What do you focus more on, pleasing yourself or pleasing your partner?

BC · February 28, 2015, 09:34:58 PM

In terms of sex, are you more focused on your own pleasure, or do you feed off your partners pleasure.

I find myself guilty of caring more about the other persons pleasure then myself. I don't care if I ever climax, but my girlfriend (or whomever I'm having sex with) has to atleast 3 orgasims before I consider it a successful session.

Is that a little much? In truth, not really, it's quite easy, but in moments where time isn't plentiful it gets tricky.

So what about you?

February 28, 2015, 09:35:44 PM

I fucked up nevertheless.

CK97 · February 28, 2015, 09:37:04 PM

Partner. Basically, I'm satisfied when my partner's satisfied.

nͫiͤcͫeͤ · February 28, 2015, 09:37:51 PM

if the road doesnt have two lanes it aint no road at all

Word Wizard · February 28, 2015, 09:37:54 PM

Do you have sex everyday? 3 times seems like a lot after a while, especially since you say your sessions last 3 hours.

OT: I place their satisfaction above mine.

Luciana · February 28, 2015, 09:39:14 PM

You're asking this group about sex?

Let me ask a class of blind people about sight seeing.

DAS B00T x2 · February 28, 2015, 09:40:47 PM

If I'm engaging in meaningless sex, I'm doing it for myself.

Sandtrap · February 28, 2015, 09:41:19 PM

Never had. But if I did, making said partner happy would be my priority. And, likewise, if they were anything like me then I could hope they'd be focused on making me happy. But I wouldn't care much if they weren't.

The way most sex is portrayed nowadays is guys coming in, having their fun, and then pissing off. Intimacy is something special when you know how to push your partner's buttons and you do.

CK97 · February 28, 2015, 09:42:27 PM

Quote from: Luciana on February 28, 2015, 09:39:14 PM

You're asking this group about sex?

Let me ask a class of blind people about sight seeing.

Not everyone here is a neckbeard who's incapable of getting a partner.

Rinev · February 28, 2015, 09:42:39 PM

Well I'm single, so both I guess?

N/A · February 28, 2015, 09:43:46 PM

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True Turquoise · February 28, 2015, 09:44:38 PM

I've totally had sex

Doctor Doom · February 28, 2015, 09:44:39 PM

>me having a partner

Hahahaha! Haha...ha...

*sob*

BC · February 28, 2015, 09:54:36 PM

Quote from: Sly Instinct on February 28, 2015, 09:37:54 PM

Do you have sex everyday? 3 times seems like a lot after a while, especially since you say your sessions last 3 hours.

OT: I place their satisfaction above mine.

It's not hard. I'll make her climax twice in less then ten minutes. But yea, we have sex for very long periods of time. We don't do it everyday, maybe once or twice a week

TB · February 28, 2015, 09:56:41 PM

Quote from: True Turquoise on February 28, 2015, 09:44:38 PM

I've totally had sex

DAS B00T x2 · February 28, 2015, 09:56:46 PM

Quote from: BC on February 28, 2015, 09:54:36 PM

It's not hard. I'll make her climax twice in less then ten minutes.

One of my eyebrows is raised. The other curves downward. One corner of my mouth is pulled upwards.

Verbatim · February 28, 2015, 09:59:22 PM

partner

that's what it should be all about

BC · February 28, 2015, 10:08:51 PM

Quote from: DASIUS B00TICUS SNAKESAR on February 28, 2015, 09:56:46 PM

Quote from: BC on February 28, 2015, 09:54:36 PM
It's not hard. I'll make her climax twice in less then ten minutes.
One of my eyebrows is raised. The other curves downward. One corner of my mouth is pulled upwards.

Meaning?

SecondClass · February 28, 2015, 10:10:49 PM

I definitely aim to please, but my pleasure is more important at the end of the day.

Elai · February 28, 2015, 10:16:35 PM

In my experience, those of us who are more interested in pleasing others over ourselves typically have self-esteem issues and crave praise.

But I mean, it really is the only answer. If you genuinely care about your partner, that is.

DAS B00T x2 · February 28, 2015, 10:20:23 PM

Quote from: BC on February 28, 2015, 10:08:51 PM

Quote from: DASIUS B00TICUS SNAKESAR on February 28, 2015, 09:56:46 PM
Quote from: BC on February 28, 2015, 09:54:36 PM
It's not hard. I'll make her climax twice in less then ten minutes.
One of my eyebrows is raised. The other curves downward. One corner of my mouth is pulled upwards.

Meaning?

Ásgeirr · February 28, 2015, 10:22:40 PM

What's sex?

Sandtrap · February 28, 2015, 10:23:40 PM

Quote from: BC on February 28, 2015, 10:08:51 PM

Quote from: DASIUS B00TICUS SNAKESAR on February 28, 2015, 09:56:46 PM
Quote from: BC on February 28, 2015, 09:54:36 PM
It's not hard. I'll make her climax twice in less then ten minutes.
One of my eyebrows is raised. The other curves downward. One corner of my mouth is pulled upwards.

Meaning?

BC · February 28, 2015, 10:27:09 PM

Quote from: Oss on February 28, 2015, 10:22:40 PM

What's sex?

Lmao

A Cheese Potato · February 28, 2015, 10:33:55 PM

What's a partner, is that like some kind of glove you put on your masturbating hand or something

Turkey · February 28, 2015, 10:52:56 PM

Both. Aim for at least 3, but sorenesss and all. TMI.

🂿 · February 28, 2015, 10:55:05 PM

My partner. Obviously.

If I wanna please myself I'll masturbate.

Solonoid · February 28, 2015, 11:09:48 PM

Quote from: check em on February 28, 2015, 09:37:51 PM

if the road doesnt have two lanes it aint no road at all

Quite right.
It's more of an alley.

Which is why sex is best in an alleyway.
Without consent.
That way you don't have to worry about pleasing anyone else.

nͫiͤcͫeͤ · February 28, 2015, 11:11:49 PM

Quote from: Soʟoɴoɪᴅ on February 28, 2015, 11:09:48 PM

Quote from: check em on February 28, 2015, 09:37:51 PM
if the road doesnt have two lanes it aint no road at all
Quite right.
It's more of an alley.

Which is why sex is best in an alleyway.
Without consent.
That way you don't have to worry about pleasing anyone else.

#deepthinking

CIA · February 28, 2015, 11:15:44 PM

ITT: BC humblebragging about all the ass he gets