And I got only one match, who was a guy who couldn't hold a conversation

feels bad man

Grindr

Take those apps with a grain of salt and understand that not everyone is using them.

Are you looking for just a hookup? If not then just uninstall them, that's all they're good for. I thought about using them once, then I remembered how I used legitimate dating services online in the past, and they were trash. If legitimate services are a failure, what would make something like Tindr/Grindr any better?

lower your standards and say yes to everything

I swiped right on everyone except maybe 5%, though.

I'm thinking I probably didn't set my profile up optimally, so I just might wait a a little while and try again with a different approach.

Every girl I see on that app is a pothead