Who's in the right and wrong here

Septy · November 05, 2015, 02:39:46 PM

So my brother just came and talked to me. He said his fraternity is having a barbecue in 30 minutes and that I should go. I declined and he said too bad because he already paid for me to be there.

I said I wasn't going and what he was doing is rude.

DAS B00T x2 · November 05, 2015, 02:40:53 PM

Dude

Go the fuck outside.

Thun · November 05, 2015, 02:42:40 PM

he's a faggot

SecondClass · November 05, 2015, 02:42:51 PM

Yeah, that's on him. He wasted his money, period. He didn't want to waste it, he should've asked you first.

Solonoid · November 05, 2015, 02:46:31 PM

He should've asked you first, but it would have been polite of you to go since he was trying to do something nice for you.

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Desty · November 05, 2015, 02:48:08 PM

You both know he's in the wrong, but it's tough to realize that you've wasted money, so try to be sensible about explaining why he's in the fault.

Luke · November 05, 2015, 02:51:12 PM

he probably should have asked you first, rather than wasting his money

Septy · November 05, 2015, 02:52:17 PM

Quote from: DASINATOR B00TMEGA on November 05, 2015, 02:40:53 PM

Dude

Go the fuck outside.

When was the last time you left your attic

Verbatim · November 05, 2015, 02:53:24 PM

You're always in the wrong, Septy.

Thun · November 05, 2015, 02:55:19 PM

Quote from: Septy on November 05, 2015, 02:52:17 PM

Quote from: DASINATOR B00TMEGA on November 05, 2015, 02:40:53 PM
Dude

Go the fuck outside.
When was the last time you left your attic

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The Lord Ruler · November 05, 2015, 02:55:55 PM

I mean he probably should've asked you before paying but, I don't see why you wouldn't go?

DAS B00T x2 · November 05, 2015, 02:56:24 PM

Quote from: Septy on November 05, 2015, 02:52:17 PM

Quote from: DASINATOR B00TMEGA on November 05, 2015, 02:40:53 PM
Dude

Go the fuck outside.
When was the last time you left your attic

An hour ago.

Ushan · November 05, 2015, 02:56:29 PM

Not that it's of any relevance here, but why don't you want to go?

Septy · November 05, 2015, 02:59:19 PM

Quote from: Ushan on November 05, 2015, 02:56:29 PM

Not that it's of any relevance here, but why don't you want to go?

Do you even fraternity

Jono · November 05, 2015, 03:02:05 PM

Just go, eat, and then leave.

That's what I always do at family gatherings.

Dietrich Six · November 05, 2015, 03:07:30 PM

Just go, it'll be good for you.

Epsira · November 05, 2015, 03:55:43 PM

He spent money and didn't notify you beforehand. That's definitely on him.

ExodusMae · November 05, 2015, 04:19:41 PM

Why would you decline free food?

Epsira · November 05, 2015, 04:20:47 PM

Quote from: ExodusMae on November 05, 2015, 04:19:41 PM

Why would you decline free food?

Frat guys.

Casper · November 05, 2015, 04:27:03 PM

I mean, that's kind of rude of you. He tried to do something nice for you.

Epsira · November 05, 2015, 04:29:49 PM

Quote from: Casper on November 05, 2015, 04:27:03 PM

I mean, that's kind of rude of you. He tried to do something nice for you.

Yeah, something HE thought was nice without consultation.
Imposing upon people is also rude.

Casper · November 05, 2015, 04:32:52 PM

Quote from: The Lord Barometer on November 05, 2015, 04:29:49 PM

Quote from: Casper on November 05, 2015, 04:27:03 PM
I mean, that's kind of rude of you. He tried to do something nice for you.
Yeah, something HE thought was nice without consultation.
Imposing upon people is also rude.

At least he tried not thinking about just himself. And gave up his money for someone else. That's like someone trying to give you a gift and you reject it. It's rude.

Jive Turkey · November 05, 2015, 04:32:57 PM

Just go man it'll be fun, frat guys are cool

Septy · November 05, 2015, 04:35:44 PM

Quote from: Casper on November 05, 2015, 04:32:52 PM

Quote from: The Lord Barometer on November 05, 2015, 04:29:49 PM
Quote from: Casper on November 05, 2015, 04:27:03 PM
I mean, that's kind of rude of you. He tried to do something nice for you.
Yeah, something HE thought was nice without consultation.
Imposing upon people is also rude.
At least he tried not thinking about just himself. And gave up his money for someone else. That's like someone trying to give you a gift and you reject it. It's rude.

It's all about common courtesy

Azumarill · November 05, 2015, 04:35:49 PM

tell him to bring you back some bbq because you dont wanna go but he paid for your meal anyway. i think thats a fair compromise.

DAS B00T x2 · November 05, 2015, 04:44:27 PM

>he doesn't want yo go to BBQ for free because frat guys
>he doesn't realize that frat guys are pretty fucking normal dudes