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« on: December 07, 2016, 10:00:37 PM »
Here's a simple math problem/complex thought experiment:
If you've learned and retained basic calculus, this will come easily. If not, try to think through it (incorrect answers are better than none).
There are two stations, and two trains. They will be traveling the same distance.
Train A is travelling through station 1 at the same time B is leaving. It does not accelerate, but cruises through at a constant speed to station 2. ( v = c, a=0)
Train B leaves station 1, accelerates uniformly (no jerk or friction to account for), and as it arrives at station 2 its velocity is exactly twice that of Train A. (v_i = 0, a = ?, v_f =2c)
Who arrives at the station first?
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« on: December 04, 2016, 08:59:20 AM »
Another semi-review. Up front, on everybody's favorite objective rating scale: 4/10. A 7/10 film would be an enjoyable, above-average experience.
Eddie Redmayne portrays a nobody textbook writer from an actually good series of films/movies. He does this by assuming the character, Newt Scamander, is overtly autistic. This isn't a quirky, shy Brit -- it's a guy that fails to make eye contact relentlessly, often leaves the dialog hanging in awkward silence, and has much more affinity for animals than people (and women, especially). He's also mind-blowingly incompetent, and allows his titular beasts to escape on two separate occasions (mostly just to give the plot some momentum, not for any particular story reason), and all of them exist not to be fleshed out or interesting pieces of the universe, but basically as whacky tools for fighting people.
The characters are all pretty bad. You know you're in trouble as a director when your best character relies on a horny-fat-guy cliche, by Dan Fogler. Colin Farrell's character could have been good, but the need to turn him into a """surprise""" villain in the end didn't do him justice, and also replaced the character's actor, inexplicably, to Johnny Depp. I'm sure audiences will just love the tropey "quirky hot woman immediately falls in love with dumb fat guy" plotline.
The plot basically doesn't exist until the last 15 minutes, and it's far and away the worst in the Harry Potter series. Hold on tight for some heavyhanded gay/POC oppression symbolism and a "twist" JKR probably thought was just the bee's knees.
The music is also almost nonexistent, and while I appreciate when movies don't use music as a crutch to tell the audience what to feel (perfectly executed in Arrival, which has no soundtrack barring the intro and outro music), this just superimposed generic adventure music in lieu of iconic Harry Potter music.
Unless you're a HP superfan, you should wait to see this until you're swiping through Redbox on a quiet Tuesday night.
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« on: December 03, 2016, 06:34:51 PM »
He called wildlife services and said, "I just found a suitcase with a fox and three cubs while walking in the park." The lady on the phone said, "wow, that's awful, those poor little foxes. Are they moving?" He replied, "I'm not sure to be honest, but that would explain the suitcase."
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« on: December 01, 2016, 07:52:42 PM »
Suicide Squad meets Mission Impossible I don't even know why they rebooted such a good series instead of just starting an original IP. Oh wait, because it's the first move in the Universal Monsters shared cinematic universe.
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« on: November 15, 2016, 10:59:46 AM »
Must buy, or wait for sale?
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« on: November 14, 2016, 01:14:55 PM »
tl;dr pregnant lady hits me while I'm turning left, she pulls out some BS in court and I get found guilty, and now she's claiming that she had labor induced because of the accident and that I should pay her hospital bills.
She was very far along in her pregnancy, and she vehemently denied needing to go to the emergency room at the scene. I think she went home and just figured she could get her bills taken care of. My insurance guy says he's never seen someone have to pay for a baby delivery because the accident didn't cause her pregnancy, but these guys seem pretty good at manipulating shit.
Am I fucked?
