every generation had shit they needed to overcome. newsflash, life is a hole you're thrown into and expected to dig yourself out of.
Quote from: Kakashi555 on June 10, 2017, 11:49:57 PMthen maybe you are all doing something wrong. maybe filling applications out is the wrong way to go about it.100 applications over the course of a year and you don't think i've tried other methodsQuotemy whole stance is built upon my completely opposite experience with the job markets than everyone i talk to online. i don't believe it. i got extremely lucky... 4 times? 5 times? over the span of a year? sorry, there's something you aren't telling me. maybe it's just the fact that guys in the physical labour line of work prefer the personal conversation to the written application, idk. i've gotten my friends jobs literally no problem too so idk what's going on here. that's what i'm asking from you.i don't fucking know dude, maybe it's a canadian thing
then maybe you are all doing something wrong. maybe filling applications out is the wrong way to go about it.
my whole stance is built upon my completely opposite experience with the job markets than everyone i talk to online. i don't believe it. i got extremely lucky... 4 times? 5 times? over the span of a year? sorry, there's something you aren't telling me. maybe it's just the fact that guys in the physical labour line of work prefer the personal conversation to the written application, idk. i've gotten my friends jobs literally no problem too so idk what's going on here. that's what i'm asking from you.
Quote from: Annie on June 10, 2017, 11:47:29 PMQuote from: Kakashi555 on June 10, 2017, 11:44:28 PMQuote from: Annie on June 10, 2017, 11:42:30 PMQuote from: Kakashi555 on June 10, 2017, 11:40:15 PMQuote from: Annie on June 10, 2017, 11:39:16 PMQuote from: Kakashi555 on June 10, 2017, 11:37:05 PMQuote from: Annie on June 10, 2017, 11:36:04 PMthere is way too much fucking is-based mentality in the worldwho gives a fuck about ises, shoulds are what matterlife should sucklife should be perfectif life was perfect like nonexistence is (suffering not even being a concept) then it would be stupid to be an antinatalistmaybe in the sense that you're still breaking consent and forcing someone to exist, but existence would be preferable to nonexistence in that case anywayyeah, but life can't be perfect, so your "should" is irrelevant.Wrong, just because something can't happen doesn't mean it shouldn't. Life can't be perfect, which is why procreation is immoral. But the IS there doesn't fucking matter. Procreation shouldn't be immoral, because life should be perfect."hey guys i'm an antinatalist"you're saying stuff i agree with, dude. you just like the idea of living more than i do because you're more narcissistic. i'd rather not exist than exist in a perfect reality.believe me, I'm far from narcissisticif anything, I have more passion for the world than you - not even cultures or sociological stuff, but just pure media and storytelling. Even the base idea of a story from thousands of years ago, the debate over whether they were "lies" or not, is so interesting.idk why people continue with this narcissist meme, maybe my persona from 2014 but not me in realityand why wouldn't you want to exist in a perfect reality? It's just as perfect as nonexistence, but you also get to experience pleasure. So in a way, more perfect than nonexistence.i'm not trying to insult you by saying you're a narcissist. i don't want to exist in a perfect reality because it would be boring. human being cannot exist without suffering, so there's really no way of knowing what that would be like, and what i picture in my head is not worth it.
