If you had a child, would you restrict them from watching porn?

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Um.

They'll find out eventually.


 
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Previous generations also grew up without electricity, running water, modern medicine, or toilet paper. I guess we should eschew those from our every day lives as well.

what the fuck? there arent good reasons to cut those out. there are for the internet.

i want my kids to learn values from me and have actual worldly knowledge. not acquire internet balls and learn keyboard swordsmanship.

Sure there are, it toughens them up, makes them learn how to actually survive instead or relying on electronics to do the work for them, and gets them out of the house. Relying on all these modern day conveniences just makes the average person weaker and less versatile than their predecessors.

Your 5 year old isn't going to be signing onto infowars to listen to the latest podcast from Alex Jones. The most they'll want to do is sign on to disney.com and play some games staring their favorite cartoon characters. If you want to make sure they only learn values from you you should keep them out of school then. Not only will they be exposed to other people and their values, but their schools and friends will have computers with internet access that they can use see and hear all the things you wont let them. What you want to do to your potential kids kind of reminds me of this kid I knew in high school. He had to keep the fact that he liked reading Harry Potter books a secret from his parents because they'd freak out if they knew he was "learning about witch craft", but every day at school or at another persons place he'd take the chance to read them because his parents weren't watching.. The only way you're going to have control over what your children see and hear is if you keep them at home their entire lives and only allow them to learn from you.

So if you're not going to go full fundie on your child and keep them in one of those weird compounds you should just accept the fact that your children are going to have more influences on them than just you when they're growing up and there's nothing you can do to stop it.

I'm by no means saying let them have free reign to do whatever they want, because as a parent you do have the obligation to ensure that your child becomes a productive member of society. Just that attempting to ensure the message in a big brother like fashion will probably only estrange you from your children if you aren't prepared to go the whole hog with a compound and everything.

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I also don't think whatever porn it is that you found out you liked is a good enough reason to shut off the internet. Porn has existed for as long as people have and traditional means of obtaining porn (books magazines, et cetera) still exist in your local gas stations


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Porn is so bad for you.

I wouldn't ban it but I'll make fun of my sons for watching it and not getting real pussy, fucking faggot cucks watching another man fuck sexy women


 
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I DONT GIVE A SINGLE -blam!- MOTHER -blam!-ER ITS A MOTHER -blam!-ING FORUM, OH WOW, YOU HAVE THE WORD NINJA BELOW YOUR NAME, HOW MOTHER -blam!-ING COOL, NOT, YOUR ARE NOTHING TO ME BUT A BRAINWASHED PIECE OF SHIT BLOGGER, PEOPLE ONLY LIKE YOU BECAUSE YOU HAVE NINJA BELOW YOUR NAME, SO PLEASE PUNCH YOURAELF IN THE FACE AND STAB YOUR EYE BECAUSE YOU ARE NOTHING BUT A PIECE OF SHIT OF SOCIETY
>I'm going to cut off internet access entirely so my potential children won't be able to see boobies on their computer screen


Now that's a new one.

yeah cuz tits are the only thing theyll see

not scat porn
not rape
not incest

besides there are many other things i wouldnt be able to control that theyll see
What if they have an incestual scat porn rape fetish? Who are you to deny them that?


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when i was 11-15 years old i googled so many things that probably put my parents on some government list


 
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I'd talk to them when that time comes, but I'm not going to cut it off, they'll find it eventually


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What's wrong with you guys? They can find out for themselves, and I won't bring it up because porn is porn.


 
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I DONT GIVE A SINGLE -blam!- MOTHER -blam!-ER ITS A MOTHER -blam!-ING FORUM, OH WOW, YOU HAVE THE WORD NINJA BELOW YOUR NAME, HOW MOTHER -blam!-ING COOL, NOT, YOUR ARE NOTHING TO ME BUT A BRAINWASHED PIECE OF SHIT BLOGGER, PEOPLE ONLY LIKE YOU BECAUSE YOU HAVE NINJA BELOW YOUR NAME, SO PLEASE PUNCH YOURAELF IN THE FACE AND STAB YOUR EYE BECAUSE YOU ARE NOTHING BUT A PIECE OF SHIT OF SOCIETY
I'd talk to them when that time comes, but I'm not going to cut it off, they'll find it eventually
This sounds so wrong


 
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I'd talk to them when that time comes, but I'm not going to cut it off, they'll find it eventually
This sounds so wrong
shhh

itll be all okay


 
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I DONT GIVE A SINGLE -blam!- MOTHER -blam!-ER ITS A MOTHER -blam!-ING FORUM, OH WOW, YOU HAVE THE WORD NINJA BELOW YOUR NAME, HOW MOTHER -blam!-ING COOL, NOT, YOUR ARE NOTHING TO ME BUT A BRAINWASHED PIECE OF SHIT BLOGGER, PEOPLE ONLY LIKE YOU BECAUSE YOU HAVE NINJA BELOW YOUR NAME, SO PLEASE PUNCH YOURAELF IN THE FACE AND STAB YOUR EYE BECAUSE YOU ARE NOTHING BUT A PIECE OF SHIT OF SOCIETY
I'd talk to them when that time comes, but I'm not going to cut it off, they'll find it eventually
This sounds so wrong
shhh

itll be all okay
I'll find it eventually but I want you to CUT IT OFF


 
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fuck you
I'd talk to them when that time comes, but I'm not going to cut it off, they'll find it eventually
This sounds so wrong
shhh

itll be all okay
I'll find it eventually but I want you to CUT IT OFF
I knew I should have had the talk with you sooner