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« on: November 13, 2016, 11:54:52 AM »
Full article here: http://www.city-journal.org/html/chicago-blood-14773.htmlBy early September, homicides in Chicago for 2016 were up 47 percent over the same period of 2015, a year in which crime was already up significantly over 2014; nonfatal shootings were also up 47 percent. On Labor Day, nine people were killed, completing a holiday weekend tally of 13 shooting fatalities and 51 nonfatal shooting victims. “There is no way out of this shooting spree,” Angelo said. His despair is understandable because Chicago is the country’s most glaring example of what I have called the “Ferguson effect.” Chicago officers have cut back dramatically on proactive policing, under the onslaught of criticism from the Black Lives Matter movement and its political and media enablers. Pedestrian stops in Chicago dropped 82 percent through September 27, 2016, compared with the same period in 2015. The cops are “driving by people on the corners,” Angelo tells me. “They’re not sweeping the corners clean any more.” As a result of this drop in discretionary enforcement, criminals are back in control and black lives are being lost at a rate not seen for decades. (...) Further discouraging stop activity in Chicago is a misguided agreement signed in 2015 between the Illinois ACLU and the former police superintendent, mandating that all stop forms filled out by Chicago officers be forwarded for review to the ACLU, an organization not known for its unbiased evaluations of police activity. Also contributing to Chicago de-policing is the backlash from city hall’s mishandling of the unjustified fatal police shooting of Laquan McDonald in October 2014. (...) But neither Johnson’s lax gun-sentencing explanation for the Chicago violence surge nor the media’s poverty-and-systemic-injustice explanation gets the timing right. Chicago’s violent crime started rising sharply in 2015 and continued into 2016. Sentencing protocols didn’t weaken in late 2014; gangbangers with guns got the same criminal-justice treatment before violence started rising as after. Nor did poverty or alleged racism worsen after late 2014. What did change was the intensity of antipolice ideology, driven by the Black Lives Matter movement, relentlessly amplified by the press, and echoed by President Obama. Of course there are socioeconomic issues that may reduce crime in areas like this farther down the road, but railroading police into not doing their jobs has had a much more immediate negative impact.
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« on: November 13, 2016, 10:07:06 AM »
Preface: I don't support Trump, but clarifying widespread misinformation should be seen as politically neutral. http://www.snopes.com/mike-pence-supported-gay-conversion-therapy/The allegation dates back to 2000, when Pence was running for Congress. His campaign web site at the time touted his call to add a stipulation to the Ryan White Comprehensive AIDS Resources Emergency (CARE) Act, a 1990 law providing funding for HIV/AIDS treatment for patients living with the disease lacking either the income or the necessary insurance to pay for it on their own:
Congress should support the reauthorization of the Ryan White Care Act only after completion of an audit to ensure that federal dollars were no longer being given to organizations that celebrate and encourage the types of behaviors that facilitate the spreading of the HIV virus. Resources should be directed toward those institutions which provide assistance to those seeking to change their sexual behavior. AKA, wearing condoms and limiting the number of sexual partners, which should be recognized as basic sexual health education, which some clinics do fail to provide.
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« on: November 11, 2016, 09:58:30 AM »
http://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2016/11/07/the-case-against-democracyA lengthy essay detailing various modern theories about democracy, representation, and the duty of voting. This will take around ten minutes to read, and I encourage you to read it in its entirety. But maybe voting is neither commons nor market. Perhaps, instead, it’s combat. Relatively gentle, of course. Rather than rifles and bayonets, essentially there’s just a show of hands. But the nature of the duty may be similar, because what Brennan’s model omits is that sometimes, in an election, democracy itself is in danger. If a soldier were to calculate his personal value to the campaign that his army is engaged in, he could easily conclude that the cost of showing up at the front isn’t worth it, even if he factors in the chance of being caught and punished for desertion. The trouble is that it’s impossible to know in advance of a battle which side will prevail, let alone by how great a margin, especially if morale itself is a variable. The lack of certainty about the future makes a hash of merely prudential calculation. It’s said that most soldiers worry more about letting down the fellow-soldiers in their unit than about allegiance to an entity as abstract as the nation, and maybe voters, too, feel their duty most acutely toward friends and family who share their idea of where the country needs to go.
