You people give good gf advice, I need your good gf advice!

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Many times I see thread about gf and asking of advice. And many times there is long lenghtly answers of good knowldge and wordly wisdom. There are also meme answers too of course which is fun.


To those of you versed in answering to gf threads I ask you this about my gf. Please advice!

My gf had booked a holiday with her friends before she became my gf.
gf apologies to me but says she must go on holiday because she promised friends.
I see no problem with this and say is ok.
HOWEVER! 

This was before I knew context of where she going! My mind has now been plauged with bad thought!
Gf goes to party island somewhere around spain, (I forget name) for 2 week!!!! TWO WEEKS!!
with her other gfs and a gay guy.

I am not naive to what happens at these party islands in europe!
There is many nightclubs with drink and topless men that lift weights and hit on women every night.
21st century culture encourages unfaithfulness

I expect the very worst.... is there
anything I can do? or is all hope truly lost?
Last Edit: June 14, 2016, 06:27:56 PM by OnionBeetle


 
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uh.. i dunno, havent been in that situation before.


 
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Pee on her leg before she leaves. That way the others will know that she's your property.


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She's going to take lots of pills in Ibiza


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Pee on her leg before she leaves. That way the others will know that she's your property.

That's the worst part about it!!! SHE ALREADY LAFT DAS, SHE ALREADY FCUKING LEFT!!!

gosh damn I am truly in dire state when come to flood for gf help. But i respect your answer.


 
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This is not the greatest sig in the world, no. This is just a tribute.
Pee on her leg before she leaves. That way the others will know that she's your property.

That's the worst part about it!!! SHE ALREADY LAFT DAS, SHE ALREADY FCUKING LEFT!!!

gosh damn I am truly in dire state when come to flood for gf help. But i respect your answer.
OH NO! You're fucked, man. Sorry.


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She's going to take lots of pills in Ibiza

So that's how you spell it, it's pronounced I-BEE-TA right?


 
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Text her everyday, only once. Asking how she is doing. If she either.
A: Made a detailed reply with punctuation
Or
B: Didn't respond

You're fucked


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Text her everyday, only once. Asking how she is doing. If she either.
A: Made a detailed reply with punctuation
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B: Didn't respond

You're fucked

Thank you, she uses lots of emojis and responds quickly so this will be very easy to see. 


 
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There's this crazy new thing in a relationship called "trust".


 
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Text her everyday, only once. Asking how she is doing. If she either.
A: Made a detailed reply with punctuation
Or
B: Didn't respond

You're fucked

Thank you, she uses lots of emojis and responds quickly so this will be very easy to see.

By the way.

I have had 0 girlfriends, and have never dated in my life.

Good luck.


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There's this crazy new thing in a relationship called "trust".

Of course but also given the context it is only natural that there will be doubt. One must be realistic. Many times you hear of story of these things happening on party isalnd, spiked drinks etc. You can see documentary of people drink too much and decision making skills go away.

Trust important yes, but also must not be naive. Ibiza notorious bad place for this thing.


 
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"With the first link, the chain is forged. The first speech censured, the first thought forbidden, the first freedom denied, chains us all irrevocably."
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There's this crazy new thing in a relationship called "trust".

Of course but also given the context it is only natural that there will be doubt. One must be realistic. Many times you hear of story of these things happening on party isalnd, spiked drinks etc. You can see documentary of people drink too much and decision making skills go away.

Trust important yes, but also must not be naive.
No, you have to be naive in this situation. If you honestly think that she might cheat on you, then that's not a healthy relationship. You have to trust her completely, and if she chooses to violate that trust, then it wasn't a good relationship to begin with.


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There's this crazy new thing in a relationship called "trust".

Of course but also given the context it is only natural that there will be doubt. One must be realistic. Many times you hear of story of these things happening on party isalnd, spiked drinks etc. You can see documentary of people drink too much and decision making skills go away.

Trust important yes, but also must not be naive.
No, you have to be naive in this situation. If you honestly think that she might cheat on you, then that's not a healthy relationship. You have to trust her completely, and if she chooses to violate that trust, then it wasn't a good relationship to begin with.

I see what you are saying, I will try to presume no bad thing of her.


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This isn't real but I like the topic so I'll pretend it is. Pretty much she will be surrounded 24/7 by thousands of extremely attractive and wealthy individuals while being heavily intoxicated and probably on drugs. Not to mention 2 weeks is a long time and she's going with her friends that are guaranteed to engage in hoeish behavior. That influence alone will be enough. The environment in these places x vacation mindset will make her act very different even if she's super loyal. Anyone who says otherwise has no idea what they're talking about srs

People go to Ibiza for a reason


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This isn't real but I like the topic so I'll pretend it is. Pretty much she will be surrounded 24/7 by thousands of extremely attractive and wealthy individuals while being heavily intoxicated and probably on drugs. Not to mention 2 weeks is a long time and she's going with her friends that are guaranteed to engage in hoeish behavior. That influence alone will be enough. The environment in these places x vacation mindset will make her act very different even if she's super loyal. Anyone who says otherwise has no idea what they're talking about srs

People go to Ibiza for a reason

Unfortunately it is real and you have reignited my doubts. You describe my thoughts, but is there anyway to prevent this? Or even minimise risk?

