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« on: January 21, 2016, 02:51:05 PM »
Get more butt blasted over an opinion.
Actually, na. I'm gonna go off and do stuff. Make something decent to eat. Drink something nice. I might go out and check out a big trailer frame to build something today. I might write up another chunk on lessons later on this evening. But by all means, you're welcome to stay here and be dammicky on your own free time. Tootles.
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« on: January 21, 2016, 02:31:57 PM »
If you're so sad and feel like killing yourself, then kill yourself. It doesn't "get better", you just find different ways to cope with the situation. If you feel like you can't go on, then kill yourself. You're just torturing yourself in the end for other people's pleasure.
Unless you have religious beliefs, there aren't any downsides to it. Maybe you'll have family that misses you, but family dies eventually. You could be hit by a car tomorrow and they'd have to get over it. No different than if you killed yourself. It's not like your life even matters in the grand scheme of things. Outside close family and possibly friends, who would really care? Family wouldn't even care after a certain number of years. Everyone will move on.
Plus who knows, maybe there is something after death? None of us really know for sure. It'd be an exploration of the unknown. The only reason why people fight against it is because death is unknown. People fear it because of that. If we knew for certainty that you'd live on a cotton-candy island after death, people wouldn't be so adamant about stopping you from killing yourself. It's selfish on their part.
Just don't make your problems other people's. If you want to get better, that's fine, but don't seek attention for it. If you're on the fence of killing yourself, go for it. What do you have to lose anyway? Or don't. It's your body and your life. No one can tell you what is right for you in this situation.
Inb4 mods remove this post or edit it for being "flamatory". This is how I view it and I am being serious. Fuck off mods.
I leave and the come back to this. Despite psyche's warning about not continuing the discussion any further, all I'll do here is give my two cents in one post and only one post. Your post in this particular thread is disrespectful as fuck. Removing all talks of morality and "it's your choice" aside, you notice the title was "self help." Short, perhaps for self improvement. As in, this thread was made for the people here who want to change things and try and fix their life. Or, to sum it up properly, for people who'd rather not die by their own hand, but instead, make their life livable again. As a matter of fact, it does get better. Depression comes for all sorts of reasons. But it only stays because the mind is focused too much on it. It's a bit like the effects of a drug. Your head gets so used to automatically being in that state, that it becomes complacent with it. Shifting your focus and learning not to get stuck in the repeating cycle and instead, continue forward, removes this, and actually does make things better. On the aspect of the grand scheme of things, you are right. We don't amount to much. But then again, that gives the value of personal choice. We choose everything we want to aspire to in our lives. We have our time here, which is short, and then it winks out. In the meantime, before it happens, we have a short time frame to enjoy what we like to enjoy. And we can make that possible, easily. There is a difference between death by natural cause and death by your own hand. The end result is close to the same. But not quite. Death by natural cause is unavoidable. If it happens, it happens. There's nothing that could have been done to prevent it. And your family and friends have to move on because there's no other choice. However, death of your hand can be stopped. It can be altered, and it can be changed. And, it destroys families in the process because of the guilt that people carry. Depressed people retreat and become introverted, never telling their close ones what's happening because their perspective is being warped by their condition. Their entire situation could change with the snap of a finger if they even said two words alone. "I'm depressed." And, families forget, right? Well, I'm going to tell you a story about my mother. My mother has a fair few sisters. One of them isn't around today. That's because, when she was younger, she had problems. A lot of self harm issues, the works. And, one day, it was my mother who rolled the bad roll and came home to find her sister hanging from the doorway at the age of 16. My mother is currently 57. I can see that damage in her every single day. I can see what it did to her, and what it helped cause her to be the person she is today. An entire family was utterly and hopelessly fractured to pieces. And here we are now. My mother ended up having me and my sister. And due to her dysfunctions, which are partially rooted in what happened approximately 40 years ago, my life was no better either. I'm currently 23. So far, the total of years my fucked up family has existed because of that event totals to roughly 60 years. I am adament about not having kids because I know I'm not a good father. I wouldn't do it right, and I'd likely repeat the same mistakes that were done with me, only continuing the cycle further. What you fail to understand is that our actions have consequences that come back to us. Although we amount to nothing in the grand scheme of things, we make ripples. Like a rock being thrown into an ocean. The rock is utterly insignificant to the ocean, but the small ripples it makes will cascade forever. They'll bounce, merge, rebound and continue forwards until the ocean itself no