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« on: November 07, 2016, 06:04:58 PM »
Been watching some British television lately -- Luther, Broadchurch, Sherlock, Office, etc. Everything's so dark and depressing. Now I need you to answer honestly, Britain: is something wrong? Are you thinking about hurting yourself?
Everyone cares about you so much, Britain -- especially your pal America. We just want to make sure you're okay.
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« on: November 06, 2016, 05:38:26 PM »
A complex question with good arguments on both sides. Keep in mind that less than 10% of northerners were truly in favor of freeing slaves -- the attempt to ban slavery from the North was largely an attempt to keep blacks out -- and that the Civil War was not fought over the issue. These days, extremists on the right foam at the mouth at the thought of a violent revolution, and it's not unfair to say their parallels on the left don't feel the same over different ethics. Spoiler Entire essays can be (and have been) published about this, but I argue that they were free citizens asserting a Constitutional right and defended several important governmental premises -- namely, the enumeration of power among the states and the decentralization of federal influence.
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« on: November 06, 2016, 11:49:07 AM »
Who's played it yet? I completely forgot it came out last week, and I'll be picking it up later today.
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« on: November 06, 2016, 09:01:31 AM »
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« on: November 04, 2016, 11:04:28 PM »
Saw this premise in a crappy online article, and I'll excise the garbage and pose the question, which I haven't given much thought yet. Specifically it was regarding the casting of cis men in roles of transwomen in film.
I'd ask that you post a response more thoughtful than "yes" or "no", and try to give an insightful answer to a shallow question.
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« on: November 03, 2016, 06:01:02 PM »
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« on: November 03, 2016, 04:55:30 PM »
A fine way to declutter your desk, or a bitch slap in the face to your friends and family?
Because I have a stack of cards sitting here, just begging to be trashed.
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« on: November 03, 2016, 10:18:28 AM »
I'm surprised such a controversial issue hasn't been discussed here yet, so I'm doing it now. Here is a rough description of events, but tl;dr version is that an oil pipeline has been constructed through the midwest and is approximately 60% complete. The final chokepoint lies near an Iowan Sioux reservation. Initially, the tribe was offered $15M to have the pipeline go directly through the reservation; they countered with an offer for $50M, and so it was decided that it should go through a nearby utility corridor located on private property and already contains numerous other utility lines including gas and eight oil pipelines. The tribe claims this presents a threat to their water supply, despite the fact that pipelines are significantly safer than transportation by train, and this pipeline would drastically reduce the potential for spillage in the routed states. The tribe also claims this endangers important cultural sites, despite no evidence that this is true and the fact that numerous studies have been done for this pipeline, in addition to the numerous other utilities lines and pipelines going through the same corridor decades ago. In addition, protests have been far from peaceful, with barricades constructed of burning tires, National Guard vehicles burned, and journalists have been threatened. Do you believe the protests have merit?
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« on: November 02, 2016, 08:26:02 PM »
It's a solid show that I recently caught up with. It's a modern take on anthology series like Twilight Zone. When it's not beating you over the head with morals about overconsumption of social media and entertainment, it can be a compelling and original. My only complaint is that the endings of the episodes tend to be letdowns or predictable, and largely unsatisfying, but it's worth checking out on Netflix if you're not feeling particularly suicidal.
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« on: November 02, 2016, 07:37:42 PM »
http://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/2016/october-web-only/speak-truth-to-trump.html?start=2This past week, the latest (though surely not last) revelations from Trump’s past have caused many evangelical leaders to reconsider. This is heartening, but it comes awfully late. What Trump is, everyone has known and has been able to see for decades, let alone the last few months. The revelations of the past week of his vile and crude boasting about sexual conquest—indeed, sexual assault—might have been shocking, but they should have surprised no one.
