I do live in a similar town where there's nothing to do, and the people are quite backwards thinking. So, I familiarize with that. What I want to do is to move out. Perhaps, you should consider moving out when you are done with your classes? Maybe it sounds a little reckless, but that kind of stagnation you have right now, is worse than failing.
Move to a city.
Hmm... tell me, do you have an Oedipus complex?
Quote from: Septy on October 01, 2014, 09:08:05 PMMove to a city.Are towns and cities not the same thing? If not, I am in a city, and this city sucks.
Quote from: Decimator Omega on October 01, 2014, 09:10:00 PMQuote from: Septy on October 01, 2014, 09:08:05 PMMove to a city.Are towns and cities not the same thing? If not, I am in a city, and this city sucks.Uh, do you live in an apartment or house?
Quote from: Septy on October 01, 2014, 09:13:17 PMQuote from: Decimator Omega on October 01, 2014, 09:10:00 PMQuote from: Septy on October 01, 2014, 09:08:05 PMMove to a city.Are towns and cities not the same thing? If not, I am in a city, and this city sucks.Uh, do you live in an apartment or house?Apartment.
Quote from: Decimator Omega on October 01, 2014, 09:10:00 PMQuote from: Septy on October 01, 2014, 09:08:05 PMMove to a city.Are towns and cities not the same thing? If not, I am in a city, and this city sucks.You're in a city and you can't find things to do?
Quote from: Decimator Omega on October 01, 2014, 09:16:34 PMQuote from: Septy on October 01, 2014, 09:13:17 PMQuote from: Decimator Omega on October 01, 2014, 09:10:00 PMQuote from: Septy on October 01, 2014, 09:08:05 PMMove to a city.Are towns and cities not the same thing? If not, I am in a city, and this city sucks.Uh, do you live in an apartment or house?Apartment.Is it possibly to take more of your classes so you have less free time to frack around? Or can you just take them for just those two days? I recommend keep looking for a job and get out of your apartment more.
Honestly i had nearly the same problem, and well i got bored, and so decided if things are not interesting why not make things interesting yourself.Just talk to a random girl or guy and see how things go. With friends do something stupid. Try something out. Honestly if life is boring for me i need to make it interesting. Just make sure you do not cause and serious issues with other people.
Also if you are in North America want to come to banff to skii during the winter. Honestly i have little care in the world for this. But if it can pull you out of your depression it might help.
Quote from: Risay117 on October 01, 2014, 09:33:30 PMHonestly i had nearly the same problem, and well i got bored, and so decided if things are not interesting why not make things interesting yourself.Just talk to a random girl or guy and see how things go. With friends do something stupid. Try something out. Honestly if life is boring for me i need to make it interesting. Just make sure you do not cause and serious issues with other people.I judge people too quickly and quite harshly at times, so I don't know how that would play out.
Quote from: Decimator Omega on October 01, 2014, 09:36:16 PMQuote from: Risay117 on October 01, 2014, 09:33:30 PMHonestly i had nearly the same problem, and well i got bored, and so decided if things are not interesting why not make things interesting yourself.Just talk to a random girl or guy and see how things go. With friends do something stupid. Try something out. Honestly if life is boring for me i need to make it interesting. Just make sure you do not cause and serious issues with other people.I judge people too quickly and quite harshly at times, so I don't know how that would play out.Do not judge them, pretend it is improv and just talk about something, let them be stupid and play along with their stupidity. They say something stupid well you just make a comment or try to make them dig a bigger hole for themselves. Just pull them out before hand.Honestly do not judge, people are idiots, well most are, so just talk to someone, ask stupid questions, usually the general questions then try to bring up a topic that you think you or anyone can comment alot about and let them go all out. Control yourself and then you start going into it. Later just ask them for coffee or maybe a game of soccer or something.
Not to make it sound like I'm being a dick, but what do you got to loose? It sounds like nothing to me. Just do what you want to do and if that means leaving your town and moving to somewhere else, then just do it. You have one shot at life so take risks and enjoy the rewards from it
Quote from: Kinder_ on October 01, 2014, 09:41:55 PMNot to make it sound like I'm being a dick, but what do you got to loose? It sounds like nothing to me. Just do what you want to do and if that means leaving your town and moving to somewhere else, then just do it. You have one shot at life so take risks and enjoy the rewards from itIt's not so much of what I've got to lose, it's mainly what can I gain? My outlook on reality is a really negative one, and I still mange to cover up my own problems by helping friends I know online or IRL with there's. Usually telling them that there has to be a light to the end of that tunnel.Well, I don't know if there is a light to the end of my tunnel or a brick wall honestly.
I think, in everybody's life, at some time or another, we all get into a low spot. And things look bad. They always do. But you can't let yourself sink. If I know one thing in my life, it's that change can happen quickly. Good or bad. If you've got the guts to stand up and make the changes you want to see, then things will start to move forward. It's a lot like walking. One foot in front of the other. And you keep going, taking another step.If you're feeling really bad, don't let yourself go silent. Seek help.
