Positive vibes thread

The rejection itself wouldn't bother me so much, sure it would sting like a mother fucker but the grueling awkwardness that'll be there afterwards is what keeps my mouth shut half the time. Despite everyone involved being in agreement that no one wants things to be awkward afterwards, it's an inevitability half the time.

dignity, confidence, time, and the will to continue looking for other girls can all be lost by getting rejected

it's just not that easy for some people to "move on"

and then you have people like me, who get told things like that, and then actively search for reasons to get emotionally destroyed, because it's more satisfying to be right

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Look man, either she'll say yes or she won't. You don't have anything to lose.

this is such a bad thing to say to people

Why?

If it's not awkward they can still be friends. Either way he can at least move on instead of being stuck in limbo.

dignity, confidence, time, and the will to continue looking for other girls can all be lost by getting rejected

it's just not that easy for some people to "move on"

and then you have people like me, who get told things like that, and then actively search for reasons to get emotionally destroyed, because it's more satisfying to be right

verbatim = people

I'll write that down in my notes

you need to meet more people apparently

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No, and I'm not going to pry just for my own satisfaction. If that's the case she'll make it apparent with rejecting me.

Which I'm not trying to think about, she's totally say yes, I believe in myself!

Do you know how and why it ended?

I'm just asking because she can like you back but she might not want a relationship again so soon.

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I feel emotionally stable, 'cause yesterday I was reminded of how important it is to separate your mind from your body enough that you stop thinking of the two as the same. I read earlier that the more you think the more likely you're likely to give up, but as I worked out by climbing walls and doing pushups, I realized that being able to think while under a lot of pressure is a useful skill, so you shouldn't stop thinking, it's just that you shouldn't be thinking about the pain. You need to separate yourself from that.

I tested myself by taking a cold shower. I didn't let myself hesitate, I didn't think anything about my choice to shower in cold water, I made my decision, and then I just did it. It was cold, and my breathing got weird, but I was able to shower like normal, with the difference that showered faster this time around. This is what self-discipline is, the ability to do something without thinking about it after you've made the choice to do it. None of that motivation stuff that dissapears.

I don't feel happy, but I do feel better than two days ago

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live happy

haha epic win

I got my forklift license today and I start my """""""""official""""""""" work tomorrow, we get paid Friday, and we're going in on Saturday for overtime.

Life is good right now fam

I got my forklift license today and I start my """""""""official""""""""" work tomorrow, we get paid Friday, and we're going in on Saturday for overtime.

Life is good right now fam

Shit fam, I start my reach truck certification soon. I'm scared as fuck but I know it'll work out in the end.

Look man, either she'll say yes or she won't. You don't have anything to lose.

this is such a bad thing to say to people

Why?

If it's not awkward they can still be friends. Either way he can at least move on instead of being stuck in limbo.

dignity, confidence, time, and the will to continue looking for other girls can all be lost by getting rejected

it's just not that easy for some people to "move on"

and then you have people like me, who get told things like that, and then actively search for reasons to get emotionally destroyed, because it's more satisfying to be right

Avoidance and a fear of rejection doesn't solve this problem.

Look man, either she'll say yes or she won't. You don't have anything to lose.

this is such a bad thing to say to people

Why?

If it's not awkward they can still be friends. Either way he can at least move on instead of being stuck in limbo.

dignity, confidence, time, and the will to continue looking for other girls can all be lost by getting rejected

it's just not that easy for some people to "move on"

and then you have people like me, who get told things like that, and then actively search for reasons to get emotionally destroyed, because it's more satisfying to be right

Avoidance and a fear of rejection doesn't solve this problem.

does anything?

Look man, either she'll say yes or she won't. You don't have anything to lose.

this is such a bad thing to say to people

Why?

If it's not awkward they can still be friends. Either way he can at least move on instead of being stuck in limbo.

dignity, confidence, time, and the will to continue looking for other girls can all be lost by getting rejected

it's just not that easy for some people to "move on"

and then you have people like me, who get told things like that, and then actively search for reasons to get emotionally destroyed, because it's more satisfying to be right

Avoidance and a fear of rejection doesn't solve this problem.

does anything?

Gotta get some fuck it in your system