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Messages - RomanGladiator
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« on: August 06, 2016, 02:22:46 PM »
I would take 2, with the fallback being Kmart and subbing.
Trust me, I worked for UPS for 2 years. Being a drone is the worst work ever. Mindless boring ass work sucks.
I know it sucks and is a mindless drone, but on average I made $250 a week at KMart, and I got six sub calls in a whole year. This assembly is $500 a week.
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« on: August 06, 2016, 02:17:44 PM »
I am being more restrained with her than I have with other girls in the past, haven't texted since Thursday.
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« on: August 06, 2016, 02:15:33 PM »
And why exactly wouldnt you do the teaching job
I would do it, but in the real world just because you interview for something doesn't mean you're automatically going to get it. Interview is on Tuesday.
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« on: August 06, 2016, 08:44:57 AM »
The teaching job has room for growth. Even with no college degree there's a lot of things you can do at schools or the education system in general.
I know, I just need a job, period. So I need kind of a backup plan. If I do substitute teaching, it's no guaranteed everyday, that's the thing. Trying to find more things in the education system.
my mom was a substitute teacher for years. It's NOT a reliable Job at all unless you get a permanent position at the school
Which is what I interviewed for last week, and did not get. The only thing working at Kmart allows me to do is also have a few sub days a week and be flexible, because it is part-time. I have my own tutoring ad listed in the paper, but no calls yet. That can be on top of any job I get, but it's a chance. The manufacturing job will not be enjoyable....but idk anymore. I'm worried about what girls will think too when I'm working a blue-collar job.
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« on: August 06, 2016, 08:13:59 AM »
The teaching job has room for growth. Even with no college degree there's a lot of things you can do at schools or the education system in general.
I know, I just need a job, period. So I need kind of a backup plan. If I do substitute teaching, it's no guaranteed everyday, that's the thing. Trying to find more things in the education system.
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« on: August 06, 2016, 06:59:09 AM »
The teaching job is the best choice due to you making more money the the other options.
It's less than assembly if you do the math, but that does not bother me, because it would be much more enjoyable. It's not guaranteed that I will get it, but I'm really hoping I do. I guess the assembly is the backup for that.
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« on: August 06, 2016, 06:00:04 AM »
So, as you probably know, unemployed for three months. Here's my current options
1. Electrical assembly making light fixtures. I interviewed there Friday. It's okay, it';s just being a drone, and it's not something that requires a degree. $12.50 an hour, $100 a day, $2,000 a month. Most likely I would be miserable, so this would just be for the money. I have a second "work-interview" with them on Wednesday.
2. Yesterday I just got called to see if I was interested in being a school paraprofessional for 2nd and 3rd graders, group tutoring, and helping them with reading skills. $16.58/hr, 9-2:30. This is more for me than assembly, and I have an interview Tuesday. It might be special needs students too, but that doesn't matter. I have a feeling that I want to help, and when I pulled into the driveway for the assembly job, I just had this sinking feeling that it was not for me.
3. Go back to K-Mart. Guaranteed 25 hours a week at the least, maybe 30. $250 a week on average, then be on the substitute teaching list and hopefully get two days a week, so $85 x 2=170. I do like substitute teaching. I also have my own ad in the paper for independent tutoring I can also do, depending if I get the calls.
I feel like I'm going crazy, I don't want to do some mindless assembly job. Even Kmart might be better because you're not confined to one single room for eight hours, but I'd be making significantly less. And also, say I get hired for the assembly, but then get hired for the teaching job, I can quit after a week or less right?
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« on: August 04, 2016, 04:51:05 PM »
how tall is she and how much does she weigh?
5'6" and don't know.
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« on: August 04, 2016, 04:46:41 PM »
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« on: August 04, 2016, 04:31:54 PM »
She said busy all this weekend but "okay" for sometime next week. And I will leave it at that, I have another interview tomorrow and will try to enjoy myself and resist the urge to text her. It's always the blondes that get me... 
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« on: August 04, 2016, 09:01:32 AM »
I never talked about being exclusive with her or wanting an instant relationship. Hell we made out the first date...I don't know. I like this girl and want to see her again. Haven't texted her since yesterday morning. If there was a way to make a woman want you, I wish I knew.
