You shot yourself in the foot trying to be straightforward about not rushing things.Now she knows as an objective fact your plan was to fuck her that night.ffs take a girl out for a good time and she'll want to be with you p much immediately after.She wants to go back to your place if after dinner or whatever she asks, "Where do you wanna go/what do you wanna do now?"Like shit man, its basic science, if she stands you up don't try to reschedule for the very next day, a date should be a casual occurrence that takes place when you're both free.Never try to reschedule a date, it feels clumsy, as though you're both squeezing it in to make up for something.Just scrap it and start planning from scratch.The girl's not confusing m8, your timing is just sore.
Quote from: Solonoid on March 07, 2016, 07:47:41 AMYou shot yourself in the foot trying to be straightforward about not rushing things.Now she knows as an objective fact your plan was to fuck her that night.ffs take a girl out for a good time and she'll want to be with you p much immediately after.She wants to go back to your place if after dinner or whatever she asks, "Where do you wanna go/what do you wanna do now?"Like shit man, its basic science, if she stands you up don't try to reschedule for the very next day, a date should be a casual occurrence that takes place when you're both free.Never try to reschedule a date, it feels clumsy, as though you're both squeezing it in to make up for something.Just scrap it and start planning from scratch.The girl's not confusing m8, your timing is just sore.I don't want to fuck her, and wasn't planning to last night, my parents would have been home for godsake. I like her a lot. I just wanted to spend time with her...
Quote from: RomanGladiator on March 07, 2016, 07:51:43 AMQuote from: Solonoid on March 07, 2016, 07:47:41 AMYou shot yourself in the foot trying to be straightforward about not rushing things.Now she knows as an objective fact your plan was to fuck her that night.ffs take a girl out for a good time and she'll want to be with you p much immediately after.She wants to go back to your place if after dinner or whatever she asks, "Where do you wanna go/what do you wanna do now?"Like shit man, its basic science, if she stands you up don't try to reschedule for the very next day, a date should be a casual occurrence that takes place when you're both free.Never try to reschedule a date, it feels clumsy, as though you're both squeezing it in to make up for something.Just scrap it and start planning from scratch.The girl's not confusing m8, your timing is just sore.I don't want to fuck her, and wasn't planning to last night, my parents would have been home for godsake. I like her a lot. I just wanted to spend time with her...How fucking old are you and you're afraid your parents will learn of your active sex life?Also, I don't think it matters what you intended, the concept that coming over to someone's house is a relationship milestone is based off of the implication that there will be sex, so you kind shot yourself in the foot saying what you did last.
I can't qoute because fucking mobile is awful. But having repeatedly Text/messaged someone multiple times in a desperate attempt to talk to them before, I strongly suggest against it. I always feel bad afterwards and I feel that I come off as obsessive. Take my advice on what not to do (because if there's one thing I'm good at its fucking up socially) and try to distance yourself when texting.
I know, and I don't disagree. It's painful to get silence from someone when you know chances are they read a message. All I can suggest is learn what happened this time to make better choices next time. Hopefully she'll reply back to you.
You're such a fuckboi
Quote from: Precious Tritium on March 07, 2016, 09:52:26 AMYou're such a fuckboiI was, with four girls in a row. All I want to do is see her again. Doing things on the first date is why no of the others have worked out, and I know that now.
Quote from: RomanGladiator on March 07, 2016, 10:03:51 AMQuote from: Precious Tritium on March 07, 2016, 09:52:26 AMYou're such a fuckboiI was, with four girls in a row. All I want to do is see her again. Doing things on the first date is why no of the others have worked out, and I know that now.Spoiler alert, that's not why they didn't work out.
Just be Patient, get on with your life, if she's worth it, she will respond.
Quote from: Ghost of Reach on March 07, 2016, 12:03:29 PMJust be Patient, get on with your life, if she's worth it, she will respond.I know. I just said something that made me feel weak and passive. "I hope you're not upset with me, I'm not trying to rush things, if you're not comfortable coming over yet that's fine"When I should be the one who's mad. She's blown me off twice now. First time I can understand, she had pneumonia. I planned ahead with her this time, but seeing her family is more important than me. Still, I was a little upset.
Quote from: RomanGladiator on March 07, 2016, 12:23:31 PMQuote from: Ghost of Reach on March 07, 2016, 12:03:29 PMJust be Patient, get on with your life, if she's worth it, she will respond.I know. I just said something that made me feel weak and passive. "I hope you're not upset with me, I'm not trying to rush things, if you're not comfortable coming over yet that's fine"When I should be the one who's mad. She's blown me off twice now. First time I can understand, she had pneumonia. I planned ahead with her this time, but seeing her family is more important than me. Still, I was a little upset.Lol it's the same one? I told you weeks ago she ain't interested
Don't you want something to work out for me eventually?
Quote from: RomanGladiator on March 07, 2016, 12:54:03 PMQuote from: Dietrich Six on March 07, 2016, 12:39:14 PMQuote from: RomanGladiator on March 07, 2016, 12:23:31 PMQuote from: Ghost of Reach on March 07, 2016, 12:03:29 PMJust be Patient, get on with your life, if she's worth it, she will respond.I know. I just said something that made me feel weak and passive. "I hope you're not upset with me, I'm not trying to rush things, if you're not comfortable coming over yet that's fine"When I should be the one who's mad. She's blown me off twice now. First time I can understand, she had pneumonia. I planned ahead with her this time, but seeing her family is more important than me. Still, I was a little upset.Lol it's the same one? I told you weeks ago she ain't interestedWe went out last Monday. She said it went well.What do you mean she said "it went well"? Did you ask her how it went?
Quote from: Dietrich Six on March 07, 2016, 12:39:14 PMQuote from: RomanGladiator on March 07, 2016, 12:23:31 PMQuote from: Ghost of Reach on March 07, 2016, 12:03:29 PMJust be Patient, get on with your life, if she's worth it, she will respond.I know. I just said something that made me feel weak and passive. "I hope you're not upset with me, I'm not trying to rush things, if you're not comfortable coming over yet that's fine"When I should be the one who's mad. She's blown me off twice now. First time I can understand, she had pneumonia. I planned ahead with her this time, but seeing her family is more important than me. Still, I was a little upset.Lol it's the same one? I told you weeks ago she ain't interestedWe went out last Monday. She said it went well.
I remain convinced that "RomanGladiator" and the "All Too Easy" saga is just an elaborate ARG constructed by some random guy in an effort to warn people on backwater Internet forums what happens when you go full beta. It just can't be real.That's what I tell myself at this point, anyway.Though it has been confirmed that he's been posting fake pictures, so this could all just be a ruse.
This grill is confusing
