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« on: July 29, 2017, 01:55:55 AM »
The cool thing is that there's a massive, life-changing difference between knowing this intellectually and knowing this through experience
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« on: July 29, 2017, 01:50:49 AM »
Reality is a clever hallucination
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« on: July 28, 2017, 07:44:26 PM »
awww yeah Boi!!
youre somewhere in north cali right
Yeah in the Central Valley, but I'm willing to drive up or down 4-5 hours tbh
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« on: July 28, 2017, 07:30:06 PM »
awww yeah Boi!!
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« on: July 28, 2017, 07:29:12 PM »
I dig Reporter Class
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« on: July 28, 2017, 07:27:31 PM »
Man this whole thing would be a whole lot funnier if you didn't have autism and could physically comprehend sarcasm
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« on: July 28, 2017, 04:41:45 PM »
Gah what the fuck?
I swear you look like you're an artificial looking humanoid. Like you don't look like a real person.
Fuck dude why the fuck are your eyes that big? Its fucking creepy.
Wtf why are you so mean man
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« on: July 28, 2017, 04:41:15 PM »
Tell me your secrets
Whisper them in my ear
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« on: July 28, 2017, 04:39:25 PM »
Meditating
Lifting
Working
Learning
Banging
Experiencing
I finally found my purpose basically, at least my current purpose. Feel great except for the anxiety and uneasiness caused by foreign hormones in my body
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« on: July 27, 2017, 01:34:03 AM »
Embarrassing smh
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« on: July 26, 2017, 05:56:47 PM »
I always imagined challenger as a Marcus
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« on: July 26, 2017, 05:56:00 PM »
Clyde
Clyde
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« on: July 26, 2017, 05:51:49 PM »
send pics of sister
yeahhhh everyone wants her yep
Literally sucked up my consciousness and spat out hers
50/50 chance either one of us could have had the placement of consciousnesses but ofc I lost
disturbing lack of sister pics in this post
all anyone wants is her, typical
eat your fucking heart out
backtrace the photo, I dont give a fuck
Shes cute but if it means anything I like you better Class <3
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« on: July 26, 2017, 04:21:17 AM »
My ears are destroyed from hours of 135bpm rave music being played from gigantic speakers in small venues
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« on: July 26, 2017, 04:19:00 AM »
ok
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« on: July 25, 2017, 04:13:17 AM »
I hope you're kidding smh
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« on: July 23, 2017, 11:14:36 PM »
This is a weird convo ion even know what you guys are arguing about so I can't really jump in
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« on: July 23, 2017, 11:09:38 PM »
I can't really say much to help, I'm afraid.
I want the people I love to be happy, and I recognize that I'm not the center of anyone's universe—not even my own. So to see my loved ones happy makes me happy, too, even if it means that they're not spending time with me. Or even if they want absolutely nothing to do with me. It doesn't really hurt me at all; all that's important to me is that they're happy doing whatever they want to do in their life, seeing who they want to see, and I'm peachy.
I think I'm pretty much entirely unaffected by heartache. Maybe it's a "cuck" mentality, but I'd consider it almost selfish of me to be hurt by someone else's happiness, just because I don't happen to be the one who they're interested in. Not to say you're selfish for feeling otherwise. That's merely something I tell myself, and it works for me. May not work for you.
But as a result, I can't really empathize with what you're feeling right now, so I can't offer any meaningful advice. I'm sorry, though.
Holy fuck you're so next level it's insane, I need to reach this I have moments and periods where I can feel like this and accept it fully 100% it's very blissful. But it doesn't last because my ego comes in and I get jealous again etc
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« on: July 23, 2017, 07:45:43 PM »
Its takes a while but you just have to keep on keeping on
Its hard but you really have to try to date other girls
Yeah it doesn't work like that.
Not everyone can just willy nilly start dating other girls. That shit has to come naturally between two people.