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« on: August 03, 2016, 07:07:52 PM »
Daily reminder that none of this is real.
It is.
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« on: August 03, 2016, 05:03:37 PM »
I just feel really shitty and don't know what to do
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« on: August 03, 2016, 02:27:11 PM »
Do you guys think it's because at the time we met, I didn't have a job? She knows I've been out of work for three months and i feel like askjing her if that's the reason why. She probably thinks I sit on my ass on the computer all day and plsay video games...I kind of do. I've been trying my best.
Yeah definitely ask her this
And then quickly write a follow up message telling her the NEET life chose you
I've applied for over twenty teaching positions this summer, and countless other things. I don't need you to make me feel like I'm worth less than other people.
being a NEET is GOAT tbh
For a little while it is, but then you realize you're not doing anything with your life. That's why I put an add in the paper for my own independent tutoring; because I just had enough of staying in the house.
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« on: August 03, 2016, 01:41:07 PM »
Do you guys think it's because at the time we met, I didn't have a job? She knows I've been out of work for three months and i feel like askjing her if that's the reason why. She probably thinks I sit on my ass on the computer all day and plsay video games...I kind of do. I've been trying my best.
Yeah definitely ask her this
And then quickly write a follow up message telling her the NEET life chose you
I've applied for over twenty teaching positions this summer, and countless other things. I don't need you to make me feel like I'm worth less than other people.
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« on: August 03, 2016, 01:33:03 PM »
Dude.
I've told you before, calm down with the whole exclusive relationship thing. Just let it happen. You do pretty good in attracting women you like. They see something there in you. It's happened a few times now where you get clingy and spook them off. Just have fun and see where things go.
That's what I was doing with this one...taking it slow.
From what you responded to others, it sounds like you were pushing for more actual dates. That means spending an increased amount of time. Women notice that. She did.
Tell her that you've been burned too, and you didn't think they were dates. Just hanging out. You run the risk of the friend zone, but you have little to lose at this point.
Then have a few events where your friends are there too. Tell her she's welcome to invite hers too. Now the risk is that she'll like a friend more than you.
Then build on that. Or walk away and find another. That may be easier
All I said is I wanted to see her again, and we vaguely made plans. I don't know what to say to her now. She just said she's not ready to date, and all I can think about is trying to figure out what I did wrong.
You tried to date a woman who just got out of a four year relationship.
Just hang around, once she gets enough dick thrown off in her she'll be looking for a guy to spend time with exclusively.
I was aware of her situation, I just fell for her. So what do you suggest? Completely avoiding her for a few weeks than reaching out? I want this woman, it was just bad timing.
Kinda what I already said, hang around. Continue talking to her and seeing her on occasion but don't put any pressure on the relationship aspect. Be her friend.
If she wants to pursue a relationship afterwards she'll let you know.
I asked her if she wanted to see a movie this weekend, I really didn't get a definite answer.
And I just got an email saying I didn't get that teaching job...I'm really frustrated today. Should I tell her I didn't get the job?
You don't know each other like that yet. Just keep cool, wait for her to text you.
Go do something else to take your mind off of it.
I've got the perfect thing, seeing my urologist for the third time this summer. And I went to the library to get a new Stephen King book...I want at least one thing to work out for me in my life, but it seems like it never does. If I can't get the job I at least want the girl, and vice versa.
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« on: August 03, 2016, 01:28:37 PM »
Dude.
I've told you before, calm down with the whole exclusive relationship thing. Just let it happen. You do pretty good in attracting women you like. They see something there in you. It's happened a few times now where you get clingy and spook them off. Just have fun and see where things go.
That's what I was doing with this one...taking it slow.
From what you responded to others, it sounds like you were pushing for more actual dates. That means spending an increased amount of time. Women notice that. She did.
Tell her that you've been burned too, and you didn't think they were dates. Just hanging out. You run the risk of the friend zone, but you have little to lose at this point.
