STOP BULLYING ME YOU JAIL BAIT LOVING SHIT LORD!

Fapping doesn't build measurable strength. It only tones a select few muscles slightly.

God you're such a sick fuck.

If she's alreay jailbait she's too old for me.

Quote from: DAS B00T 2016 on March 28, 2016, 06:38:46 PM

Ah ha! That's my girl!

but das

something something securing future for something something white children

I've given up, Verb. I'll never stop fighting myself, but I refuse to bring a child into this Islamified degenerate world.

Creepers like you aren't right in the head.

I'm quite healthy, actually.

Trash bag? What the fuck are you talking about? Did the tin foil finally get into your brain and screw with the cabling?

I'm perfectly sane, trash bag boy. Are you?

Holy shit it's been almost two years since that happened, surprised you remembered that considering I don't even remember posting it.

Ultimately she DIDN'T laugh, she held it in. But whatever, she disappeared and I'll thankfully never see her again.

Don't you remember the story you told me once? It was raining but you needed to do something outside and you didn't have a jacket, so you fashioned something out of a garbage bag with another co-worker, and then this other girl co-worker that you fancied saw you and laughed at you.

Seriously, when did I post that? i don't remember mentioning it anywhere online.

I remember the stupidest shit...

Insecurity has borders across all spectrums of people's thoughts and emotions. But the core of it is this alone.

Inside a person's own head, whether it's known or buried deep in their sub-conscious, that person, in some way feels invalidated with themselves and has a deep need to try and make themselves feel valid.

That invalidation manifests itself in so many ways among people though.  Which is why in some cases, insecurity can be hard to spot because its lines blur with so many common things that people do. It has a root cause but not a root outcome.

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Quote from: Prime X on March 28, 2016, 05:36:18 PM

Fear derived from uncertainty.

You know, that definition says a bit about you.

I'd describe insecurity as something to strive for, since being secure means being certain, thus things aren't challenging. It is the challenges along our lives that elevates us to a higher level, or makes us crumble. Feeling fear means choosing to remain stagnant in fear of crumbling.

Insecure is not secure. Security is certainty, assurance, strong conviction. The most base fear is fear of the unknown. Therefore fear derived from uncertainty is insecurity.

Note that insecurity is necessary, not sufficient. You seemed to gloss over that in your over-analysis.

Oh you are my sacred user on this site.

I will break down what you wrote tom- later on today, after I've slept. Kind of an inconsiderate move on my behalf, but still.

Just thought I'd explain it for you, since you took it a bit out of context. I'd consider myself insecure, but not for the reasons you listed.

Insecurity isn't literal; bouldering, while by definition is "unsecured" doesn't make the climber insecure. In all likelihood, someone who boulders is probably quite secure in their abilities. Insecurity (to slightly fix my previous definition) is to fall to the fear of uncertainty. Security is to overcome it.

"not confident about yourself or your ability to do things well"
is in a definition I googled, but you describe the word as if the above leads to fear. Uncertainty to you, if I've understood correctly, is fear. You fear the unknown. Not fearing the unkown is to no longer be insecure, but I say there's another side to the word.
 

I'd say that the human who attacks the red guy is insecure, but not afraid. He is anxious, and doesn't only doubt his abilities, but he knows that his abilities are inferior. By your definition, him not feeling fear would make him secure, but that doesn't seem to be the case for me. I say you can be insecure, but not feel fear.

Hey I want to be psychoanalysed

What, by me? Haven't I already done that in the past? I'm 90% certain that I have.

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Hey I want to be psychoanalysed

What, by me? Haven't I already done that in the past? I'm 90% certain that I have.

I don't remember

I don't remember what I wrote verbatim, but I most likely brought up how you're content with everything because you're passive. I also brought up how you don't see the need to workout as an example of your contentment with mediocrity as long as you have one goal you find meaning in.

Quote from: Desty on March 29, 2016, 06:24:21 AM

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Quote from: Desty on March 29, 2016, 05:18:36 AM

Quote from: BaconShelf on March 29, 2016, 04:57:41 AM

Hey I want to be psychoanalysed

What, by me? Haven't I already done that in the past? I'm 90% certain that I have.

I don't remember

I don't remember what I wrote verbatimly, but I most likely brought up how you're content with everything because you're passive. I also brought up how you don't see the need to workout as an example of your contentment with mediocrity as long as you have one goal you find meaning in.

You don't remember what you wrote verbatim.

I fell prey to a memedictionary site. Yes, you are correct.

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Quote from: Desty on March 28, 2016, 05:51:53 PM

Quote from: Prime X on March 28, 2016, 05:48:58 PM

Quote from: Desty on March 28, 2016, 05:43:03 PM

Quote from: Prime X on March 28, 2016, 05:36:18 PM

Fear derived from uncertainty.

You know, that definition says a bit about you.

I'd describe insecurity as something to strive for, since being secure means being certain, thus things aren't challenging. It is the challenges along our lives that elevates us to a higher level, or makes us crumble. Feeling fear means choosing to remain stagnant in fear of crumbling.

Insecure is not secure. Security is certainty, assurance, strong conviction. The most base fear is fear of the unknown. Therefore fear derived from uncertainty is insecurity.

Note that insecurity is necessary, not sufficient. You seemed to gloss over that in your over-analysis.

Oh you are my sacred user on this site.

I will break down what you wrote tom- later on today, after I've slept. Kind of an inconsiderate move on my behalf, but still.

Just thought I'd explain it for you, since you took it a bit out of context. I'd consider myself insecure, but not for the reasons you listed.

Insecurity isn't literal; bouldering, while by definition is "unsecured" doesn't make the climber insecure. In all likelihood, someone who boulders is probably quite secure in their abilities. Insecurity (to slightly fix my previous definition) is to fall to the fear of uncertainty. Security is to overcome it.

"not confident about yourself or your ability to do things well"
is in a definition I googled, but you describe the word as if the above leads to fear. Uncertainty to you, if I've understood correctly, is fear. You fear the unknown. Not fearing the unkown is to no longer be insecure, but I say there's another side to the word.
 

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I'd say that the human who attacks the red guy is insecure, but not afraid. He is anxious, and doesn't only doubt his abilities, but he knows that his abilities are inferior. By your definition, him not feeling fear would make him secure, but that doesn't seem to be the case for me. I say you can be insecure, but not feel fear.

I have two comments. The first is that dictionaries are near useless for forming personal definitions. It's a reference guide for societal usage, not ironclad. If you need an example, look up "inflammable".

Second, my follow-up post clarified it a bit. It doesn't "lead to fear". It's a form of fear, like achrophobia is a fear of highs.