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His eyebrows sparkling, his white beard hangs down to his chest. The thatched mats, spread outside his chise, spread softly, his splendid attos. He polishes, cross-legged, his makiri, with his eyes completely absorbed.

He is Ainu.

The god of Ainu Mosir, Ae-Oine Kamuy, descendant of Okiku-Rumi, He perishes, a living corpse. The summers day, the white sunlight, unabrushed, ends simply through his breath alone.
...what?
Is something about what I said confusing? Because I can't see it.
Your wording. I can't tell if you're saying it's impossible to be "a social darwinism" (again, the wording) or if you're insulting me for supposedly being a social darwinist, as you claimed.
He jokingly called you a social darwinist, then said that he doesn't think you're stupid enough to actually be one. Pretty sure it was a compliment,  if not slightly backhanded.


 
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Not when there's adoption, sure.
And I have no qualms with adoption whatsoever.


 
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This is the way the world ends. Not with a bang but a whimper.
...what?
Is something about what I said confusing? Because I can't see it.
Your wording. I can't tell if you're saying it's impossible to be "a social darwinism" (again, the wording) or if you're insulting me for supposedly being a social darwinist, as you claimed.
Oh, I missed that error. It was a gibe about how you're initial comment has social darwinist undertones. I meant to say I don't think you're stupid enough to actually be a social darwinist.


 
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One proposition of anti-natalism, as least as far as I can tell, is that a potential person should hold more precedence than an actual person. That sounds rather preposterous to me.
I've never said anything remotely similar to that.


 
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This is the way the world ends. Not with a bang but a whimper.
But why potentials? Why are we dilly-dallying around in hypotheticals?
Sorry, what? Since when was it possible to talk about actualities without potentials, since the latter necessarily precedes the former.
One proposition of anti-natalism, as least as far as I can tell, is that a potential person should hold more precedence than an actual person. That sounds rather preposterous to me.
No, since anti-natalism is seeking for the total elimination--as far as is logically possible--of potential persons. It's giving precedence to avoiding the initial imposition of disutility on a person, not saying potential persons have more value thab actual persons.

It's precisely because actual persons have MORE value that we should reduce the number of potential persons.


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One proposition of anti-natalism, as least as far as I can tell, is that a potential person should hold more precedence than an actual person. That sounds rather preposterous to me.
I've never said anything remotely similar to that.
It's not explicitly stated, but is that not a logical result of antinatalist arguments?

EDIT: See also my reply to Meta. I have to take some time to think about this >.>
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I'm not set on having children because of societal factors that contribute to personal suffering, and I wouldn't do it to someone else. Do I agree with anti-natalism?
I have a niece and while I don't like imagining her not being here I'm aware that her upbringing will most likely influence her ambitions. From my experience I think that life isn't worth it unless I'm useful to myself, and the way ambition is framed within societal goals just doesn't appeal to me. It won't make myself worth existing. I try not to judge other people by my life views, but I'd certainly apply that sort of thinking to progeny.
Even if the conditions weren't met I'd only adopt at best. There's enough children in the world as is, and I'm stubborn enough to shun "biological imperatives."
 


 
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There's no such thing as perfection, even if it is such in your subjective view.
I just defined it for you. Nonexistence. It's a utopia. Before you were born, there was no war, no fighting, no anger, no disagreement. No nothing. To me, that is perfection.
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Killing myself doesn't evoke nonexistence for all life. It doesn't solve anything, and it makes it WORSE for people who have attachments to me.
Explain to me why that maters, then. Especially if it goes against all your desires for nonexistence.[/quote]Why what matters? My friend's and family's earthly attachments to me? Because I don't want them to suffer emotionally, quite obviously.

Not to mention, I can't persuade people not to have kids if I'm fucking dead.


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But why potentials? Why are we dilly-dallying around in hypotheticals?
Sorry, what? Since when was it possible to talk about actualities without potentials, since the latter necessarily precedes the former.
One proposition of anti-natalism, as least as far as I can tell, is that a potential person should hold more precedence than an actual person. That sounds rather preposterous to me.
No, since anti-natalism is seeking for the total elimination--as far as is logically possible--of potential persons. It's giving precedence to avoiding the initial imposition of disutility on a person, not saying potential persons have more value thab actual persons.

It's precisely because actual persons have MORE value that we should reduce the number of potential persons.
...I think I'll have to think about this for a while before I reply again.


 
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This is the way the world ends. Not with a bang but a whimper.
Then I'm sure he'd be all for that.
I don't think so since that would be its own form of imposition. It'd depend on how he perceived the balance of utility in that hypothetical.


 
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Unless there was a painless way to eradicate all life.
Then I'm sure he'd be all for that.
There's a famous thought experiment in anti-natalist circles referred to as "the red button", and I'm sure you know what it entails. The instantaneous deletion of all life. If I had the button, I'd press it, no questions asked.
Then I'm sure he'd be all for that.
I don't think so since that would be its own form of imposition. It'd depend on how he perceived the balance of utility in that hypothetical.
Awkward.


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His eyebrows sparkling, his white beard hangs down to his chest. The thatched mats, spread outside his chise, spread softly, his splendid attos. He polishes, cross-legged, his makiri, with his eyes completely absorbed.

He is Ainu.