Then have a few events where your friends are there too. Tell her she's welcome to invite hers too. Now the risk is that she'll like a friend more than you.
Then build on that. Or walk away and find another. That may be easier
All I said is I wanted to see her again, and we vaguely made plans. I don't know what to say to her now. She just said she's not ready to date, and all I can think about is trying to figure out what I did wrong.
You tried to date a woman who just got out of a four year relationship.
Just hang around, once she gets enough dick thrown off in her she'll be looking for a guy to spend time with exclusively.
I was aware of her situation, I just fell for her. So what do you suggest? Completely avoiding her for a few weeks than reaching out? I want this woman, it was just bad timing.
Kinda what I already said, hang around. Continue talking to her and seeing her on occasion but don't put any pressure on the relationship aspect. Be her friend.
If she wants to pursue a relationship afterwards she'll let you know.
I asked her if she wanted to see a movie this weekend, I really didn't get a definite answer. And I just got an email saying I didn't get that teaching job...I'm really frustrated today. Should I tell her I didn't get the job?
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« on: August 03, 2016, 12:06:28 PM »
Do you guys think it's because at the time we met, I didn't have a job? She knows I've been out of work for three months and i feel like askjing her if that's the reason why. She probably thinks I sit on my ass on the computer all day and plsay video games...I kind of do. I've been trying my best.
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« on: August 03, 2016, 11:49:37 AM »
No, just keep spending time with her. Going dark is what I would do. If you are ever in a situation where you don't know what to do, just think "What would Ian do?" and then do the exact opposite of what I would do.
I was aware of her situation, I just fell for her. So what do you suggest? Completely avoiding her for a few weeks than reaching out? I want this woman, it was just bad timing. I don't think she wants to see me again, even after I said it can be just friends. I suggested seeing a movie this weekend, she said sure, let me check my schedule when I get home, which is what she did when I originally asked for tonight for our second time meeting.
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« on: August 03, 2016, 11:30:13 AM »
Dude.
I've told you before, calm down with the whole exclusive relationship thing. Just let it happen. You do pretty good in attracting women you like. They see something there in you. It's happened a few times now where you get clingy and spook them off. Just have fun and see where things go.
That's what I was doing with this one...taking it slow.
From what you responded to others, it sounds like you were pushing for more actual dates. That means spending an increased amount of time. Women notice that. She did.
Tell her that you've been burned too, and you didn't think they were dates. Just hanging out. You run the risk of the friend zone, but you have little to lose at this point.
Then have a few events where your friends are there too. Tell her she's welcome to invite hers too. Now the risk is that she'll like a friend more than you.
Then build on that. Or walk away and find another. That may be easier
All I said is I wanted to see her again, and we vaguely made plans. I don't know what to say to her now. She just said she's not ready to date, and all I can think about is trying to figure out what I did wrong.
You tried to date a woman who just got out of a four year relationship.
Just hang around, once she gets enough dick thrown off in her she'll be looking for a guy to spend time with exclusively.
I was aware of her situation, I just fell for her. So what do you suggest? Completely avoiding her for a few weeks than reaching out? I want this woman, it was just bad timing.
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« on: August 03, 2016, 11:22:52 AM »
Dude.
I've told you before, calm down with the whole exclusive relationship thing. Just let it happen. You do pretty good in attracting women you like. They see something there in you. It's happened a few times now where you get clingy and spook them off. Just have fun and see where things go.
That's what I was doing with this one...taking it slow.
From what you responded to others, it sounds like you were pushing for more actual dates. That means spending an increased amount of time. Women notice that. She did.
Tell her that you've been burned too, and you didn't think they were dates. Just hanging out. You run the risk of the friend zone, but you have little to lose at this point.
Then have a few events where your friends are there too. Tell her she's welcome to invite hers too. Now the risk is that she'll like a friend more than you.
Then build on that. Or walk away and find another. That may be easier
All I said is I wanted to see her again, and we vaguely made plans. I don't know what to say to her now. She just said she's not ready to date, and all I can think about is trying to figure out what I did wrong.
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« on: August 03, 2016, 10:33:05 AM »
Dude.