Its not necessarily about dating other girls. He just needs to surround himself and meet new women, even just as friends. I'd actually RECOMMEND that he just try to be friends with many new women. For a few reasons: 1. Meeting new women will remind you that even though it's hard to believe, there are MANY girls out there just as high or higher quality than the girl you dated, and many that you can form DEEP connections with in new ways. You need this reminder because your mind is in massive scarcity with women right now. 2. No offense but I guarantee your skills with dating women suck horribly right now lmao, 3 years in a relationship will do that to you, you're gonna have to relearn for a bit. And if you try to jump into the dating scene right away and then get rejected(which you will) it's going to be a huge blow to your ego and make you miss her more etc
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« on: July 23, 2017, 07:40:56 PM »
Have you seen any new girls during this time? It's good you're not talking for now. What I personally think you need to do first is erase everything about her from your life, for the time being. Photos, texts, facebooks, physical stuff, clothing. Destroy, delete, or put it in a box and hide it away. They will only remind you of her even MORE than your brain is already making you think of it and that's not going to do you any good.
Right now you're in a nightmare basically and you're going to be stuck in it for a while. Time to make the most out of what you can. More on this later I'm gonna shower brb
I don't think this is the correct mindset. Destruction or anger at the feeling doesn't help you grow or accept that you're feeling that way. It's fine to be sad after a breakup, it's totally natural. The best thing to do is to accept that it happened, accept how it happened, and accept that there's nothing anyone can do about the past.
As a general rule acceptance is the best coping strategy anyone can utilize. It allows the person to come to terms with what has happened and doesn't push using other, temporary ways, to dull pain. The ideal scenario is that after a certain amount of time he'll accept what happened and no longer feel overly sad when faced something that reminds him of her which in turn will make him stronger and more resilient in the future.
There's also no need to exaggerate or downplay what occurred.
The thing is he hasn't done anything yetthat will allow time to make things better. He needs to be proactive and acceptance will come. I never said anything about being angry or spiteful. His brain is basically wired to her right now, the process of getting over someone is essentially the unwiring of her in his brain. Having reminders all around the house and his phone is not doing him any favors in that, they are just constant reminders and the best first step he can take is to hide it all away for now. Afterwards he'll be able to be around those things and even talk to her without feeling any intense emotions.
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« on: July 23, 2017, 05:32:54 PM »
Have you seen any new girls during this time? It's good you're not talking for now. What I personally think you need to do first is erase everything about her from your life, for the time being. Photos, texts, facebooks, physical stuff, clothing. Destroy, delete, or put it in a box and hide it away. They will only remind you of her even MORE than your brain is already making you think of it and that's not going to do you any good.
Right now you're in a nightmare basically and you're going to be stuck in it for a while. Time to make the most out of what you can. More on this later I'm gonna shower brb
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« on: July 23, 2017, 03:51:39 PM »
People die everyday. He didn't really have any close connection to this girl prior and obviously didn't have any fault in her death
Him spazzing out over this and if he actually is self harming and not just trolling(likely and entertaining gg) is just an indication of his declining mental health
You didn't pay attention to jack shit clearly. He talked with this girl and he had the hots for another girl, and he regrets ignoring her. He didn't know what he wanted at the time and after that happened he deeply regrets it.
Clearly you've never lost anyone in your life, otherwise you would know what its like.
I don't care lol
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« on: July 23, 2017, 03:42:15 PM »
People die everyday. He didn't really have any close connection to this girl prior and obviously didn't have any fault in her death
Him spazzing out over this and if he actually is self harming and not just trolling(likely and entertaining gg) is just an indication of his declining mental health
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« on: July 22, 2017, 08:19:35 PM »
Secondclass leave this little girl alone before she ends up like Emily. God makes everyone involved with you die (Emily, Sol)
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« on: July 22, 2017, 08:13:35 PM »
If you can confidently rock the shit out of you hating yourself you can get women
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« on: July 22, 2017, 08:11:16 PM »
I wonder what kind of reality you live in in that odd little head of yours
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« on: July 20, 2017, 08:19:53 PM »
I went through the OG picture thread last night. Crazy seeing how young some of you looked
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« on: July 20, 2017, 08:19:02 PM »
Cute pic of jive with some cutie back in 2014 Puppy Chad Jive in 2017 more masculine and sexy
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« on: July 20, 2017, 07:10:35 PM »
Hahahahaha
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« on: July 20, 2017, 02:33:53 AM »
What happened in 2011
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