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2401
« on: February 16, 2015, 11:42:08 AM »
Septy, what do you drive now?
Nothing
This will be your first car?
yes
That's going to be a nightmare for insurance.
Your first car should not be a $50k car.
I'm not going to choose one worth 50k, if I do that'll make me feel bad.
I'll probable end up spending 35k for a car..
Get the VW e-Golf or something.
2402
« on: February 16, 2015, 11:38:41 AM »
Septy, what do you drive now?
Nothing
This will be your first car?
yes
That's going to be a nightmare for insurance. Your first car should not be a $50k car.
2403
« on: February 16, 2015, 11:35:02 AM »
Septy, what do you drive now?
Nothing
This will be your first car?
2404
« on: February 16, 2015, 11:20:18 AM »
How about you PM a mod instead of making half a dozen threads complaining about it?
Naaah, that would be too easy.
2405
« on: February 16, 2015, 10:59:32 AM »
Yeah, that's kinda how time works.
2406
« on: February 16, 2015, 10:43:30 AM »
How old are you? Are you going to be placed on your parents insurance? Etc. Etc.
God, I can't imagine what it costs to insure a young driver on a $50k car.
2407
« on: February 16, 2015, 10:37:42 AM »
The rule of thumb for mileage is people usually drive 10-20k miles per year. Under 10k/yr is great, over 20k/yr I would avoid.
2408
« on: February 16, 2015, 10:24:34 AM »
Septy, what do you drive now?
2409
« on: February 16, 2015, 10:20:30 AM »
what do you even do?
Huh?
what do you do job wise?
I'm unemployed
But my father is a doctor so...
So you'respoilt?
Spoiler i'm just fucking with you
More of a gift for getting treated like absolute shit for the past 3 years
Fuck, I wish I could be treated like shit and get a $50k car out of it.
2410
« on: February 16, 2015, 02:09:51 AM »
2015 Audi S4
2411
« on: February 16, 2015, 02:02:34 AM »
that reminds me, I need to order some pedals....
dangerous territory for me. I'm like a junkie when it comes to pedals.
2412
« on: February 16, 2015, 02:01:48 AM »
pedals dont do hardly shit for your tone unless you got it going through some dope tubes.
getgud
>playing clean all the time Yawn.
2413
« on: February 16, 2015, 12:13:04 AM »
Feels good to play again. 
2414
« on: February 15, 2015, 11:47:13 PM »
States can nullify FEDERAL shit?
2415
« on: February 15, 2015, 11:41:26 PM »
2416
« on: February 15, 2015, 11:32:43 PM »
2417
« on: February 15, 2015, 10:39:37 PM »
Depends on what you like, really.
House of Cards
Psych
The Fall
Top of the Lake
The Killing
Black Mirror
Supernatural
Arrow
Top Gear [UK]
2418
« on: February 15, 2015, 10:33:33 PM »
pretty much nothing, from what i've seen
That's because you hate everything.
2419
« on: February 15, 2015, 10:05:37 PM »
2420
« on: February 15, 2015, 02:08:21 AM »
I don't get it...
That's because your son was killed by a hit and run driver, the driver was an alcohol
Well then..
2421
« on: February 15, 2015, 02:03:18 AM »
I don't get it...
2422
« on: February 14, 2015, 07:46:14 PM »
Also, why do people think that waiting until marriage is ridiculous? Don't you want to be able to say that you were the only one who has fucked your spouse and that no else has ever touched them, and vice versa? Isn't that something special? Something to be proud of? And don't give me all that, "Well it's boring. I need some variety." bullshit. If your sex life with your spouse is boring well than that's your fault. Your sex life would be boring because you'd suck due to no experience.
A lot of marriages end because they're either sexually incompatible or just flat out suck dick in bed, y'know.
So yes, reserving yourself until you're married is ridiculous.
Marrying or divorcing someone based on sexual performance is ridiculous.
Sexual compatibility is extremely important
Define "sexual compatibility".
>compatible libidos
>willingness to satisfy each other sexually
>sexual attraction towards each other
>accepting of fetishes, kinks, boundaries, etc.
These are things you have to find out before marriage. Sex is an important part of a relationship. That doesn't mean you have to have sex all the time. Some people don't like sex as much as others, that's fine, but if you have a low libido or NO libido and you're with someone who loves sex and wants it frequently, you WILL have problems.
>compatible libidos
>willingness to satisfy each other sexually
>sexual attraction towards each other
>accepting of fetishes, kinks, boundaries, etc.