Quote from: Kakashi555 on June 10, 2017, 11:44:28 PMQuote from: Annie on June 10, 2017, 11:42:30 PMQuote from: Kakashi555 on June 10, 2017, 11:40:15 PMQuote from: Annie on June 10, 2017, 11:39:16 PMQuote from: Kakashi555 on June 10, 2017, 11:37:05 PMQuote from: Annie on June 10, 2017, 11:36:04 PMthere is way too much fucking is-based mentality in the worldwho gives a fuck about ises, shoulds are what matterlife should sucklife should be perfectif life was perfect like nonexistence is (suffering not even being a concept) then it would be stupid to be an antinatalistmaybe in the sense that you're still breaking consent and forcing someone to exist, but existence would be preferable to nonexistence in that case anywayyeah, but life can't be perfect, so your "should" is irrelevant.Wrong, just because something can't happen doesn't mean it shouldn't. Life can't be perfect, which is why procreation is immoral. But the IS there doesn't fucking matter. Procreation shouldn't be immoral, because life should be perfect."hey guys i'm an antinatalist"you're saying stuff i agree with, dude. you just like the idea of living more than i do because you're more narcissistic. i'd rather not exist than exist in a perfect reality.believe me, I'm far from narcissisticif anything, I have more passion for the world than you - not even cultures or sociological stuff, but just pure media and storytelling. Even the base idea of a story from thousands of years ago, the debate over whether they were "lies" or not, is so interesting.idk why people continue with this narcissist meme, maybe my persona from 2014 but not me in realityand why wouldn't you want to exist in a perfect reality? It's just as perfect as nonexistence, but you also get to experience pleasure. So in a way, more perfect than nonexistence.
Quote from: Annie on June 10, 2017, 11:42:30 PMQuote from: Kakashi555 on June 10, 2017, 11:40:15 PMQuote from: Annie on June 10, 2017, 11:39:16 PMQuote from: Kakashi555 on June 10, 2017, 11:37:05 PMQuote from: Annie on June 10, 2017, 11:36:04 PMthere is way too much fucking is-based mentality in the worldwho gives a fuck about ises, shoulds are what matterlife should sucklife should be perfectif life was perfect like nonexistence is (suffering not even being a concept) then it would be stupid to be an antinatalistmaybe in the sense that you're still breaking consent and forcing someone to exist, but existence would be preferable to nonexistence in that case anywayyeah, but life can't be perfect, so your "should" is irrelevant.Wrong, just because something can't happen doesn't mean it shouldn't. Life can't be perfect, which is why procreation is immoral. But the IS there doesn't fucking matter. Procreation shouldn't be immoral, because life should be perfect."hey guys i'm an antinatalist"you're saying stuff i agree with, dude. you just like the idea of living more than i do because you're more narcissistic. i'd rather not exist than exist in a perfect reality.
Quote from: Kakashi555 on June 10, 2017, 11:40:15 PMQuote from: Annie on June 10, 2017, 11:39:16 PMQuote from: Kakashi555 on June 10, 2017, 11:37:05 PMQuote from: Annie on June 10, 2017, 11:36:04 PMthere is way too much fucking is-based mentality in the worldwho gives a fuck about ises, shoulds are what matterlife should sucklife should be perfectif life was perfect like nonexistence is (suffering not even being a concept) then it would be stupid to be an antinatalistmaybe in the sense that you're still breaking consent and forcing someone to exist, but existence would be preferable to nonexistence in that case anywayyeah, but life can't be perfect, so your "should" is irrelevant.Wrong, just because something can't happen doesn't mean it shouldn't. Life can't be perfect, which is why procreation is immoral. But the IS there doesn't fucking matter. Procreation shouldn't be immoral, because life should be perfect.
Quote from: Annie on June 10, 2017, 11:39:16 PMQuote from: Kakashi555 on June 10, 2017, 11:37:05 PMQuote from: Annie on June 10, 2017, 11:36:04 PMthere is way too much fucking is-based mentality in the worldwho gives a fuck about ises, shoulds are what matterlife should sucklife should be perfectif life was perfect like nonexistence is (suffering not even being a concept) then it would be stupid to be an antinatalistmaybe in the sense that you're still breaking consent and forcing someone to exist, but existence would be preferable to nonexistence in that case anywayyeah, but life can't be perfect, so your "should" is irrelevant.
