If you had a child, would you restrict them from watching porn?

SecondClass · August 14, 2016, 01:24:56 AM

Quote from: ⊿ Eli on August 14, 2016, 01:18:20 AM

Quote from: Joyce Byers on August 14, 2016, 12:07:26 AM
you literally think you hate yourself because "boo hoo, porn", without taking any personal responsibility.

what

how am i not taking responsibility

You blamed your self loathing on porn instead of being a person who deserves to be loathed.

MyNameIsCharlie · August 14, 2016, 01:27:54 AM

As a dad, I have this thought out. I would explain the difference in context between porn and real life. It is an exercise in futility to try to stop them from seeing it. I grew up before the Internet, and my collection was epic. It's just easier now. The only thing I can do is explain that what is shown isn't realistic. Hopefully what I do as a father before mitigates that experience, but I know full well that it WILL happen.

No, I would not try to stop them. I would redirect their thoughts about it.

Elai · August 14, 2016, 01:30:06 AM

Quote from: Joyce Byers on August 14, 2016, 01:24:56 AM

Quote from: ⊿ Eli on August 14, 2016, 01:18:20 AM
Quote from: Joyce Byers on August 14, 2016, 12:07:26 AM
you literally think you hate yourself because "boo hoo, porn", without taking any personal responsibility.

what

how am i not taking responsibility
You blamed your self loathing on porn instead of being a person who deserves to be loathed.

what? i blame me knowing im a person who deserves to be loathed on porn.

Jester · August 14, 2016, 01:33:24 AM

Quote from: ⊿ Eli on August 13, 2016, 11:15:34 PM

Quote from: Tyger on August 13, 2016, 11:14:22 PM
Quote from: ⊿ Eli on August 13, 2016, 11:12:24 PM
i wont be having internet access when and if i have kids for that exact reason
that's pretty dumb

not really. porn is super damaging

also the internet is overrated and full of awful things i dont want to expose my kids to

Dude the internet doesn't do shit to kids. I've been on here since I was a wee lad and I'm fine.

Elai · August 14, 2016, 01:35:51 AM

Quote from: LOVE IS THE WHY on August 14, 2016, 01:33:24 AM

Quote from: ⊿ Eli on August 13, 2016, 11:15:34 PM
Quote from: Tyger on August 13, 2016, 11:14:22 PM
Quote from: ⊿ Eli on August 13, 2016, 11:12:24 PM
i wont be having internet access when and if i have kids for that exact reason
that's pretty dumb

not really. porn is super damaging

also the internet is overrated and full of awful things i dont want to expose my kids to
Dude the internet doesn't do shit to kids. I've been on here since I was a wee lad and I'm fine.

Quote from: Verbatim on August 13, 2016, 08:29:51 AM

Anecdotes go in the garbage.

Jester · August 14, 2016, 01:37:31 AM

Quote from: ⊿ Eli on August 14, 2016, 01:35:51 AM

Quote from: LOVE IS THE WHY on August 14, 2016, 01:33:24 AM
Quote from: ⊿ Eli on August 13, 2016, 11:15:34 PM
Quote from: Tyger on August 13, 2016, 11:14:22 PM
Quote from: ⊿ Eli on August 13, 2016, 11:12:24 PM
i wont be having internet access when and if i have kids for that exact reason
that's pretty dumb

not really. porn is super damaging

also the internet is overrated and full of awful things i dont want to expose my kids to
Dude the internet doesn't do shit to kids. I've been on here since I was a wee lad and I'm fine.

Quote from: Verbatim on August 13, 2016, 08:29:51 AM
Anecdotes go in the garbage.

No

SecondClass · August 14, 2016, 01:42:46 AM

Quote from: ⊿ Eli on August 14, 2016, 01:30:06 AM

Quote from: Joyce Byers on August 14, 2016, 01:24:56 AM
Quote from: ⊿ Eli on August 14, 2016, 01:18:20 AM
Quote from: Joyce Byers on August 14, 2016, 12:07:26 AM
you literally think you hate yourself because "boo hoo, porn", without taking any personal responsibility.

what

how am i not taking responsibility
You blamed your self loathing on porn instead of being a person who deserves to be loathed.

what? i blame me knowing im a person who deserves to be loathed on porn.

what?

there's literally no reason porn would make you hate yourself

Onyx Sentinel · August 14, 2016, 01:58:28 AM

Honestly, no. I would at least tell them about the laws regarding porn (which there are tons in the UK), and warn them of excessive use.

