Dealing with Depression

 
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This is the way the world ends. Not with a bang but a whimper.
So, Sandtrap did a post not too long ago about chemotherapy and all that stuff, and there's nowhere near enough discussion about mental illness on Serious. So I figured I'd post a few things, most importantly this TED talk by Andrew Solomon:
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And, also, this video:
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Depression is something I think most people will experience at least at some point in their lives. Even if they never actually have some form of depressive illness, they'll probably catch a glimpse of what it's like through extreme grief--or something similar enough.

There are, of course, numerous forms of depression. Dysthymia, "minor" and chronic depression; Major Depressive Disorder; or a combination thereof known as "double depression", wherein people are chronically dysthymic with bouts of major depression. All of these besides the cyclical mood disorders like cyclothymia and bipolar disorder.

On a personal level, depression is both difficult to live with and difficult to treat. It often feels as if you are one of the only people capable of perceiving the world correctly, and it sucks the motivation and vitality out of your life. It doesn't so much make you sad, as make you as close to dead as a living person can be besides a coma. The thing about depression, too, is that while it's correlated with certain personality types (Mr. P can probably give a better account of this than I), it can co-exist with either egosyntonic or egodystonic illnesses. People all across the board, from psychopaths and narcissists to the anxious and borderline, can feel depression for prolonged periods of time.

And, even though on an intellectual level you're capable of understanding that help is available and that what you're feeling is ridiculous, you can't shake it. There's a deep delusional undertone to depressive thought and behaviour; fundamental and existential beliefs which are horribly mistaken, and impossible to relieve. It's an illness that truly plagues you for the rest of your life.

And, I think, that is the most important thing to take away from discussions about depression. People who are depressed are not weak, or spineless. Depression is not a problem with an individual's will, but an individual's perception. As piling weights on the back of a man will cause his back to break eventually; so too will the constricted perception of a depressive, in time, cause his will to break as a natural consequence.


 
 
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<.<
That TED talk is easily one of the best and most important ones they have ever done <.<


 
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ayy lmao
I'm calling it right now Meta. I'm betting my hat. PSU's comin'. He's comin' for this thread.
Seriously, if you're depressed, just stop being depressed. It's not hard.


 
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This is the way the world ends. Not with a bang but a whimper.
I'm calling it right now Meta. I'm betting my hat. PSU's comin'. He's comin' for this thread.
"Swiggidy swoody, I'm comin' for ya moody."


 
 
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I'm calling it right now Meta. I'm betting my hat. PSU's comin'. He's comin' for this thread.
Seriously, if you're depressed, just stop being depressed. It's not hard.
I mean come on, just pull yourself together.


 
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And, good thread, to the point. Better than I could put it. I think we should note that depression, I think, at least, effects people in different ways. The end result at the far end of the drain is the same. But in some cases, the road there is different.

Depression isn't just a black and white affliction that has the same effect on people. Everybody reacts differently to it.



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I'm calling it right now Meta. I'm betting my hat. PSU's comin'. He's comin' for this thread.
Seriously, if you're depressed, just stop being depressed. It's not hard.

I honestly hope you're joking. Depression plagues my family on both sides. Depression is not something you can just get over it consumes you and limits your daily abilities. It kills your interests and all you want to do is hide praying that it will just go away but it won't on its own. In order to learn to cope with depression you must seek professional assistance whether it's a psychiatrist or psychologist it is best battled with both. My father was borderline catatonic for over a year. He lost his job, barely ate, and slept all day. He ended up having skin cancer on his cheek and didn't seek medical attention until the skin patch turned black and we forced my father to go to the doctor. I also had to call the police on my father twice because he was suicidal and was threatening to kill himself. In the process he almost ran me over with his car trying to avoid the police. Why did it get this bad you may ask? Well it was because he stopped taking his antidepressants that he had been taking for 15 years without telling anyone., not even his doctor. It is very possible to cope with your depression without medicine but you must see a psychologist frequently. Antidepressants and psychiatric medicine of the like provides a synthetic chemical balance but will cause your brain to decrease its production of the good chemicals such as serotonin. So let's say on a scale of 1-10 and before you take meds your natural serotonin production is a four, and once you start taking the medicine you are an eight, but after you abruptly stop taking your medicine your level will then decrease below your original production level of four, so for this example it will most likely decrease to a level two production level. Psychiatric medicines are dangerous if not properly monitored by a professional. In other words if you are finding yourself struggling with depression seek medical advice especially if you find yourself thinking suicidal thoughts. Depression is not a joke, there is a huge difference between being sad because of a bad day or week and serious depression. It is not a joke, and you should get professional help. 


 
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I'm calling it right now Meta. I'm betting my hat. PSU's comin'. He's comin' for this thread.
Seriously, if you're depressed, just stop being depressed. It's not hard.

