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9961
« on: January 26, 2016, 04:23:38 PM »
Thats fucking SICK How much do they go for
9962
« on: January 26, 2016, 04:00:19 PM »
 I don't know what any of those mean, but I'll just tell you I never liked these kinds of bikes.
9963
« on: January 26, 2016, 03:56:55 PM »
Hmm... Pre, I have your solution.
Buy a motorcycle. You don't need women when you have a motorcycle.
Does it have to be a motorcycle, or will a nice car do
Don't you have a C4 vette?
Gotta get a bike, bro.
yeah i do i was looking at some bikes last year but i'm not sure which one i should go with. any recommendations
9964
« on: January 26, 2016, 03:44:57 PM »
Hopefully long enough to garner a solid collection of my own.
Nothing beats listening to an album on a long drive.
9965
« on: January 26, 2016, 03:40:06 PM »
Get a German Shepherd.
Name him Diamond.
Go in adventures with the dog.
Fight evil doers.
Give him a ballistic vest.
Profit. I already have a dog named DD, though. 
9966
« on: January 26, 2016, 03:34:56 PM »
anyway, during this time there were people who wanted to help me. my older brothers always sensed that something was wrong and would try prying me open in attempts to help, but i would deny any advice thrown at me. 'why should i do these things, it's not going to work for me, i'm just too different from everyone else, so there's no point in even trying.' this was what i told myself instead of accepting help from others, and it was this mentality that i feel was at the root of my dark past. i was afraid of failure and would avoid trying anything anybody told me because of that. I'm not afraid of asking help from others. I'm telling strangers I've never met about my most personal thoughts and feelings; I have no reservations whatsoever. I'm not afraid of doing things because they probably won't work. I don't go to therapy because I have done it and it doesn't work. I've been "accepting" help from pretty much everyone here and in real life. It's just... nothing they say is really applicable. It's all, "Just, you know, don't feel that way." kind of stuff. If you have some solid, applicable solution or path to a solution, I'm all ears. what i'm trying to get at with all of this is that, you'd be surprised how similar human beings really are on a conscious level. having the mindset that only you are dealing with a certain problem is fallacious, because everyone on this planet is fighting with their own demons on the inside. I never said I was the only one with this mindset, though. Edit: this sounded worse than i wanted it to. i really appreciate you taking the time to try and help me out, whether you're successful or not in the endeavor.
9967
« on: January 26, 2016, 03:26:51 PM »
Dude, mgsv tpp wasn't that bad
MGSV was actually one of the highlights of 2015 for me, despite all my grievances with the game
9968
« on: January 26, 2016, 03:26:12 PM »
Hmm... Pre, I have your solution.
Buy a motorcycle. You don't need women when you have a motorcycle.
Does it have to be a motorcycle, or will a nice car do
9969
« on: January 26, 2016, 03:25:22 PM »
No you're definitely depressed.
I just don't think a psychologist can help you.
i never said i wasn't depressed but yeah i pretty much agree with everything you've said here
9970
« on: January 26, 2016, 03:23:09 PM »
tbh civies blousing their boots kinda makes me reeeeeee a little.
why it looks the best that way. and i'm not about to get my nice pants all wet from the snow
9971
« on: January 26, 2016, 12:54:41 PM »
Can I get a quick tl:dr because I don't really want to read the whole 10 pages?
Made a non-serious thread about how i miss being in love and being loved back people started say stuff, i started replying got serious fast said i have problems connecting with people people said i didn't, and it was all in my head people assumed i was depressed, suggested i go see a psychologist me, charley and challenger said that was a bad idea nuka, sandtrap and tblocks tried to push the idea
9972
« on: January 26, 2016, 10:07:45 AM »
9973
« on: January 26, 2016, 09:47:53 AM »
And that goes for anyone else who has a problem with me, too. Bring it to my attention so I can rectify this.
9974
« on: January 26, 2016, 09:46:27 AM »
I'm willing to move on from this if you are. My comment was meant to be humourous. Not in the banter kind of way, but in the "making fun of myself" kind of way. People were saying I was overreacting to what you did, so I just "steered into the skid" to emulate this picture Sep7agon has painted of me. I do that a lot, actually. It's why I respond "Hopefully off a cliff." when asked what humanity's next step should be. People expect that kind of a response from me so I just take it further to an unreasonable extent. But I understand my joke wasn't taken that way and I'll apologise if that'll help. This whole thread has made me realise that the only people who hurt people, are people who've been hurt themselves, and the last thing I want is someone out their genuinely thinking I want them to die when they don't deserve it.
