Quote from: IngloriousWho98 on October 04, 2017, 02:03:08 PMQuote from: MarKhan on October 04, 2017, 11:59:45 AMQuote from: IngloriousWho98 on October 04, 2017, 11:07:00 AMWeβd probably all just awkwardly stand around not saying much tbh It`s a "Competence" problem, when people have no common topics to talk about, or they can`t add on existing topics. What`s your favorite color by the way?We're all just awkward little snowballsRed by the wayI see. What music do you listen?
Quote from: MarKhan on October 04, 2017, 11:59:45 AMQuote from: IngloriousWho98 on October 04, 2017, 11:07:00 AMWeβd probably all just awkwardly stand around not saying much tbh It`s a "Competence" problem, when people have no common topics to talk about, or they can`t add on existing topics. What`s your favorite color by the way?We're all just awkward little snowballsRed by the way
Quote from: IngloriousWho98 on October 04, 2017, 11:07:00 AMWeβd probably all just awkwardly stand around not saying much tbh It`s a "Competence" problem, when people have no common topics to talk about, or they can`t add on existing topics. What`s your favorite color by the way?
Weβd probably all just awkwardly stand around not saying much tbh
Quote from: Ian on October 04, 2017, 01:02:45 PMEvery community is going to have its inside jokes, but that doesn't make it hard to integrate to it. The problem is (and I really hate that I'm saying it) is toxicity. Now when I say that I don't mean that this entire forum is tearing itself apart. But there are sometimes where we (including myself) enjoy putting a bullseye on one member or two and then just hazing the shit out of them. Sometimes the targeted person earns it, like Split-Dick, other times there isn't one and we all end up taking pot shots at one another until something sticks. Regardless, it isn't a welcoming sight. Quote from: Jive Turkey on October 04, 2017, 12:29:17 PMEveryone knows eachother so well here it's hard for new members to become part of the community. This is how I felt last year when trying to rejoin sapphire, there were so many inside jokes etc I felt it was too much effort to try and integrate. We need more peeps thooooI'm rating this forum toxisity UA (under average).
Every community is going to have its inside jokes, but that doesn't make it hard to integrate to it. The problem is (and I really hate that I'm saying it) is toxicity. Now when I say that I don't mean that this entire forum is tearing itself apart. But there are sometimes where we (including myself) enjoy putting a bullseye on one member or two and then just hazing the shit out of them. Sometimes the targeted person earns it, like Split-Dick, other times there isn't one and we all end up taking pot shots at one another until something sticks. Regardless, it isn't a welcoming sight. Quote from: Jive Turkey on October 04, 2017, 12:29:17 PMEveryone knows eachother so well here it's hard for new members to become part of the community. This is how I felt last year when trying to rejoin sapphire, there were so many inside jokes etc I felt it was too much effort to try and integrate. We need more peeps thoooo
Everyone knows eachother so well here it's hard for new members to become part of the community. This is how I felt last year when trying to rejoin sapphire, there were so many inside jokes etc I felt it was too much effort to try and integrate. We need more peeps thoooo
Either is fine, but Spoiler
Quote from: Snake on October 04, 2017, 02:19:20 PMQuote from: Jive Turkey on October 04, 2017, 12:29:17 PMEveryone knows eachother so well here it's hard for new members to become part of the community. This is how I felt last year when trying to rejoin sapphire, there were so many inside jokes etc I felt it was too much effort to try and integrate. We need more peeps thoooooand not only that, but when new people try to join up we act rude to them because they don't know our inside jokes and sense of humourit's fucking dumbPeople here didn`t act rude to me though...