longer exists. Our whole universe functions as such. And although we have no idea what if anything exists after death, I strongly believe that just because you're dead, doesn't mean you're magically abstained from your actions. People create their own existence, and therefore, they create their own hell or paradise while alive. I wouldn't be surprised if it works the same in death. But, ultimately, the grand curiousity of death doesn't matter. Explore the unknown of death? I need to pause and state clearly here. Retarded statement. So unbelievably naive that it's ridiculous. You already live in a world full of unknowns. And you know what the funny part is? People don't know when they don't know about things. There is so much across the world that people don't know about. New species are discovered every single day. Species are lost every single day. There's places still being discovered and places that are still unmapped. There's cultures and thousands of years of history. There's food, engineering, science, you name it. Name anything that exists on this fucking planet, and I bet you can find something new and unexplored that you didn't know or never saw before. Now magnify that from just our planet, to the entire universe. And you're telling me, that none of it is worth being curious about? You're curious about death because it's a big unknown, but at the same time, you turn a blind eye to every single thing that exists around you that you have yet to discover or look at. There's you're illogical aspect. And there's your proof that if somehow, there was something after death, and you finally found it, the big great mystery? You'd be discontent. You'd be stuck in your own self created hell, because if you turn a blind eye to all the things that you can discover while here, then what the fuck makes you think that what's beyond, if anything, would somehow entertain you any better? And, lastly, and most importantly, if what you posted is your true advice, then why haven't you followed it? If everything is as bleak as you paint it, then why are you still here, right now? I'll answer for you. You're either wildly hypocritical or you're ignorant to what depression is. Maybe even both at the same time. "It doesn't "get better" is a dead giveaway that you've gone through something unpleasant and you're still going through it right now. And you haven't come out of it yet. And, worse, you choose to inflict your condition on others. Get help and pull yourself up to your feet. That's my two cents. And that's it. There's nothing else to be said here.
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« on: January 21, 2016, 01:26:42 PM »
I'm dissappointed that you didn't put on the great clairvoyant cheese potato with his uncanny sense of timing.
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« on: January 21, 2016, 04:43:37 AM »
This shit's getting out of hand.
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« on: January 21, 2016, 01:43:11 AM »
Also, your logs are way too big. You need to split them once more or pull them out and use smaller cuts. You throw the big shit in once the fire's going high.
Lol, we don't cut our own logs
I do wish I had a hatchet or something around here, though, you're right that the logs are too big. They are really splintery, though, we used a flathead screwdriver to scrape a bunch of wood pieces off earlier. That's mainly what we used to start the fire.
No wonder. If it's splintery then it's probably still pretty green. Green wood and big chunks don't light up easily unless you've got a fire going full blast. Don't suppose you could go snap some tree branches and start things up again do ya?
I take it you've gone camping, then.
Ohhh, that makes sense. I don't know where my roommate gets this wood, it's always so shitty. I might have to either just call it quits for tonight or get this old heavy space heater from the basement. Either way, I'm not adventuring outside, lol. Way too cold.
And nope, it's just the fireplace.
Hmm. Shitty wood and big cuts. Open fireplace.
I bet you any money his chimney isn't well taken care of and probably clogged with creosote. You might not be getting enough draw either if it's a clogged up chimney.
It wouldn't surprise me, the landlord we're renting the place from doesn't give two shits about his own house. We have to pretty much do 75% of the maintenance here, and if there's a cost to something, we practically have to twist his arm to get him to cough up any money.
Maintaining a clean chimney doesn't seem like his MO.
Kind of a dead giveaway too if he's got an open fireplace inside a house. You don't have open fireplaces inside of houses. You get shitty air draw that way unless the fire is already going strong.
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« on: January 21, 2016, 01:29:13 AM »
Also, your logs are way too big. You need to split them once more or pull them out and use smaller cuts. You throw the big shit in once the fire's going high.
Lol, we don't cut our own logs
I do wish I had a hatchet or something around here, though, you're right that the logs are too big. They are really splintery, though, we used a flathead screwdriver to scrape a bunch of wood pieces off earlier. That's mainly what we used to start the fire.
No wonder. If it's splintery then it's probably still pretty green. Green wood and big chunks don't light up easily unless you've got a fire going full blast. Don't suppose you could go snap some tree branches and start things up again do ya?
I take it you've gone camping, then.
Ohhh, that makes sense. I don't know where my roommate gets this wood, it's always so shitty. I might have to either just call it quits for tonight or get this old heavy space heater from the basement. Either way, I'm not adventuring outside, lol. Way too cold.