I honestly hope you're joking. Depression plagues my family on both sides. Depression is not something you can just get over it consumes you and limits your daily abilities. It kills your interests and all you want to do is hide praying that it will just go away but it won't on its own. In order to learn to cope with depression you must seek professional assistance whether it's a psychiatrist or psychologist it is best battled with both. My father was borderline catatonic for over a year. He lost his job, barely ate, and slept all day. He ended up having skin cancer on his cheek and didn't seek medical attention until the skin patch turned black and we forced my father to go to the doctor. I also had to call the police on my father twice because he was suicidal and was threatening to kill himself. In the process he almost ran me over with his car trying to avoid the police. Why did it get this bad you may ask? Well it was because he stopped taking his antidepressants that he had been taking for 15 years without telling anyone., not even his doctor. It is very possible to cope with your depression without medicine but you must see a psychologist frequently. Antidepressants and psychiatric medicine of the like provides a synthetic chemical balance but will cause your brain to decrease its production of the good chemicals such as serotonin. So let's say on a scale of 1-10 and before you take meds your natural serotonin production is a four, and once you start taking the medicine you are an eight, but after you abruptly stop taking your medicine your level will then decrease below your original production level of four, so for this example it will most likely decrease to a level two production level. Psychiatric medicines are dangerous if not properly monitored by a professional. In other words if you are finding yourself struggling with depression seek medical advice especially if you find yourself thinking suicidal thoughts. Depression is not a joke, there is a huge difference between being sad because of a bad day or week and serious depression. It is not a joke, and you should get professional help.

RC car is never serious, heads up.


 
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My sister lives with clinical depression. She had it under control after years of therapy and figuring out the right medication, but it was really hard living with her through that. I can't even begin to comprehend the struggle, and to this day I still feel guilty about being jealous of all the attention she got when we were kids because of her illness.


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ayy lmao

I'm calling it right now Meta. I'm betting my hat. PSU's comin'. He's comin' for this thread.
Seriously, if you're depressed, just stop being depressed. It's not hard.

I honestly hope you're joking. Depression plagues my family on both sides. Depression is not something you can just get over it consumes you and limits your daily abilities. It kills your interests and all you want to do is hide praying that it will just go away but it won't on its own. In order to learn to cope with depression you must seek professional assistance whether it's a psychiatrist or psychologist it is best battled with both. My father was borderline catatonic for over a year. He lost his job, barely ate, and slept all day. He ended up having skin cancer on his cheek and didn't seek medical attention until the skin patch turned black and we forced my father to go to the doctor. I also had to call the police on my father twice because he was suicidal and was threatening to kill himself. In the process he almost ran me over with his car trying to avoid the police. Why did it get this bad you may ask? Well it was because he stopped taking his antidepressants that he had been taking for 15 years without telling anyone., not even his doctor. It is very possible to cope with your depression without medicine but you must see a psychologist frequently. Antidepressants and psychiatric medicine of the like provides a synthetic chemical balance but will cause your brain to decrease its production of the good chemicals such as serotonin. So let's say on a scale of 1-10 and before you take meds your natural serotonin production is a four, and once you start taking the medicine you are an eight, but after you abruptly stop taking your medicine your level will then decrease below your original production level of four, so for this example it will most likely decrease to a level two production level. Psychiatric medicines are dangerous if not properly monitored by a professional. In other words if you are finding yourself struggling with depression seek medical advice especially if you find yourself thinking suicidal thoughts. Depression is not a joke, there is a huge difference between being sad because of a bad day or week and serious depression. It is not a joke, and you should get professional help.
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The angel agreed to trade a set of white wings for the head of another demon. Overjoyed, the demon killed one of his own and plucked the head right off its still-warm body.

The angel then led the demon to heaven, where he underwent centuries of the cruelest tortures imaginable. Finally, the pain was so great that he lost consciousness - at which point his dark wings turned the promised shade of white.
I feel like we've been trough this a hundred times during my time in the flood.

Anyway, something to add or whatever, stopped taking meds for it because it killed my emotions. Back to square 1.
Oh the joy and motivation


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I'm calling it right now Meta. I'm betting my hat. PSU's comin'. He's comin' for this thread.
Seriously, if you're depressed, just stop being depressed. It's not hard.

I honestly hope you're joking. Depression plagues my family on both sides. Depression is not something you can just get over it consumes you and limits your daily abilities. It kills your interests and all you want to do is hide praying that it will just go away but it won't on its own. In order to learn to cope with depression you must seek professional assistance whether it's a psychiatrist or psychologist it is best battled with both. My father was borderline catatonic for over a year. He lost his job, barely ate, and slept all day. He ended up having skin cancer on his cheek and didn't seek medical attention until the skin patch turned black and we forced my father to go to the doctor. I also had to call the police on my father twice because he was suicidal and was threatening to kill himself. In the process he almost ran me over with his car trying to avoid the police. Why did it get this bad you may ask? Well it was because he stopped taking his antidepressants that he had been taking for 15 years without telling anyone., not even his doctor. It is very possible to cope with your depression without medicine but you must see a psychologist frequently. Antidepressants and psychiatric medicine of the like provides a synthetic chemical balance but will cause your brain to decrease its production of the good chemicals such as serotonin. So let's say on a scale of 1-10 and before you take meds your natural serotonin production is a four, and once you start taking the medicine you are an eight, but after you abruptly stop taking your medicine your level will then decrease below your original production level of four, so for this example it will most likely decrease to a level two production level. Psychiatric medicines are dangerous if not properly monitored by a professional. In other words if you are finding yourself struggling with depression seek medical advice especially if you find yourself thinking suicidal thoughts. Depression is not a joke, there is a huge difference between being sad because of a bad day or week and serious depression. It is not a joke, and you should get professional help.

