Why is being a virgin socially unacceptable?

Chakas · February 14, 2015, 03:07:27 AM

T4R. I think I'm a little out of touch with you people. Everytime I ask you guys I always get the same hormonal teenage responses and it really gets on my fucking nerves.
"OP is a virgin.",
"OP can't get some",
"LOL You'll never get laid faggot.".
"Saying you're waiting is just an excuse for not being able to get laid",
"If you haven't lost your virginity by 14 you should just kill yourself"
The list of bullshit replies and excuses go on and they piss me off. Fucking shit you people are unoriginal. I'm 48 years old people. I don't need to be told this shit because none of it's true. Unless all of you are pornstars, I've probably done more shit in bed than any of you. I may have even fathered some of you for all I know. Now, would someone please answer this question for me. I seriously don't understand why losing your virginity by 14-18 yo is so damn important to kids. You're dicks aren't even fully grown by then so why do you want to use them so badly? Also, why do people think that waiting until marriage is ridiculous? Don't you want to be able to say that you were the only one who has fucked your spouse and that no else has ever touched them, and vice versa? Isn't that something special? Something to be proud of? And don't give me all that, "Well it's boring. I need some variety." bullshit. If your sex life with your spouse is boring well than that's your fault. There is all sorts of kinky shit out there that you can try and if you haven't tried it all by the time you're 80 are bored with your sex life, then you don't love your spouse enough to take the initiative and entertain the two of you. You don't need a brand new dick or vagina to keep you entertained. You just need to find what you life. That might involve a shit-ton of latex or some other weird shit but that's your business. I need a legitimate response to lecture someone with and I've got jack shit. A response that can counter the typical ridiculous teenage responses that are given after every damn explanation. Can someone give me a reasonable answer.

Bonus gif because it made me lol:

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Hahahaha very funny Zonda · February 14, 2015, 03:10:17 AM

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big sponge · February 14, 2015, 03:11:40 AM

It isn't?

Some people just need something to make themselves feel superior. Not being a virgin is just one of those things they use.

Girl of Mystery · February 14, 2015, 03:16:11 AM

Umm, it's not.

Society is bigger than just the age group you mentioned you know.

Vezakam · February 14, 2015, 03:26:54 AM

I don't think I've ever met anyone that's seriously thought being a virgin was socially unacceptable. I didn't lose my virginity until I was 21 and no one gave a shit that I lost it that late.

Chakas · February 14, 2015, 03:31:01 AM

Quote from: BritishLemön on February 14, 2015, 03:16:11 AM

Umm, it's not.

Society is bigger than just the age group you mentioned you know.

I'm not talking about just them. I guess all the people in my city are just horny shallow assholes then.

Chakas · February 14, 2015, 03:31:41 AM

The last time I made a thread like this, the thing exploded with people raging about it. I don't get why it's completely different now.

February 14, 2015, 03:32:48 AM

OP can't get some

Chakas · February 14, 2015, 03:36:48 AM

Quote from: SecondClass on February 14, 2015, 03:32:48 AM

OP can't get some

I know you're not serious, but if you were, I'd say that I would smack you in the face with a leather belt from the window of a car going 50 MPH, and call you a little teenage bitch who can't see past the length of your own damn penis.

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It must suck not being able to see more than two inches in frost of you.

challengerX · February 14, 2015, 03:43:41 AM

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Chakas · February 14, 2015, 03:48:56 AM

Quote from: challengerX on February 14, 2015, 03:43:41 AM

Quote from: Chakas on February 14, 2015, 03:36:48 AM
Quote from: SecondClass on February 14, 2015, 03:32:48 AM
OP can't get some
I know you're not serious, but if you were, I'd say that I would smack you in the face with a leather belt from the window of a car going 50 MPH, and call you a little teenage bitch who can't see past the length of your own damn penis.

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It must suck not being able to see more than two inches in frost of you.
Stop projecting and go back to your fairies.

Projecting? And does that mean you'd rather me post fairies?

challengerX · February 14, 2015, 03:51:03 AM

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Chakas · February 14, 2015, 03:54:39 AM

Quote from: challengerX on February 14, 2015, 03:51:03 AM

Quote from: Chakas on February 14, 2015, 03:48:56 AM
Quote from: challengerX on February 14, 2015, 03:43:41 AM
Quote from: Chakas on February 14, 2015, 03:36:48 AM
Quote from: SecondClass on February 14, 2015, 03:32:48 AM
OP can't get some
I know you're not serious, but if you were, I'd say that I would smack you in the face with a leather belt from the window of a car going 50 MPH, and call you a little teenage bitch who can't see past the length of your own damn penis.

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It must suck not being able to see more than two inches in frost of you.
Stop projecting and go back to your fairies.
Projecting?

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And does that mean you'd rather me post fairies?
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Pretty sure I didn't say that at all, but knock yourself out.

It was a question. I was asking what you mean. So, what did you mean?

Juuzou · February 14, 2015, 04:47:23 PM

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RomanGladiator · February 14, 2015, 04:50:04 PM

Because some people are ugly like me, which means you will never get this, as Borat says.

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gats · February 14, 2015, 04:56:13 PM

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Also, why do people think that waiting until marriage is ridiculous? Don't you want to be able to say that you were the only one who has fucked your spouse and that no else has ever touched them, and vice versa?

Sex isn't some sacred event. Life isn't like the sims, confetti isn't going to pop out your backs when you orgasm. Why wait until you're married? There's nothing special about being with one person your whole life, people need to get rid of this image of purity they associate with those that haven't had sex. Sex isn't dirty or disgusting, it's just a normal process two humans (or more *le lenny*) can take part in with each other. So bang away folks.

