Long distance relationships?

Mat Cauthon · January 20, 2015, 03:49:45 AM

Quote from: Casper on January 19, 2015, 10:02:17 PM

Quote from: Officer Nasty on January 19, 2015, 09:57:18 PM
Quote from: Casper on January 19, 2015, 09:52:11 PM
Uhh, it's not easy, that's for true.
But I feel like if it's with somebody you're extremely attracted to then it's worth it
This is also true.
But it doesn't help when money is a big issue.
Just take it one day at a time, and
Communication is key.

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I know you see this.

Subtle.

Super Irish · January 20, 2015, 04:22:11 AM

I wouldn't know myself.

I do know a very good couple broke up because they were going to different Uni's across the country, simply because they thought they wouldn't handle it and wanted to end on good terms.

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(Or at least, thats what was said was the reason...you never know with these things)

gats · January 20, 2015, 04:45:26 AM

What's the point if you can't fuck

Septy · January 20, 2015, 04:51:17 AM

Quote from: gooootsby on January 20, 2015, 04:45:26 AM

What's the point if you can't fuck

They have a thing for that in Japan

SecondClass · January 20, 2015, 04:55:42 AM

I would never do it. For me, relationships require intimacy.

gats · January 20, 2015, 04:58:09 AM

Quote from: Septy on January 20, 2015, 04:51:17 AM

Quote from: gooootsby on January 20, 2015, 04:45:26 AM
What's the point if you can't fuck
They have a thing for that in Japan

What kind of thing?

Septy · January 20, 2015, 04:59:08 AM

Quote from: gooootsby on January 20, 2015, 04:58:09 AM

Quote from: Septy on January 20, 2015, 04:51:17 AM
Quote from: gooootsby on January 20, 2015, 04:45:26 AM
What's the point if you can't fuck
They have a thing for that in Japan
What kind of thing?

You know, a thingy thing.

Statefarm · January 20, 2015, 06:24:33 AM

Depends on how far and the estimated window for when you'll see each other again

clum clum · January 20, 2015, 06:59:11 AM

I've actually been in a few long distance relationships. They never worked out.

Yu · January 20, 2015, 07:17:32 AM

I couldn't, not being able to spend time with them in person would kill me.

Naru · January 20, 2015, 07:48:50 AM

Just saying.. prepare yourself. 4 years of knowing this girl and it's all gone. Lived a state away

Rinev · January 20, 2015, 08:39:57 AM

I've never been in one. I doubt I would want to.

Ásgeirr · January 20, 2015, 08:44:25 AM

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BaconShelf · January 20, 2015, 09:43:28 AM

I don't understand the point of it.

big sponge · January 20, 2015, 10:37:41 AM

I've seen them work.

Flee · January 20, 2015, 10:44:26 AM

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BaconShelf · January 20, 2015, 10:56:58 AM

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Quote from: Bacon's Shelf on January 20, 2015, 09:43:28 AM
I don't understand the point of it.
How do you mean? What is there not to understand?

To me, relationships in general are pointless. One where you can't even see X person seems to defeat what little point there is.

Flee · January 20, 2015, 11:01:06 AM

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Jester · January 20, 2015, 11:02:24 AM

i in relatinship wit jeses crist

BaconShelf · January 20, 2015, 11:02:34 AM

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Quote from: Bacon's Shelf on January 20, 2015, 10:56:58 AM
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Quote from: Bacon's Shelf on January 20, 2015, 09:43:28 AM
I don't understand the point of it.
How do you mean? What is there not to understand?

To me, relationships in general are pointless. One where you can't even see X person seems to defeat what little point there is.
If you'd ever been in love, you'd understand the point there is to them.

I've had a girlfriend before. I don't understand the point of it, looking from hindsight.

Flee · January 20, 2015, 11:04:26 AM

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PSU · January 20, 2015, 11:04:45 AM

I was in one with my current wife when she went to Rutgers and I was at Penn St.

It sucked, but we got through it. I mean, It was "long" distance, it was only 4 hours and we still saw each other a few times a month.

But with skype, texts, and facetime, its very easy.

BaconShelf · January 20, 2015, 11:06:49 AM

Quote from: Flee on January 20, 2015, 11:04:26 AM

Quote from: Bacon's Shelf on January 20, 2015, 11:02:34 AM
Quote from: Flee on January 20, 2015, 11:01:06 AM
Quote from: Bacon's Shelf on January 20, 2015, 10:56:58 AM
Quote from: Flee on January 20, 2015, 10:44:26 AM
Quote from: Bacon's Shelf on January 20, 2015, 09:43:28 AM
I don't understand the point of it.
How do you mean? What is there not to understand?

To me, relationships in general are pointless. One where you can't even see X person seems to defeat what little point there is.
If you'd ever been in love, you'd understand the point there is to them.

I've had a girlfriend before. I don't understand the point of it, looking from hindsight.
People are social creatures. Having a significant other tends to contribute to life in a pretty meaningful way.

Besides, having a girlfriend doesn't necessarily mean you're in love.

Well I'd rather go without it either way, I have much more important uses for my time and money.