I've told you before, calm down with the whole exclusive relationship thing. Just let it happen. You do pretty good in attracting women you like. They see something there in you. It's happened a few times now where you get clingy and spook them off. Just have fun and see where things go.
That's what I was doing with this one...taking it slow.
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« on: August 03, 2016, 10:00:41 AM »
So now this morning she said she's not ready to date because she just got out of a four year relationship. I'm very sad now.
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« on: August 03, 2016, 06:37:21 AM »
So she cancelled on me for tonight because she has to dog sit.
I asked last night: Any other day this week you can do?
Her: I'm at work, let me check when I get home.
Okay.
Her: thanks.
This was at 1 pm and I haven't heard back. What do?
I want to take her to dinner and see Suicide Squad this weekend.
Be patient. Give her time. My friend dog sits and she stays the night at the owner's house with the dog, and this girl might be doing the same thing.
Ok. I'm just mushy for her already...when we met sex with her was the farthest thing from my mind. I just really liked spending time with her. She's a nerd like me. Ugh I think she's perfect. She hasn't been texting me as frequently as she has before we met though. But now I'm not browsing Tinder or other dating apps like I used to while I was still dating someone, I just want her.
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« on: August 03, 2016, 05:17:08 AM »
So she cancelled on me for tonight because she has to dog sit.
I asked last night: Any other day this week you can do?
Her: I'm at work, let me check when I get home.
Okay.
Her: thanks.
This was at 1 pm and I haven't heard back. What do?
I want to take her to dinner and see Suicide Squad this weekend.
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« on: August 02, 2016, 03:41:25 PM »
imagine a group of astronauts embark on a 1000 year long trip to alpha centauri, and when they return the earth is populated only by millions of exact biological clones of roman.
Well, everyone would be extremely good looking, at least. And in good physical shape.
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« on: August 02, 2016, 09:40:01 AM »
I can't wait to see how this unfolds. Don't take her hiking though, heavy girls rarely like walking.
She's really sweet, why does it matter she's a little heavy? She's got the cutest little face I've ever seen. And she's a volunteer EMT.
I'm not saying there's anything wrong with her being heavy, just that she probably doesn't enjoy walking.
On her Tinder profile she said she's likes hikes...she used to ride horses in competitions too. She's active, and the all around great American blonde girl. Smarter than me. I feel lucky.
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« on: August 02, 2016, 08:35:47 AM »
I can't wait to see how this unfolds. Don't take her hiking though, heavy girls rarely like walking.
She's really sweet, why does it matter she's a little heavy? She's got the cutest little face I've ever seen. And she's a volunteer EMT.
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« on: August 02, 2016, 06:52:22 AM »
Roman, ignore the haters. I'm seriously glad you're in a good place now.
To your question, if she knows you're at your parents' house, then she'll be ok with meeting at hers. Don't introduce her until the fifth or sixth date.
But she lives with the parents too...I guess if I put myself in that situation, I'd be nervous about meeting hers so soon. We really want to hang out and watch a movie, but it's a little early for introductions. Wednesday I'm going to ask if she wants to go to a diner for dinner, then ice cream. Over the weekend I'll ask if she wants to see Suicide Squad with a group of my friends. I'm trying to be very delicate with this situation, seeing as she was just seeing someone for four years until recently.
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« on: August 01, 2016, 08:12:17 PM »
What is a good idea to do for the second time we meet? Initially I wanted her to come over to watch a movie, but that would entail meeting my parents. We've only met once, and it was an unusual date. We kind of made out in my car for hours and talked, but kept our boundaries too. She just got out of a four year relationship; the day we met she was moving things out of her ex's place. She says she's not sure what she wants. Okay, I'd love a relationship with this girl, but because of her situation, I said I'm not sure either when I was asked. Even if she was over, I wouldn't want to even make it to third base because I respect her and like her that much. For Wednesday I think dinner at a small diner, an ice cream place, and maybe even hiking.
hiking, she probably needs the exercise, knowing your standards
She's chubby, but the best looking girl I've met so far. Once I get to know her more, I can post one. She's 5'6", blue eyes, blonde curly hair.
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