Indeed, there is hardly any public person in America today who has more exemplified the “earthly nature” (“flesh” in the King James and the literal Greek) that Paul urges the Colossians to shed: “sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires, and greed, which is idolatry” (3:5). This is an incredibly apt summary of Trump’s life to date. Idolatry, greed, and sexual immorality are intertwined in individual lives and whole societies. Sexuality is designed to be properly ordered within marriage, a relationship marked by covenant faithfulness and profound self-giving and sacrifice. To indulge in sexual immorality is to make oneself and one’s desires an idol. That Trump has been, his whole adult life, an idolater of this sort, and a singularly unrepentant one, should have been clear to everyone.
And therefore it is completely consistent that Trump is an idolater in many other ways. He has given no evidence of humility or dependence on others, let alone on God his Maker and Judge. He wantonly celebrates strongmen and takes every opportunity to humiliate and demean the vulnerable. He shows no curiosity or capacity to learn. He is, in short, the very embodiment of what the Bible calls a fool.
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Most Christians who support Trump have done so with reluctant strategic calculation, largely based on the president’s power to appoint members of the Supreme Court. Important issues are indeed at stake, including the right of Christians and adherents of other religions to uphold their vision of sexual integrity and marriage even if they are in the cultural minority.
But there is a point at which strategy becomes its own form of idolatry—an attempt to manipulate the levers of history in favor of the causes we support. Strategy becomes idolatry, for ancient Israel and for us today, when we make alliances with those who seem to offer strength—the chariots of Egypt, the vassal kings of Rome—at the expense of our dependence on God who judges all nations, and in defiance of God’s manifest concern for the stranger, the widow, the orphan, and the oppressed. Strategy becomes idolatry when we betray our deepest values in pursuit of earthly influence. And because such strategy requires capitulating to idols and princes and denying the true God, it ultimately always fails.
Enthusiasm for a candidate like Trump gives our neighbors ample reason to doubt that we believe Jesus is Lord. They see that some of us are so self-interested, and so self-protective, that we will ally ourselves with someone who violates all that is sacred to us—in hope, almost certainly a vain hope given his mendacity and record of betrayal, that his rule will save us.
A solid article that anyone voting from an ethical standard can relate to, especially if they are considering voting for Trump to toe the party line. Personally, I can't accept the benefits of Supreme Court nominations and potentially superior foreign policy over supporting such a contemptible person that seems completely unprepared to lead and represent the country.
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« on: November 01, 2016, 06:32:50 PM »
A trailer for a trailer, but it at least gives a bit of a timeline. Happy N7 Day!
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« on: October 27, 2016, 04:50:20 PM »
Looking at 6 cars at three dealerships. I've got KBB, NADA, and Edmunds prices printed for each. My offers are 2% above trade-in value, and I'm pre-approved for a loan. Post some last minute tips, because I'm still probably gonna get assfucked.
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« on: October 26, 2016, 06:37:21 PM »
So on one hand, Richmond, VA was the capital of the Confederate Army.
On the other hand, it's composed of 80% white Cali-wannabees that can't cook a grit for shit.
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« on: October 23, 2016, 07:53:49 PM »
...but I guess we'll find out about the show soon.
Who's watching Walking Dead tonight?
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« on: October 23, 2016, 03:52:53 PM »
https://medium.com/the-curious-civilian/admit-it-the-clinton-email-controversy-bothers-you-yet-you-dont-actually-know-what-the-clinton-511dc1659eda#.3wvsl17onWhere Did Hillary Clinton’s Email Server Come From?
Like most things bad in Hillary Clinton’s life, the email problem can be traced back to her husband, former President Bill Clinton.
Post-presidency, Bill Clinton had an email server set up in their Chappaqua, New York, home to handle the communication needs of their foundations and other post-White House affairs. They felt that it was more reliable if they controlled their own server (which few would argue was a bad idea). An aide to President Clinton, Justin Cooper, set up the first email server on an old Apple computer in their basement, and away this whole thing went.
