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It can be very exciting if you aren't a boring edgy faggot

yeah, flirting is fun but not when you're already in love

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Your stomach starts to rumble when you know you're ready to move on?

do i really need to explain what i meant

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And it's whats holding you back 🤔🤔🤔🤔

nothing is holding me back. i am a god, unchained.

but it's good to know you're not emotionally honest with yourself so you can get laid more often.

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Idk you're the one that just did a runaround coming to the conclusion i was already at in my first post

no, i just don't think he's at that stage where he should be going out with other girls

like if you talked to him on a personal level at all you'd know that

it's just bad advice to tell him to start dating again

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You just wanna wait for things to happen but what did that get?

The girl you "loved" got fingerbanged on the couch above you after you graciously saved her from the popo

You gotta walk up the stairs jus sitting on the bottom aint gonna get you anywhere

there's more to that story than you think -- a lot more than i let on, and dumbing it down like this doesn't help your cause. i posted it for mostly morbid comedic effect but i didn't realise how quickly i'd get defensive over some comments that were pretty out of line if you knew everything.

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The Flood / Re: attn: snake
« on: July 23, 2017, 10:50:53 PM »
okay, so i've listened to it

i think his decision to use the retro 80's thing is weird, because he's usually a master of style and that shtick is just a little played out

the ep is solid, though. just as layered as we're used to, but it functions as a decent jumping on point for new fans too, which i think is intentional. it feels like 50% year zero, 25% PHM and 25% Hesitation Marks. hearing trent work with synths again is a dream come true.

favourite track is the lovers. it listens like a hysterical drunk who's unable to come to terms with... something.

The confusion is seducing me, warm perfect flowing. Wide his eyes, summer, hypnotize. They see inside of me, hot swollen skin, want me -- take me. Perfect embrace, black and bloody, rotten and perfect. The center has moved on and all that's left is free. Finally. Finally. Everyone seems to be asleep but me.

also that last line has a connection to Not The Actual Events' 'Dear World,'. I'll have to examine that further, considering this is supposed to be a trilogy of EPs.

overall, i liked it just a little less than NTAE, but still really great. It's cool hearing some of my friends play Less Than in the dub, and it opens the door to more of his music, which is awesome.

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This is a cancerous mindset and you're only hurting yourself thinking like this

not really, i'm in the best shape i've ever been ever thanks to this mindset

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yes you can. If you're just sitting around waiting for your feelings to just cease and new love to just prosper, you're keeping yourself from being able to move on and neither will ever happen.

it's weird, how, i did just that, and what do you know, it worked

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Read into your own pessimism, its wasted time because you believe it to be wasted time because it isn't with the "one true love" you have to see it has a new, exciting road to travel

there's nothing exciting about being with a woman you don't want to be with. it's like having dinner with some random dude you don't give a shit about. what's exciting about that.

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if you aren't doing both you're missing out on your own self revelations of what you what and what you feel.

what

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and how do you know you're ready until you try? Or do you just wait for, what? Just stirring in your feelings isn't going to help yhe process at all.

you know you're ready when you know you're ready. same way you know you're hungry. it's not that complicated.

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woah so dont have sex with them

see b)

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^pessimism thats holding you back from finding new love

it's not pessimism, it's being emotionally honest with yourself

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thats what ive been saying

okay, but he's not at that point, yet

so are we in agreement or what

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euron is a gay character though

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i don't really know where you get off talking about my experiences though, as if you know anything but the the vaguest of outlines

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When is dating=sex?

the two do go hand in hand

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Thats your problem right there by associating the two and having meaningless sex instead of trying to just date other girls and learning to love again

when someone is ready to love again, they'll know. you can't learn to love someone in that way. at best, you just like them a lot.

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Whatre you trying to argue here?

i'm arguing that wasting your time with women when you should be going through some of the most intense introspection you'll ever experience is not valid advice, because ultimately you're not ready to move on yet and you can't force it. at the end of the experience you'll just be left feeling either a) empty, because you had sex with them and it meant nothing, or b) like you wasted your time and you're reminded that the girl you spent time with isn't the one you want.

eventually -- eventually -- it's a good idea to get back out there and go on dates, even with girls you're not thrown back by, but only when you can picture yourself with other women. in my experience, it usually takes half the length of the relationship, but it's not an exact science obviously.

jive's elaboration on making friends with girls is actually pretty good, but i don't think you share his sentiments.

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Besides everything?

Who's talking about sex? Im talking about moving on.

by having sex with other girls

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Of course it's gonna feel like empty, meaningless sex because you're a pessimistic guy that won't allow himself to move on and are stuck on this one girl

yeah, i won't allow myself to move on

which is why i was able to move on on my own, naturally, and meaningless sex only hampered my progress by realising how empty it all actually was

maybe you just lack the emotional depth to really devote yourself to one girl the way i can. ever think about that?

i can throw around personality descriptions too, yknow

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Its hard but you really have to try to date other girls

i don't understand how this helps at all lmao

it's never helped me, it just desensitises you to romance.

You move on and learn that you can love other women

You realize that the love you had for the other woman may not seem as strong as it was and it just fades out

I mean you just seem like a naturally pessimistic guy so yeah id see why you'd think like that

what does my pessimism have to do with the ultimately empty feeling you get from meaningless sex with random women when youre pining over someone else

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yeah fuck littlefinger tbh

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this show is just making me shake my head like "...why"

some just truly awful shit going on but PLEASE let Arya and Jon meet up I need to see that

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Its hard but you really have to try to date other girls

i don't understand how this helps at all lmao

it's never helped me, it just desensitises you to romance.