Elai · August 14, 2016, 01:59:22 AM

Quote from: Joyce Byers on August 14, 2016, 01:42:46 AM

Quote from: ⊿ Eli on August 14, 2016, 01:30:06 AM
Quote from: Joyce Byers on August 14, 2016, 01:24:56 AM
Quote from: ⊿ Eli on August 14, 2016, 01:18:20 AM
Quote from: Joyce Byers on August 14, 2016, 12:07:26 AM
you literally think you hate yourself because "boo hoo, porn", without taking any personal responsibility.

what

how am i not taking responsibility
You blamed your self loathing on porn instead of being a person who deserves to be loathed.

what? i blame me knowing im a person who deserves to be loathed on porn.
what?

there's literally no reason porn would make you hate yourself

i was unaware i was such a disgusting creature for the most part until i discovered the depths of my own sexual deviancy. porn helped me both develop that deviancy as well as discover it.

big sponge · August 14, 2016, 01:59:37 AM

Quote from: ⊿ Eli on August 14, 2016, 01:17:31 AM

Quote from: LC on August 14, 2016, 12:15:53 AM
>I'm going to cut off internet access entirely so my potential children won't be able to see boobies on their computer screen

Now that's a new one.

yeah cuz tits are the only thing theyll see

not scat porn
not rape
not incest

besides there are many other things i wouldnt be able to control that theyll see

You generally have to go looking for that stuff to find it and even then scat is the only one you might accidentally come across. Actual rape is illegal so most places aren't going to be hosting it and incest isn't something that's common outside of the deep south and those people aren't smart enough to upload a video of themselves doing it anyway. Seeing another person poop however isn't really that big of a deal, sure it's gross, but it's not going to be a life ender.

You could always be an actual parent to your children instead of trying to indoctrinate them though. Teach them right from wrong and help shape them into responsible young adults instead of putting them in a bubble wrap suit and only allowing them to play in padded rooms.

Jester · August 14, 2016, 02:01:04 AM

Quote from: ⊿ Eli on August 14, 2016, 01:59:22 AM

Quote from: Joyce Byers on August 14, 2016, 01:42:46 AM
Quote from: ⊿ Eli on August 14, 2016, 01:30:06 AM
Quote from: Joyce Byers on August 14, 2016, 01:24:56 AM
Quote from: ⊿ Eli on August 14, 2016, 01:18:20 AM
Quote from: Joyce Byers on August 14, 2016, 12:07:26 AM
you literally think you hate yourself because "boo hoo, porn", without taking any personal responsibility.

what

how am i not taking responsibility
You blamed your self loathing on porn instead of being a person who deserves to be loathed.

what? i blame me knowing im a person who deserves to be loathed on porn.
what?

there's literally no reason porn would make you hate yourself

i was unaware i was such a disgusting creature for the most part until i discovered the depths of my own sexual deviancy. porn helped me both develop that deviancy as well as discover it.

Lol you sound like a faggot dude

Elai · August 14, 2016, 02:02:28 AM

Quote from: LC on August 14, 2016, 01:59:37 AM

Quote from: ⊿ Eli on August 14, 2016, 01:17:31 AM
Quote from: LC on August 14, 2016, 12:15:53 AM
>I'm going to cut off internet access entirely so my potential children won't be able to see boobies on their computer screen

Now that's a new one.

yeah cuz tits are the only thing theyll see

not scat porn
not rape
not incest

besides there are many other things i wouldnt be able to control that theyll see

You generally have to go looking for that stuff to find it and even then scat is the only one you might accidentally come across. Actual rape is illegal so most places aren't going to be hosting it and incest isn't something that's common outside of the deep south and those people aren't smart enough to upload a video of themselves doing it anyway. Seeing another person poop however isn't really that big of a deal, sure it's gross, but it's not going to be a life ender.

You could always be an actual parent to your children instead of trying to indoctrinate them though. Teach them right from wrong and help shape them into responsible young adults instead of putting them in a bubble wrap suit and only allowing them to play in padded rooms.

im not indoctrinating them. the internet is not a safe place for a child to lurk. end of discussion.

every generation except ours grew up without internet. its not the end of the world. i wish i didnt have access, its much more liberating.