Quote from: Kakashi555 on June 10, 2017, 11:37:05 PMQuote from: Annie on June 10, 2017, 11:36:04 PMthere is way too much fucking is-based mentality in the worldwho gives a fuck about ises, shoulds are what matterlife should sucklife should be perfectif life was perfect like nonexistence is (suffering not even being a concept) then it would be stupid to be an antinatalistmaybe in the sense that you're still breaking consent and forcing someone to exist, but existence would be preferable to nonexistence in that case anyway
Quote from: Annie on June 10, 2017, 11:36:04 PMthere is way too much fucking is-based mentality in the worldwho gives a fuck about ises, shoulds are what matterlife should suck
there is way too much fucking is-based mentality in the worldwho gives a fuck about ises, shoulds are what matter
Maybe we need another World War without nukes coming into play
Quote from: Luciana on June 10, 2017, 11:58:56 PMMaybe we need another World War without nukes coming into playdoes this avatar mean you're playing botw
i don't want to exist in a perfect reality because it would be boring.
every generation had shit they needed to overcome.
life is supposed to suck because humans are incapable of eternal euphoria. that's why, even though your average 14 year old boy living in a nice suburb in america still finds shit to complain about. no matter how good our lives become, we will always be dissatisfied. it's part of the human condition.
Quote from: Verbatim on June 10, 2017, 11:59:39 PMQuote from: Luciana on June 10, 2017, 11:58:56 PMMaybe we need another World War without nukes coming into playdoes this avatar mean you're playing botwThe job I'm about to get will hopefully let me get my PC upgrade first, along with that, while also paying for some school.I just find it cute
I spent two years trying to find a non-minimum wage job that would be truly willing to work around my school schedule; instead, most offers were 30m away and would only offer minimum wage (with the possibility of getting a 10 cent pay raise every 6 months).
I'm glad Canadian parents are so wonderful about it. My parents (and grandparents) told me I was going to college, without even the option of taking a year off after high school (and was chewed out when I brought up the idea).
But do you know why? Previous generations were told that a degree was required to live "well"-- and since every parent reasonably wants their kids to have a good life-- practically force them to attend college. We've grown up shown cartoons of janitors, construction workers, and other non-degree jobs as being miserable and sad people because, historically, they've worked harder for less than degree jobs. People from those generations haven't left us the option of just "forgoing" the degree. I couldn't get my Dad's job without a degree (that he doesn't have), I couldn't get my grandmother's job without a degree (that she doesn't have). Do you know what job I could get without a degree that some member of my family has? The construction job that my 70 year old grandfather has (who has multiple medical complications that arose from it).
I will direct you to all of my friends who don't live at home, who are struggling to make rent at an apartment that they share with three other friends and work two jobs; my co-workers, who work two/three jobs and from 7am to 11pm just so they don't get behind on rent.
I'm glad you're in a place that you find acceptable, but that doesn't mean everyone else is. We shouldn't find it fair to be stuck here either, so fuck you for thinking I can't think that's bullshit. But will I work with it? It's all I have, so I guess I just have to. But we shouldn't be stuck with "I guess I have to"; we should have something better than that.
Quote from: Kakashi555 on June 10, 2017, 11:53:08 PMi don't want to exist in a perfect reality because it would be boring.oh fuck off with thisno, a perfect reality wouldn't be boring, because then it wouldn't be perfect
Quote from: Luciana on June 11, 2017, 12:01:18 AMQuote from: Verbatim on June 10, 2017, 11:59:39 PMQuote from: Luciana on June 10, 2017, 11:58:56 PMMaybe we need another World War without nukes coming into playdoes this avatar mean you're playing botwThe job I'm about to get will hopefully let me get my PC upgrade first, along with that, while also paying for some school.I just find it cuteNo, you're not allowed to play it on PC
Quote from: Verbatim on June 11, 2017, 12:02:48 AMQuote from: Luciana on June 11, 2017, 12:01:18 AMQuote from: Verbatim on June 10, 2017, 11:59:39 PMQuote from: Luciana on June 10, 2017, 11:58:56 PMMaybe we need another World War without nukes coming into playdoes this avatar mean you're playing botwThe job I'm about to get will hopefully let me get my PC upgrade first, along with that, while also paying for some school.I just find it cuteNo, you're not allowed to play it on PCThe "along with that" meaning getting the Switch, sorry. But I might wait a bit more because I can't really justify an entire system on one game. HOWEVER Fire Emblem is coming to the Switch, so my tone might change after E3.Stay tuned~
what other methods did you tryand i've talked to other canadians who share your thoughts so i don't think it's that.
that's not something i can picture. class said it better than i did.