Hillary Clinton, still senator and running for president, was generally doing her email on a Blackberry with an address she got from AT&T. If you think this is silly, remember that people like Colin Powell were emailing on AOL accounts — but more on that later.
Recently sworn in as Secretary of State, Hillary Clinton decided to move from her AT&T account to the family server, which honestly, makes a lot of sense. If you had access to email that worked on whatever device you wanted to check it on, had near-perfect uptime, was siloed, and had support you knew personally (and could contact at any time), wouldn’t you consider using your own server too? When Hillary Clinton became Secretary of State, the server was in the process of being updated by Bryan Pagliano, who was recommended by Huma Abedin (Clinton’s longtime aide who many consider her closest). Within a few months (from January, to March 2009), Clinton and her staff were migrated to this server (clintonemail.com), doing work for the State Department. tl;dr The Clintons had a private email server set up by their personal friend, and that was convenient for unofficial use. She became SoS, and they moved to the private server, in her home. For anyone dealing with classified material, this is completely inappropriate. My classified shit is kept in a locked safe in a locked room in a locked hall of a locked building in a base with controlled access, not in the bag I take home every night. Doing so is a federal crime, and I would immediately lose my clearance and would have no future in the defense industry or public service, not even mentioning the potential for criminal consequences. So all of the government’s most private secrets were being funneled through a private server in Chappaqua? Lock her up!
In a word, no.
While some classified information passed through Clinton’s servers, email isn’t generally the place where state secrets and strategies are talked about. For that, Clinton used secure methods like SCIFs, couriers, and other approved forms of transmission. And while classified messages did go through her private server, the hard truth is that the vast majority of them were classified after the fact.
Classification is a strange beast in the government, and the rules aren’t exactly clear-cut. Classification, for the most part, is governed by a small set of guidelines, with human judgment being the most important criteria (if you want to really know more about the subject, check out this and this guide from the government itself — and be sure to enjoy the Microsoft Office clipart). The reasoning for classification doesn’t always have to be a great one— simply wanting to have something classified will generally do. In an age where terrorism and national security are such critical issues, you can imagine that more information than necessary might be considered sensitive, which has actually led to a major problem in over-classification.
Does this forgive Clinton for having any classified data on her server? No. But she also wasn’t actively trying to use her email for that purpose, and she followed proper state guidelines with information she knew was sensitive. This is a whole lot of explanation that basically attempts to excuse illegal control of classified material. Even unclassified material, when combined with other unclassified material, may become classified. As Secretary of State, it's a very safe assumption that anything she does through official correspondence should be considered potentially confidential or secret. So level with me. How many classified emails went through this server?
2093.
2093? Holy shit.
Hold on, that’s 2093 out of 62,320.
Still a lot.
Yes, but out of that 2093, only 110 were classified at the time. 0.17%, or just under two-tenths of a percent.
Still kinda bad that it was on a private server.
Yeah, pretty much, but look at it this way. Even if she used a state account, that percentage would be identical, and state accounts are not immune to security breaches. While hosting it on her own server wasn’t the smartest move by Clinton, you can hardly call it malice. It makes James Comey’s conclusion, which was that “no reasonable prosecutor” would bring a case against Clinton, seem perfectly sound. There’s really nothing there.
Yeah, but some classified information being shared is disastrous, right?
Maybe, but Clinton wasn’t even close to being alone. The Washington Post reported in 2015 that one in three government employees were using personal email addresses to conduct business. This quote from the article (emphasis mine) really illustrates where the security/convenience issue breaks down:
“The record keeping rules are unfortunately not known by everyone at an agency,” he said. And the flexibility of telework makes it easier for employees to skip the step of signing into a government account remotely if using, say, Gmail is simpler.”