9975
« on: January 26, 2016, 01:58:25 AM »
Okay. I'll have to do this in chunks. But right now I can talk a little bit about what's up with your noggin and the way it's functioning.
For starters, this is depression. Plain as day. Now, keep in mind, depression is a natural aspect of the human emotional spectrum. But, when you go too low, it muddles you up a little bit and it warps your worldview.
Now, to break down what's happening to you. You don't connect to being loved. You just don't feel it. But you do want it. And you want somebody there, for you. This is hard. Multiple facets to discuss. But here we go.
Your depression is taking a golf club to your self esteem. Your life is in disarray and you dislike mostly all the facets of yourself. But you want somebody beyond your family to contradict that. You want somebody to pull you out of the mud.
But this is the thing. You're conning yourself. Sub-consciously. You don't even know it or likely see it.
Let this sink in here. We as people project signals to each other all the time. Through body language, through attitude, you name it. And, human brains pick up on it, sub-consciously, and actively depending on how astute the viewer is.
So, here is one of the issues. In order for people to become interested in one another, you need two things. A physical, and mental attraction. In well over 90% of all cases, a physical attractor is what starts key interaction between two people.
Now, your current state, of messy self loathing, and feeling unloved, is creating a signal that you give off to anybody who looks at you. Remember. They don't see it with their active mind. Their sub-conscious does. And do you know what that signal does to you?
It nulls your physical attractor. People will look at you, and pass you over, because you want to be passed over. But you have a brain and it knows something is wrong. Which is why you still want love. Your head is now in the middle of a fight with itself. One part of your active mind wants to be fixed.
And there's another part that's hidden, that doesn't want that. That's the part that you're sub consciously projecting at all times. So right now, you're actually caught in a feedback loop.
You want to be loved. But you're projecting a sense of disinterest and disconnection. You don't feel loved and so therefore you can't find that spark to give off that lure. Which will never attract anybody to you. EVER. You're conning yourself. But you're not, not really. This isn't your fault.
That's the first portion. I'll see what I can get later when I wake up. But think about that for a bit, and see if it rings any bells to you and makes some kind of sense.
I need to sleep. Ill get back to you.
9976
« on: January 26, 2016, 01:57:53 AM »
Bro I don't know why you keep bringing up sol, she and I don't even talk
>calls him she >has made at least 2 or 3 threads about him over the last couple of days >liking each others posts >implied you got the screencap from him Okay class
9977
« on: January 26, 2016, 01:54:59 AM »
Ive literally never done anything to warrant your dislike for me
You're just an inherently deplorable person. Annoying, tactless, boring.
And this thread is only further proving it.
Oh i see Youre just mirroring sol, then Okay
9978
« on: January 26, 2016, 01:53:20 AM »
become enamoured in facets of that person which you do not understand instead of focusing on things you have in common.
You'll find the joy of discovering a person is more powerful than cold comfort gleaned by being in synchronicity with another.
Thats all well n good but you need to connect with someome on some level to be even just friends with em
Its also pretty clear to me that the opposite attract theory of tomance is dogshit
Additionally, thanks for being somewhat serious. Though, i think youre being a bit childish when you call me unintelligent just cuz we disagree.
If you find contentment in what you have in common with others, then you are not a creature of ambition, and it is not high intelligence, but arrogance which prevents you from connecting with others.
If that is the case, then humble yourself before others, that they may better convey themselves to you.
I never said it was high intelligence that doesnt allow me to connecy with others
Theres a ton of different reasons i dont connect with oeople
Arrogance may be one of them, sure
But its not the maon reason
Anyways im not really interested in discussing this with you
Advice you don't want to hear I the best advice you can take.
Also, don't complain your level of intelligence is "awkward" and then say that it doesn't make it hard for you to connect with others.
See this is the reason shrinks didn't work for you, you're so adamant about being complicated and saying that nobody could possibly understand you that when somebody gets it on the nose, you don't want to believe it.
1. I also never saif my intelligence DOESNT hinder my ability to connect. It doesn,but there are other reasons too.
2. Im so glad you know my experiences better than i do regarding shrinks.
See, there you go again assuming you're unique.
You're basically a textbook example.
I know why shrinks won't work on you because its the most basic reason in the whole fucking world that therapy doesn't work on people, and you've conveyed that trait countless times in this thread alone.