Quote from: Decimator Omega on October 01, 2014, 09:45:46 PMQuote from: Kinder_ on October 01, 2014, 09:41:55 PMNot to make it sound like I'm being a dick, but what do you got to loose? It sounds like nothing to me. Just do what you want to do and if that means leaving your town and moving to somewhere else, then just do it. You have one shot at life so take risks and enjoy the rewards from itIt's not so much of what I've got to lose, it's mainly what can I gain? My outlook on reality is a really negative one, and I still mange to cover up my own problems by helping friends I know online or IRL with there's. Usually telling them that there has to be a light to the end of that tunnel.Well, I don't know if there is a light to the end of my tunnel or a brick wall honestly.Well what do you have to gain with the way you're living now? That's just my input on life
Quote from: Relatively Quiet on October 01, 2014, 09:50:15 PMI think, in everybody's life, at some time or another, we all get into a low spot. And things look bad. They always do. But you can't let yourself sink. If I know one thing in my life, it's that change can happen quickly. Good or bad. If you've got the guts to stand up and make the changes you want to see, then things will start to move forward. It's a lot like walking. One foot in front of the other. And you keep going, taking another step.If you're feeling really bad, don't let yourself go silent. Seek help.Hmm. You have a pretty good point actually. It's not so much the guts to stand up. It's more of a how really. I just need to know what I would exactly need to stand up to, and I don't know what that is yet. Thanks for the response btw.
Quote from: Risay117 on October 01, 2014, 09:39:16 PMQuote from: Decimator Omega on October 01, 2014, 09:36:16 PMQuote from: Risay117 on October 01, 2014, 09:33:30 PMHonestly i had nearly the same problem, and well i got bored, and so decided if things are not interesting why not make things interesting yourself.Just talk to a random girl or guy and see how things go. With friends do something stupid. Try something out. Honestly if life is boring for me i need to make it interesting. Just make sure you do not cause and serious issues with other people.I judge people too quickly and quite harshly at times, so I don't know how that would play out.Do not judge them, pretend it is improv and just talk about something, let them be stupid and play along with their stupidity. They say something stupid well you just make a comment or try to make them dig a bigger hole for themselves. Just pull them out before hand.Honestly do not judge, people are idiots, well most are, so just talk to someone, ask stupid questions, usually the general questions then try to bring up a topic that you think you or anyone can comment alot about and let them go all out. Control yourself and then you start going into it. Later just ask them for coffee or maybe a game of soccer or something.Yeeeeah about that.... I'm not fond of stupidity at all. I only cringe when I'm forced to witness it. That or I just shake my head in disappointment followed by a quiet double facepalm.
Quote from: Decimator Omega on October 01, 2014, 09:42:26 PMQuote from: Risay117 on October 01, 2014, 09:39:16 PMQuote from: Decimator Omega on October 01, 2014, 09:36:16 PMQuote from: Risay117 on October 01, 2014, 09:33:30 PMHonestly i had nearly the same problem, and well i got bored, and so decided if things are not interesting why not make things interesting yourself.Just talk to a random girl or guy and see how things go. With friends do something stupid. Try something out. Honestly if life is boring for me i need to make it interesting. Just make sure you do not cause and serious issues with other people.I judge people too quickly and quite harshly at times, so I don't know how that would play out.Do not judge them, pretend it is improv and just talk about something, let them be stupid and play along with their stupidity. They say something stupid well you just make a comment or try to make them dig a bigger hole for themselves. Just pull them out before hand.Honestly do not judge, people are idiots, well most are, so just talk to someone, ask stupid questions, usually the general questions then try to bring up a topic that you think you or anyone can comment alot about and let them go all out. Control yourself and then you start going into it. Later just ask them for coffee or maybe a game of soccer or something.Yeeeeah about that.... I'm not fond of stupidity at all. I only cringe when I'm forced to witness it. That or I just shake my head in disappointment followed by a quiet double facepalm.Let stupidity surprise you. It is i believe the unique thing about us humans. We could be rational beings and make the most obvious safe choices but we do not. And that is what makes us unique. We are all idiots, me you everyone.Honestly talk with a couple of these guys or girls popular or not, just talk to them, not in a romantic way but just ask them questions about what they have on them, try to write notes down about people, and find out what is important to them and why they do not know certain things. I cringe at stupidity and all i do is mianly just force a smile and look down. Move the topic away from the stupid point. They are not worth a fight over.Just look down and then move the topic away. Honestly ask yourself if you are stupid or not, talk about stupid things. Go out with friends and have a bunch of activities. Not only on the computer. Go on a hike or swimming one day. Work out. etc. Not sure how to help you. But honestly people will not change and you will not make friends by being in your comfort zone. Get out and see how the world is.