Not to say being a virgin is bad but the assumption is that the more sex you have the better you are at it. A virgin is obviously going to be pretty bad at fucking which is why girls commonly make it out as if it's a bad thing.

Forgewolf · February 14, 2015, 04:59:25 PM

Almost 24 here.. Have not lost my virginity and not in debt : D. The single life is an easy life because what matters most to me is #1!

*puffs pipe*

CIS · February 14, 2015, 05:00:45 PM

OP is a 48 year old NEET involuntary celibate.

Epsira · February 14, 2015, 05:13:07 PM

People establish all sorts of qualifications to make themselves feel better about existing.

Mad Max · February 14, 2015, 05:38:04 PM

literally anyone over the age of 16.

Elai · February 14, 2015, 05:52:49 PM

I'd bang someone if I was attracted to them in a way that would make me seriously contemplate monogamy. Too bad I've only found two people like that in my life and they're no longer options for me.

Chakas · February 14, 2015, 05:57:06 PM

Quote from: Gatsby on February 14, 2015, 04:56:13 PM

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Also, why do people think that waiting until marriage is ridiculous? Don't you want to be able to say that you were the only one who has fucked your spouse and that no else has ever touched them, and vice versa?
Sex isn't some sacred event. Life isn't like the sims, confetti isn't going to pop out your backs when you orgasm. Why wait until you're married? There's nothing special about being with one person your whole life, people need to get rid of this image of purity they associate with those that haven't had sex. Sex isn't dirty or disgusting, it's just a normal process two humans (or more *le lenny*) can take part in with each other. So bang away folks.

Not to say being a virgin is bad but the assumption is that the more sex you have the better you are at it. A virgin is obviously going to be pretty bad at fucking which is why girls commonly make it out as if it's a bad thing.

You put so many words in my mouth. I don't even know where to start. Everything you said is all just your opinion and not fact. I just don't see why wanting to marry someone who hasn't had several other people's dicks in them is a bad thing. I never said anything about sex being disgusting. It's not the sex that's disgusting. It's the thought of someone else being with your partner, and someone else being the one who was with your partner for the first time. It makes me feel territorial and pissed off over something I can't ever change. Sex with a spouse can be either special or just straight up banging for pleasure. If you don't think sex is special, then fine. That's your opinion. I think it all depends on who you are with and the circumstances behind it.

Chakas · February 14, 2015, 06:01:58 PM

Quote from: Mad Max on February 14, 2015, 05:38:04 PM

literally anyone over the age of 16.

What?

gats · February 14, 2015, 06:02:38 PM

Quote from: Chakas on February 14, 2015, 05:57:06 PM

No it's not an opinion, if you have a problem with a women who has had previous partners then it's your fault for having such a childish mentality. Grow up.

Also might I add if people do see sex as something special and sacred that's because of the way they have been raised. You know with religious folk teaching their kids that sex is bad and should only be for the one person they marry that god has accepted as your lawful wedded spouse and all that bullshit.

Mad Max · February 14, 2015, 06:02:46 PM

Quote from: Chakas on February 14, 2015, 06:01:58 PM

Quote from: Mad Max on February 14, 2015, 05:38:04 PM
literally anyone over the age of 16.
What?

my bad. i read it as "when"

Chakas · February 14, 2015, 06:10:40 PM

Quote from: Gatsby on February 14, 2015, 06:02:38 PM

Quote from: Chakas on February 14, 2015, 05:57:06 PM

No it's not an opinion, if you have a problem with a women who has had previous partners then it's your fault for having such a childish mentality. Grow up.

Also might I add if people do see sex as something special and sacred that's because of the way they have been raised. You know with religious folk teaching their kids that sex is bad and should only be for the one person they marry that god has accepted as your lawful wedded spouse and all that bullshit.

Everything you are saying is an opinion. Everything I am saying is an opinion. Stop trying to be some social justice warrior. This whole conversation is a matter of opinion. I was never raised with the mentality that sex is bad nor did I mention such a notion. I don't think the thoughts I have are a childish mentality. I think they are a natural mentality that any man would have when they think of any other man touching their significant other. I think any man who says he's fine with it is just suppressing the thoughts and wants to think it never happened. This isn't a debate. It's an exchange of opinions. Stop trying to win. There's nothing to win here. The only thing either of us can get here if we try to debate this is some sort of twisted self-gratification from thinking our opinions are superior and we expressed it as such.

Chakas · February 14, 2015, 06:15:09 PM

Quote from: Mad Max on February 14, 2015, 06:02:46 PM

Quote from: Chakas on February 14, 2015, 06:01:58 PM
Quote from: Mad Max on February 14, 2015, 05:38:04 PM
literally anyone over the age of 16.
What?
my bad. i read it as "when"

In that case, I find it ridiculous either way.

gats · February 14, 2015, 06:19:06 PM

Quote from: Chakas on February 14, 2015, 06:10:40 PM

Opinions can still be right and wrong you know.

Girl of Mystery · February 14, 2015, 06:19:42 PM

Quote from: Mad Max on February 14, 2015, 06:02:46 PM

Quote from: Chakas on February 14, 2015, 06:01:58 PM
Quote from: Mad Max on February 14, 2015, 05:38:04 PM
literally anyone over the age of 16.
What?
my bad. i read it as "when"

How is it socially unacceptable?

Mmmmm Napalm · February 14, 2015, 06:20:03 PM

Quote from: Chakas on February 14, 2015, 03:07:27 AM

Also, why do people think that waiting until marriage is ridiculous? Don't you want to be able to say that you were the only one who has fucked your spouse and that no else has ever touched them, and vice versa? Isn't that something special? Something to be proud of? And don't give me all that, "Well it's boring. I need some variety." bullshit. If your sex life with your spouse is boring well than that's your fault.

Chakas, I like you.