I wasn't Christened (baptised) when I was born, so if I ever decide to get married I can't hold the ceremony in a Church of England building. There are, of course, many other avenues of possibility like fancy hotels, Methodist churches or a registry office. Unfortunately, none of these possibilities capture the aesthetic appeal of a national church.
So, my dilemma is to deal with it and hope my possible future-spouse will be okay with not having a ceremony in a CofE church (which would probably prove problematic to be honest) or I can technically join Christendom and be an apostate. While it would be, obviously, purely ceremonial and practical I'm not sure I like the idea of the Church considering me to be a follower.
What would you do?