Why didn't you take those offers?
That's wrong, then.
I know all this.Someone has to build roads and buildings, why can't you? No one is saying you have to work in construction for 50 years. It pays well, and you'll be okay doing 5 years of it.
what kind of place are these people living in that costs a lowballed minumum wage salary x2 for every person living in the home just to break even
um, i don't find any of this acceptable? it's unacceptable, that's why we should cease procreating.
Every generation has shit; out of the recent generations, we have a lot of shit to deal with that is caused by a generation that refuses to admit that they fucked up.
Life sucks because we've made it that way. "First World Problems" are issues, yeah, but they are issues that are enjoyable compared to the fact that that people are still starving to death and dying of preventable diseases. We can deal with the minor complaints that arise from imperfect upper middle-class living. but that's no reason shrug our shoulders at every serious fault that's arisen from our historical unwillingness to help others.
okay, so let's say the collective baby boomer generation admits they fucked up. what then?
there are no "first world problems" that are enjoyable by any stretch of the imagination.
Quote from: Kakashi555 on June 11, 2017, 12:04:20 AMWhy didn't you take those offers?>make $170 a week>pay a third of that for gas>rest doesn't cover food or bills, much less savingsI wonder.
"With over 11 million workers, construction is one of the largest industries in the U.S. The industry has one of the highest rates of work-related injuries and suicides, and also has a high prevalence of musculoskeletal pain among its workers. A 2012 study found that 40% of construction workers over age 50 had chronic back pain. Another 2012 study found that injured workers were 45% more likely to be diagnosed with depression than non-injured workers. Other recent studies have found construction workers to have double the suicide rate of the general population." -Harvard article on the issues of US construction workers
Welcome to the United States, where living in one of the most backwards states in the country still costs more than minimum wage to move out.
I'm not arguing that point; I'm arguing against the mentality of "it's what we've been dealt, so deal with it". Fuck that idea, I'm going to be pissed that our lives are harder than those before us because of those before us. I'll live with it (because suicide is bad), but I won't deal with it.
i'm not terribly lucid right now so i apologize in advance if my messages are poorly worded
Quote from: Kakashi555 on June 10, 2017, 11:56:29 PMwhat other methods did you tryand i've talked to other canadians who share your thoughts so i don't think it's that.networking, making connections with people, befriending people who have relatives in some industry, physically asking people if i can work for them, etc.shit doesn't work for everyone bro—maybe if you keep hearing about it, it's not as easy as you think, and it's actually an endemic, nationwide problem that you're having an annoyingly glib attitude about
i'm basing this all on my own experience
so lets say i can picture it. i still don't believe we can achieve it, so nonexistence is still preferrable.
Quote from: Kakashi555 on June 11, 2017, 12:13:17 AMokay, so let's say the collective baby boomer generation admits they fucked up. what then?Hopefully that means an attempt at easing the issues arising from their mistakes, like not continually passing legislature that hurt us and canceling programs that help us. Quotethere are no "first world problems" that are enjoyable by any stretch of the imagination.It's a good thing I didn't say that. I said that they are enjoyable compared to the issues that are still present because of humanity's unwillingness to help others.
Quote from: Kakashi555 on June 11, 2017, 12:20:47 AMi'm basing this all on my own experiencetherein lies the rubi don't want to condescend, but you clearly don't have a lot of perspective, but you seem somewhat aware of that
I enjoy these kinds of discussions. Nice change of pace from the usual buzzing I hear around the world.
Quote from: Kakashi555 on June 11, 2017, 12:23:42 AMso lets say i can picture it. i still don't believe we can achieve it, so nonexistence is still preferrable.which is why being an antinatalist is all that makes sensethe "perfect existence" has such an iota of a chance of happening (especially because it involves literally changing the fabric of the universe) that it's not an achievable goal in any wayBut that doesn't mean that it's not what life should look like. That's 100% how everything should be, no matter how fictitious it is. But if you look at the two goals (one, bring about the perfect existence; two, revert to perfect nonexistence), one makes far more sense to pursue.