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10021
« on: January 26, 2016, 12:15:47 AM »
Bro all I'm saying is that you need to find a way to be happy just with yourself. You don't need someone else for that.
Easier said than done. But thanks anyways
10022
« on: January 26, 2016, 12:15:01 AM »
And its not that i dont believe you or anything, its just that dont trust your judgement. I havent met very many people like me so its hard to use their advice when it is so often unapplicable to me
What's there not to trust about the idea that learning to love yourself will vastly improve your life in all ways? You don't hate yourself, you're happy with your own company, and life overall is more pleasant when you're not constantly holding things against yourself. Seriously think about it, you're walking around every day with all this baggage, and when you let it go it's like the skies clear up and you can see the sunlight again.
It's not that I don't believe you when you say "Life is better when you don't hate yourself", it's that I don't believe you when you say "It's not impossible"
10023
« on: January 26, 2016, 12:13:45 AM »
You're better off without it man. Learn to love yourself first, and love with another will be more fulfilling.
Its impossible to love myself. I hate myself. And so do most people.
Which is kinda the problem. Maybe if someone ever does love me again they can tell me how.
That should be like your character arc.
What do you mean
10024
« on: January 26, 2016, 12:12:57 AM »
Women just don't like when guys make them the priority, even though it seems like she should love it. It turns her away from you. These are not the kind of women I fall in love with. Besides. I know what kind of a man I am in a relationship. I'm a natural in that department. I know how to keep a girl interested.
10025
« on: January 26, 2016, 12:06:12 AM »
Eh, I've never felt the feeling. I'm pretty much at that point where I really don't even know what to do. Here I am 24 and never been with anyone, so I'm without experience. I have thought about apps like tinder, but the fact that you need a facebook is a no no for me. In teaching, you have to have that whole professional looking thing going on and using it seems like a liability. Would also consider using grindr, but I live in a small enough city the everyone knows each other and I don't want to come out as bi.
That sucks dude. As a guy at 17 whos had really bad luck in that department, i really dread that happening to me. (No offense)
I dont want to get to the point where im just at home, 24/7 with no social prospects and no experience
None taken, trust me, I beat myself up more than anyone on here could. It just sucks thinking about it because now all my peers are all people who have experience and expectations and most likely I won't be able to compare should I ever have the chance to be with someone.
I wish there was something i could do for you. I really do. Its like this slippery slope bullshit. You dont have any experience because you didnt get it earlier, but it feels like its too late to start now so you postpone it even further
10026
« on: January 26, 2016, 12:04:23 AM »
When you lose that you lose all purpose in the world and the result is really But i already feel this way so i have nothing to lose And its not that i dont believe you or anything, its just that dont trust your judgement. I havent met very many people like me so its hard to use their advice when it is so often unapplicable to me
10027
« on: January 26, 2016, 12:00:28 AM »
And so do most people.
And there are many who don't my friend.
I know but even my friends or people that do care about me have a hard time enjoying my company
10028
« on: January 25, 2016, 11:59:36 PM »
Eh, I've never felt the feeling. I'm pretty much at that point where I really don't even know what to do. Here I am 24 and never been with anyone, so I'm without experience. I have thought about apps like tinder, but the fact that you need a facebook is a no no for me. In teaching, you have to have that whole professional looking thing going on and using it seems like a liability. Would also consider using grindr, but I live in a small enough city the everyone knows each other and I don't want to come out as bi.
That sucks dude. As a guy at 17 whos had really bad luck in that department, i really dread that happening to me. (No offense) I dont want to get to the point where im just at home, 24/7 with no social prospects and no experience
10029
« on: January 25, 2016, 11:53:17 PM »
You're better off without it man. Learn to love yourself first, and love with another will be more fulfilling.
Its impossible to love myself. I hate myself. And so do most people. Which is kinda the problem. Maybe if someone ever does love me again they can tell me how.
10030
« on: January 25, 2016, 11:51:27 PM »
Speaking of the aussie
I saw her today
She's put on a few pounds
Oh really?
lol well alright then!