Quote from: Jive Turkey on October 04, 2017, 12:29:17 PMEveryone knows eachother so well here it's hard for new members to become part of the community. This is how I felt last year when trying to rejoin sapphire, there were so many inside jokes etc I felt it was too much effort to try and integrate. We need more peeps thoooooand not only that, but when new people try to join up we act rude to them because they don't know our inside jokes and sense of humourit's fucking dumb
Everyone knows eachother so well here it's hard for new members to become part of the community. This is how I felt last year when trying to rejoin sapphire, there were so many inside jokes etc I felt it was too much effort to try and integrate. We need more peeps thooooo
I see. My personality is all over the place, so I don't listen to something specific.Maybe you would like something like this?YouTubeThats what I'm listening right now thoughYouTube
I never thought about myself as gregarious person, maybe it is just because I have no problem with most things in life or maybe I don`t care about life itself
Quote from: Ossus on October 04, 2017, 12:10:57 PMQuote from: MarKhan on October 04, 2017, 11:59:45 AMQuote from: IngloriousWho98 on October 04, 2017, 11:07:00 AMWeβd probably all just awkwardly stand around not saying much tbh It`s a "Competence" problem, when people have no common topics to talk about, or they can`t add on existing topics. What`s your favorite color by the way?You mean compatability? No, I meant "competence" or "nothing to say" problem
Quote from: MarKhan on October 04, 2017, 11:59:45 AMQuote from: IngloriousWho98 on October 04, 2017, 11:07:00 AMWeβd probably all just awkwardly stand around not saying much tbh It`s a "Competence" problem, when people have no common topics to talk about, or they can`t add on existing topics. What`s your favorite color by the way?You mean compatability?
Quote from: Ossus on October 04, 2017, 06:33:43 PMQuote from: MarKhan on October 04, 2017, 12:18:05 PMQuote from: Ossus on October 04, 2017, 12:10:57 PMQuote from: MarKhan on October 04, 2017, 11:59:45 AMQuote from: IngloriousWho98 on October 04, 2017, 11:07:00 AMWeβd probably all just awkwardly stand around not saying much tbh It`s a "Competence" problem, when people have no common topics to talk about, or they can`t add on existing topics. What`s your favorite color by the way?You mean compatability? No, I meant "competence" or "nothing to say" problemThat's really not what competence refers to. When a competence issue prevents you from communicating, it's more because you don't fully grasp the language or have mastery in the laws of its dialogue. Particularly having to do with the laws and particulars of dialogue.A good word might be commonality though, if you're inferring that we have little to talk about.nice thesaurus
Quote from: MarKhan on October 04, 2017, 12:18:05 PMQuote from: Ossus on October 04, 2017, 12:10:57 PMQuote from: MarKhan on October 04, 2017, 11:59:45 AMQuote from: IngloriousWho98 on October 04, 2017, 11:07:00 AMWeβd probably all just awkwardly stand around not saying much tbh It`s a "Competence" problem, when people have no common topics to talk about, or they can`t add on existing topics. What`s your favorite color by the way?You mean compatability? No, I meant "competence" or "nothing to say" problemThat's really not what competence refers to. When a competence issue prevents you from communicating, it's more because you don't fully grasp the language or have mastery in the laws of its dialogue. Particularly having to do with the laws and particulars of dialogue.A good word might be commonality though, if you're inferring that we have little to talk about.
Quote from: Snake on October 04, 2017, 06:27:33 PMQuote from: MarKhan on October 04, 2017, 05:37:29 PMI never thought about myself as gregarious person, maybe it is just because I have no problem with most things in life or maybe I don`t care about life itselfThat's how you come off. You're friendly and unassuming, if a bit weird. But you're a weeb on the internet, and that sort of comes with the territory.Mmm... you probably thought that since I'm weeb I'm some kind of antisocial lonely type... hehe, but I know a lot of people who both watch anime and are social, actually I just had one in my room, we were talking about a lot of stuff, anime included.
Quote from: MarKhan on October 04, 2017, 05:37:29 PMI never thought about myself as gregarious person, maybe it is just because I have no problem with most things in life or maybe I don`t care about life itselfThat's how you come off. You're friendly and unassuming, if a bit weird. But you're a weeb on the internet, and that sort of comes with the territory.