 
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I DONT GIVE A SINGLE -blam!- MOTHER -blam!-ER ITS A MOTHER -blam!-ING FORUM, OH WOW, YOU HAVE THE WORD NINJA BELOW YOUR NAME, HOW MOTHER -blam!-ING COOL, NOT, YOUR ARE NOTHING TO ME BUT A BRAINWASHED PIECE OF SHIT BLOGGER, PEOPLE ONLY LIKE YOU BECAUSE YOU HAVE NINJA BELOW YOUR NAME, SO PLEASE PUNCH YOURAELF IN THE FACE AND STAB YOUR EYE BECAUSE YOU ARE NOTHING BUT A PIECE OF SHIT OF SOCIETY
I'd talk to them when that time comes, but I'm not going to cut it off, they'll find it eventually
This sounds so wrong
shhh

itll be all okay
I'll find it eventually but I want you to CUT IT OFF
I knew I should have had the talk with you sooner
CUT IT OFF BEFORE IT GETS ANY BIGGER


 
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The most they'll want to do is sign on to disney.com and play some games staring their favorite cartoon characters.

yeah sure, but they don't need to do that. just because they want to go on those websites isn't really a good enough reason to let them. there are plenty of other games they could play. id be happy to whip out the n64 for diddy kong racing or super mario 64.

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If you want to make sure they only learn values from you you should keep them out of school then.

if i were to have kids, they'd probably be homeschooled, yeah. live on the road with me, maybe. who knows. its a possibility.

or better yet, raise them in a community where people share my values. there are tons of those. i know tons of kids who were raised perfectly -- they didnt and dont have perfect lives, but the kids that come out of that style of parenting are as good as they can get.

 
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Just that attempting to ensure the message in a big brother like fashion will probably only estrange you from your children if you aren't prepared to go the whole hog with a compound and everything.

how am i doing that? the internet has only been a thing for this generation. denying them something no other generation except ours has had is not a big deal.

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I also don't think whatever porn it is that you found out you liked is a good enough reason to shut off the internet. Porn has existed for as long as people have and traditional means of obtaining porn (books magazines, et cetera) still exist in your local gas stations

unanimated porn is a lot less damaging

look

the bottom line is,

 the internet is not a necessity,

bad shit you pretty much wont find anywhere else except on the internet, is on the internet (cuz of the anonymity), and

 id rather take the time to develop a relationship with my kid and actually teach them right from wrong rather than let the internet do it for me like most parents do.

i mean my folks made a lot of mistakes but fuck at least they did basic shit like have the sex talk with me. i dont know a single kid my age whos parents had the talk with them. maybe its anectodal but its my life so why would anyone care.
Last Edit: August 14, 2016, 06:00:51 AM by ⊿ Eli


 
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>I'm going to cut off internet access entirely so my potential children won't be able to see boobies on their computer screen


Now that's a new one.

yeah cuz tits are the only thing theyll see

not scat porn
not rape
not incest

besides there are many other things i wouldnt be able to control that theyll see
What if they have an incestual scat porn rape fetish? Who are you to deny them that?

then i failed them as a parent

but they can do as they please once they live on someone else's dime


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also the internet is overrated and full of awful things i dont want to expose my kids to
But yet you're using this overrated Internet to post on this awful website.


 
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also the internet is overrated and full of awful things i dont want to expose my kids to
But yet you're using this overrated Internet to post on this awful website.

yeah cuz im addicted to it.

i havent had internet for like 3 days and its so liberating. i got a shit ton done in that time.


 
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Goodness gracious, great balls of lightning!
Here at work they have the radio play through the speakers and a morning talk show was on. One of the ladies said that she saw a 5-year old on the train watching porn on her mom's phone and her mom was right next to her. That right there is just awful and damn near child cruelty.

Anyways if I do have kids and they happen to stumble upon porn during their puberty years, I'll have a long discussion with them about it and the negatives that can come from it. I'm not gonna keep my kids off the Internet from porn, there's WAY more stuff on here that's worse.


 
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Id cut off my childs internet just so they dont get obsessed with dumb fucking minecraft videos like my little brother


 
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>I'm going to cut off internet access entirely so my potential children won't be able to see boobies on their computer screen

Now that's a new one.
No, it isn't. Plenty of people do or plan to do this, actually.


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My kid will be slaying so much poon why would he need porn


 
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I wouldn't do anything unless I felt that things were sorta getting ridiculous, or unhealthy. You can't stop people in their teens from curiously looking up some porn, because it's normal for that age. (Honestly, it's abnormal when someone ISN'T curious about sex) It's just sad that people would rather do so online with strangers than to find intimacy with the people near them.
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tbh id probably shoot my kid some links


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Seems pointless to try. I will however try to educate him/her about how damaging it can be to healthy relationships and provides false expectations of what a healthy sexual relationship entails, as well as its addictive nature.


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prehistoric is the worst user of any internet forum ever so this isnt a shocker

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Porn is porn, I was watching faces of death and snuff films when I was a teenager.

It's up to you as a parent to teach your kids right from wrong and that porn is unrealistic and can be downright demeaning.

Masturbation is a release from the stresses of puberty and should be promoted in a healthy way.

Also, having kinks isn't a bad thing and porn doesn't create them, just allows you to express them.



 
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fuck you
I'd talk to them when that time comes, but I'm not going to cut it off, they'll find it eventually
This sounds so wrong
shhh

itll be all okay
I'll find it eventually but I want you to CUT IT OFF
I knew I should have had the talk with you sooner
CUT IT OFF BEFORE IT GETS ANY BIGGER


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Seems pointless to try. I will however try to educate him/her about how damaging it can be to healthy relationships and provides false expectations of what a healthy sexual relationship entails, as well as its addictive nature.

^this

Although, I don't think porn should be available even for 18+ people.