RC car is never serious, heads up.

Okay good 'cause there are seriously people out there who hold that demeanor.


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I honestly hope you're joking.
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Thanks yeah I'm still getting used to all the personalities lol


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I'm calling it right now Meta. I'm betting my hat. PSU's comin'. He's comin' for this thread.
Seriously, if you're depressed, just stop being depressed. It's not hard.

I honestly hope you're joking. Depression plagues my family on both sides. Depression is not something you can just get over it consumes you and limits your daily abilities. It kills your interests and all you want to do is hide praying that it will just go away but it won't on its own. In order to learn to cope with depression you must seek professional assistance whether it's a psychiatrist or psychologist it is best battled with both. My father was borderline catatonic for over a year. He lost his job, barely ate, and slept all day. He ended up having skin cancer on his cheek and didn't seek medical attention until the skin patch turned black and we forced my father to go to the doctor. I also had to call the police on my father twice because he was suicidal and was threatening to kill himself. In the process he almost ran me over with his car trying to avoid the police. Why did it get this bad you may ask? Well it was because he stopped taking his antidepressants that he had been taking for 15 years without telling anyone., not even his doctor. It is very possible to cope with your depression without medicine but you must see a psychologist frequently. Antidepressants and psychiatric medicine of the like provides a synthetic chemical balance but will cause your brain to decrease its production of the good chemicals such as serotonin. So let's say on a scale of 1-10 and before you take meds your natural serotonin production is a four, and once you start taking the medicine you are an eight, but after you abruptly stop taking your medicine your level will then decrease below your original production level of four, so for this example it will most likely decrease to a level two production level. Psychiatric medicines are dangerous if not properly monitored by a professional. In other words if you are finding yourself struggling with depression seek medical advice especially if you find yourself thinking suicidal thoughts. Depression is not a joke, there is a huge difference between being sad because of a bad day or week and serious depression. It is not a joke, and you should get professional help.
lol

What? I'm psychology major stfu :P


 
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What? I'm psychology major stfu :P
>taking the shit social science

should've been economics


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What? I'm psychology major stfu :P
>taking the shit social science

should've been economics

Economics are defiantly interesting and involves social psychology which is basically how to control the masses through media which correlates with supply and demand.


 
 
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What? I'm psychology major stfu :P
>taking the shit social science

should've been economics
>Not appreciating the unholy union of psychology and economics

Kind of like when skinnerites teamed up with game designers to make the biggest nickel and dime scheme the world has ever seen <.<


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What? I'm psychology major stfu :P
>taking the shit social science

should've been economics
TALK ABOUT PSEUDOSCIENCE


 
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Ya know, since people keep perpetuating this idea that Depression is hard to overcome, the more that depressed people with struggle with it. Our society has become so ingrained with telling them that it really does make it hard, when its actually pretty simple and easy to get out of.


 
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Ya know, since people keep perpetuating this idea that Depression is hard to overcome, the more that depressed people with struggle with it. Our society has become so ingrained with telling them that it really does make it hard, when its actually pretty simple and easy to get out of.
See though, whenever I try and explain this as to how society conditions women to believe that rape is the single worst possible thing that could ever happen to them I'm yelled at and called "offensive" or "uncaring" or  even "sociopathic" by feminists.

So, you're wrong in the eyes of social justice, and that's what matters.


 
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Hmm. No wonder nobody talks much about being a sad sack of potatoes. Oh behold that serious demenor and discussion, Meta.

I'll take the bait to all the people saying it's as easy as 1 2 3.

The only way I can describe being depressed, is that it feels like another entity. It feels like a virus. It feels like something that sits in you. You can even be aware of it. You can be happy, and sad, and then as soon as those moments fade, you return to it.

It's a weight. And no matter how well you do, I, personally, don't think you can ever get rid of it once you've had it. "It," just hides in a corner, in a dark space and waits for more fuel. More strain, more pain. And it just...makes you feel down. You look at everything and you get tired of it. You get tired of yourself and you get tired of waking up every day.

And eventually, you start to hit a tipping point. You seem to fall into a neutral zone. You're not happy. You're not sad. Everything goes a shade of gray. This is a false sense of security. You'll feel like your head is perfectly clear. You can think perfectly straight in the absence of any real lasting feelings. And eventually, since you can think so clearly, you'll ask why bother living in this inconsequential state of grey?

And then you get the only answer that makes sense. Death. It's the only thing that has meaning, any colour to it.

It's not as easy as 1 2 3 because depression, isn't being unhappy. Depression starts, from being unhappy. Afer that, happy, sad, angry?

It all means nothing.