Tired of the single life

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Single for three years, on and off dating sites since then. Thought I would have my time for a serious relationship in college or maybe some sexual experience, but it breezed by and that didn't happen. I work with a bunch of 18 year-olds in retail, but there's no way I'd be interested in someone five years younger. Trying to date someone from online is like pulling teeth, so I deleted both my accounts from two different sites. Last date I went on was a year ago, and the one before that another entire year. I'd like to think that two people just meet naturally or randomly in a social setting, but that has never happened to me. It happened to my friend junior year of college, a girl he didn't even know approached him and now they've been together for over two years. Why can't that shit happen to me? Latest girl I met online said I was too inexperienced for her at my age and we never even ended up meeting. Catch 22.


 
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I've  become entirely happy with my self imposed semi-reclusion and singularity.

Help me.


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I've  become entirely happy with my self imposed semi-reclusion and singularity.

Help me.
I'm not. I try to tell myself I am all the time. But gaming away my Friday nights and seeing movies by myself...there's no point. I want to enjoy things with someone else.


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Just be yourself, find a hobby or something other people will look at and possibly like you. I know everyone says it, but really just be yourself. There's actually a few girls who like me, it's such a weird feeling.


 
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I DONT GIVE A SINGLE -blam!- MOTHER -blam!-ER ITS A MOTHER -blam!-ING FORUM, OH WOW, YOU HAVE THE WORD NINJA BELOW YOUR NAME, HOW MOTHER -blam!-ING COOL, NOT, YOUR ARE NOTHING TO ME BUT A BRAINWASHED PIECE OF SHIT BLOGGER, PEOPLE ONLY LIKE YOU BECAUSE YOU HAVE NINJA BELOW YOUR NAME, SO PLEASE PUNCH YOURAELF IN THE FACE AND STAB YOUR EYE BECAUSE YOU ARE NOTHING BUT A PIECE OF SHIT OF SOCIETY
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Relationships aren't all that great unless you really love somebody.

Problem with you is you didn't even try to meet people in college. You'd just play games all the time expecting some 10/10 to come through your door and give you a blow job. I remember a thread you made 2 years ago saying if you should go to a party and you decided not to go even though everybody in the thread was telling you to go.

I'm not sure what to tell you. All you do is wallow in self pity instead of taking the steps to be where you want to be. If you want something, go get it. It's that simple.
My time in college I had: One three month relationship sophomore year. Completely one-sided and we had nothing common, guess I was desperate.

Dated two women junior year, I think two dates each before they said not interested

Senior year, one date


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The angel then led the demon to heaven, where he underwent centuries of the cruelest tortures imaginable. Finally, the pain was so great that he lost consciousness - at which point his dark wings turned the promised shade of white.
Ill never understand why most people are so desperate for relationships...


 
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I DONT GIVE A SINGLE -blam!- MOTHER -blam!-ER ITS A MOTHER -blam!-ING FORUM, OH WOW, YOU HAVE THE WORD NINJA BELOW YOUR NAME, HOW MOTHER -blam!-ING COOL, NOT, YOUR ARE NOTHING TO ME BUT A BRAINWASHED PIECE OF SHIT BLOGGER, PEOPLE ONLY LIKE YOU BECAUSE YOU HAVE NINJA BELOW YOUR NAME, SO PLEASE PUNCH YOURAELF IN THE FACE AND STAB YOUR EYE BECAUSE YOU ARE NOTHING BUT A PIECE OF SHIT OF SOCIETY
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Ill never understand why most people are so desperate for relationships...
Human wiring. They haven't evolved to our level yet.


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Relationships aren't all that great unless you really love somebody.

Problem with you is you didn't even try to meet people in college. You'd just play games all the time expecting some 10/10 to come through your door and give you a blow job. I remember a thread you made 2 years ago saying if you should go to a party and you decided not to go even though everybody in the thread was telling you to go.

I'm not sure what to tell you. All you do is wallow in self pity instead of taking the steps to be where you want to be. If you want something, go get it. It's that simple.
My time in college I had: One three month relationship sophomore year. Completely one-sided and we had nothing common, guess I was desperate.

Dated two women junior year, I think two dates each before they said not interested

Senior year, one date
What did you do and how did you act for all these women (barring the first one) to all be uninterested? Obviously they were interested at first. What did you do with them?
Nothing out of the ordinary. Went out to eat or coffee, and talked.


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Go to a bar and try to strike up a conversation. Ask to buy somebody a drink.


