01, 2015, 10:21:44 AMExcept biologically your dick gets hard because of things about a woman other than her genitals. Features which a transwoman exhibits."biologically female" is not a feature that a transwoman can exhibitSo when you look at pictures of people on a screen do you somehow automatically know what their birth gender was or are you just not aroused by anyone period until you know what they were born as?Ceci n'est pas une pipe. An image of a woman isn't a woman--it's an image of a woman. Whether or not the woman featured was biologically male at one point is of no concern of mine, because images allow me to project my own fantasies on them.In real life, things get a little more complicated. If I'm told after the fact that she was trans all along, and that she was a man at one point, it kinda shatters my entire perception of her, and I just wouldn't be able to shake it off. The idea of a man blowing me makes me uncomfortable, so, naturally, the idea of a transwoman blowing me makes me uncomfortable, too.I fully concede that this is irrational thinking, but what exactly am I supposed to do about it?Just "get over it"?Should I be okay with guys blowing me, too, as a straight male? Because both men and women have mouths?That's what egg seems to be saying, anyway.
Should we criminally charge someone for "deceiving" you by not having to account every individual's personal irrationality?
Marine murdered transgender woman