None of these things are things that cannot be fixed after marriage. It all comes down to initiative that a couple has to work out their sexual relationship.
I would like you to ask an asexual if they think they can change.
People do not change like that. It doesn't happen. To think it does is stupid and naive.
I said fix, not change. That suggests other ways to solve the problem. You can work your way around sexual incompatibility. It is a stumbling block, but not something that cannot be solved. Like I said, It all depends on the initiative of the couple.
Please, enlighten me with your vast wisdom
You don't have to come off as an arrogant prick. You're making this discussion unpleasant. If you would please enlighten me more on why you disagree without insults or asshatery, this would be a much more educational experience for both sides.
I said you cannot change sexual compatibility. You said you can "fix" it and you did not say how. I want you to tell me how you can "fix" sexual incompatibility.
You can work around it. It is not such a far fetched concept. I keep saying it all comes down to the communication and initiative of the couple but it really doesn't seem like you're reading what I'm saying. Yes, it's a big problem with a lot of relationships, but it can be fixed through communication between partners and so on and so forth. This falls into what I've been saying about people getting to know their spouses and themselves after their marriage rather than before.
In some cases yes, sexual frustrations can be worked out through communication. Often, actually. But what I am talking about is INCOMPATIBILITY. If your wife refuses to go down on you even though you do it for her when she asks, that is uncool and should be talked about. Sometimes it can be solved. I am not denying that, but when someone simply does not enjoy sex as much as you do, you are incompatible and it cannot be fixed or worked around because they will always see it as a chore and not enjoyable.
What I have been referring to this whole time is sexual incompatibility. What is your point?
Sexual incompatibility is a fixed thing. It cannot be changed, worked around or ignored.
End of story.
That's your opinion. I think it's an incorrect opinion as many people have worked around, and may even ignored sexual incompatibility. If you don't believe me, you can just look it up. Sexual incompatibility is a very common and major issue in marriage, but I think it is not as you describe. I don't know if you are speaking from personal experience or just assumptions, but either way, what I have read up on says otherwise. I'm not even sure you entirely understand what sexual incompatibility is at this point, but okay. You've shown your stance on the subject.
Sexual incompatibility is exactly what I described and I'm correct. You are wrong. This isn't just my opinion.
Please, describe it to me again, and if you are correct in what it is, then why would you say there is no way to get around it when so many people have?
Spoiler Not going to be able to reply for a while. Possibly not even until tomorrow.
The only "getting around it" depends on how much you put up with doing something you don't like. If that's what your marriage is, then good fucking luck, because you wont make it.
2423
« on: February 14, 2015, 07:25:32 PM »
This thread is awesome.
Yes. Yes it is. The only thing that kind of spoils it is people becoming more and more hostile as the discussion goes on. The insults and condescending attitudes only lessen my respect for other people.
That's because you're wrong.
Some people just aren't sexually compatible. Yeah, you can work on parts of it, but that work is going to change one or both of you. Sometimes compromise isn't possible.
That's why you work these things out before marriage.
Where are you getting this information? Experience or just your idea of how it would play out? I would like to know.
Experience.
There are women I have dated where we just didn't click sexually. A balance of emotional and sexual elements is important to having a healthy, well-rounded relationship. Too much of one and not enough of the other doesn't work.
I know some people aren't sexually compatible, but I've already said how I think people can get over than issue. Other than that, everything else you said is opinion based off of past experience and I can say nothing to change that. I don't know what happened to you, and that's where that line ends. The thing is, I believe there is always such a thing as compromise. There is always something people can do. Many times it may not be conventional at all and sometimes even mad freaky, but I believe there is always a solution.
And as I said, there's some things you just can't compromise on. If Partner A has a high libido and wants to have sex every day, and Partner B only wants to have sex every month or so, a compromise will make both uncomfortable and unhappy, which is a lose-lose.
That depends on what you consider a compromise.
Do you understand what compromising is? It's meeting someone halfway on something. In this situation, compromising would be having sex maybe once a week. That's less often than Partner A is comfortable with, and more often than Partner B is comfortable with, leaving nobody satisfied.
2424
« on: February 14, 2015, 07:18:43 PM »
This thread is awesome.
Yes. Yes it is. The only thing that kind of spoils it is people becoming more and more hostile as the discussion goes on. The insults and condescending attitudes only lessen my respect for other people.
That's because you're wrong.
Some people just aren't sexually compatible. Yeah, you can work on parts of it, but that work is going to change one or both of you. Sometimes compromise isn't possible.
