"If the father wants an abortion, he shouldn't have to pay child support"

 
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not wanting to raise a child has so little to do with cowardice

wanting to raise a child is probably some form of insanity
you have--NO IDEA, NONE AT ALL--what you are getting yourself into


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"I hereby declare we have spaghetti Tuesdays every Wednesday."
If I were to fall pregnant and my partner decided he didn't want to be a father, first of all, I'd kick him in the nuts. Then I would cut him out of mine and my childs life entirely. No visits, no contact, nothing. He'd be a stranger.
I would tell the child if they were to ask about their father, who their father is and let them make the choice to see them when they're old enough and if they so wish. But I wouldn't leave my child with a "stranger".
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you're pure evil, then

Hey man, it's all in or nothing. If a guy decides not to be a father, he gets exactly what he wants.
The rest of his life alone in his basement with a box full of tissues and no loving family. :P


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"I hereby declare we have spaghetti Tuesdays every Wednesday."
not wanting to raise a child has so little to do with cowardice

wanting to raise a child is probably some form of insanity
you have--NO IDEA, NONE AT ALL--what you are getting yourself into

I had an asshole "father" who ran away and turned to drugs and alcohol when my mother fell pregnant with me. Not a cent in child support. He called every 3 or 4 years, didn't know how old I was, wished me a happy 21st on my 15th birthday. Didn't see him except for once. When I was 5 years old at a park. Mum and him arranged to meet up so he could finally meet his daughter. And all I wanted to do was play with the ducks. Mum called me over saying "Talk to your dad." And I legit said to their faces "He's not my father." and ran back to duckies. I still stand by my 5 year old self. He's not my father. My mother did all the hard work to get me where I am now. The only part my father had in my upbringing was to be an example of what NOT to do.
I'll be damned if I ever have a deadbeat "partner" that won't man up and take responsibility when it's called for.-