Trying your best.

Doing what you can to set up your child mentally, emotionally, and giving them the capacity to succeed

Which is easy to write but not so easy to do lol

Doing what you can to set up your child mentally, emotionally, and giving them the capacity to succeed

Which is easy to write but not so easy to do lol

Fucking tell me about it.

This is something any dad would get. My Youngest got into a fight with his older brother. He's 20 months old. His brother is over 3. The oldest took a toy from him, so he balled up a chubby little fist and punched him in the eye. I felt proud. He'll never be bullied. He already knows how to properly throw a right hook. But I still had to give him a time out for it. He's also very proud of his penis. There isn't a bathtime that happens that he doesn't grab it and yell in his lowest voice (mimicking mine, though I've never encouraged this) PEEPEE.

How can you not be proud of this? He is proud of his penis and can throw a punch. But I am forced to give him timeouts.

Quote from: MyNameIsCharlie on May 19, 2016, 01:19:11 AM

Quote from: Dissonance on May 19, 2016, 01:13:05 AM

Doing what you can to set up your child mentally, emotionally, and giving them the capacity to succeed

Which is easy to write but not so easy to do lol

Fucking tell me about it.

This is something any dad would get. My Youngest got into a fight with his older brother. He's 20 months old. His brother is over 3. The oldest took a toy from him, so he balled up a chubby little fist and punched him in the eye. I felt proud. He'll never be bullied. He already knows how to properly throw a right hook. But I still had to give him a time out for it. He's also very proud of his penis. There isn't a bathtime that happens that he doesn't grab it and yell in his lowest voice (mimicking mine, though I've never encouraged this) PEEPEE.

How can you not be proud of this? He is proud of his penis and can throw a punch. But I am forced to give him timeouts.

Because you need to show your kid how to act socially and that violence is not to be glorified??
Are you trying to make a point?

Only that being a dad has some really weird grey areas. He gets his timeouts for these. But I am still proud of him

Quote from: Dissonance on May 19, 2016, 01:21:13 AM

Quote from: MyNameIsCharlie on May 19, 2016, 01:19:11 AM

Quote from: Dissonance on May 19, 2016, 01:13:05 AM

Doing what you can to set up your child mentally, emotionally, and giving them the capacity to succeed

Which is easy to write but not so easy to do lol

Fucking tell me about it.

This is something any dad would get. My Youngest got into a fight with his older brother. He's 20 months old. His brother is over 3. The oldest took a toy from him, so he balled up a chubby little fist and punched him in the eye. I felt proud. He'll never be bullied. He already knows how to properly throw a right hook. But I still had to give him a time out for it. He's also very proud of his penis. There isn't a bathtime that happens that he doesn't grab it and yell in his lowest voice (mimicking mine, though I've never encouraged this) PEEPEE.

How can you not be proud of this? He is proud of his penis and can throw a punch. But I am forced to give him timeouts.

Because you need to show your kid how to act socially and that violence is not to be glorified??
Are you trying to make a point?

Only that being a dad has some really weird grey areas. He gets his timeouts for these. But I am still proud of him

I can't say but it seems like a lot of times it's principle vs outcome

Of course you can be proud as you should
But you still need to punish him for it
Because if you tell your 3 year old that you're proud of him for hurting another person, it won't have the best results

Don't remarry after a couple of months and move an hour away with your new wife who doesn't let you drink or listen to music.

Don't remarry after a couple of months and move an hour away with your new wife who doesn't let you drink or listen to music.

Ok. That's doable. If anything Al Baghdadi tries to be a good mom to them too, but keeping the proper distance to not be mommy. Again, too many grey areas. I do the same with her boy, but it's hard cause his dad is an uninvolved piece of shit

Love your children, protect them, and provide for them as best as you can. The basics, essentially.


However, I believe the greatest gift a child can be given is teaching them to be mindful and instilling them with the will the learn. Mindfulness leads to greater wisdom which, in turn, leads to a better use of knowledge acquired and less mistakes throughout life.

buying them cake literally everyday

Quote from: gats on May 19, 2016, 05:25:13 AM

buying them cake literally everyday

PEDARSAG

who the fuck you calling a dog fam? dayous

A huge penile