And nope, it's just the fireplace.
Hmm. Shitty wood and big cuts. Open fireplace. I bet you any money his chimney isn't well taken care of and probably clogged with creosote. You might not be getting enough draw either if it's a clogged up chimney.
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« on: January 21, 2016, 01:17:12 AM »
Also, your logs are way too big. You need to split them once more or pull them out and use smaller cuts. You throw the big shit in once the fire's going high.
Lol, we don't cut our own logs
I do wish I had a hatchet or something around here, though, you're right that the logs are too big. They are really splintery, though, we used a flathead screwdriver to scrape a bunch of wood pieces off earlier. That's mainly what we used to start the fire.
No wonder. If it's splintery then it's probably still pretty green. Green wood and big chunks don't light up easily unless you've got a fire going full blast. Don't suppose you could go snap some tree branches and start things up again do ya? I take it you've gone camping, then.
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« on: January 21, 2016, 01:06:37 AM »
Also, your logs are way too big. You need to split them once more or pull them out and use smaller cuts. You throw the big shit in once the fire's going high.
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« on: January 21, 2016, 01:04:13 AM »
What'd you try doing to start it? You'd better not tell me that you just stuck a light on one of the logs and hoped it caught.
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« on: January 21, 2016, 12:48:37 AM »
Brazilian Poison. How exciting.
Needs a few rounds of extreme ultraviolet light exposure to count as brazillian.
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« on: January 21, 2016, 12:46:58 AM »
I'm half conked out on drugs and can't sleep anyway.
WE VAMPIRES NOW
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« on: January 21, 2016, 12:37:24 AM »
K. So, the first things you need to know about both depression and anxiety, is what can influence them and what they're composed of.
Depression and anxiety are linked to two key things in your personal life. Our respective upbringing as a child and the family we came from, and our various genetic inherited traits. Combine this with a poor environment to live in for yourself and you have all the groundwork laid out on how susceptable you are to both being anxious or depressed.
However, both depression and anxiety are natural things for people. They aren't things that can be avoided or shunted out completely because they're a natural aspect to human emotions. But, just like almost everything, having too much is a bad thing.
The three main components that cause and help fuel anxiety and depression are as follows:
1. Unhelpful thoughts- I'm usless, worth nothing, should kill myself, what's the point, I can't do it, ect ect.
2. Bodily symptoms- Tiredness, low energy, pain, trouble eating, overeating, trouble sleeping or sleeping too much, feeling extremely fidgity, ect ect
3. Unhelpful behaviors- Things like binge eating, actively sleeping too much or too little, letting yourself do nothing, drugs and self harm,
Now, the thing with these three, is that they create a cycle. Any three of these things listed all have influence over each other and are interconnected to each other, meaning that if any one of these things is at play, it leaves you vulnerable to the other two, and, ultimately, they circle back on each other. For example.
Binge eating might make you tired, leave you with little energy so you sleep more, and then end up feeling shitty about being a lazy ass who sleeps all day. See that cycle? Behavior> Symptom> Thoughts. Let's go for another example.
You say to yourself in your head "I'm worthless." You start feeling tired which in turn makes you sleep more and acomplish little throughout your day. Thoughts> Symptom> Behavior. And this is the vicious cycle.
This is the first lesson I've gone through. This is the early awareness phase. In order to do anything about your issues, you have to be aware of what they are. The lesson I've gone through, reccommends that you take about a week to examine yourself. See if you can spot your thoughts, behaviors, and symptoms, and then examine how they all influence and interact with each other.
Make yourself a list, and write it down. You can keep it to yourself, or post it here if you want. But keep the list.
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« on: January 20, 2016, 05:28:53 PM »
You know what's worse? When they click once on a folder that requires them to click twice. And then they sit there. "It's not coming up. "Why isn't it coming up." "I guess it just takes a while to load." *Stares at the screen silently waiting for the folder to open* And, naturally, as you're watching them do this, noticing it every single time, you go to open your mouth and tell them that they need to double click, you remember that this is somewhere around the 50th time doing so and that you should no longer bother and just let them figure it out by themselves. "Stupid computer shit not working."
