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5581
« on: June 21, 2015, 02:12:04 PM »
lol that's rich coming from you
How so?
i was talking about deci not you fam
Oh, ok...  I've noticed that people don't seem to like this 'Deci' fellow for some reason...
Don't act like you don't know who Deci is you fucking worthless piece of shit.
5582
« on: June 20, 2015, 08:02:56 PM »
5583
« on: June 20, 2015, 04:04:16 PM »
Hi I'm real
5584
« on: June 20, 2015, 11:12:10 AM »
Not sure I know anybody that consistently lies. That, or I'm a tad too trustworthy.
Ah well, hasn't hurt me nor anyone else as far as I can tell.
You seem pretty genuine from what I can tell.
Thanks.
Don't get me wrong; I'll withold information if it makes life a tad easier than blurting out the truth, but I rarely lie.
Withholding information is different than lying, so it's all good.
5585
« on: June 20, 2015, 09:45:16 AM »
Haha yay! Who is fox cub!
5586
« on: June 20, 2015, 09:33:08 AM »
One thing that I learned a little while ago, courtesy of a certain psychologist, is that when you catch someone telling a lie it's not always the best option to call out the lie. What that usually leads to is the situation described, doubling down and further and further levels of deceit until the whole thing comes crashing down.
If someone lies about something inconsequential, then generally you should let it slide. Everyone lies, every single day. There is no exception because deception is a core part of humanity, asserting otherwise is a lie and thus proves itself wrong. People lie to spare feelings, to avoid embarrassment or out of politeness. This is all fine. When people lie about things that truly matter, that's when it becomes more serious and the added emotions join into the party.
If someone lies about having an affair, causing a car crash or whatever then it is acceptable to lynch them for it.
What I would recommend is picking your battles with it, liecatching is good and all but it's not always worth it no matter how repulsive lying is to you.
People who are caught lying are either unskilled or unlucky, possibly malicious too but again it's context dependent. I try not to judge, but I can't say I view lying for personal gain too fondly even in the best of circumstances.
Psy it's like you read into my soul.
It's so hard to neglect the obvious lies in life... I work in retail and it's so obvious when someone is lying and trying to gain something from it, and all I want to do is scream at them to stop lying, but then I remember that I would lose my job, so I just give them what they want to a reasonable degree.
Not judging is the psychologist's code. We have to be unbiased and examine behavior for all possible aspects. The more schooling I do for my psychology degree the more I realize how selfish and yet self-loathing humans can be.
Well I did recently get my duckling award in mind reading <_<
Indeed, it can be quite annoying to deal with lies day in day out but the best way to deal with them if you see through the lie is usually to just find a counter to it before they've had a chance to pull some other shit. It's a bit hard to give an example for because it requires thinking on your feet in the moment but if you find a way to outmanoeuvre the lie so they don't get what they are after via deceit then that's the best way to disrupt it without losing your job <.<
Yup, or as a more workable one don't let your judgement affect how you help them. Nobody is a saint without prejudices of some kind, it's more about keeping them in check and seeing past the initial 'I don't like this person' to help them with their problem anyway. I think it does get easier over time to look past any initial 'Sweet jesus you are a piece of work' reactions, I kind of had baptism by fire with some of the earliest people I was helping out (Informally of course, got another 6-7 years before that's being done professionally >_>) and some of the things I've heard are enough to turn your stomach but again, after the initial 'Oh lawdy' reaction you then help them regardless and it works out for the best >_>
People have their problems that's for sure. I do my best to not be judgmental because you never know what's going on in a person's life let alone their mind... I haven't got to actually practice in the field yet I'm still a freshman (I can only take 2-3 courses at a time since I work full time), but I am like the guru of emotional problem solving in my circle of friends. I also help my best friend with her DBT from time to time. I love helping others and can't wait to graduate to actually work in the field.