Elai · August 14, 2016, 02:03:18 AM

Quote from: Jester on August 14, 2016, 02:01:04 AM

Quote from: ⊿ Eli on August 14, 2016, 01:59:22 AM
Quote from: Joyce Byers on August 14, 2016, 01:42:46 AM
Quote from: ⊿ Eli on August 14, 2016, 01:30:06 AM
Quote from: Joyce Byers on August 14, 2016, 01:24:56 AM
Quote from: ⊿ Eli on August 14, 2016, 01:18:20 AM
Quote from: Joyce Byers on August 14, 2016, 12:07:26 AM
you literally think you hate yourself because "boo hoo, porn", without taking any personal responsibility.

what

how am i not taking responsibility
You blamed your self loathing on porn instead of being a person who deserves to be loathed.

what? i blame me knowing im a person who deserves to be loathed on porn.
what?

there's literally no reason porn would make you hate yourself

i was unaware i was such a disgusting creature for the most part until i discovered the depths of my own sexual deviancy. porn helped me both develop that deviancy as well as discover it.
Lol you sound like a faggot dude

and youll do anything to justify your hedonisic life choices

Naru · August 14, 2016, 02:05:03 AM

haha ender watched scat porn

SecondClass · August 14, 2016, 02:06:21 AM

Quote from: ⊿ Eli on August 14, 2016, 01:59:22 AM

Quote from: Joyce Byers on August 14, 2016, 01:42:46 AM
Quote from: ⊿ Eli on August 14, 2016, 01:30:06 AM
Quote from: Joyce Byers on August 14, 2016, 01:24:56 AM
Quote from: ⊿ Eli on August 14, 2016, 01:18:20 AM
Quote from: Joyce Byers on August 14, 2016, 12:07:26 AM
you literally think you hate yourself because "boo hoo, porn", without taking any personal responsibility.

what

how am i not taking responsibility
You blamed your self loathing on porn instead of being a person who deserves to be loathed.

what? i blame me knowing im a person who deserves to be loathed on porn.
what?

there's literally no reason porn would make you hate yourself

i was unaware i was such a disgusting creature for the most part until i discovered the depths of my own sexual deviancy. porn helped me both develop that deviancy as well as discover it.

lmao there's nothing wrong with kinks or sexual desires

stop being such a goddamn emo faggot please

Elai · August 14, 2016, 02:07:44 AM

yeah there is. and im done with you entirely.

Jester · August 14, 2016, 02:08:52 AM

Quote from: ⊿ Eli on August 14, 2016, 02:03:18 AM

Quote from: Jester on August 14, 2016, 02:01:04 AM
Quote from: ⊿ Eli on August 14, 2016, 01:59:22 AM
Quote from: Joyce Byers on August 14, 2016, 01:42:46 AM
Quote from: ⊿ Eli on August 14, 2016, 01:30:06 AM
Quote from: Joyce Byers on August 14, 2016, 01:24:56 AM
Quote from: ⊿ Eli on August 14, 2016, 01:18:20 AM
Quote from: Joyce Byers on August 14, 2016, 12:07:26 AM
you literally think you hate yourself because "boo hoo, porn", without taking any personal responsibility.

what

how am i not taking responsibility
You blamed your self loathing on porn instead of being a person who deserves to be loathed.

what? i blame me knowing im a person who deserves to be loathed on porn.
what?

there's literally no reason porn would make you hate yourself

i was unaware i was such a disgusting creature for the most part until i discovered the depths of my own sexual deviancy. porn helped me both develop that deviancy as well as discover it.
Lol you sound like a faggot dude

and youll do anything to justify your hedonisic life choices

I pursue pleasure because I actually have a chance to enjoy life for once.

Elai · August 14, 2016, 02:11:18 AM

im enjoying the fuck out of life right now.

guess im just better at it than you.

Jester · August 14, 2016, 02:13:46 AM

Quote from: ⊿ Eli on August 14, 2016, 02:11:18 AM

im enjoying the fuck out of life right now.

guess im just better at it than you.

Do you think I do nothing but sit at my computer chair looking at tits while smoking pot? No bitch I have hobbies. I like the pleasure of cumming but there are other things I do for fun, believe it or not.

Elai · August 14, 2016, 02:18:56 AM

no i dont think you just do that. im sure you have shit you enjoy doing outside of rubbing your pole.

pursuing happiness is an empty promise. thats my point.

