OK, Mrs Charlie didn't listen, and now it's come back to bite us

MyNameIsCharlie · September 28, 2014, 09:47:14 AM

I don't know if I told you guys, but we are adopting another. Nicholas's birthmother contacted us about 6 months ago, she is pregnant AGAIN (her 9th) and if we wanted to adopt. We said yes and things moved along.

Mrs Charlie asked me if we should be more open with her.

I said no. She extorted money from us before, and she would likely do it again.

Mrs Charlie picked a fight, one that lasted until today, in fact. At first they seemed to bond, but the Birthmother started having crisis after crisis. Each one could only be solved by more and more money.

Last night she sent us a text:

Pay me money (over $10,000) or I will go to Georgia to adopt this child to someone else. Pay cash or you get nothing.

I'm at a loss. I came up with a plan of action, and it would work, if Mrs Charlie didn't just give up. She just yells at me that we have no rights here, and we don't have the money she's asking for. Just give up, sell the nursery stuff and move on.

The birthmother is due in two weeks.

So, I am at a loss here.

PSU · September 28, 2014, 09:49:34 AM

Wait it out.

You actually think she would go to Georgia? No chance. She just wants money.

challengerX · September 28, 2014, 09:50:18 AM

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The Waifu Master · September 28, 2014, 09:52:30 AM

You could probably sue the dumb 3DPD scumbag.

MyNameIsCharlie · September 28, 2014, 09:53:19 AM

Quote from: PSU on September 28, 2014, 09:49:34 AM

Wait it out.

You actually think she would go to Georgia? No chance. She just wants money.

This is what I told Mrs Charlie. The only thing I added was to have our adoption attorney email the GA bar association distribution list for adoption attorneys, and let them know she is doing this. Close that door in her face. Then tell her we did that so she knows she can't, even if she wants to.

PSU · September 28, 2014, 09:54:55 AM

Quote from: MyNameIsCharlie on September 28, 2014, 09:53:19 AM

Quote from: PSU on September 28, 2014, 09:49:34 AM
Wait it out.

You actually think she would go to Georgia? No chance. She just wants money.

This is what I told Mrs Charlie. The only thing I added was to have our adoption attorney email the GA bar association distribution list for adoption attorneys, and let them know she is doing this. Close that door in her face. Then tell her we did that so she knows she can't, even if she wants to.

Exactly, thats the best form of action at this point.

Good luck with everything. Hopefully it works out.

RustingFloor · September 28, 2014, 09:56:24 AM

9th fucking kid?

Jesus fuck

MyNameIsCharlie · September 28, 2014, 09:57:27 AM

It will if Mrs Charlie stops acting like a fucking idiot.

She went out and got a cell just for texting her. I told her not to. I told her, keep all communication through the attorney. That way she can't scam us. Was I listened to? Nope.

MyNameIsCharlie · September 28, 2014, 09:58:13 AM

Quote from: RustingFloor on September 28, 2014, 09:56:24 AM

9th fucking kid?

Jesus fuck

I know. Her vag must be so loose that the baby has to hold on to stay in.

More Than Mortal · September 28, 2014, 10:05:35 AM

I'm confused regarding what it actually happening.

Magos Domina · September 28, 2014, 10:10:47 AM

Problem solved

challengerX · September 28, 2014, 10:11:13 AM

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Flee · September 28, 2014, 10:16:28 AM

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Chaos Fighter · September 28, 2014, 10:16:54 AM

Find her and cut the baby out of her.

Turkey · September 28, 2014, 10:19:03 AM

Are there no adoption contracts that you sign to ensure that this doesn't happen? Something assuring you of the adoption and of set payments for certain things?

MyNameIsCharlie · September 28, 2014, 10:28:45 AM

Quote from: Flee on September 28, 2014, 10:16:28 AM

Tell her that what she's doing is illegal and that it can (or will) result in criminal prosecution along with losing every shot of every giving up a child for adoption again if she keeps up with it.

This is step 2

MyNameIsCharlie · September 28, 2014, 10:31:20 AM

Quote from: HurtfulTurkey on September 28, 2014, 10:19:03 AM

Are there no adoption contracts that you sign to ensure that this doesn't happen? Something assuring you of the adoption and of set payments for certain things?

The adoptive parents don't have many rights. Though, in this case we might. She was stupid to make her threat explicit, and from her phone. If she had called us, and only done it by voice, we would have nothing.

Oh · September 28, 2014, 02:10:04 PM

What happened last time?
If she's done this before, how did she not get in serious trouble when she first did it?

Luis · September 28, 2014, 03:06:21 PM

Report that loose vag whore.

Sprungli · September 28, 2014, 03:10:17 PM

Quote from: Luis on September 28, 2014, 03:06:21 PM

Report that loose vag whore.

PREACH IT BROTHA

Septy · September 28, 2014, 03:21:49 PM

Kill them all, Charlie.

ಠ_ಠ · September 28, 2014, 03:26:23 PM

Maybe you should bite her.

Erives · September 28, 2014, 03:37:11 PM

10,000 grand for a baby. Thats scum on the bottom of a cum bucket on a porno stage low.

MyNameIsCharlie · September 28, 2014, 03:47:45 PM

Quote from: Simseo on September 28, 2014, 02:10:04 PM

What happened last time?
If she's done this before, how did she not get in serious trouble when she first did it?

she sorta backed down.