I've got news buddy,
Spoiler You're basic[./spoiler]
Lol what
How do you get "assuming youre unique" from a sarcastic response regarding YOU making baseless assumptions
But like i said, i dont have any interest in talking to you because you dont have anything to offer me. You clearly have some sort of bias against me and nothing youve said in this thread has been particularly helpful or accurate. Its not a matter of me not liking your advice, like you suggest. But rather, you just not understanding what im trying to say because you dont really want to.
You don't want to hear anything that is hard to swallow, ergo the reason your problems won't go away.
Charlie's advice won't help you one bit, whereas sandtrap's is spot on.
You've posted so much self indulgent crap in this thread that its ridiculously easy to read you.
If you stopped for a moment and considered my advice from when this conversation was still somewhat civil, and tried it instead of remaining in denial, we would be done talking.
Okay, lets start over, then. If you're so convinced you're right, help me. What would you have me do.
9979
« on: January 26, 2016, 01:51:51 AM »
He still woulda had to search through the forum to find it.
Dug up seems appropriate, maybe not "old" tho
Dug up implies that I had to search extensively for it. What you posted was a pretty fucked up comment, and plenty of people saved it. I don't know why you're trying to even defend himself here when you (supposedly) fundamentally hate yourself.
This i did not know But you still would have had to search through threads to find it, as i only changed my avatar yesterday to what it is now So yeah, you searched through the forum to find that comment Which is fine, you do you But admit it at least
9980
« on: January 26, 2016, 01:49:55 AM »
But for real class
Ive literally never done anything to warrant your dislike for me
ever
So i hope you know youre being a cunt all on your own.
9981
« on: January 26, 2016, 01:48:32 AM »
what a great guy
he's totally just misunderstood
LOL
what is humour
You dug up that old comment just to make me look bad
And you wonder why im "so mean" to you
Take your butt buddy sol and go make another thread jerking each other off lmao
"Dug up"
it's a pretty iconic comment
not really a joke, more like literally wishing death on another user because he spoiled a fucking movie for you
everything you've said about yourself ITT is true, don't let these other people tell you otherwise
you're a scumbag bro
You realize deci didnt spoil star wars for me Right
9982
« on: January 26, 2016, 01:47:15 AM »
what a great guy
he's totally just misunderstood
LOL
what is humour
You dug up that old comment just to make me look bad
And you wonder why im "so mean" to you
Take your butt buddy sol and go make another thread jerking each other off lmao
"old"
it's less than a week old
He still woulda had to search through the forum to find it. Dug up seems appropriate, maybe not "old" tho
9983
« on: January 26, 2016, 01:39:48 AM »
what a great guy
he's totally just misunderstood
LOL what is humour You dug up that old comment just to make me look bad And you wonder why im "so mean" to you Take your butt buddy sol and go make another thread jerking each other off lmao
9984
« on: January 26, 2016, 01:37:03 AM »
become enamoured in facets of that person which you do not understand instead of focusing on things you have in common.
You'll find the joy of discovering a person is more powerful than cold comfort gleaned by being in synchronicity with another.
Thats all well n good but you need to connect with someome on some level to be even just friends with em
Its also pretty clear to me that the opposite attract theory of tomance is dogshit
Additionally, thanks for being somewhat serious. Though, i think youre being a bit childish when you call me unintelligent just cuz we disagree.
If you find contentment in what you have in common with others, then you are not a creature of ambition, and it is not high intelligence, but arrogance which prevents you from connecting with others.
If that is the case, then humble yourself before others, that they may better convey themselves to you.
I never said it was high intelligence that doesnt allow me to connecy with others
Theres a ton of different reasons i dont connect with oeople
Arrogance may be one of them, sure
But its not the maon reason
Anyways im not really interested in discussing this with you
Advice you don't want to hear I the best advice you can take.
Also, don't complain your level of intelligence is "awkward" and then say that it doesn't make it hard for you to connect with others.
See this is the reason shrinks didn't work for you, you're so adamant about being complicated and saying that nobody could possibly understand you that when somebody gets it on the nose, you don't want to believe it.
1. I also never saif my intelligence DOESNT hinder my ability to connect. It doesn,but there are other reasons too.
2. Im so glad you know my experiences better than i do regarding shrinks.
See, there you go again assuming you're unique.
You're basically a textbook example.
I know why shrinks won't work on you because its the most basic reason in the whole fucking world that therapy doesn't work on people, and you've conveyed that trait countless times in this thread alone.
