Is chivalry dead?

Flee · October 01, 2014, 04:54:43 AM

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Laser · October 01, 2014, 06:44:43 AM

Quote from: Nuka on October 01, 2014, 02:59:19 AM

People should just be nice to each other regardless of gender or whether or not you think they're sexually appealing.

Dopameme · October 01, 2014, 01:26:20 PM

Quote from: Flee on October 01, 2014, 04:54:43 AM

It's probably because you're a creepy looking fella with a crooked smile who's flapping a sausage around all day. Tends to be a turn-off for the ladies.

nobody's ever complained about my sausage before >.>

clum clum · October 01, 2014, 08:06:26 PM

Quote from: Isara on October 01, 2014, 04:24:12 AM

It's like yelling "I have an interest in you, yet I don't know you at all!" and certain days you just don't want to hear any of that.

That doesn't really make any sense. How do people become friends then? How do people form relationships?
It isn't a huge task to interact with other people. Simple things, like holding open a door can go a long way.

Awkward Crying · October 01, 2014, 10:58:07 PM

I feel like grabbing the trash is something you shouldn't have done. While it's a nice gesture it's also a creepy one for someone you've only known for a few minutes.

🂿 · October 02, 2014, 12:22:39 AM

Yes. Yes it is.

If a girl said to me "Don't worry, I'm not gonna have sex with you." if I tried doing the same thing, this is what I would say to her.

"Let me get this straight. Me being nice to you and actually trying to be a decent human being in a completely screwed up world, translates to I want have sex with you according to your mind? Bitch, if I wanted to have sex with you, I would have come up and said 'hey, let's have sex, what do you say?' Just for assuming that, you are horrible! I don't want to have sex with you anyway! You're ugly on the inside and no one that's truly loyal will ever be with you."

I'm not kidding, that's what I would have said to her.

🂿 · October 02, 2014, 12:24:34 AM

Quote from: Flee on October 01, 2014, 04:54:43 AM

It's probably because you're a creepy looking fella with a crooked smile who's flapping a sausage around all day. Tends to be a turn-off for the ladies.

I highly doubt that's him in his avatar.

🂿 · October 02, 2014, 12:26:47 AM

Quote from: Isara on October 01, 2014, 04:24:12 AM

Personally, it would annoy me when someone that I just met tried to be full of chivalry. I wouldn't mind a male friend, or someone that I know, but when it's a total stranger I just had a small talk with... It's like yelling "I have an interest in you, yet I don't know you at all!" and certain days you just don't want to hear any of that.

Still, being polite would actually be helpful.

There are times where I come off as unintentionally creepy. I don't do it on purpose. :/

I'd rather have someone say "hey you're kind of being a creeper right now" then to state a rude remark like that.

🂿 · October 02, 2014, 12:27:44 AM

Quote from: SoporificSlash on September 30, 2014, 06:47:50 PM

Well I'm really nice to girls. I guess I'm one of the rare cases of a guy that wasn't a douche and still got a pretty substantial amount of poon from pretty hot girls. But yes there is this developing thing with girls of this generation where being polite is considered "weird".

Such idiots. X(

🂿 · October 02, 2014, 12:30:35 AM

Quote from: Nuka on September 30, 2014, 06:53:17 PM

Quote from: Officer Nasty on September 30, 2014, 06:50:09 PM
Quote from: Nuka on September 30, 2014, 06:48:34 PM
Yes, it's dead. It was a stupid concept anyways.
Why do you think it's stupid?
Gender roles blah blah blah.
In this day and age, women want to feel independent and that they can do things on their own without being treated like they need a man's help every step of the way. Before you go off complaining about me saying this, why do you think men try to be "chivalrous" in the first place anyway?

Honestly, it's completely true that for a lot of women, guys are only nice with them if they want to sleep with them.

I kinda disagree. I only do it because mainly I'm being polite. At least that's how my mom raised me. :/

gats · October 02, 2014, 07:16:28 AM

Meh I wouldn't have taken her trash if you don't know her. It's a little pushy.

TB · October 02, 2014, 09:25:02 AM

This thread is just dropping my level of respect for Deci >.>

Statefarm · October 02, 2014, 10:09:20 AM

She sounds a little full of herself