 
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I DONT GIVE A SINGLE -blam!- MOTHER -blam!-ER ITS A MOTHER -blam!-ING FORUM, OH WOW, YOU HAVE THE WORD NINJA BELOW YOUR NAME, HOW MOTHER -blam!-ING COOL, NOT, YOUR ARE NOTHING TO ME BUT A BRAINWASHED PIECE OF SHIT BLOGGER, PEOPLE ONLY LIKE YOU BECAUSE YOU HAVE NINJA BELOW YOUR NAME, SO PLEASE PUNCH YOURAELF IN THE FACE AND STAB YOUR EYE BECAUSE YOU ARE NOTHING BUT A PIECE OF SHIT OF SOCIETY
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We always say to fight fire, you must use fire. This is wrong. Fighting fire with fire will leave scars and a new flame will rise. We must instead use water. It is the opposite of fire, it extinguishes the fire, it cools, it refreshes, it heals. We are made up of 70% water, we are not made up of 70% fire. Please practice what we truly are
Ever thought that maybe you are one of the many growing group of people, that realize being single means freedom.
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I'm not trying to sound like a badass, but the single life is nice because you can flirt with any girl you want and hook up. If you do the same, you'll enjoy it too rather than be desperate for a relationship.
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I don't think anybody here can offer any solid advice. Because the one truth to it all, is that it is, at it's core, random chance.

That's all it is.

I sat down one day, and asked myself. Why am I not approached by anybody? Why, when I try to approach, do things end in a hang up or a hitch? Because for once here, just once, and only once. I will admit that I have more good qualities than bad. And while my bad qualities can be hard to deal with, I'd bet any money that in sight of somebody I'd just like to spend time with, they'd lessen.

I even did the general, estimated mathematics based on the number of my people in my province on age range, population centers, and so on.

I'm an outsider on who I am, what I do, and how I think.

I'm not alone. But the sheer chance, of bumping into a singular, other person like me, who likes me, is actually astronomically low. Even my family, has a terrible track record.

My mother got into a relationship, got divorced. Single ever since.

My father, same deal.

My Uncle. Always single.

My sister has been the only one to break that. And how'd she do it?

Chance. That's all it is. My only advice to you?

Either put everything you have into finding somebody. All your effort, every single thing you can try. Or saddle up for the long haul because it's one you'll do alone, likely for a very long time.


 
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You will find out who you are not a thousand times, before you ever discover who you are. I hope you find peace in yourself and learn to love instead of hate.
I feel like this Once in a while. Thankfully 90% of the time I'm completely content with the single life. Be like me


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Ever thought that maybe you are one of the many growing group of people, that realize being single means freedom.
Yeah, but can binge gaming and watching as many movies as I want really fill the void of being with someone? It doesn't anymore. I've had three years of doing that.


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I'm not trying to sound like a badass, but the single life is nice because you can flirt with any girl you want and hook up. If you do the same, you'll enjoy it too rather than be desperate for a relationship.
I'm too nice to even want to hook up. I had an entire apartment to myself senior year of college and thought about it, but never did,


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I'm actually enjoying my bachelor status. Seems like a lot of effort to be in a relationship.


 
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Ever thought that maybe you are one of the many growing group of people, that realize being single means freedom.
Yeah, but can binge gaming and watching as many movies as I want really fill the void of being with someone? It doesn't anymore. I've had three years of doing that.
Who said being single = being a recluse that only plays games and watches movies?


 
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This is not the greatest sig in the world, no. This is just a tribute.
I'm too nice to even want to hook up.
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Ever thought that maybe you are one of the many growing group of people, that realize being single means freedom.
Yeah, but can binge gaming and watching as many movies as I want really fill the void of being with someone? It doesn't anymore. I've had three years of doing that.
Who said being single = being a recluse that only plays games and watches movies?
That's what it's like for me. Sure, I work part-time, but I have too much escapism in my life that it barely feels like I'm experiencing anything else besides those things.


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Ever thought that maybe you are one of the many growing group of people, that realize being single means freedom.
Yeah, but can binge gaming and watching as many movies as I want really fill the void of being with someone? It doesn't anymore. I've had three years of doing that.
Who said being single = being a recluse that only plays games and watches movies?
That's what it's like for me. Sure, I work part-time, but I have too much escapism in my life that it barely feels like I'm experiencing anything else besides those things.
I'm not one to talk, but get a social life.


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come to my house and play Mario Party with me
Okay, I want a Wii U.


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I neither fear, nor despise.
No worries, you've just to keep looking until you find that person you just "click" with.
I think I've found that person finally, but I need to get to know her a little bit more.

That's all there is to it. You either look and eventually find them, or you don't look and never find them. Keyword is "eventually". I can't say how long it will take for you to find this person, it could take 20 years, but the point is its worth the searching.


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