You must not want to have kids--at least, biologically. That's a given. You must be okay with adoption.
-Willing to practice abstinence and have a Catholic wedding
Quote from: Verbatim on February 23, 2015, 01:33:23 AMYou must not want to have kids--at least, biologically. That's a given. You must be okay with adoption.Can you please... explain to me what this means? Are you saying you want a sterile woman? Because you threw in the word "biologically" and I'm really wondering what you mean.
Quote from: Luciana on February 25, 2015, 12:57:54 AMQuote from: Verbatim on February 23, 2015, 01:33:23 AMYou must not want to have kids--at least, biologically. That's a given. You must be okay with adoption.Can you please... explain to me what this means? Are you saying you want a sterile woman? Because you threw in the word "biologically" and I'm really wondering what you mean.He probably means he would be willing to adopt.
Quote from: Maverick on February 25, 2015, 01:27:48 AMQuote from: Luciana on February 25, 2015, 12:57:54 AMQuote from: Verbatim on February 23, 2015, 01:33:23 AMYou must not want to have kids--at least, biologically. That's a given. You must be okay with adoption.Can you please... explain to me what this means? Are you saying you want a sterile woman? Because you threw in the word "biologically" and I'm really wondering what you mean.He probably means he would be willing to adopt.Yeah but he said not want to have kids, so... why? That makes no sense. Unless the rumors I heard about Verb thinking humans having kids is... weird or something. Which is more or less daft, so I refuse to believe he actually thinks that without at least hearing his reason.
You can believe in god without forcing your children to go to church, igit.
My parents took me when I was younger but when I was like 10? They said I could or couldn't go and I didn't go since.
Or you can not believe and be cool with it and not force your views on them
You say you want an open person or someone to compromise and yet you saying something like religion is just... wow.
2. Realize Sam Fisher is way better than Snake.
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Quote from: challengerX on February 25, 2015, 07:26:46 AM1. Not use Adblock on Sep7agon. 3. Not be a gook.I assumed you all understood what I was doing in that thread.I obviously don't use adblock here. Look at some of my replies. I was answering with my Snake voice."Subscription fee?""Legitimately dense? What the hell are you talking about?""Don't be ridiculous.""Not using adblock, huh?"Those are all ripped from MGS.
Quote from: Snake on February 25, 2015, 08:07:13 AMQuote from: challengerX on February 25, 2015, 07:48:29 AMQuote from: Snake on February 25, 2015, 07:45:48 AMQuote from: challengerX on February 25, 2015, 07:26:46 AM1. Not use Adblock on Sep7agon. 3. Not be a gook.I assumed you all understood what I was doing in that thread.I obviously don't use adblock here. Look at some of my replies. I was answering with my Snake voice."Subscription fee?""Legitimately dense? What the hell are you talking about?""Don't be ridiculous.""Not using adblock, huh?"Those are all ripped from MGS.LOL AT THIS DAMAGE CONTROLDAMAGE CONTROL?!YES
Quote from: challengerX on February 25, 2015, 07:48:29 AMQuote from: Snake on February 25, 2015, 07:45:48 AMQuote from: challengerX on February 25, 2015, 07:26:46 AM1. Not use Adblock on Sep7agon. 3. Not be a gook.I assumed you all understood what I was doing in that thread.I obviously don't use adblock here. Look at some of my replies. I was answering with my Snake voice."Subscription fee?""Legitimately dense? What the hell are you talking about?""Don't be ridiculous.""Not using adblock, huh?"Those are all ripped from MGS.LOL AT THIS DAMAGE CONTROLDAMAGE CONTROL?!
Quote from: Luciana on February 25, 2015, 01:42:53 AMQuote from: Maverick on February 25, 2015, 01:27:48 AMQuote from: Luciana on February 25, 2015, 12:57:54 AMQuote from: Verbatim on February 23, 2015, 01:33:23 AMYou must not want to have kids--at least, biologically. That's a given. You must be okay with adoption.Can you please... explain to me what this means? Are you saying you want a sterile woman? Because you threw in the word "biologically" and I'm really wondering what you mean.He probably means he would be willing to adopt.Yeah but he said not want to have kids, so... why? That makes no sense. Unless the rumors I heard about Verb thinking humans having kids is... weird or something. Which is more or less daft, so I refuse to believe he actually thinks that without at least hearing his reason.Verb and I are anti-natalists.