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« on: January 20, 2016, 05:18:12 PM »
It's no real secret that our community of people has various depressive tendencies or issues of their own that they're dealing with. The short story on this, is that for some time now, among all the various docs I've been paying visits to, one of them referred me to an online course I can take that'll teach me to manage chronic depression and its tendencies. I would direct you to the site that runs the course, but the only issue here, is that the course only treats people in my province. However, I thought to myself, that it might be helpful if I take the information that I know and essentially echo chamber it here for any of you to use. So, that's what I'm going to do as I progress through this course of mine. I'm no therapist or doctor, but these lessons are designed for people to do them by themselves, so I will post as much information and helpful stuff as I can, so that any of you here can look through it if you need it, practice things if you want to, or just learn something new that you haven't before. In a little while, I'll do the first write-ups to cover for the lessons and explanations I've already gone through. Any important post will be linked up here so you can find it easily in case the thread has conversations going. Lesson 1 Summary Link: Lesson 2 Summary Link:
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« on: January 20, 2016, 01:40:58 PM »
Reminder that verb isn't much older.
i've lived longer than he's been self-aware
Oh boy we're playing the senior citizen card here.
Well, I've lived longer than you, you sprightly youngin'
Get off my lawn.
And I'm older than you, take that.
See the newest summer blockbuster. Lawnception. "We have to get older."
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« on: January 20, 2016, 01:38:21 PM »
Reminder that verb isn't much older.
i've lived longer than he's been self-aware
Oh boy we're playing the senior citizen card here. Well, I've lived longer than you, you sprightly youngin' Get off my lawn.
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« on: January 20, 2016, 01:36:51 PM »
lol I figured this thread was just a half-assed attempt to put down the members that post on this board.
Just because you don't bring much to the table in terms of discussion on here, doesn't mean that nobody else does.
Why the hostility there?
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« on: January 20, 2016, 01:32:07 PM »
I hope you have your handbook on the parameters of what average intelligence is, or at least, some definition of it yourself, Septy.
You've got three strikes all in a row playing the "what is intelligence" card. You'd better have a royal flush up your sleeve.
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« on: January 20, 2016, 01:23:10 PM »
And the majority of people are average. That's why it's called an average.
No. An average, or a mean, measures the central tendency of a group of numbers; this does not imply that most people are in the center, it implied that the mean of the sample is concentrated there. How "smart" varies greatly from person to person, there isn't a clearly definitive pattern. There are a lot of outliers, meaning that an average is pretty useless for guessing the intelligence of a random person plucked off of the street.
I'm using average as a synonym for usual. Usual=most common
If you look at a graph like this 68% of people have around average intelligence. That's a majority of people.
What's the population? All humans? Humans 18-24? Men 18-24? Americans 48-60? You literally have zero basis for assuming the intelligence of a community based on an unmarked bell-curve that has every possibility of being made for a different demographic.
You're assuming that everyone here also falls in a bell-curve pattern, and you know what they say when you assume: you make an "ass" out of "u" and "me".
Is there anyone here that you can honestly say has displayed that they are of above average intelligence.
What constitute as "average intelligence" to you?" Give me a defined list in the handbook that says what average intelligence is and I'll name some users for ya.
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« on: January 20, 2016, 01:19:25 PM »
Whoever wins, we all lose.
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« on: January 20, 2016, 12:57:36 PM »
You'll get past it, so long as you want to get past it. Part of it is willpower, the rest is conditional/situational (i.e. who and what you surround yourself with).
Advice, if you want it. One of the things that perpetuates depression is self loathing, or just way too much focus on "why me?" or the belief that everything in the world is against you. Correct me if I'm wrong, but that's probably an accurate descriptor of you. This is a mindset that needs to be broken past, and while easier said than done, it's the best advice I can give for getting past this kind of depression.
Take the time to appreciate the good things in life. Go on a nature hike and take the time to clear your mind (Remove EVERYTHING from your mind. This is tough if you haven't done it before, but if you're the type to be able to lay in bed and not do anything but stare at the ceiling for hours, you can do it. If you have to, stop and concentrate on one thing, maybe a plant or something. The moment your mind drifts, focus back on the plant and pay attention the details on the plant rather than the thoughts floating around your mind. Once you can get your brain to shut up about the things you don't want to focus on, you can start making the proper steps forward.) and concentrate on nothing but your surroundings, and take the time to appreciate everything around you. Basically, make a conscious effort to give credit to every little good thing in your life while not acknowledging the bad. While it's usually important to not just ignore the bad things in life, when you're depressed it's all you focus on. The goal is to get away from that. This might seem corny in your head for a while but trust me, once you can shift your mindset to stop dwelling, your life becomes infinitely better.
