Quote from: Chakas on February 14, 2015, 06:10:40 PM

Opinions can still be right and wrong you know.

That is an incredibly subjective thing to say. You're not proving anything. Like I said, stop trying to win. You think you're right and I think I'm right. Neither of us is going to convince the other otherwise. There is no winner to this. I expressed my opinion and you expressed yours. Don't try to present yours as the correct one. Don't try to present it as fact. It makes you look like an arrogant prick.

Quote from: Chakas on February 14, 2015, 03:07:27 AM

Also, why do people think that waiting until marriage is ridiculous? Don't you want to be able to say that you were the only one who has fucked your spouse and that no else has ever touched them, and vice versa? Isn't that something special? Something to be proud of? And don't give me all that, "Well it's boring. I need some variety." bullshit. If your sex life with your spouse is boring well than that's your fault.

Your sex life would be boring because you'd suck due to no experience.
A lot of marriages end because they're either sexually incompatible or just flat out suck dick in bed, y'know.

So yes, reserving yourself until you're married is ridiculous.

You just quoted my answer to what you just said.

Quote from: BritishLemön on February 14, 2015, 06:19:42 PM

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Quote from: Mad Max on February 14, 2015, 05:38:04 PM

literally anyone over the age of 16.

What?

my bad. i read it as "when"

How is it socially unacceptable?

Because that's just how it is. I don't make the rules. Most people start losing their virginity sometime between 15-19. Any time after that is pretty strange.

My former roommate was 27 and she was still a virgin. It's strange.

I think you forgot to sign into your PSU account

Quote from: BritishLemön on February 14, 2015, 06:23:38 PM

Quote from: Chakas on February 14, 2015, 03:07:27 AM

Also, why do people think that waiting until marriage is ridiculous? Don't you want to be able to say that you were the only one who has fucked your spouse and that no else has ever touched them, and vice versa? Isn't that something special? Something to be proud of? And don't give me all that, "Well it's boring. I need some variety." bullshit. If your sex life with your spouse is boring well than that's your fault.

Your sex life would be boring because you'd suck due to no experience.
A lot of marriages end because they're either sexually incompatible or just flat out suck dick in bed, y'know.

So yes, reserving yourself until you're married is ridiculous.

You quoted my answer to what you just said. Congratulations.

Umm, no I didn't.

You said that waiting until marriage isn't ridiculous, and I gave factual reasons as to why it is ridiculous.

Quote from: BritishLemön on February 14, 2015, 06:23:38 PM

Quote from: Chakas on February 14, 2015, 03:07:27 AM

Also, why do people think that waiting until marriage is ridiculous? Don't you want to be able to say that you were the only one who has fucked your spouse and that no else has ever touched them, and vice versa? Isn't that something special? Something to be proud of? And don't give me all that, "Well it's boring. I need some variety." bullshit. If your sex life with your spouse is boring well than that's your fault.

Your sex life would be boring because you'd suck due to no experience.
A lot of marriages end because they're either sexually incompatible or just flat out suck dick in bed, y'know.

So yes, reserving yourself until you're married is ridiculous.

Marrying or divorcing someone based on sexual performance is ridiculous.

Not really.
Not being sexually satisfied in a marriage can lead to unhappiness in the marriage, and is one of the reasons why people cheat on their spouse.

A good sexual relationship is a big factor to a healthy marriage. Divorcing someone because you're unhappy isn't ridiculous at all.

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Quote from: BritishLemön on February 14, 2015, 06:23:38 PM

Quote from: Chakas on February 14, 2015, 03:07:27 AM

Also, why do people think that waiting until marriage is ridiculous? Don't you want to be able to say that you were the only one who has fucked your spouse and that no else has ever touched them, and vice versa? Isn't that something special? Something to be proud of? And don't give me all that, "Well it's boring. I need some variety." bullshit. If your sex life with your spouse is boring well than that's your fault.

Your sex life would be boring because you'd suck due to no experience.
A lot of marriages end because they're either sexually incompatible or just flat out suck dick in bed, y'know.

So yes, reserving yourself until you're married is ridiculous.

You quoted my answer to what you just said. Congratulations.

Umm, no I didn't.

You said that waiting until marriage isn't ridiculous, and I gave factual reasons as to why it is ridiculous.

