So How does one make friends so easily

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Okay, i have a number of friends and never had a problem, but what blows my mind is how my father can easily start up a conversation with anyone anywhere and end up becoming an acquaintance or friend of theirs within a day. Literally he know nearly everyone at the bus stop. Hell when he is not there everyone stands silently, and then my father comes and boom he is talking to everyone.

Where the frack do you have the skills to just become instant friends with everyone you meet?

 
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Almost always, with moderation
Charisma and just being friendly, its not that hard.

 
 
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I... don't know. Social skills. Genuine interest in others.

I can do that if I want to, but too much chit chat wears me out.

 
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Oh, hey.
Upbringing and personality, and how confident and comfortable you are with people/strangers. I got good at talking to strangers because as a little kid I would talk to everyone, whether I knew them or not, so I grew into that. So I never feel awkward or uncomfortable. Which is a great thing
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Quote from: Yutaka on October 02, 2014, 09:25:18 AM
Charisma and just being friendly, its not that hard.
Confidence as well.

 
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Quote from: TBlocks on October 02, 2014, 09:27:20 AM

Quote from: Yutaka on October 02, 2014, 09:25:18 AM
Charisma and just being friendly, its not that hard.
Confidence as well.
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very important

 
 
 
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Be attractive

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Common interests and being a nice dude.

 
 
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Quote from: Yutaka on October 02, 2014, 09:25:18 AM
Charisma and just being friendly, its not that hard.
Well shit. I guess i have 'charisma' then...'cause im far from friendly.

 
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Yeah. There's a couple of people at school who seem pretty cool but I hate having to start conversations.

 
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Read "how to win friends and influence people" by Dale Carnegie

 
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Quote from: Lady Noelle on October 02, 2014, 12:34:50 PM
Quote from: Yutaka on October 02, 2014, 09:25:18 AM
Charisma and just being friendly, its not that hard.
What if I only have 1 Charisma?
Then you screwed up when creating your character sheet.

 
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This is not the greatest sig in the world, no. This is just a tribute.
Quote from: Lady Noelle on October 02, 2014, 12:57:43 PM
Quote from: DAS B00T x2 on October 02, 2014, 12:51:30 PM
Quote from: Lady Noelle on October 02, 2014, 12:34:50 PM
Quote from: Yutaka on October 02, 2014, 09:25:18 AM
Charisma and just being friendly, its not that hard.
What if I only have 1 Charisma?
Then you screwed up when creating your character sheet.
What if 1 intiligence 2?
You better have huge strength or dexterity bases then...