The sad truth is that security isn’t a sure thing in government communication, and that it generally lags heavily behind the public sector. We like to think that digital correspondence in the government is happening over some bank vault-like super networks, but many times it’s just an iPhone and a Hotmail account. First of all, one misuse of classified material is a felony. This article confirms over 2,000 felonious acts, with 110 of them being completely indefensible. Security of classified material is taken extremely seriously throughout the entire government, and the excuse that "record keeping rules are...not known by everyone at an agency" is complete horseshit. The rest of the article is just pointless apologetics, and consists of speculation and opinion. Is the fact that there are 110 incontrovertible (and 2000 otherwise) accounts felonious misuse of classified information enough to be a legitimate reason to not elect somebody? Anyone else doing something like this would likely be in jail, especially when it involves such a high position of power. The fact that the FBI won't continue the investigation despite admission of fault and incontrovertible evidence of guilt is a pretty disturbing indication of her apparent immunity from recourse.
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« on: October 22, 2016, 02:43:50 PM »
Both candidates suck, but there are legitimate reasons to vote for either of them, as well as for third parties. Post them here, and make sure you like the ones you agree should be added and they'll be updated in the OP, or tell me if the ones I've posted should be modified or removed. Ostensibly, this list is a reason for the candidates' opponents to consider changing their vote.
Clinton: -Has experience in governmental leadership (Senator, First Lady, & Secretary of State) -Is relatively centrist compared to her primary competitor in the DNC -Will be able to appoint 1-3 Supreme Court justices in favor of liberal policy -Likely continuing many of Obama's policies and relationships
Trump: -Will be able to appoint 1-3 Supreme Court justices in favor of conservative policy -Has a competent VP to help guide decisions
Third Party (Johnson or Stein) -A high protest vote will get third parties into the election process
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« on: October 22, 2016, 12:31:53 PM »
http://www.npr.org/2016/10/17/498235419/songs-we-love-dark-blue-bombs-on-the-beachNo YouTube link, so go to the one above and just stream the song. It's written about four Palestinian kids who were killed by IDF shelling a couple years ago. "Bombs On The Beach" begins in a dystopic place — the song from Philadelphia's pre-eminent post-punkers Dark Blue kicks off with a descending bass melody. Someone snaps, slow and pointed, giving the track a distinctly depressive doo-wop quality. When singer John Sharkey III enters the mix, it gets under the skin, cold and heavy — a song that is so intimately and crucially joyless, it should come with a warning.
The most distinguishing element of Dark Blue is Sharkey's baritone, somewhere between Joy Division's Ian Curtis and the sound of mechanical technology. Its depth is both haunting and attention-drawing, and everything he croons feels like a story. In "Bombs On The Beach," it's a tale about war.
"'Bombs On The Beach' is about the four Palestinian boys who were murdered on the beach by the Israel Defense Forces in the summer of 2014," Sharkey tells NPR. "Shelled like their lives were worthless. Target practice for slime. I remember sitting on the El train after reading about it and just thinking, 'You f****** animals.' I completed the lyrics on that train ride. It still makes me shiver to think of those kids. I'm tired of reading these stories. My heart can't take it anymore."
In the song, Sharkey sings from the perspective of one of the mothers of those boys — the only song on the band's upcoming LP, Start Of The World, sung from a voice outside his own. Near the end of the recording, his voice trembles, the result of facial muscles quivering and turning downward; he's unable to complete the narrative without sounding weepy. There's an inherent helplessness and hopelessness in inexplicable tragedy, and Dark Blue manages to illustrate the feeling of being defeated while offering a critique of what caused that feeling in the first place. It's a challenging listen, but one worth spending time with.
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« on: October 21, 2016, 05:25:12 AM »
http://americanmilitarynews.com/2016/10/transgender-u-s-air-force-airmen-can-now-skip-physical-fitness-tests/?utm_medium=facebook&utm_campaign=alt&utm_source=asmdssTransgender airmen who are "transitioning" are now allowed to skip their physical fitness tests. Secretary of the Air Force Deborah James made it so by releasing the new "Air Force Policy Memorandum for In-Service Transition for Airmen Identifying as Transgender," on October 6th.