I can't emphasize enough how important it is to shift your focus. It's the hardest in the beginning because you have to make a constant and active effort, but it does get easier over time. The next really important thing you'd have to do is do whatever you can to cut toxic people off. (Cough cough like Sep7agon. Not because I want you to leave, as I've said from the very very beginning, but because it's clearly not helping you at all and frankly might be making you spiral even more.) Distancing is important. I don't know how things are at home with your parents but if you're around too much then maybe it's time to start going out more. Get out of the places where you usually tend to dwell while you're in more depressive bouts and redirect your focus. You're a few months older than me, maybe it's time to start thinking about finding roommates and getting your own place. If you get people to split expenses with, it's really not that bad. Basically just put yourself out there and do your best to push past your comfort zone. Productivity is important because if you're actively doing things it can give you some sense of purpose. It doesn't have to be "I've found the meaning of my life" purpose, just something important that keeps you busy that you know you have to do.
If you've got good friends who listen, talk to them. Councilors/therapists have never done anything for me, and they don't really know you in your day to day life. However if you don't have people you can talk to who are wiser than you and of a sound state of mind, a therapist might be your best option. It is what they're trained for, after all. Talking about your problems is important because when you're saying it, sometimes you can figure out the solutions yourself just by putting things into words. Kind of balancing it so that some if it is vocal conversation (since more likely than not I'm guessing you probably talk to people in the form of text) is important. Talk in person, over the phone, in a video call. Hear your own words, and pick out what's wrong with what you're saying.
Most important of all though, make the time in your life to do the things that make you happy. I'm not really sure what to say beyond that, because really everyone's path is different so you'd have to figure it out yourself along the way.
Life has it's bumps, but that's just life. Don't let it eat you up.
After reading your advice again, I am thinking about cutting ties with this place, especially if shits going to keep hitting the fan, especially if I fail at redeeming myself.
Hmm. Feeling down again eh? Two points to cover here. The first being, that you have to ask yourself why you come here. I know that for myself, I come here because there's people I like talking to. There's people I like "seeing," in some sense. But, this place has it's drawbacks. It's a tad depressive. And it's time consuming. So in one hand, you've got the pros, and in one hand, you've got the cons. Let me tell you that cutting ties with this place won't work with you. You don't have the mental fortitude to stick with it. As you've demonstrated multiple times when you've left and come back here. And that's because you're not thinking about this in a manner that makes sense. For example, if I were to suddenly cut ties with this place, I would gain the benifit or more time gained and being exposed to less depressive things. But, I'd lose critical interaction with people I like talking to and trying to get know better. So what would be the most logical thing to do? Not take an extreme stance. Instead, use a little moderation. Stop by the place every now and then, but watch so that you don't end up spending too much time here. The second point here, is old habits. I don't know much about ya or I don't remember much. But that doesn't mean I can't see what's up with you. Obviously, you're not in a good state. And, you might be trying to fix that. Let me tell you, that there's no fucking chance of ever fixing yourself up quickly. There's no magic button that resets everything. It takes a lot of conscious effort on your part to change. And it might take more than just efforts on your own part. You might need help and guidence too. For example. I know the exact number of years I've been in a depressive state. 10 years. Right now, I know all the things that I can do to combat that leech in my head. I need to focus my attention on things. I need to move and keep active. But the trick I haven't learned yet, is how to keep moving. As soon as I stop, I'm staring at my depression again. And as soon as I acknowledge its presence, I slip and fall right back into my rut. So, even with the keys and the know how of how to go about getting rid of this, I'm still having trouble. Which means that on my part, I have to put more effort and focus into this to beat it. But I understand that it's not going to dissappear overnight. It'll take time. Same applies to you.
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« on: January 20, 2016, 12:31:44 PM »
To be fair I was only talking about the people in this forum. You'd still be completely fucking wrong.
I made a mistake. Yes you did.
Why are you being so hostile over something so little.
Is it because I called you average.
Because not only are you wrong, you immediately backpedal.
So you think the majority of people are below average or something?
How in the name of FUCK did you get that from my posts?
No, I think there are average and above average people. I'll leave it to you to amuse us all by figuring which category you're a part of.
And the majority of people are average. That's why it's called an average.
HAHAHAHAHAHA LOOK AT HIM TRY TO TWIST THIS HOLY SHIT LOL
You asserted EVERYBODY is average. You're wrong. You back pedaled, then you tried to personally attack me, and now you're trying to use the word "average" in your favor by saying you meant you were talking about averages and that you didn't very clearly say "we are all average".