You didn't read the OP very well. I didn't say what you think I said. And yes, many marriages end because of sexual dissatisfaction. That is the couples fault an no on else. They didn't take the initiative to make their sex life with their partner any better. That's on them, and they chose to divorce rather than communicate with their partner. And it is likely that someone wouldn't be too experience in bed because of them being a virgin. I do not see this as a bad thing. Have you never considered the possibility of someone practicing in bed with their partner after marriage and learning each other kinks rather than doing the same thing before marriage on other people? It's a much more intimate experience. I'd rather marry someone who sucked in bed so we could both learn how the other works than marry someone who's amazing in bed but practiced on countless other guys to acquire that ability

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Quote from: BritishLemön on February 14, 2015, 06:23:38 PM

Quote from: Chakas on February 14, 2015, 03:07:27 AM

Also, why do people think that waiting until marriage is ridiculous? Don't you want to be able to say that you were the only one who has fucked your spouse and that no else has ever touched them, and vice versa? Isn't that something special? Something to be proud of? And don't give me all that, "Well it's boring. I need some variety." bullshit. If your sex life with your spouse is boring well than that's your fault.

Your sex life would be boring because you'd suck due to no experience.
A lot of marriages end because they're either sexually incompatible or just flat out suck dick in bed, y'know.

So yes, reserving yourself until you're married is ridiculous.

Marrying or divorcing someone based on sexual performance is ridiculous.

Not really.
Not being sexually satisfied in a marriage can lead to unhappiness in the marriage, and is one of the reasons why people cheat on their spouse.

A good sexual relationship is a big factor to a healthy marriage. Divorcing someone because you're unhappy isn't ridiculous at all.

If you struggle that much to keep your genitals under control, then you've got bigger problems than marriage.

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Quote from: Mmmmm Napalm on February 14, 2015, 06:26:29 PM

Quote from: BritishLemön on February 14, 2015, 06:23:38 PM

Quote from: Chakas on February 14, 2015, 03:07:27 AM

Also, why do people think that waiting until marriage is ridiculous? Don't you want to be able to say that you were the only one who has fucked your spouse and that no else has ever touched them, and vice versa? Isn't that something special? Something to be proud of? And don't give me all that, "Well it's boring. I need some variety." bullshit. If your sex life with your spouse is boring well than that's your fault.

Your sex life would be boring because you'd suck due to no experience.
A lot of marriages end because they're either sexually incompatible or just flat out suck dick in bed, y'know.

So yes, reserving yourself until you're married is ridiculous.

Marrying or divorcing someone based on sexual performance is ridiculous.

Not really.
Not being sexually satisfied in a marriage can lead to unhappiness in the marriage, and is one of the reasons why people cheat on their spouse.

A good sexual relationship is a big factor to a healthy marriage. Divorcing someone because you're unhappy isn't ridiculous at all.

If you struggle that much to keep your genitals under control, then you've got bigger problems than marriage.

You're an idiot

Yeah, and?

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Quote from: Mmmmm Napalm on February 14, 2015, 06:26:29 PM

Quote from: BritishLemön on February 14, 2015, 06:23:38 PM

Quote from: Chakas on February 14, 2015, 03:07:27 AM

Also, why do people think that waiting until marriage is ridiculous? Don't you want to be able to say that you were the only one who has fucked your spouse and that no else has ever touched them, and vice versa? Isn't that something special? Something to be proud of? And don't give me all that, "Well it's boring. I need some variety." bullshit. If your sex life with your spouse is boring well than that's your fault.

Your sex life would be boring because you'd suck due to no experience.
A lot of marriages end because they're either sexually incompatible or just flat out suck dick in bed, y'know.

So yes, reserving yourself until you're married is ridiculous.

Marrying or divorcing someone based on sexual performance is ridiculous.

Sexual compatibility is extremely important

Define "sexual compatibility".

>compatible libidos
>willingness to satisfy each other sexually
>sexual attraction towards each other
>accepting of fetishes, kinks, boundaries, etc.

These are things you have to find out before marriage. Sex is an important part of a relationship. That doesn't mean you have to have sex all the time. Some people don't like sex as much as others, that's fine, but if you have a low libido or NO libido and you're with someone who loves sex and wants it frequently, you WILL have problems.

>compatible libidos
>willingness to satisfy each other sexually
>sexual attraction towards each other
>accepting of fetishes, kinks, boundaries, etc.

None of these things are things that cannot be fixed after marriage. It all comes down to initiative that a couple has to work out their sexual relationship.

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Quote from: Mmmmm Napalm on February 14, 2015, 06:26:29 PM

Quote from: BritishLemön on February 14, 2015, 06:23:38 PM

Quote from: Chakas on February 14, 2015, 03:07:27 AM

Also, why do people think that waiting until marriage is ridiculous? Don't you want to be able to say that you were the only one who has fucked your spouse and that no else has ever touched them, and vice versa? Isn't that something special? Something to be proud of? And don't give me all that, "Well it's boring. I need some variety." bullshit. If your sex life with your spouse is boring well than that's your fault.