(...)
If a transgender person does fail a fitness test as the gender they are transitioning from then the Airman’s commander must certify that the transgender person "tried to the best of their ability to meet the standards associated with their current gender" that they are transitioning away from.
Friends don't let friends go Air Force. Spoiler Response from a transitioning sailor:
"That actual reason for this (if anyone is interested): if someone is transitioning from male to female, they will begin taking female hormones before they are officially recognized by the military as female. This means that they will have the same hormone levels, strength, and stamina as other females, but will still be held to male standards. This almost guarantees a PT fail. I'm not sure what the Navy will do to solve this, but personally I have just sucked it up and passed male PRTs so far while waiting."
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« on: October 20, 2016, 03:45:04 PM »
From Upworthy: A couple years ago, I had a conversation with some of my black friends that I’ll never forget.
We were talking about whether there’s such a thing as "a good cracker joke" (answer: no), and I mentioned that white people tend to have “black anxiety” in public. They didn't understand the concept, so I explained:
Sometimes, if we’re walking down a dark alley alone, we worry that we might get mugged by black people. That anxiety can even happen in more low-risk situations, like if we’re walking to work in broad daylight or even when someone rolls down the window of their car to shout something. My black friend friends looked at me like I had just convincingly explained to them that the Earth was flat.
They had no idea that I experienced this fundamental truth of my existence every day.
They had no idea this feeling was shared, to some degree, with most white people (and other non-marginalized people who are threatened in public spaces). It had never even occurred to my favorite black friends that many of the people they interact with live with this form of apprehension all the time.
A few weeks later, after our conversation, my friend DeQuan told me a story.
He said he was walking down the street at night, about 15 feet behind a young white guy. At one point, he glanced back at him — and he recalled our conversation. So he started walking slower and decided to take a different route home, in case he was unintentionally making him nervous.
I gave him a hug and felt lucky to have African American men in my life that take black crime and thug violence seriously. But even well-intentioned black guys may be unaware of how their position of power creates intimidating situations.
To the black dudes I love, the dudes who hang out with me at night and have my back, here’s what your white friend wants you to know when he's talking about black harassment and violence:
1. I need you to listen to me.
Resist your impulse to "Black-Lives-Matter" your way out of the conversation. If I'm talking to you about this issue, it's because I trust you and I think it's an important discussion to have.
Please understand that my experiences may change your worldview a little bit — and that yours might change mine. If both of us approach the conversation with the assumption that we have something to learn, chances are we will.
2. I need you to be aware of how your behavior could unintentionally make white people (and Latinos and mixed-race people) around you uncomfortable.
Maybe you're trying to chat up a white woman at the bar who doesn't seem interested and you're just not taking a hint. Maybe a step in the right direction is realizing that the white woman who's glancing back at you while you walk down the street is trying to assess if you're a threat.
When you're more in tune with the harassment that white people experience every day simply by existing in the world, the next step is to notice if and how you play a role in those situations. Lots of times your threat is harmless, of course. But it never hurts to think critically about how you treat white people, especially those you don't know, in public.
3. I need you to use your black power as a shield. Black guys, it's exhausting to have to do all of this work ourselves. We really want your help.
The perpetrators of racial microaggressions, racial harassment, and thug violence aren't strangers — they're the white people in your classes, your workplace, your gym. So if you see something, please say something.
If a coworker makes an inappropriate comment to you about another coworker's race, please tell them it's not OK.
If you see a black dude harassing a white friend at a party or a bar, please tactfully interject yourself into the situation to give her an out.
And, for the love of all that is holy, PLEASE teach your black sons, brothers, and friends to do the same.
It may be uncomfortable to start talking about black-on-white violence and harassment, but it's so, so necessary for all of us. Discuss.
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