Quote from: Fierce Mild on June 01, 2015, 02:40:39 AM

Quote from: Casper on May 30, 2015, 12:14:45 AM

This is making me feel old feels I don't want to feel..

Quote from: Ingloriouswho98 on May 30, 2015, 09:42:29 AM

Casper is feeling things, he's vulnerable so you should cuddle him and have sex with him

Who are you?

it doesn't matter who I am, what matters is my plan

Quote from: Fierce Mild on June 01, 2015, 03:07:26 AM

Quote from: Decimator Omega on June 01, 2015, 02:59:01 AM

Quote from: Fierce Mild on June 01, 2015, 02:40:39 AM

Quote from: Casper on May 30, 2015, 12:14:45 AM

This is making me feel old feels I don't want to feel..

Quote from: Ingloriouswho98 on May 30, 2015, 09:42:29 AM

Casper is feeling things, he's vulnerable so you should cuddle him and have sex with him

Who are you?

it doesn't matter who I am, what matters is my plan

I don't like the sound of this.

quietly enjoying posting on this forum.. with no survivors!

Quote from: Fierce Mild on June 01, 2015, 02:40:39 AM

Quote from: Casper on May 30, 2015, 12:14:45 AM

This is making me feel old feels I don't want to feel..

Quote from: Ingloriouswho98 on May 30, 2015, 09:42:29 AM

Casper is feeling things, he's vulnerable so you should cuddle him and have sex with him

Who are you?

Fierce Mild

Quote from: Decimator Omega on June 01, 2015, 01:42:33 AM

Quote from: Ingloriouswho98 on May 31, 2015, 09:06:26 PM

And honestly, we don't really care about this shit

We just agree whoever has their rights on their side

k.

Can't believe I went through all that shit just to get a k

K.

I watched this whole thing.

Noticed some stuff.

Woman wouldn't start crying until there was some form of external witness

Son very clearly didn't want to go back, the mother's accusations that he was being impulsive and rash and letting the father manipulate or persuade him have pretty much no grounds when the kid is clearly willing to actively prevent his mother from getting him out of the car.

The mom was attacking the father's character which implies this is more about her disdain for the son's father than her own feelings for her son

The kid mentioned that the mother had hit him on more than one occasion and that she even slammed him against a wall holding him by the neck. My father has slammed me into walls on a few occasions and that's straight up abusive behavior.

The mother was willing to press charges against her own son just to get what she wants. That's not about loving your child and being concerned for their safety. That is again about her personal squabble with her ex-husband.


I've had a father who treated me the same way this kid says his mother treated him. Throwing me against a wall with his hands on my neck, throwing shit at me, yelling and screaming at me over shit I shouldn't be screamed at. I didn't feel comfortable around him, I didn't feel like I could be myself around him. He was too explosive when he got mad. On top of that my stepmother didn't treat me the same as her own son. She prioritized him over me and pretty much ignored me, she didn't treat me well and was always mad at me about something and claimed I was disrespectful. I never felt comfortable around them, I could never be myself, I ended up living in the basement and I saw my father maybe once a day. He wasn't nearly as involved in my life as he should've been at that point. I didn't want him to be though because I didn't feel comfortable. I became a hermit just to avoid my own parents.

Instead of just insisting that I go live with my mother instead of him I just lived in his basement. It was a terrible decision as my mother and stepfather are better parents overall than he was. He didn't know what to do. He didn't know how to handle raising someone like me with the problems I have and it shows in the fact that I had to learn social skills and real world skills as an adult as opposed to as a child.

I'm probably revealing too much about myself and my personal life in this post but this sort of thing resonates with me because it's exactly the decision I didn't have the guts to make when my father pulled the whole "your mother would be a bad parent and she's just manipulating you." bullshit. I didn't believe him but I knew he'd start something that I didn't want started if I stood my ground.