In my head i like to think its because her girlfriend broke up with her over email or something and shes just let herself go That would make all right with the world
10031
« on: January 25, 2016, 11:49:04 PM »
Speaking of the aussie
I saw her today
She's put on a few pounds
10032
« on: January 25, 2016, 11:48:36 PM »
And just as my eyes start seeing/after all the pain
The twist in my life starts healing/just to twist again
10033
« on: January 25, 2016, 11:46:33 PM »
Will reply after my shower stay awake fella
You got 15 minutes before i gotta hit the sack Otherwise ill hit you up tomorrow
10034
« on: January 25, 2016, 11:46:00 PM »
A lot of people have the romanticized view of love. Not everyone can just love someone every couple weeks.
Preach it hommie
10035
« on: January 25, 2016, 11:44:37 PM »
just wondering, a lot of people i know who have gone through the emotional ringer with a number of women display similar feelings
i guess it's just a matter of finding the right person
Heh. That's an understatement. The thing is, rarely am I even physically attracted to women. So me actually loving someone (mind and body) is so rare that when it does happen, I know that it could work. I just have notouriously bad luck. Ask TBlocks.
10036
« on: January 25, 2016, 11:42:22 PM »
Can't make a woman your purpose. It's very appealing but I've learned the hard way. Why not? I see no problems with one's life goal being to provide for their wife and family. Your primary focus should be to find your purpose. Your mission. Life is meaningless. The way you feel is almost identical to Roman. You guys just come across in slightly different ways, but To me I see how similar your guy's posts are
Ugh not cool bro There's nothing wrong with being a romantic
10037
« on: January 25, 2016, 11:39:01 PM »
Actually it's probably closer to 3 or 4.
10038
« on: January 25, 2016, 11:37:08 PM »
ever been in a relationship before OP?
Several times. Why?
10039
« on: January 25, 2016, 11:34:58 PM »
It's surprisingly easy to not care about girls or relationships right now.
For me anyways.
Ive pretty much just solely been playing Smash to try and escape these thoughts. I only start to care once I stop playing.
10040
« on: January 25, 2016, 11:33:02 PM »
Love will come OP. Do you think you're ready for it though? It's not as simple as you think. You really need to love yourself so you can give someone else your all, not just use them as a crutch. Both of you should fulfill and uplift each other
If I could find someone I love who loves me back I have no reservations that I could and would devote my every fiber of being to them. That's my problem right now. I'm so fundamentally lost and without purpose that I'm suicidally depressed and socially irritable. But were I committed to someone else, that would solve the base problem of not having a purpose. She would be my purpose.
10041
« on: January 25, 2016, 11:30:22 PM »
I fall in love at least 2 times every 3 months. Once a girl wants me tho I fall out of love srs
I used to be like that but idk Ive had my heart shattered so many times its sorta forced me to grow emotionally. Kinda latch on to the scarce amounts of romantic love i can muster. I understand how frustrating that can be tho, believe me
10042
« on: January 25, 2016, 11:26:42 PM »
literally what
I'd never make a thread where I'm literally just whining that girls don't like me
Like, you don't have a girlfriend. Get over it, we don't care
Well actually i meant you make threads no one cares about
10043
« on: January 25, 2016, 11:24:40 PM »
lmao
What's so funny
this whiny thread that no one cares about
What I find funny is that these are the exact kinds of threads you make whenever you resurface.
10044
« on: January 25, 2016, 11:22:44 PM »
10045
« on: January 25, 2016, 11:20:54 PM »
*Hillary
(remembers Benghazi) lmao, she's not getting my vote.
*Donald Trump
Financially he can help the country, but lets not forget how hot temper he can be, also he's just a business man, so my expectations on Donald is low.
*Bernie Sanders
Does he really think that getting rid of big cooperation's will help america? No it won't, what if a new corporations rises to big cooperation's and has a lot of greed, complete waste of time.
Conclusion: well fuck.
Is English not your first language, by any chance?
10046
« on: January 25, 2016, 11:18:54 PM »
Isn't there some sort of psychology chart that tells you what the number of pillows you have say about you?
10047
« on: January 25, 2016, 11:17:05 PM »
I've forgotten what it feels like to be loved.
10048
« on: January 25, 2016, 11:13:05 PM »
3. Sometimes 4 depending on the size of my bed.
10049
« on: January 25, 2016, 09:50:18 PM »
I feel like jacking off multiple times a day is more of a response to extreme boredom than it is to horniness. In my case, at least.
10050
« on: January 25, 2016, 09:47:36 PM »
What. The. Fuck.
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