That's why you work these things out before marriage.
Where are you getting this information? Experience or just your idea of how it would play out? I would like to know.
Experience.
There are women I have dated where we just didn't click sexually. A balance of emotional and sexual elements is important to having a healthy, well-rounded relationship. Too much of one and not enough of the other doesn't work.
I know some people aren't sexually compatible, but I've already said how I think people can get over than issue. Other than that, everything else you said is opinion based off of past experience and I can say nothing to change that. I don't know what happened to you, and that's where that line ends. The thing is, I believe there is always such a thing as compromise. There is always something people can do. Many times it may not be conventional at all and sometimes even mad freaky, but I believe there is always a solution.
And as I said, there's some things you just can't compromise on. If Partner A has a high libido and wants to have sex every day, and Partner B only wants to have sex every month or so, a compromise will make both uncomfortable and unhappy, which is a lose-lose.
2425
« on: February 14, 2015, 07:15:48 PM »
Yes. I vote in everything I can.
2426
« on: February 14, 2015, 07:10:35 PM »
This thread is awesome.
Yes. Yes it is. The only thing that kind of spoils it is people becoming more and more hostile as the discussion goes on. The insults and condescending attitudes only lessen my respect for other people.
That's because you're wrong.
Some people just aren't sexually compatible. Yeah, you can work on parts of it, but that work is going to change one or both of you. Sometimes compromise isn't possible.
That's why you work these things out before marriage.
Where are you getting this information? Experience or just your idea of how it would play out? I would like to know.
Experience. There are women I have dated where we just didn't click sexually. A balance of emotional and sexual elements is important to having a healthy, well-rounded relationship. Too much of one and not enough of the other doesn't work.
2427
« on: February 14, 2015, 07:07:31 PM »
Also, why do people think that waiting until marriage is ridiculous? Don't you want to be able to say that you were the only one who has fucked your spouse and that no else has ever touched them, and vice versa? Isn't that something special? Something to be proud of? And don't give me all that, "Well it's boring. I need some variety." bullshit. If your sex life with your spouse is boring well than that's your fault. Your sex life would be boring because you'd suck due to no experience.
A lot of marriages end because they're either sexually incompatible or just flat out suck dick in bed, y'know.
So yes, reserving yourself until you're married is ridiculous.
Marrying or divorcing someone based on sexual performance is ridiculous.
Sexual compatibility is extremely important
Define "sexual compatibility".
>compatible libidos
>willingness to satisfy each other sexually
>sexual attraction towards each other
>accepting of fetishes, kinks, boundaries, etc.
These are things you have to find out before marriage. Sex is an important part of a relationship. That doesn't mean you have to have sex all the time. Some people don't like sex as much as others, that's fine, but if you have a low libido or NO libido and you're with someone who loves sex and wants it frequently, you WILL have problems.
>compatible libidos
>willingness to satisfy each other sexually
>sexual attraction towards each other
>accepting of fetishes, kinks, boundaries, etc.
None of these things are things that cannot be fixed after marriage. It all comes down to initiative that a couple has to work out their sexual relationship.
I would like you to ask an asexual if they think they can change.
People do not change like that. It doesn't happen. To think it does is stupid and naive.
I said fix, not change. That suggests other ways to solve the problem. You can work your way around sexual incompatibility. It is a stumbling block, but not something that cannot be solved. Like I said, It all depends on the initiative of the couple.
Please, enlighten me with your vast wisdom
You don't have to come off as an arrogant prick. You're making this discussion unpleasant. If you would please enlighten me more on why you disagree without insults or asshatery, this would be a much more educational experience for both sides.
I said you cannot change sexual compatibility. You said you can "fix" it and you did not say how. I want you to tell me how you can "fix" sexual incompatibility.
Well that doesn't matter because forcing your wife to have sex with you isn't rape.
2428
« on: February 14, 2015, 07:06:47 PM »
This thread is awesome.
Yes. Yes it is. The only thing that kind of spoils it is people becoming more and more hostile as the discussion goes on. The insults and condescending attitudes only lessen my respect for other people.
That's because you're wrong. Some people just aren't sexually compatible. Yeah, you can work on parts of it, but that work is going to change one or both of you. Sometimes compromise isn't possible. That's why you work these things out before marriage.
2429
« on: February 14, 2015, 06:58:55 PM »
This thread is awesome.
2430
« on: February 14, 2015, 06:42:25 PM »
I'm interested to see the story behind why he changes his name.
I like the show so far.
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