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5971
« on: November 08, 2016, 04:31:57 PM »
Hoping to spend less than $500.00 if you can. Basically, just a browsing computer with lots of storage space that can work on dual monitors at 1080p pretty quickly. Thanks in advance. ca.pcpartpicker.com
5972
« on: November 06, 2016, 08:04:50 PM »
thought you were talking about one of their album covers lol
5973
« on: November 05, 2016, 12:17:20 PM »
never had the girl i loved
5974
« on: November 04, 2016, 08:12:59 PM »
he's an american black dude living across the pond for some reason. thats all i know.
I'm not black
you are in my mind
you cant be white
Fuck off dude I'm white leave me alone
no chance man
5975
« on: November 04, 2016, 08:06:19 PM »
he's an american black dude living across the pond for some reason. thats all i know.
I'm not black
you are in my mind you cant be white
5976
« on: November 04, 2016, 07:42:42 PM »
he's an american black dude living across the pond for some reason. thats all i know.
5977
« on: November 04, 2016, 02:57:27 PM »
You made ZERO mention of the father talking to the son. Just yelling at them and not backing it up with a conversation like you implied is wrong. i made no such implication you have to understand that, really, the only time i have free to post here is when im sitting on the shitter at work. like right now. so my posts are generally quick and to the point. just because i didnt write three paragraphs summarising the exchange doesnt mean you get to infer some traumatic parenting scenario. How? What issue does it cause? All I would see is people throwing a fit that others wear different type of clothes because it makes THEM feel uncomfortable.
it's part of the growing issue of male feminity being socially acceptable. being feminine is fine if you're a dude -- given that it doesn't take away from the man's responsibilities regarding family. which it usually does.
plus yeah, its just fucking gay to cross dress. im going to make fun of you for it. end of story.
1. You have a preconceived notion that this behavior would cause his life turmoil. If it was simply in private would life still be difficult? How would anyone know?
people who do shit in secret dont do it in secret for long. hard to draw boundaries.
2. The idea that cross-dressing will turn the child into a sexual deviant is uneducated and ignorant. It goes against years of psychological research.
i dont really care. butbits not sexual deviancy i have a problem with. its this trend of male femininity i dont like.
5978
« on: November 04, 2016, 11:28:25 AM »
You didn't mention any of what the father did other than "He ripped him out for it" which we can only ascertain as "Chewing him out for it", Which is never good for any form of behavior the child may be doing, clearly it is, cuz it worked. what you're describing now is completely different no its not you can rip into someone and still not traumatise them he yelled at his son. thats what i would call "ripping in to". but there was nothing abusive or traumatic about what he said or how he said it. I only see degenerate behavior in something that actually has negative consequences for society, this does not. Cross-dressing is indicative of some larger issues of the day, that do have negative consequences on soceity and need to be dealt with. A father can only solve the problems of the society within his home, not an entire civilisation. If every father did that we wouldn't have these issues. Does it really matter? Is it really worth raising an alarm? Yes. He is not going to have an easy life. His parents make absolutely no money, so there'll be nothing for him to inherent. His mother is weak and his father will die young. Taking care of his family is his responsibility when the previous generation passes on. And this theme of femininity and weakness being acceptable to the extent that it is within men is just counter-productive to him being capable of that kind of responsibility. The last thing he needs is a mental illness fucking up his priorities.
5979
« on: November 04, 2016, 09:59:50 AM »
actually 100% the right thing to do
Make up your fucking mind
what are you talking about
5980
« on: November 04, 2016, 09:26:21 AM »
You must have missed the second half of my post. If the father really wanted him to stop he could've done it without emotionally damaging the child along with the risk of just having him be a closet cross dresser. There is tons of evidence on why this is a bad parenting style, the entire issue of teen pregnancy is one caused by this kind of parenting, this is taught in basic college psychology, and everyone has some form of anecdotal evidence proving this fact.
Ignoring the fact that there is nothing wrong with wearing the clothes of the opposite gender. The father could have just as easily just sat him down and calmly told him what he was doing, why it would be a problem, and explain the risks of what he's doing for his age. He could have also just waited it out because he's fucking FOUR, he is more than likely going to grow out of it as soon as he enters the "Girls have cooties" stage which is real soon.
I realize both are family to you, but objectively the father is doing way more damage and has no idea what he's doing.
actually 100% the right thing to do
he shouldnt be stealing and wearing women's underwear no you actually dont know what youre talking about yeah there are traumatising ways to teach your kids lessons and that wasnt one of them. trust me ive had a few of my own. but he didnt "damage" the kid at all. he explained to him what he did was wrong and when it was all over the kid genuinely apologised, gave his father a hug and said "i love you dad". 100% good parenting. fuck you. dont pretend you were there because youre fucked up and want to justify your degeneracy through my nephew.