5587
« on: June 20, 2015, 09:24:45 AM »
I got warned/banned here for being a dick to verbatim and I've been banned in bnet like 1000 times
Only 3 of my bans/warnings were unwarranted
I got warned here for literally just talking about something kiyo did
I got banned on bnet for making a thread saying we should globally mute deej
I got banned on bnet for "impersonating a bungie employee" when some dumb fuck desticle said something disappeared from his vault and I said "give me your account name, password, credit card information and social security number and I'll fix the problem"
Lmao the last one though! Totally worth it.
5588
« on: June 20, 2015, 07:43:49 AM »
What exactly did you do?
Cheat said to stop derailing the "Would you date a disabled person" thread and I didn't stop. Also you know ganging up on one member... Lol
5589
« on: June 20, 2015, 06:51:58 AM »
I actually hang around people like this the most because they are the people who need love and acceptance the most
I empathize with them because I used to be one myself
Maybe I still am
I can't tell
But I'm working on it
I think that the further you push them away, the more damaged they get
I think that being there for them and putting up with the annoyance so you can help them is truly being a friend
I used to be like that too when I was your age (oh my god it makes me sound old as hell sorry)
I just became jaded and sick of all of the deceit and lies.
The drama became all consuming and I lost myself to taking care of the well being of others before my own health.
Now don't get me wrong. I want to become a social worker in order to call the lies and help children in need.
Luckily I am not completely jaded, and I hope you never do who.
Gah stop using your age to hold yourself over me
You're not even that old
But still you're a wonderful human bean
I wasn't holding it over your head.
I wish I was still a teenager... no bills, no worries, true freedom... ::sigh::
I had a good run...
Gotcha a present
Omg yes I would be an epic companion, except I think I need to work on my endurance first cause you know all that running and such.
5590
« on: June 20, 2015, 06:49:42 AM »
Got my first warning, and now I feel like part of the community.
I should feel bad for violating the rules...
but I got my point across.
WHAT!? You got a warning before me!? AND I've been a member longer! D:
x.x
Yeah well it seems you're pretty laid back and no one has pushed your buttons enough to set you off. That guy has been pushing my buttons offsite for at least a week now. He had it coming.
5591
« on: June 20, 2015, 06:48:02 AM »
I hope to never be banned, but what I had said was totally worth being warned.
Long as you don't throw a fit about it like some people do, then you have nothing to worry about 
Nah I don't like throwing tantrums it would just make me look bad. Plus it's not worth it that's how you piss off other members and call attention to yourself to which the trolls will answer lol
5592
« on: June 19, 2015, 10:12:41 PM »
I've had warnings, but they're all for funny things and I knew they were coming. No bans tho.
I hope to never be banned, but what I had said was totally worth being warned.
5593
« on: June 19, 2015, 10:09:41 PM »
is that a burn or road rash?
It's blood
even better... What the hell did you do my cub?!
5594
« on: June 19, 2015, 10:09:04 PM »
Naughty girl
What'd you do?
Cheat said to stop. I kept going, and called someone out.
5595
« on: June 19, 2015, 10:08:04 PM »
I actually hang around people like this the most because they are the people who need love and acceptance the most
I empathize with them because I used to be one myself
Maybe I still am
I can't tell
But I'm working on it
I think that the further you push them away, the more damaged they get
I think that being there for them and putting up with the annoyance so you can help them is truly being a friend
I used to be like that too when I was your age (oh my god it makes me sound old as hell sorry)
I just became jaded and sick of all of the deceit and lies.
The drama became all consuming and I lost myself to taking care of the well being of others before my own health.
Now don't get me wrong. I want to become a social worker in order to call the lies and help children in need.
Luckily I am not completely jaded, and I hope you never do who.
Gah stop using your age to hold yourself over me
You're not even that old
But still you're a wonderful human bean
I wasn't holding it over your head. I wish I was still a teenager... no bills, no worries, true freedom... ::sigh:: I had a good run...
5596
« on: June 19, 2015, 10:07:00 PM »
That rank is achieved by 117 days online. i thought it was 117 days on top of having 17,500 posts
because oss has 125 days, but he doesn't have a custom title set
My point was more that the hardest part would be the online time, not the posting.
Posts happen by themselves, online time takes forever to track up for this of is who don't leave our computer online constantly.