The god of Ainu Mosir, Ae-Oine Kamuy, descendant of Okiku-Rumi, He perishes, a living corpse. The summers day, the white sunlight, unabrushed, ends simply through his breath alone.
1) Creating life creates suffering
2) Limit suffering from those who exist
So... parenthood sucks and don't be a parent?
Yes and no. Being a parent does involve suffering, but there are ways to be a parent without creating new life, e.g. adoption. The second point covers that: adopting a child will promote limiting their suffering (if you're able to, that is.)
Which is always a plus, yes. Adoption is a fantastic thing, be it for children or pets.
Better to give those without homes a home, after all.
And that's what's being said here. Verb's not saying to kill all the babies, he's saying to not bring new life into suffering. If you want to be a parent still, adopt so that a being that's already been born- that's already tainted by the suffering- can life live with less of it.
Well he doesn't want to kill, he just wants to stop all existence- at least from what I've gathered.

Unless there was a painless way to eradicate all life.
Then I'm sure he'd be all for that.
He's not even promoting death in that sense. Anti-natalism involves genocide, it's voluntary extinction.


 
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...I think I'll have to think about this for a while before I reply again.
That's what you should do, always.


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...I think I'll have to think about this for a while before I reply again.
That's what you should do, always.
Oh hush  :P


 
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This is the way the world ends. Not with a bang but a whimper.
Awkward.
I can see where you're coming from, but I think the thought experiment would be much more relevant if--instead of the deletion of life--its the deletion of the capacity to actualise potential persons; mass sterilisation.


 
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Then I'm sure he'd be all for that.
I don't think so since that would be its own form of imposition. It'd depend on how he perceived the balance of utility in that hypothetical.
Here's the thing. Impositions aren't inherently bad, either. I think you'd agree with that.

There's a reason I ask pro-natalists (awful term) for a GOOD REASON to have kids. It's not a rhetorical question--I actually want an answer. I've never received a good one. Even Nuka concedes that there is no good reason to have kids.

But impositions are okay as long as you are dead-certain that the result will benefit mankind.

...Which brings me to another discussion that Aria suggested that I have with you the other day!


 
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Awkward.
I can see where you're coming from, but I think the thought experiment would be much more relevant if--instead of the deletion of life--its the deletion of the capacity to actualise potential persons; mass sterilisation.
I like that better, too, honestly.


 
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Not to mention, I can't persuade people not to have kids if I'm fucking dead.
Ah yes, the gallant Knight of Grey is here to spread the word of why everything sucks.
That really is why I don't kill myself, though. Apart from the obvious. Frankly, if I wanted to kill myself, I'd have done it already--but I have things to do. Purposes to fulfill. I was GIVEN them, sure--without my permission--but I can't do anything about it now. If I killed myself, I see that as... one less person who knows what he's talking about. I won't say I'm intelligent, or right, but I know for SURE what I'm talking about. And I'm gonna spread it around.


 
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There's a reason I ask pro-natalists (awful term) for a GOOD REASON to have kids. It's not a rhetorical question--I actually want an answer. I've never received a good one. Even Nuka concedes that there is no good reason to have kids.
Only for as long as the need for adoption exists.
So, okay, what's a good reason to HAVE kids, then, if adoption is out of the equation? A good reason, not based on ego desire.


 
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Well that's a shame.

not the killing yourself bit
It was the only bit there, really...


 
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Say in the perfect society that there are no kids who stay in orphanages for very long, and the orphanages are relatively empty because they get picked up by a family so quickly.

By all means, have 1-3 kids.
But you don't believe that perfection exists.


 
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I'd much rather you give an example based on reality.


 
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So we were just talking about it the other day, and there came a point of contention where she thought that, because I think "morality" is objective, like you, that must mean I think that all decisions that are made must be either, you know, neutral, or beneficial to society/mankind in some way. That's moral behavior. Do good. Help your fellow man.

And I made the point that pressing the button would, in my eyes, be beneficial to mankind. To cease to be. She figures you'd have some misgivings about that concept. Do you?
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Alright fine.

Apocalyptic senario.
A small starting country.

Take your pick.
Why would you need to have kids in an apocalyptic scenario?

Do you think countries need to be started?

There's no life on Mars--no one weeps over the fact that there's no life on Mars.
Why does there need to be life here? Do you think the universe gives a fuck?
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And I made the point that pressing the button would, in my eyes, be beneficial to mankind. To cease to be. She figures you'd have some misgivings about that concept. Do you?
You're talking about either Isara or Korra here, right?
Prime Meridia. I know her by Aria, sorry. I forget sometimes that she's still kinda new here.


 
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This is the way the world ends. Not with a bang but a whimper.
She figures you'd have some misgivings about that concept. Do you?
I do actually. I've been thinking about a response to anti-natalism for the past few hours, and now that I'm at my laptop I'll post it in just a second.


 
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She figures you'd have some misgivings about that concept. Do you?
I do actually. I've been thinking about a response to anti-natalism for the past few hours, and now that I'm at my laptop I'll post it in just a second.
Fun.


 
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To rebuild, obviously.
For what?
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There can be a need sometimes, yes. Especially if it's something like...say, a group of people escaping an oppressive government or a group that was say...exiled to an island or something with no hopes or returning. If they're building a tribe, town or country, isn't having a population important?
...No? They would be, in a phrase, just more mouths to feed.
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Ah yes, I forgot. You rather that they just live the rest of their lives more and more lonely as each person dies off.
That's... the "moral" thing to do, yes. Your loneliness is not a justification to impose fifty to eighty years of life on another person.