Quote from: Luciana on February 25, 2015, 12:53:01 AMYou can believe in god without forcing your children to go to church, igit.That isn't what it's about. I can't speak for anyone else, but for me, raising a child is the modt important thing I'll ever do. It is straight-up irresponsible to raise a child with someone who doesn't have the same philisophical views as you do, end of story. You will never convince me otherwise. QuoteMy parents took me when I was younger but when I was like 10? They said I could or couldn't go and I didn't go since.That's nice but no one cares.They already instilled in you the religious fundamentals at that point. It would take years of rewiring to get the notion of God out of your system.QuoteOr you can not believe and be cool with it and not force your views on themOr you can start taking comittments seriously and exercise some self-control.QuoteYou say you want an open person or someone to compromise and yet you saying something like religion is just... wow.What..? Religion is the biggest thing in anyone religious person's life. If it isn't they're not religious anyways.I find it really hard to believe you can honestly believe some of the things you're saying.
Yeah but he said not want to have kids, so... why? That makes no sense. Unless the rumors I heard about Verb thinking humans having kids is... weird or something. Which is more or less daft, so I refuse to believe he actually thinks that without at least hearing his reason.
Quote from: Luciana on February 25, 2015, 01:42:53 AMYeah but he said not want to have kids, so... why? That makes no sense. Unless the rumors I heard about Verb thinking humans having kids is... weird or something. Which is more or less daft, so I refuse to believe he actually thinks that without at least hearing his reason.Aren't women hotwired to want to kids, at least much more so than men?Well, goodluck finding a woman who'll marry you who also doesn't eventually want to have kids. Part of getting married is to settle down and make a family. Bit redundant if that family's going to die off after your generation, so you might as well not even bother with that.To be honest, I'm not too big on marriage anyway. It's nice, sure, but all the legal stuff involved with it just makes it a bit too undesirable to me, especially if you don't plan on having kids. It seems like it puts both parties under more pressure than they need to be, and for what?Just doesn't seem worth the hassle in my eyes. Not that I'm opposed to marriage, mind you. If I ever found someone that I got along with flawlessly, was with for at least five years or so, I'd probably do a huge 180 on my current mindset. Though knowing me, I'll wake up tomorrow and have changed my mind on it anyway.
Marriage usually goes wrong because society promotes the idea of getting married rather than the actual marriage itself. That's why divorce rates over her in America are like 49%.Instead you should discuss the commitments you'd actually take, what you'd do when hardships hit (the 'for better or worse' part), and realizing that 100% of the time it won't be all "Oh I love you!"s. We also make people feel guilty for not getting married if they've been together for more than 4 years when you're in your mid to late 20's, and you're looked down upon.It's rather strange.
Quote from: Snake on February 25, 2015, 07:02:31 AMQuote from: Luciana on February 25, 2015, 01:42:53 AMQuote from: Maverick on February 25, 2015, 01:27:48 AMQuote from: Luciana on February 25, 2015, 12:57:54 AMQuote from: Verbatim on February 23, 2015, 01:33:23 AMYou must not want to have kids--at least, biologically. That's a given. You must be okay with adoption.Can you please... explain to me what this means? Are you saying you want a sterile woman? Because you threw in the word "biologically" and I'm really wondering what you mean.He probably means he would be willing to adopt.Yeah but he said not want to have kids, so... why? That makes no sense. Unless the rumors I heard about Verb thinking humans having kids is... weird or something. Which is more or less daft, so I refuse to believe he actually thinks that without at least hearing his reason.Verb and I are anti-natalists.Buy why? Why be negative against literally the thing that has kept our species alive and is essentially programmed into our brains? I heard he also dislikes human's attraction to breasts and asses.
To the first one, I can agree with you on showing your child your points of views, but as they get older you should promote that they think on their own or be their own man or woman. Not confine them to your same beliefs.
2. I was just using an example you cunt.
3. You're implying I don't take commitments seriously because of religion? You know nothing about me.
4. That was in general in both directions, a poor choice of words. What I was trying to say, was people saying they can't accept people who are religious/aren't religious, is rather silly to me. Both sides of this, not just anti religion.
Someone can believe in a higher power and not push any and all things unto you.
Just because something is natural or "programmed into our brains" doesn't make it okay. Killing others is natural, does that make it okay? No.It's simple. The presence of pleasure is good. The presence of pain is bad. The absence of pain is good, and the absence of pleasure is only bad if there is someone their to experience it. Which, if you're not born, you can't.Because children don't have a choice to be born or not, they shouldn't be born. Life is an imposition, one with inevitable pain included.
3, non-negotiable things you look for in a spouse