I've got news buddy,
Spoiler You're basic[./spoiler]
Lol what How do you get "assuming youre unique" from a sarcastic response regarding YOU making baseless assumptions But like i said, i dont have any interest in talking to you because you dont have anything to offer me. You clearly have some sort of bias against me and nothing youve said in this thread has been particularly helpful or accurate. Its not a matter of me not liking your advice, like you suggest. But rather, you just not understanding what im trying to say because you dont really want to.
9985
« on: January 26, 2016, 01:32:45 AM »
I appreciate where Charley is coming from, though. Out of all the people ITT, he's "got it" the most IMO.
9986
« on: January 26, 2016, 01:30:17 AM »
Good one
9987
« on: January 26, 2016, 01:29:39 AM »
Okay. Let's slow the train down here. For starters I don't know quite what we're talking about here. I need some context. I'm tired and my eyes are bleeding. I'm not gonna go through that many pages.
Can you give me a quick summary?
I'm no specialist, but hey. Let's give it a shot. Discussion always lands somewhere.
Ill do my best but im on mobile.
It's been a long time since I've been loved. I've been in varying degrees of romantic periods individually but I haven't had my love reciprocated in a very long time, and this just dawned on me.
I want someone to love, who also loves me, so that I have a reason to get up in the morning (see, a purpose). That purpose being, to provide for them. That obligation will force me to get my life together.
I also said I hate myself and want someone who loves me to tell me why they do.
Additionally, though i havent said it yet, i believe that the human experience is not genuine if you arent depressed. I believe depression is unfiltered reality, and that getting over it is fine and all but its fleeting. The Human condition is defined by suffering.
Well, fuck, there's your problem. Right there. RIGHT FUCKING THERE. I could give you a monumentally long post. I can cover almost every single aspect of what you just said and dismantle it. Completely.
Guess Nuka's right. The doc you visited was shit.
But, I'm not going to waste my time. Do you want me to write a post?
I dunno if I can do it now, because my head's kinda..... messy. But after I wake up and maybe sort out some of my problems. I can break everything down for you piece by piece.
Again, it might be messy and come insegments. But I hear you, okay.
Feel free to respond when youre comfortable. I dont want to make you do anything you dont want to. If you need to take the night or whatever, feel free to PM me whrn you get the chance
9988
« on: January 26, 2016, 01:28:01 AM »
Talking about my personal life is more interesting than you posting your 1236th "My avatar is better than yours" thread.
9989
« on: January 26, 2016, 01:25:12 AM »
Telling him to get help is counterproductive. What could a shrink tell him? Let his guard down? Some other pie in the sky bullshit? I've been to more than a few. They all read the same textbooks and give minor variations on the same shit. At the end of the day it comes down to Eli. Their advice boils down to telling a homeless person to get a job as a stockbroker buy a mansion.
What he needs is to just find someone who's there tomorrow. Not necessarily next week. Just tomorrow. Relearn self worth. If she's good enough for longer, great. If not, then oh well. She'll get someone tomorrow and so will he.
We're all broken. The game is just making tomorrow livable.
YEAH
woo
Tread carefully, 'ol Charles is one of the people that encouraged Roman.
We all know how that went.
Gotcha.
9990
« on: January 26, 2016, 01:24:37 AM »
become enamoured in facets of that person which you do not understand instead of focusing on things you have in common.
You'll find the joy of discovering a person is more powerful than cold comfort gleaned by being in synchronicity with another.
Thats all well n good but you need to connect with someome on some level to be even just friends with em
Its also pretty clear to me that the opposite attract theory of tomance is dogshit
Additionally, thanks for being somewhat serious. Though, i think youre being a bit childish when you call me unintelligent just cuz we disagree.
If you find contentment in what you have in common with others, then you are not a creature of ambition, and it is not high intelligence, but arrogance which prevents you from connecting with others.
If that is the case, then humble yourself before others, that they may better convey themselves to you.
I never said it was high intelligence that doesnt allow me to connecy with others
Theres a ton of different reasons i dont connect with oeople
Arrogance may be one of them, sure
But its not the maon reason
Anyways im not really interested in discussing this with you
Advice you don't want to hear I the best advice you can take.
Also, don't complain your level of intelligence is "awkward" and then say that it doesn't make it hard for you to connect with others.
See this is the reason shrinks didn't work for you, you're so adamant about being complicated and saying that nobody could possibly understand you that when somebody gets it on the nose, you don't want to believe it.
1. I also never saif my intelligence DOESNT hinder my ability to connect. It doesn,but there are other reasons too. 2. Im so glad you know my experiences better than i do regarding shrinks.
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