Quote from: Solonoid on May 01, 2020, 09:56:36 PMso your excuse for the bigotry and deprecation of having sex with a trap and then telling them "that wasn't gay because I don't see you as a man and refuse to recognize the fact that you identify as one" is that all sex is bigoted so why not double down?like, i probably wouldn't have sex with a girl that i consider ugly, too, for basically the same reasonsis that super shitty? fuck yes it is, and i'm not proud of it, but i'm willing to bet that you wouldn't have sex with somebody that you consider ugly, eitherso what exactly is the real difference between you and me on this topic again?
so your excuse for the bigotry and deprecation of having sex with a trap and then telling them "that wasn't gay because I don't see you as a man and refuse to recognize the fact that you identify as one" is that all sex is bigoted so why not double down?
Verbatim you claim it's the feminine aspect of traps that makes straight men attracted to them But an asexual amoeba like you won't understand that the trap fetish (or any fetish) isn't about liking women that just happened to turn out to be menFor example, if you had a robot and a real woman that were identical in every aspect, why would someone be more attracted to the real woman when both can do the exact same thing physically?You forget to account the mental aspect of sexuality which is a weirdly two dimensional position for you to take and a weak foundation to your (wrong) argument that traps are not gay
I'm not vain about my sexual partners. I'd say that I find fit men in their late 20s to be the most attractive, but lately I've been sleeping with a 41yo guy with a beer belly. Because I like him for who he is. Even though I don't find him sexy, I enjoy spending time with him and having sex with him.
in spite of that, I'm not chastising you for being picky, I'm trying to get you to see that if you decide to sleep with a trap you're having sex with a man, which is gay, and that doesn't make you gay, it just makes what you did gay, regardless of the realities of the situation (any masculine features) you choose to ignore, and there's no reason that your sexuality or sexual identity should be threatened just because you've done something gay, so there's no point in denying it
also, it's worth noting that this debate is traditionally about whether liking traps makes you gay, not whether the act itself is gayso by taking this road, you've essentially taken my side of the debate—you just don't like my language and/or attitude, i guess
Quote from: Verbatim on May 01, 2020, 11:30:13 PMalso, it's worth noting that this debate is traditionally about whether liking traps makes you gay, not whether the act itself is gayso by taking this road, you've essentially taken my side of the debate—you just don't like my language and/or attitude, i guessit is gay, and you are gay
Quote from: Assassin 11D7 on May 02, 2020, 12:30:31 AMQuote from: Verbatim on May 01, 2020, 11:30:13 PMalso, it's worth noting that this debate is traditionally about whether liking traps makes you gay, not whether the act itself is gayso by taking this road, you've essentially taken my side of the debate—you just don't like my language and/or attitude, i guessit is gay, and you are gaynope, and maybe
Quote from: Verbatim on May 02, 2020, 12:35:01 AMQuote from: Assassin 11D7 on May 02, 2020, 12:30:31 AMQuote from: Verbatim on May 01, 2020, 11:30:13 PMalso, it's worth noting that this debate is traditionally about whether liking traps makes you gay, not whether the act itself is gayso by taking this road, you've essentially taken my side of the debate—you just don't like my language and/or attitude, i guessit is gay, and you are gaynope, and maybewrong
the idea of an act (or anything other than a person) being "gay" is a very tricky thing for my brain to conceptualize
It's still not gay to fuck traps tho
if i could shut my sexuality off entirely and just live as an ace instead, i would—because i recognize that having a sexuality in the first place kind of makes me a giant piece of shit, because it's intrinsically shallow and bigoted and discriminatory—but there's nothing i can do, barring what i already advocate for (anti-natalism)
Quote from: DAS B00T x2 on May 02, 2020, 05:11:06 AMIt's still not gay to fuck traps thoBut is it gay to get fucked by traps?
You're all fucking gay as hellAlso being into cuckolding/NTR should 100% be punishable by death. No exceptions.
I don't really spend much time browsing porn
Quote from: Aether on May 02, 2020, 05:20:28 AMQuote from: DAS B00T x2 on May 02, 2020, 05:11:06 AMIt's still not gay to fuck traps thoBut is it gay to get fucked by traps?also no
Quote from: DAS B00T x2 on May 02, 2020, 07:05:59 AMQuote from: Aether on May 02, 2020, 05:20:28 AMQuote from: DAS B00T x2 on May 02, 2020, 05:11:06 AMIt's still not gay to fuck traps thoBut is it gay to get fucked by traps?also nounless the point is that you wouldn't necessarily enjoy getting fucking by a trap, i think this is where we diverge
Quote from: Verbatim on May 02, 2020, 12:47:55 PMQuote from: DAS B00T x2 on May 02, 2020, 07:05:59 AMQuote from: Aether on May 02, 2020, 05:20:28 AMQuote from: DAS B00T x2 on May 02, 2020, 05:11:06 AMIt's still not gay to fuck traps thoBut is it gay to get fucked by traps?also nounless the point is that you wouldn't necessarily enjoy getting fucking by a trap, i think this is where we divergeElaborate
Quote from: Ingy on May 02, 2020, 02:59:39 PMQuote from: Verbatim on May 02, 2020, 12:47:55 PMQuote from: DAS B00T x2 on May 02, 2020, 07:05:59 AMQuote from: Aether on May 02, 2020, 05:20:28 AMQuote from: DAS B00T x2 on May 02, 2020, 05:11:06 AMIt's still not gay to fuck traps thoBut is it gay to get fucked by traps?also nounless the point is that you wouldn't necessarily enjoy getting fucking by a trap, i think this is where we divergeElaborateif fucking a trap in the ass isn't gay on the basis that i can just pretend he's a girl, that's one thing—because it's not like real women don't have assholes, so it's easy to simulate a heterosexual experiencebut i think taking a dick (specifically) in the ass is, if not gay, then it's certainly gayer because the entire point of a traditional "straight" relationship is that the man gives and the woman receiveshow am i supposed to pretend that the person whose dick is in my ass is a girl? i couldn't possibly do that myself, but i guess i don't speak for other peoplei don't think it's incontrovertibly gay for a male to derive pleasure from anal stimulation, but i think there's a difference between something like a rimjob and full-on penetration
i think there's a difference between something like a rimjob and full-on penetration
so by that logic it's gay to get pegged by your gf?
Quote from: Verbatim on May 01, 2020, 10:43:17 PMthe idea of an act (or anything other than a person) being "gay" is a very tricky thing for my brain to conceptualize
Also whyThis seems pretty contradictory