I leave my computer and switch to my phone. I'm always connected to sep7. Which is probably why threads get derailed. This thread is getting derailed.
5597
« on: June 19, 2015, 10:05:36 PM »
I'm not a mod. I never said you were. I'm speaking generally.
I'll pass the message along.
O.o who are you?
it's so icy blue cooool.
:: mesmerized ::
I'm your worst nightmare.
You obviously don't know me too well. Not much scares me because I am fear itself.
5598
« on: June 19, 2015, 10:03:49 PM »
I probably don't get warned here because I like most of you guys so I try not to get in an argument.
I was not part of the argument (at that point at least). I just finished the argument.
5599
« on: June 19, 2015, 09:58:07 PM »
I can has too?
Shares please?
5600
« on: June 19, 2015, 09:55:43 PM »
I'm not a mod. I never said you were. I'm speaking generally.
I'll pass the message along.
O.o who are you? it's so icy blue cooool. :: mesmerized ::
5601
« on: June 19, 2015, 09:45:22 PM »
I'm not, it's not even that hard I always thought this was an asinine thing to say, and the Mythics on b.old would say it all the time.
It may not be hard for you, but you're failing to account for the fact that not everybody is you. Some people are opinionated, and angry. I haven't seen you express too many controversial opinions before--hell, I don't recall seeing you having an argument with anybody.
Not saying you have to, but this is why you haven't really ever gotten in trouble before. Because you don't... really... post anything. You probably actively avoid engaging in heated discussions about your convictions/passions (if you have any at all), and though that may be easy for someone who lacks such convictions, for those of us who do, it's a little bit easier to have a run-in with the mods.
And sure--a lot of it has to do with our own lack of self-control at times, but really, it's just an irritating thing to say. "It's not that hard". I don't know--maybe if you had opinions you felt like were worth losing your privileges over, you'd understand.
That's why I'm not mad I got warned. I deserved it, but I do not regret it.
5602
« on: June 19, 2015, 09:36:18 PM »
Why was this not in the Serious thread?
because it's not economics lol
5603
« on: June 19, 2015, 09:32:21 PM »
This is why that chat thread that was pinned would have worked. But we all bitched at how stupid it was remember? What I didn't like about the chat thread is that Cheat said he was gonna delete all of the old chat threads when new ones were made. Why? Because our post counts would get "inflated".
Like, who cares? That's just dumb.
We could do away with post counts entirely and I wouldn't mind.
I completely agree, and every time I try to bring it up and say that I think the whole post count thing is stupid and people take theirs too seriously, I get wailed on by people like Byrne who are major post count tryhards.
Just a hunch, but our community doesn't always like to go easy on one another... so in a chat thread without a topic it's hard for moderators to monitor content as efficiently.
5604
« on: June 19, 2015, 09:26:23 PM »
I never got warned
I never thought I would, but in all fairness what I had said wasn't half as bad as somethings. I got it because I posted right after Cheat had said to stop, so fair is fair. Spoiler tbh I didn't see it until after I posted, but meh I get it
5605
« on: June 19, 2015, 09:23:54 PM »
It's called the natural progression of a conversation.
It's stupid that threads get locked for topics changing as they're discussed.
That's not the policy. But because that wasn't the first time the thread got derailed, and it was derailed with insults about a member, I really didn't have a choice but to lock it to keep it from happening over and over.
To be clear, I'm not against threads evolving naturally into another topic, but I am against multiple people ganging up on one user.
Fair enough Cheat.
5606
« on: June 19, 2015, 09:22:35 PM »
Got my first warning, and now I feel like part of the community.
I should feel bad for violating the rules...
but I got my point across.
5607
« on: June 19, 2015, 09:18:53 PM »
is that a burn or road rash?
5608
« on: June 19, 2015, 09:12:41 PM »
Recently it's because it's a touchy subject.
Rules are rules.
5609
« on: June 19, 2015, 09:11:31 PM »
I am the King of the Moon
You be the king and I'll be the princess.
Spoiler oh wait that sounded dirty damn it to hell lmao
Well this is awkward
5610
« on: June 19, 2015, 09:10:29 PM »
Liars.
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