sorry I was blinded by the eclipse.

Verb is the only person I've ever seen complain about a food being too noisy wtf lmao

Why didn't Jon just have a prisoner killed, then just taken beyond the wall and left to turn into a Wight, captured, and brought back? This whole episode was pointless.

what if it never turned

ahahahAAHAHA what the HECK

So dating othed girls=meaningless sex but wanting to shag a random girl in the market is a sign you know you're ready to move on?

🤔🤔

do i really need to explain what i meant

Yes, explain how exactly you know you're ready and how it equates to knowing when you're hungry

nothing is holding me back. i am a god, unchained.

You're a fucking faggot

but it's good to know you're not emotionally honest with yourself so you can get laid more often.

You're an idiot that doesn't know what love is

The fact that you keep bringing up sex is proof enough of that

no, i just don't think he's at that stage where he should be going out with other girls

like if you talked to him on a personal level at all you'd know that

it's just bad advice to tell him to start dating again

Yeah, obviously it's not a right away thing

I doubt he's any different than any other friends ive had thats gone through long term relationship breakups

You just wanna wait for things to happen but what did that get?

The girl you "loved" got fingerbanged on the couch above you after you graciously saved her from the popo

You gotta walk up the stairs jus sitting on the bottom aint gonna get you anywhere

the two go hand in hand

This is a cancerous mindset and you're only hurting yourself thinking like this

when someone is ready to love again, they'll know. you can't learn to love someone in that way. at best, you just like them a lot.

yes you can. If you're just sitting around waiting for your feelings to just cease and new love to just prosper, you're keeping yourself from being able to move on and neither will ever happen.

i'm arguing that wasting your time

Read into your own pessimism, its wasted time because you believe it to be wasted time because it isn't with the "one true love" you have to see it has a new, exciting road to travel

with women when you should be going through some of the most intense introspection

 if you aren't doing both you're missing out on your own self revelations of what you what and what you feel.

you'll ever experience is not valid advice, because ultimately you're not ready to move on yet and you can't force it.

and how do you know you're ready until you try? Or do you just wait for, what? Just stirring in your feelings isn't going to help yhe process at all.

at the end of the experience you'll just be left feeling either a) empty, because you had sex with them and it meant nothing,

woah so dont have sex with them

or b) like you wasted your time and you're reminded that the girl you spent time with isn't the one you want.

^pessimism thats holding you back from finding new love

If you see it as wasted time you're only hurting yourself

eventually -- eventually -- it's a good idea to get back out there and go on dates,

thats what ive been saying

even with girls you're not thrown back by, but only when you can picture yourself with other women. in my experience, it usually takes half the length of the relationship, but it's not an exact science obviously.

And how can you picture yourself unless you spend time with new girls?

jive's elaboration on making friends with girls is actually pretty good, but i don't think you share his sentiments.

I do because it's in the strain of moving of finding new people to like, love, and enjoy being around

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Quote from: The Lord Ruler on July 23, 2017, 05:58:19 PM

Its hard but you really have to try to date other girls

i don't understand how this helps at all lmao

it's never helped me, it just desensitises you to romance.

You move on and learn that you can love other women

You realize that the love you had for the other woman may not seem as strong as it was and it just fades out

I mean you just seem like a naturally pessimistic guy so yeah id see why you'd think like that

what does my pessimism have to do with the ultimately empty feeling you get from meaningless sex with random women when youre pining over someone else

Besides everything?

Who's talking about sex? Im talking about moving on.

Of course it's gonna feel like empty, meaningless sex because you're a pessimistic guy that won't allow himself to move on and are stuck on this one girl

Try to love a new girl and the sex, just maybe, will be meaningful

Quote from: The Lord Ruler on July 23, 2017, 05:58:19 PM

Its hard but you really have to try to date other girls

i don't understand how this helps at all lmao

it's never helped me, it just desensitises you to romance.

You move on and learn that you can love other women

You realize that the love you had for the other woman may not seem as strong as it was and it just fades out

I mean you just seem like a naturally pessimistic guy so yeah id see why you'd think like that

For me, it's the McChicken.

Hey Dont ignore me

I made you cum

For me, it's the McChicken.

For me, it's the McChicken.