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The Flood / Re: So I feel like I'm in a pretty bad place mentally.
« on: July 23, 2017, 05:19:35 PM »
What reasons did she list as to why it wouldn't work out?

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This is the part that hurt me the most, I know she's moved on and is well within her rights to do whatever she wants, but fucking hell the thoughts and imagery of it just really fucking bother me. Every day, it seems to just pop into my head at random, instantly killing my mood and usually makes me lose my appetite.

I'm sorry that happened to you. I felt the same way for months after my last relationship. I can tell you what I did wasn't exactly healthy, but it worked.

Stay strong, buddy. You're a good guy.

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The Flood / Re: Se7agon card game?
« on: July 23, 2017, 05:09:17 PM »
We should just copy and paste the formula from Fire Emblem: Cipher. It's extremely addicting and the quick nature of matches would work well for a forum pastime.

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The Flood / Re: Vegan porn
« on: July 23, 2017, 04:12:52 PM »
this was 100% created by an anti-vegan

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The Flood / Re: An honest thread regarding SecondClass
« on: July 23, 2017, 03:52:19 PM »
People die everyday. He didn't really have any close connection to this girl prior and obviously didn't have any fault in her death

Him spazzing out over this and if he actually is self harming and not just trolling(likely and entertaining gg) is just an indication of his declining mental health

You didn't pay attention to jack shit clearly. He talked with this girl and he had the hots for another girl, and he regrets ignoring her. He didn't know what he wanted at the time and after that happened he deeply regrets it.

Clearly you've never lost anyone in your life, otherwise you would know what its like.

what he's saying is that class didn't actually do anything wrong. the girl would have died if he had accepted her proposal or not. he's displacing his frustration at an admittedly tragic situation into guilt. it's all a part of the process.

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The Flood / Re: Meme thread
« on: July 23, 2017, 01:19:21 PM »

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Gaming / Re: Pokémon Central
« on: July 23, 2017, 01:12:38 PM »
I like that dude's videos, but he needs to get better background music.
that's a weird complaint, lol
He has like 20 videos already, so the fact that he tends to use the same music starts becoming more and more apparent.

shit, now i feel bad that i've made you aware of it

damn i didn't notice how young his channel was. 20 videos and 47 thousand subscribers? damn.

just make a suggestion on his channel.

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Gaming / Re: Pokémon Central
« on: July 23, 2017, 01:08:15 PM »
I like that dude's videos, but he needs to get better background music.

that's a weird complaint, lol

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Gaming / Re: Pokémon Central
« on: July 23, 2017, 12:59:06 PM »
YouTube


I just found this guy on YouTube, "False Swipe Gaming", and what he does are these cool history videos for specific Pokemon in competitive play. I'm watching the Zapdos video and it's really interesting to see how he evolved over time in competitive Pokemon.

Check him out if you have time.

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it comes out in october

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The Flood / Re: melanie walker is a 10/10 first crush
« on: July 23, 2017, 12:18:51 PM »
also smoking is one of my biggest turnoffs

which is putting it lightly—it's more of an absolute dealbreaker

i just remembered we're talking about a cartoon though

it's also fan art, she's never seen smoking in the entire series

it's just part of that industrial aesthetic the show was known for

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The Flood / Re: melanie walker is a 10/10 first crush
« on: July 23, 2017, 02:50:28 AM »
but if you look, she has dark eyebrows

which imply she has dark hair naturally

Not necessarily. As someone who was naturally blond for most of my life I can confirm that natural blonds can also have dark eyebrows

fair point, and it's mostly head canon, but the industrial themes and bleach-blonde ash style she's going for make me think it's dyed that way

very rarely do people have THAT blonde hair with dark eyebrows

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Gaming / Re: If you're not buying Destiny 2, check in here
« on: July 23, 2017, 02:36:54 AM »
Verbatim....

I'm not buying Destiny 2....

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The Flood / Re: An honest thread regarding SecondClass
« on: July 23, 2017, 02:32:49 AM »
The BEST thing you could have done was gone to fucking bed. The 2nd BEST thing you could have done is not click on any of my posts let alone reply to me.

i can't sleep. i think im in love with your mom.

Your mom jokes are fucking 2003. Come up with newer material you retard.

i'm serious dude. i can't stop thinking about her. i haven't felt this way before.

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The Flood / Re: An honest thread regarding SecondClass
« on: July 23, 2017, 02:32:14 AM »
Tru fucking gets it.

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The Flood / Re: An honest thread regarding SecondClass
« on: July 23, 2017, 02:29:07 AM »
The BEST thing you could have done was gone to fucking bed. The 2nd BEST thing you could have done is not click on any of my posts let alone reply to me.

i can't sleep. i think im in love with your mom.

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The Flood / Re: An honest thread regarding SecondClass
« on: July 23, 2017, 02:24:25 AM »
the BEST thing you could have done was say nothing, because people dislike you enough to disagree with everything you have to say regardless of whether it's intelligent or not

if you really wanted to help class, you'd have said nothing. all this thread tells me is "hey guys try acting mature and MORAL like me"

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The Flood / Re: melanie walker is a 10/10 first crush
« on: July 23, 2017, 12:50:07 AM »
she looks cool from viewing tbhis and knowing nothing of batman

very aesthetic

watch the first video in the op

i have a feeling you'll love her
okay yeah solid character lol

I like her assertiveness and how they didn't display it as a negative trait

but I dont do superhero stuff

yeah that's her most attractive trait. thats how i want to meet my wife.

that subplot is the best part of the show so dont worry about the rest of it.

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The Flood / Re: call it yahtzee all you want
« on: July 23, 2017, 12:36:15 AM »
Go to bed, class
Remedial Chaos Theory is actual truth

one of the best episodes of anything, ever

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