Quote from: Ossus on October 04, 2017, 06:45:14 PMQuote from: challengerX on October 04, 2017, 06:41:08 PMQuote from: Ossus on October 04, 2017, 06:33:43 PMQuote from: MarKhan on October 04, 2017, 12:18:05 PMQuote from: Ossus on October 04, 2017, 12:10:57 PMQuote from: MarKhan on October 04, 2017, 11:59:45 AMQuote from: IngloriousWho98 on October 04, 2017, 11:07:00 AMWeβd probably all just awkwardly stand around not saying much tbh It`s a "Competence" problem, when people have no common topics to talk about, or they can`t add on existing topics. What`s your favorite color by the way?You mean compatability? No, I meant "competence" or "nothing to say" problemThat's really not what competence refers to. When a competence issue prevents you from communicating, it's more because you don't fully grasp the language or have mastery in the laws of its dialogue. Particularly having to do with the laws and particulars of dialogue.A good word might be commonality though, if you're inferring that we have little to talk about.nice thesauruswhy would I need a thesaurus to find the word commonalityit's a third grade wordYour entire post reeks of trying too hard.You especially never use words like that with someone who is struggling with the language, but you wouldn't know anything about that.
Quote from: challengerX on October 04, 2017, 06:41:08 PMQuote from: Ossus on October 04, 2017, 06:33:43 PMQuote from: MarKhan on October 04, 2017, 12:18:05 PMQuote from: Ossus on October 04, 2017, 12:10:57 PMQuote from: MarKhan on October 04, 2017, 11:59:45 AMQuote from: IngloriousWho98 on October 04, 2017, 11:07:00 AMWeβd probably all just awkwardly stand around not saying much tbh It`s a "Competence" problem, when people have no common topics to talk about, or they can`t add on existing topics. What`s your favorite color by the way?You mean compatability? No, I meant "competence" or "nothing to say" problemThat's really not what competence refers to. When a competence issue prevents you from communicating, it's more because you don't fully grasp the language or have mastery in the laws of its dialogue. Particularly having to do with the laws and particulars of dialogue.A good word might be commonality though, if you're inferring that we have little to talk about.nice thesauruswhy would I need a thesaurus to find the word commonalityit's a third grade word
Quote from: Ossus on October 04, 2017, 06:33:43 PMQuote from: MarKhan on October 04, 2017, 12:18:05 PMQuote from: Ossus on October 04, 2017, 12:10:57 PMQuote from: MarKhan on October 04, 2017, 11:59:45 AMQuote from: IngloriousWho98 on October 04, 2017, 11:07:00 AMWeβd probably all just awkwardly stand around not saying much tbh It`s a "Competence" problem, when people have no common topics to talk about, or they can`t add on existing topics. What`s your favorite color by the way?You mean compatability? No, I meant "competence" or "nothing to say" problemThat's really not what competence refers to. When a competence issue prevents you from communicating, it's more because you don't fully grasp the language or have mastery in the laws of its dialogue. Particularly having to do with the laws and particulars of dialogue.A good word might be commonality though, if you're inferring that we have little to talk about.Yeah, you probably right, although I feel if I start to talk about programming patterns, programming languages, usage of bitcoin, future of human race here, etc, no one would understand me. Oh well.
a sep7acon would really revitalise this site
Quote from: Ossus on October 04, 2017, 06:33:43 PMQuote from: MarKhan on October 04, 2017, 12:18:05 PMQuote from: Ossus on October 04, 2017, 12:10:57 PMQuote from: MarKhan on October 04, 2017, 11:59:45 AMQuote from: IngloriousWho98 on October 04, 2017, 11:07:00 AMWeβd probably all just awkwardly stand around not saying much tbh It`s a "Competence" problem, when people have no common topics to talk about, or they can`t add on existing topics. What`s your favorite color by the way?You mean compatability? No, I meant "competence" or "nothing to say" problemThat's really not what competence refers to. When a competence issue prevents you from communicating, it's more because you don't fully grasp the language or have mastery in the laws of its dialogue. Particularly having to do with the laws and particulars of dialogue.A good word might be commonality though, if you're inferring that we have little to talk about.No competence is the right wordSome people don't pick up on social cues, don't know where to lead conversation, or don't know what not to say It leads to awkward conversation and eventually silence
Obviously it's because of my slowest month http://sep7agon.net/profile/?area=statistics;u=5
September 2017 Slowest Month in Sep7agon History.