Jester · August 14, 2016, 02:20:36 AM

Quote from: ⊿ Eli on August 14, 2016, 02:18:56 AM

no i dont think you just do that. im sure you have shit you enjoy doing outside of rubbing your pole.

pursuing happiness is an empty promise. thats my point.

Its worked enough for me because I'm super happy when I have a toe-clenching orgasam

big sponge · August 14, 2016, 02:25:20 AM

Quote from: ⊿ Eli on August 14, 2016, 02:02:28 AM

Quote from: LC on August 14, 2016, 01:59:37 AM
Quote from: ⊿ Eli on August 14, 2016, 01:17:31 AM
Quote from: LC on August 14, 2016, 12:15:53 AM
>I'm going to cut off internet access entirely so my potential children won't be able to see boobies on their computer screen

Now that's a new one.

yeah cuz tits are the only thing theyll see

not scat porn
not rape
not incest

besides there are many other things i wouldnt be able to control that theyll see

You generally have to go looking for that stuff to find it and even then scat is the only one you might accidentally come across. Actual rape is illegal so most places aren't going to be hosting it and incest isn't something that's common outside of the deep south and those people aren't smart enough to upload a video of themselves doing it anyway. Seeing another person poop however isn't really that big of a deal, sure it's gross, but it's not going to be a life ender.

You could always be an actual parent to your children instead of trying to indoctrinate them though. Teach them right from wrong and help shape them into responsible young adults instead of putting them in a bubble wrap suit and only allowing them to play in padded rooms.

im not indoctrinating them. the internet is not a safe place for a child to lurk. end of discussion.

every generation except ours grew up without internet. its not the end of the world. i wish i didnt have access, its much more liberating.

If your children are looking for porn we're going to be operating under the assumption that they're in their mid teens and they've got a fresh surge of hormones pumping through their body. At that age they're old enough to be making some of their own decisions.

That being said you saying you want to shut off the internet completely because you won't be able to control everything they see and hear if you don't very much sounds like indoctrination.

Previous generations also grew up without electricity, running water, modern medicine, or toilet paper. I guess we should eschew those from our every day lives as well. I'm someone who didn't actually have a consistent internet connection until I was in high school so I didn't really "grow up" with the internet either.

SecondClass · August 14, 2016, 02:26:24 AM

Quote from: ⊿ Eli on August 14, 2016, 02:11:18 AM

im enjoying the fuck out of life right now.

I never knew that happy, content people came on obscure internet forums to whine about their personal lives.

Guess you are better at life than the rest of us after all

Ender · August 14, 2016, 02:29:22 AM

Quote from: Naru on August 14, 2016, 02:05:03 AM

haha ender watched scat porn

stop

Ender · August 14, 2016, 02:30:21 AM

Also, on topic, no, it's perfectly normal for teenagers and young adults to do that shit.

Elai · August 14, 2016, 02:33:42 AM

Quote from: LC on August 14, 2016, 02:25:20 AM

Previous generations also grew up without electricity, running water, modern medicine, or toilet paper. I guess we should eschew those from our every day lives as well.

what the fuck? there arent good reasons to cut those out. there are for the internet.

i want my kids to learn values from me and have actual worldly knowledge. not acquire internet balls and learn keyboard swordsmanship.

Elai · August 14, 2016, 02:35:15 AM

Quote from: Joyce Byers on August 14, 2016, 02:26:24 AM

Quote from: ⊿ Eli on August 14, 2016, 02:11:18 AM
im enjoying the fuck out of life right now.
I never knew that happy, content people came on obscure internet forums to whine about their personal lives.

Guess you are better at life than the rest of us after all

im actually really happy with life right now, yeah

i have problems but everyone does

i post for the sake of posting to try and contribute to a community

SecondClass · August 14, 2016, 02:38:57 AM

prehistoric always flips from relatively chill to completely unbearable

right when you think he's not the worst person ever he pulls some judgmental socially retarded shit like this

Elai · August 14, 2016, 02:43:05 AM

i have a lot of conflicting ideas in my brain right now

remnants of depression passed im still working out

might have something to do with it

im not really being judgmental at all (or if i have been i dont mean to be, its 4 am)

im elaborating on why my kids wont have internet. thats it.

Ender · August 14, 2016, 02:47:58 AM

then you realize prehistoric might not even have kids and then everything seems better