there's always gonna be someone who is gonna pass better than me, or has a better job, or lives somewhere nicer, or all kinds of stuff that has been frustrating me but things could be a lot worse

2019 has been the calmest year of my adult life,and I've been in a stable and happy relationship without any emotional/substance abuse, haven't gone hungry at all, I've had a place to live all this time, and I'm surrounded by friends who really care about me

that's a lot for someone like me, since those are things that I historically have never had
my life isn't shooting upward like I'd like, but I'm finally standing on solid ground and I don't appreciate that often enough I think

do you guys ever take a sec to reflect on positive things, and if so, what kind of stuff has been bringing you up or getting you down lately?

Shit’s important to do. It’s so easy to mentally spiral even if things are going your way to an extent.

I struggle with getting angry at my situation a lot, despite it being a load of inconveniences in a life that’s going my way for the most part. Reflecting on how far I’ve come in terms of my career, social skills and how often I catch up with friends helps to ease that when I catch myself getting in my own head about such things.

Wait, since when is Solonoid trans too?

...this fucking site is full of degenerates, I swear.

dude I've been in hrt for over a year

I just don't talk about it constantly like some people

I don't really believe in the whole "pride" thing, tbh I think it's just an excuse to act like a disgusting pervert