What do you say to this SecondClass? Can you see now how hard is to presume good things when context?
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There's this crazy new thing in a relationship called "trust".

Of course but also given the context it is only natural that there will be doubt. One must be realistic. Many times you hear of story of these things happening on party isalnd, spiked drinks etc. You can see documentary of people drink too much and decision making skills go away.

Trust important yes, but also must not be naive. Ibiza notorious bad place for this thing.

well shes not going to stay in ibiza forever


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what happens in ibiza stays in ibiza


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There's this crazy new thing in a relationship called "trust".

Of course but also given the context it is only natural that there will be doubt. One must be realistic. Many times you hear of story of these things happening on party isalnd, spiked drinks etc. You can see documentary of people drink too much and decision making skills go away.

Trust important yes, but also must not be naive. Ibiza notorious bad place for this thing.

well shes not going to stay in ibiza forever


what happens in ibiza stays in ibiza


If discover unfaithful act I will break up immdiately. If it happen once it can happen again, cannot take risk.


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SecondClass is an autistic mentally ill tranny that worships women and has never had a relationship with anything deeper than a cartoon character. You should pretty much disregard anything he says about this topic as women can do no wrong in his eyes. If she cheated he would probably tell you that you deserved it and to forgive her

How long has the relationship been going?


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SecondClass is an autistic mentally ill tranny that worships women and has never had a relationship with anything deeper than a cartoon character. You should pretty much disregard anything he says about this topic as women can do no wrong in his eyes. If she cheated he would probably tell you that you deserved it and to forgive her

How long has the relationship been going?

That actually isn't true.


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SecondClass is an autistic mentally ill tranny that worships women and has never had a relationship with anything deeper than a cartoon character. You should pretty much disregard anything he says about this topic as women can do no wrong in his eyes. If she cheated he would probably tell you that you deserved it and to forgive her

How long has the relationship been going?

You seem to be well aware of why I am concerned. You understand how women act in these situation, so I trust your opinion.

"How long has the relationship been going?"

Yet more bad news!!!  Relationship is very young at only 3 months... You don't need to tell me, I know this bodes badly. Maybe I should just save myself the heartache now and breakup with her preemtively. There seems to be nothing in my favour!

I feel very sad now. Nothing I can do...


 
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i mean, shes going there from before they got together. maybe her friends will try and help her not to do stupid things, but in this situation, just stay calm and such. i might have to go through this when i leave to university which is a couple of hours from my girlfriend, and i gotta trust her to stay loyal and such considering a childhood friend of hers likes her and theyve been friends for god knows how long.

beetle, keep your cool, send an occasional text asking how she is, youll be fine.


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i mean, shes going there from before they got together. maybe her friends will try and help her not to do stupid things, but in this situation, just stay calm and such. i might have to go through this when i leave to university which is a couple of hours from my girlfriend, and i gotta trust her to stay loyal and such considering a childhood friend of hers likes her and theyve been friends for god knows how long.

beetle, keep your cool, send an occasional text asking how she is, youll be fine.


I thank you for your answer and will try not to despair just yet.

"a childhood friend of hers likes her and theyve been friends for god knows how long. "

As one bf to another, I must ask you to be very cautious with the childhood friend situation. Too many times have I heard stories of this type of people start cheating, please be vigilant and careful. Trust important but keep brain turned on too.


 
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SecondClass is an autistic mentally ill tranny that worships women and has never had a relationship with anything deeper than a cartoon character. You should pretty much disregard anything he says about this topic as women can do no wrong in his eyes. If she cheated he would probably tell you that you deserved it and to forgive her

How long has the relationship been going?

You seem to be well aware of why I am concerned. You understand how women act in these situation, so I trust your opinion.

"How long has the relationship been going?"

Yet more bad news!!!  Relationship is very young at only 3 months... You don't need to tell me, I know this bodes badly. Maybe I should just save myself the heartache now and breakup with her preemtively. There seems to be nothing in my favour!

I feel very sad now. Nothing I can do...
3 months? bruh im heading to 3 months in about a week. you should be fine


 
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i mean, shes going there from before they got together. maybe her friends will try and help her not to do stupid things, but in this situation, just stay calm and such. i might have to go through this when i leave to university which is a couple of hours from my girlfriend, and i gotta trust her to stay loyal and such considering a childhood friend of hers likes her and theyve been friends for god knows how long.

beetle, keep your cool, send an occasional text asking how she is, youll be fine.


