Should I ask if my gf would want to move in with me

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I know I know, BC what are you doing?

Well, we haven't been dating for long enough to ask this question normally, but it sort of makes sense.

My place is about a 15 min drive from her campus, and it would save her the cost of living in a dorm and/or commuting from her house that's 45 min away.

She wouldn't have to pay rent, it's by a lot of places she frequently goes and shit, she really loves the apartment.

I'm not exactly opposed to asking, I just think it's odd to ask this "early". It would also sort of complicate things if we do in fact break up. But that's a different thing entirely.

So flood, what would you suggest


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After dating for about a year and half or two, then you can ask.


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I've never been a fan of advancing a relationship with convenience as an excuse.


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I've never been a fan of advancing a relationship with convenience as an excuse.

Neither am I, but it does make sense


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I've never been a fan of advancing a relationship with convenience as an excuse.

Neither am I, but it does make sense

I don't know your relationship so I can't agree or disagree, but you didn't list any reason why you want her to move in, you just stated that it's convenient for her. Do you love her? Do you see this being a long relationship? Are you honestly aware of the burdens of cohabitation? Just things to consider. Living with a girl can lose its romantic luster very quickly.


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How long have you dated exactly? Hasn't it been like 7-8 months?


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It really depends. If things are really going well and you're both sure it can work out, I say talk to her about it with her and see what she things.

Trust me. Talking is key here. Talk about it, but don't pressure her into moving in.


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How long have you dated exactly? Hasn't it been like 7-8 months?

I'm impressed you were that close, it's almost 8 months lol


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It really depends. If things are really going well and you're both sure it can work out, I say talk to her about it with her and see what she things.

Trust me. Talking is key here. Talk about it, but don't pressure her into moving in.

We've been talking about it briefly today, I honestly can't see any problems coming from it. And usually I'm skeptical on things like this


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How long have you dated exactly? Hasn't it been like 7-8 months?

I'm impressed you were that close, it's almost 8 months lol



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Things change when you start living together mayne....so I've heard anyways


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I've never been a fan of advancing a relationship with convenience as an excuse.

Neither am I, but it does make sense

I don't know your relationship so I can't agree or disagree, but you didn't list any reason why you want her to move in, you just stated that it's convenient for her. Do you love her? Do you see this being a long relationship? Are you honestly aware of the burdens of cohabitation? Just things to consider. Living with a girl can lose its romantic luster very quickly.

She's stayed at my place for about a month in the past and id say the romantic aspect only escalated from there. We got along very well, I can't remember anything going wrong in all honesty.

It's more or less me feeling it's too early, but that's the only thing preventing me from being completely on board.


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It really depends. If things are really going well and you're both sure it can work out, I say talk to her about it with her and see what she things.

Trust me. Talking is key here. Talk about it, but don't pressure her into moving in.

We've been talking about it briefly today, I honestly can't see any problems coming from it. And usually I'm skeptical on things like this

Well, if I were you I'd keep talking about it. Having her move in isn't an easy process. When she's ready and you're ready, then it's a go. Otherwise patience is key. She may not be ready yet.

Same goes with marriage proposals, but those can be tricky.


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Move in where?

Your box or fake cars lolmao


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Move in where?

Your box or fake cars lolmao

They're not fake. He's proven that.


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Move in where?

Your box or fake cars lolmao

They're not fake. He's proven that.

Deci I can't hear you with black cock in your mouth


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Move in where?

Your box or fake cars lolmao

*sigh*


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Move in where?

Your box or fake cars lolmao

*sigh*

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Swallow it


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I've never been a fan of advancing a relationship with convenience as an excuse.

Neither am I, but it does make sense

I don't know your relationship so I can't agree or disagree, but you didn't list any reason why you want her to move in, you just stated that it's convenient for her. Do you love her? Do you see this being a long relationship? Are you honestly aware of the burdens of cohabitation? Just things to consider. Living with a girl can lose its romantic luster very quickly.

She's stayed at my place for about a month in the past and id say the romantic aspect only escalated from there. We got along very well, I can't remember anything going wrong in all honesty.

It's more or less me feeling it's too early, but that's the only thing preventing me from being completely on board.
Well it will drop after more than a month. Though if you can accept her for all her faults and issues then go ahead. If you see a future with her then go ahead.