5981
« on: November 03, 2016, 10:06:40 PM »
What the father did was wrong. actually 100% the right thing to do he shouldnt be stealing and wearing women's underwear
5982
« on: November 03, 2016, 06:37:55 PM »
like if he wants to wear girls clothes when hes a grown man i cant really stop him but im gunna make fun of him for it definitely
5983
« on: November 03, 2016, 06:36:32 PM »
Thank god for the dad. If it was up to OP he'd be wearing dresses next.
wtf you think im okay with him doing that? im just not his pops and its not my place to say something like that.
5984
« on: November 03, 2016, 06:34:37 PM »
did it again today and his dad ripped into him
dont think he'll do it again
so where the fuck is he getting little girls underwear anyway?
we'll probably never know
5985
« on: November 03, 2016, 05:38:27 PM »
did it again today and his dad ripped into him
dont think he'll do it again
5986
« on: November 03, 2016, 03:57:11 PM »
I don't know what's worse: Verbatim's tired antics or the proletarian's attempt to dissuade him from them.
5987
« on: November 01, 2016, 05:17:45 PM »
Wait
OP, why are you checking out your nephew's underwear?
hes my nephew. i live with him. sorta part of my job while im here to take care of him.
5988
« on: November 01, 2016, 05:17:04 PM »
if hes 4 he probably doesnt know what hes doing
yeah maybe but these sorts of things manifest pretty early and yknow its been several times
5989
« on: November 01, 2016, 04:59:29 PM »
Jesus fucking Christ man
I am fucking diamond right now.
thats fucked up man
5990
« on: November 01, 2016, 04:51:26 PM »
So yeah. This is the 4th time he's come home wearing girl's underwear.
He's 4 years old.
5991
« on: November 01, 2016, 04:25:02 PM »
The Last of Us's opening chapter hit me hard.
5992
« on: October 31, 2016, 07:56:18 AM »
Portuguese
you should come see this bar my grandpa owns downtown. itd change your mind real fast.
5993
« on: October 31, 2016, 07:55:37 AM »
Boston accents are cool.
But French accents are fantastic.
5994
« on: October 28, 2016, 08:40:41 PM »
Sinnoh>Unova>Hoenn>Johto>Alola>Kanto>Kalos
Sinnoh was flawless, Unova had Seperior and Samurott, with Emboar being half-decent looking. Hoenn had 3 solid starters with none being obviously better than the other. Johto had another solid 3 starters and 2 gems being Feraligatr and Typholision. Alola's are half decent, with the only real stand-out being, IMO, the water-starter. Kanto is acceptable, Kalos is garbage.
5995
« on: October 28, 2016, 01:36:51 PM »
id probably get like 200 bucks from scrapping it but this thing has decently low kms on it and is tough as fuck
5996
« on: October 28, 2016, 01:36:05 PM »
so currently i own 2 cars:
82 firebird with a 3 speed auto v8 RWD
and
04 sunfire fwd 5 speed 4 cylinder
the sunfire wont pass safety without 900 bucks in repairs, at which point id save about 100 bucks a month on insurance and a LOT on gas (like 200-300 bucks a month)
but if i were to move forward with the sunfire id have to uninsure my firebird, which is already street-ready. snowtires and everything.
the sunfire gives me a lot more freedom to leave the city because of its fuel efficiency, and its a tad more reliable
but i really dont have the funds to fix this thing
what do
5997
« on: October 28, 2016, 01:31:54 PM »
People being distant towards because you look homeless or intimdating gives you an unparalleled social advantage. You have all [most of] the power in any given conversation. It's great.
5998
« on: October 28, 2016, 11:34:49 AM »
Only Metal Gear. Which is like being fluent in Latin. Virtually useless now.
5999
« on: October 27, 2016, 07:02:23 PM »
maybe i can get an engine/tranny swap with more gears in the future
insurance is going to be about 300 bucks a month no matter what car i drive but the trans am kills it in gas in comparison to my sunfire
6000
« on: October 27, 2016, 08:52:11 AM »
There's a lot of things that go in to the fuel efficiency of a vehicle, and while EFI can be a more precise fuel delivery and deliver better results in similar motors, things like gear ratios seem to be have a bigger effect, especially for highway miliage.
yeah i was thinking about that on the way home. The vette is a 5 speed iirc, whereas my trans am is only a 3 speed. 3000 rpms the entire ride home at 120km/h really drinks gas.
luckily i dont need to drive too much on the highway anymore so i can rest easy. my city mileage is pretty good, and i do have my crappy 04 sunfire beater for long distance journeys.
Ooh, yup, three speed will do it. My impala was okayish on gas till I got on the highway doing 75/80. That just sucked fuel.
so what do i do just take back roads and shit to get places?
Don't go faster than 55mph lol
speed limit on highways is 100 so thats out of the question
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