Just stop. This shitty thread needs to be locked.
Everybody here probably is average. The actual smart people wouldn't go on a forum like this.
"probably."
DAMN SON YOU'RE LOSING GROUND.
But, really. I think you're looking at it out of context in the wrong light. A lot of people here either have a decent head on them or they're known for doing something interesting. The real binding factor here, is, actually, that we're all outcasts in some form, and we've all got personal baggage.
I think a lot of people here could be much more than they are now if they didn't have their respective baggage in the way.
Maybe some are outcasts. For some Sep7 is just a form of social media like Facebook.
Then maybe you haven't been watching around here long enough. Maybe you haven't talked or listened to people. You don't only have to be a social reject with no friends to show up here. The key point, is baggage. Every single person here has it. And if we take human behavior into account, similiar people ALWAYS find each other and group together. This group exists for a reason. Most of the people here are oddballs in their own unique ways. That doesn't mean all of them are friendless social rejects. Or that all of them have baggage. But, undisputably, we're the weird bunch.
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« on: January 20, 2016, 12:22:10 PM »
To be fair I was only talking about the people in this forum. You'd still be completely fucking wrong.
I made a mistake. Yes you did.
Why are you being so hostile over something so little.
Is it because I called you average.
Because not only are you wrong, you immediately backpedal.
So you think the majority of people are below average or something?
How in the name of FUCK did you get that from my posts?
No, I think there are average and above average people. I'll leave it to you to amuse us all by figuring which category you're a part of.
And the majority of people are average. That's why it's called an average.
HAHAHAHAHAHA LOOK AT HIM TRY TO TWIST THIS HOLY SHIT LOL
You asserted EVERYBODY is average. You're wrong. You back pedaled, then you tried to personally attack me, and now you're trying to use the word "average" in your favor by saying you meant you were talking about averages and that you didn't very clearly say "we are all average".
Just stop. This shitty thread needs to be locked.
Everybody here probably is average. The actual smart people wouldn't go on a forum like this.
"probably." DAMN SON YOU'RE LOSING GROUND. But, really. I think you're looking at it out of context in the wrong light. A lot of people here either have a decent head on them or they're known for doing something interesting. The real binding factor here, is, actually, that we're all outcasts in some form, and we've all got personal baggage. I think a lot of people here could be much more than they are now if they didn't have their respective baggage in the way.
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« on: January 20, 2016, 12:16:38 PM »
"New maps"
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« on: January 20, 2016, 12:09:08 PM »
To be fair I was only talking about the people in this forum. You'd still be completely fucking wrong.
I made a mistake. Yes you did.
Why are you being so hostile over something so little.
Is it because I called you average.
Nobody likes to have their personal worth called nothing by other folks. Chally's occasionally hostile for whatever reasons, but to be fair, I don't like to think that I'd be considered average when I have a wind vane attatched to an alternator I bought along with tower components I scavenged to make a small tower and a windmill which'll give me electricity when I have a home. Like I said. Nobody wants to have their ideas of personal worth stepped on.
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« on: January 20, 2016, 12:01:15 PM »
However studies show that people who think this way actually have poor social skills and psychological maladjustment. As well as behaving more hostile and irritable to everyone. Which can all be link to anti-social behavior. oh
There's that wonderful scary set of words that apparently make people piss themselves for no good reason.
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« on: January 20, 2016, 11:57:12 AM »
(we all are average).
Except we aren't, some people are just better or worse than others.
I'm talking about a large majority of people are average. There are some outliers.
Don't fall off back pedaling so hard.
What?
He's calling you out on making such a big generalising statement and then easing off in a sly manner without just bluntly saying "ya got me, I dun goofed."
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« on: January 20, 2016, 11:44:13 AM »
The legitimate ones anyway.
Think about it though. Girl who likes to play video games. What does that mean? Likely somebody who's into some stuff outside the norm. Might even say nerdy, a little bit. Gamer girls tend to be outcasts to a degree.
And I mean, think about it. You sit down to play yee old video games. And you've got a partner who's as into it as you are. I've seen my fare share of couples across xbox live over the years. And it's honestly somewhat comforting to see.
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« on: January 20, 2016, 11:30:28 AM »
I can recall three times where you linked something to an old thread claiming dustin was right and all I got was red premium text since he's bannu'd.
Real informative that is.
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