I thank you for your answer and will try not to despair just yet.

"a childhood friend of hers likes her and theyve been friends for god knows how long. "

As one bf to another, I must ask you to be very cautious with the childhood friend situation. Too many times have I heard stories of this type of people start cheating, please be vigilant and careful. Trust important but keep brain turned on too.
i know, i sometimes get that feeling too, but apparently me and him are cool now about the situation and hes moved on from her. he told me to go for her if i wanted to because she developed a crush on me and so here i am.


 
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"With the first link, the chain is forged. The first speech censured, the first thought forbidden, the first freedom denied, chains us all irrevocably."
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This isn't real but I like the topic so I'll pretend it is. Pretty much she will be surrounded 24/7 by thousands of extremely attractive and wealthy individuals while being heavily intoxicated and probably on drugs. Not to mention 2 weeks is a long time and she's going with her friends that are guaranteed to engage in hoeish behavior. That influence alone will be enough. The environment in these places x vacation mindset will make her act very different even if she's super loyal. Anyone who says otherwise has no idea what they're talking about srs

People go to Ibiza for a reason

Unfortunately it is real and you have reignited my doubts. You describe my thoughts, but is there anyway to prevent this? Or even minimise risk?

What do you say to this SecondClass? Can you see now how hard is to presume good things when context?
I say that Jive has some kind of serious mommy issues and hates women. He literally thinks they're all sluts and drop any convictions or relationships they have when they see a "Chad".

Fuark

Seriously, ignore anything that comes out of that acccount. It's a borderline troll.


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SecondClass is an autistic mentally ill tranny that worships women and has never had a relationship with anything deeper than a cartoon character. You should pretty much disregard anything he says about this topic as women can do no wrong in his eyes. If she cheated he would probably tell you that you deserved it and to forgive her

How long has the relationship been going?

You seem to be well aware of why I am concerned. You understand how women act in these situation, so I trust your opinion.

"How long has the relationship been going?"

Yet more bad news!!!  Relationship is very young at only 3 months... You don't need to tell me, I know this bodes badly. Maybe I should just save myself the heartache now and breakup with her preemtively. There seems to be nothing in my favour!

I feel very sad now. Nothing I can do...
The thing is girls act VERY differently in settings like this. They're influenced by their friends and adding in alcohol/drugs/party environment will make the likelihood of her cheating go up.

I've been to raves and parties where girls with boyfriends will be dancing on or making out with friends of mine, some with their boyfriends at the same event. They don't think rationally in these situations. ive been with a few girls with boyfriends before, and a friend of mine constantly gets messages from TONS of girls in relationships. It honestly breaks my heart

3 months is not a long time at all. Now I don't want to make you break up with her, idk what kind of girl she is and she really might not cheat at all. If she wasn't going to and you did break up with her before she left it would really be a shame

Just saying the odds seem stacked against you.


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SecondClass is an autistic mentally ill tranny that worships women and has never had a relationship with anything deeper than a cartoon character. You should pretty much disregard anything he says about this topic as women can do no wrong in his eyes. If she cheated he would probably tell you that you deserved it and to forgive her

How long has the relationship been going?

You seem to be well aware of why I am concerned. You understand how women act in these situation, so I trust your opinion.

"How long has the relationship been going?"

Yet more bad news!!!  Relationship is very young at only 3 months... You don't need to tell me, I know this bodes badly. Maybe I should just save myself the heartache now and breakup with her preemtively. There seems to be nothing in my favour!

I feel very sad now. Nothing I can do...
The thing is girls act VERY differently in settings like this. They're influenced by their friends and adding in alcohol/drugs/party environment will make the likelihood of her cheating go up.

I've been to raves and parties where girls with boyfriends will be dancing on or making out with friends of mine, some with their boyfriends at the same event. They don't think rationally in these situations. ive been with a few girls with boyfriends before, and a friend of mine constantly gets messages from TONS of girls in relationships. It honestly breaks my heart

3 months is not a long time at all. Now I don't want to make you break up with her, idk what kind of girl she is and she really might not cheat at all. If she wasn't going to and you did break up with her before she left it would really be a shame

Just saying the odds seem stacked against you.

Yes, I too know of stories (and have seen first hand) of girls in club with bfs cheating making out with other people while boyfriend was in the same building!!! It blows my mind and makes me worried. How come only women do this mainly? Why never hear story of boyfriend cheating on gf in club? It is very strange.

You make good sense saying I should not break up now, was overreaction. However, I think there is one shining light in all of this. Gf does not use drugs ever, even at concert/club she say no. Maybe this will be saving grace. Only time will tell.