Your sex life would be boring because you'd suck due to no experience.
A lot of marriages end because they're either sexually incompatible or just flat out suck dick in bed, y'know.

So yes, reserving yourself until you're married is ridiculous.

Marrying or divorcing someone based on sexual performance is ridiculous.

Not really.
Not being sexually satisfied in a marriage can lead to unhappiness in the marriage, and is one of the reasons why people cheat on their spouse.

A good sexual relationship is a big factor to a healthy marriage. Divorcing someone because you're unhappy isn't ridiculous at all.

If you struggle that much to keep your genitals under control, then you've got bigger problems than marriage.

Are you dumb?

Are you dumb?

Quote from: Assassin 11D7 on February 14, 2015, 06:45:03 PM

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Quote from: Assassin 11D7 on February 14, 2015, 06:38:08 PM

Quote from: BritishLemön on February 14, 2015, 06:33:34 PM

Quote from: Mmmmm Napalm on February 14, 2015, 06:26:29 PM

Quote from: BritishLemön on February 14, 2015, 06:23:38 PM

Quote from: Chakas on February 14, 2015, 03:07:27 AM

Also, why do people think that waiting until marriage is ridiculous? Don't you want to be able to say that you were the only one who has fucked your spouse and that no else has ever touched them, and vice versa? Isn't that something special? Something to be proud of? And don't give me all that, "Well it's boring. I need some variety." bullshit. If your sex life with your spouse is boring well than that's your fault.

Your sex life would be boring because you'd suck due to no experience.
A lot of marriages end because they're either sexually incompatible or just flat out suck dick in bed, y'know.

So yes, reserving yourself until you're married is ridiculous.

Marrying or divorcing someone based on sexual performance is ridiculous.

Not really.
Not being sexually satisfied in a marriage can lead to unhappiness in the marriage, and is one of the reasons why people cheat on their spouse.

A good sexual relationship is a big factor to a healthy marriage. Divorcing someone because you're unhappy isn't ridiculous at all.

If you struggle that much to keep your genitals under control, then you've got bigger problems than marriage.

Are you dumb?

Are you dumb?

assassin no

lemon no

Look, I can shitpost too

Quote from: Chakas on February 14, 2015, 06:36:16 PM

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Quote from: Chakas on February 14, 2015, 06:26:15 PM

Quote from: BritishLemön on February 14, 2015, 06:23:38 PM

Quote from: Chakas on February 14, 2015, 03:07:27 AM

Also, why do people think that waiting until marriage is ridiculous? Don't you want to be able to say that you were the only one who has fucked your spouse and that no else has ever touched them, and vice versa? Isn't that something special? Something to be proud of? And don't give me all that, "Well it's boring. I need some variety." bullshit. If your sex life with your spouse is boring well than that's your fault.

Your sex life would be boring because you'd suck due to no experience.
A lot of marriages end because they're either sexually incompatible or just flat out suck dick in bed, y'know.

So yes, reserving yourself until you're married is ridiculous.

You quoted my answer to what you just said. Congratulations.

Umm, no I didn't.

You said that waiting until marriage isn't ridiculous, and I gave factual reasons as to why it is ridiculous.

You didn't read the OP very well. I didn't say what you think I said. And yes, many marriages end because of sexual dissatisfaction. That is the couples fault an no on else. They didn't take the initiative to make their sex life with their partner any better. That's on them, and they chose to divorce rather than communicate with their partner. And it is likely that someone wouldn't be too experience in bed because of them being a virgin. I do not see this as a bad thing. Have you never considered the possibility of someone practicing in bed with their partner after marriage and learning each other kinks rather than doing the same thing before marriage on other people? It's a much more intimate experience. I'd rather marry someone who sucked in bed so we could both learn how the other works than marry someone who's amazing in bed but practiced on countless other guys to acquire that ability

That's how sex becomes boring.
You only know what they like because you've never slept with anyone else.

Doing the same thing becomes boring in almost everything you do.

Also, no sexual compatibility between two people isn't something you can change.
If you only have sex after marriage and find out you're not sexually compatible, then your sex life will be terrible and your marriage will probably end in divorce.

Can you link me to something that says sexual compatibility isn't something that you can change or work around? Libidos may be different, but it can be helped with communication between couples. It's not an absolute marriage destroyer. I never said anything about doing the same thing. Learning what your partner likes is only a first step. There are all sorts of things that you can try afterwards. The excitement in sex varies from couple to couple. Doing the same thing may or may not get boring depending on the people. There is no way to say with any credibility.