I don't think I was being out of line.

MyNameIsCharlie · October 01, 2014, 06:45:11 AM

I asked her: did you sleep with him, before the last time we had sex?

She asked why. I told her that I needed to know if I should go get a full panel of STD tests.

She got pissed, went off, and started screaming. I remained calm, and kept repeating that it is a fair question.

She was screaming that if I thought she was stupid, that she wouldn't use protection. I replied that it doesn't really matter what kind of person I thought she was, because I thought she wasn't the kind to cheat, either. Clearly I can make mistakes.

I think that I asked a fair, and responsible question.

Yu · October 01, 2014, 06:46:40 AM

Yep, fair, she just seems to be blowing it out of proportion to avoid the question.

challengerX · October 01, 2014, 06:46:48 AM

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MyNameIsCharlie · October 01, 2014, 06:48:06 AM

Quote from: Yutaka on October 01, 2014, 06:46:40 AM

Yep, fair, she just seems to be blowing it out of proportion to avoid the question.

She insists that she didn't. I really don't know if I can trust her, any more.

MyNameIsCharlie · October 01, 2014, 06:48:50 AM

Quote from: challengerX on October 01, 2014, 06:46:48 AM

She yelled at you? That's rich.

yeah. I said as much.

Yu · October 01, 2014, 06:50:06 AM

Quote from: MyNameIsCharlie on October 01, 2014, 06:48:06 AM

Quote from: Yutaka on October 01, 2014, 06:46:40 AM
Yep, fair, she just seems to be blowing it out of proportion to avoid the question.
She insists that she didn't. I really don't know if I can trust her, any more.

It really sounds like she is covering for her self. Ask someone else if you can.

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velox · October 01, 2014, 06:58:13 AM

Yeah, test yourself. Better safe than sorry.

Aether · October 01, 2014, 07:00:12 AM

You can get Chlamydia from sharing towels. She cheated.

Fair question, get tested.

MyNameIsCharlie · October 01, 2014, 07:04:16 AM

I plan to get tested. In retrospect it really was a stupid question. I don't trust her, she lied for months and cheated. Why would I trust what she told me? I should have just told her that I was getting tested, and that she should do the same, for the sake of our children.

RustingFloor · October 01, 2014, 07:09:38 AM

Charlie, your wife sounds like a huge fracking cunt

Oh shit we can't say fucking cunt?

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MyNameIsCharlie · October 01, 2014, 07:23:44 AM

Quote from: Flee on October 01, 2014, 07:12:25 AM

Definitely a fair question, although you probably should've just told her you were going to get tested. Can't really trust her either way anymore.

I just said that.

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BlitzFiend · October 01, 2014, 07:25:42 AM

goodluck, my nigger

gats · October 01, 2014, 08:03:38 AM

Lol that's hilarious. I hope you get custody bruh

Kinder Graham · October 01, 2014, 08:31:28 AM

Tell her that protection doesn't fully rid the possibilities of contracting an STD

Oh, and irrelevant to the the thread but did she ever go on a whole "I'm sorry and sobbing" type of deal when she confessed? If she did, why wasn't she crying or saying sorry when she was with another guy? You just need to get away from her; she's not worth you or your children's time and she will only be an anchor holding you back

Mr. Admirals · October 01, 2014, 08:37:03 AM

If she truly regretted cheating on you, she'd allow for full cooperation and transparency.

Maybe it's not right for me to say, but that's what I'd hope it be like.

BaconShelf · October 01, 2014, 08:49:26 AM

Getting really defensive and avoiding the question pretty much means yes.

MyNameIsCharlie · October 01, 2014, 09:35:34 AM

Quote from: Mr. Admirals on October 01, 2014, 08:37:03 AM

If she truly regretted cheating on you, she'd allow for full cooperation and transparency.

Maybe it's not right for me to say, but that's what I'd hope it be like.

That makes two of us.

Isara · October 01, 2014, 09:39:19 AM

Charlie... I don't know much about your intrigues with your wife, but I hope that wherever you get the results from your checkup that nothing comes up. As I would find the idea of getting a HIV this way quite terrifying myself.

🂿 · October 01, 2014, 09:44:42 AM

What a bitch. I hate her now. Keep her the flying fuck away from me for sure.

Coco · October 01, 2014, 10:10:51 AM

You weren't. She's in no position to be mad at you, so she should stop acting like she is.

Mordo · October 01, 2014, 10:17:16 AM

ms charlie confirmed for heartless psycho c*nt

Naru · October 01, 2014, 10:31:08 AM

Should've punched the bitch

Blackbox Rob · October 01, 2014, 11:38:24 AM

Dude, leave her, take Nic, move to Alaska, buy 2Bed1Bath, start searching for new job, fall in love again, start dating new girl, you find out you have an STI, you tell her, she leaves you, raise son to be gay, he holds that spot for the missing woman in your life, get a dog, he holds the spot for the now missing son in your life, live life, get prostate cancer in 2037, die.

...

Go to heaven, ask St Petty to let ye in plz, he says you have a chance to change your life for the better, the way god intended, you agree, you awake in bed, see a guy next to you in bed, get up, start freaking out, look in mirror

^{you are your wife from Oct 2014}

KingWhovian · October 01, 2014, 08:13:26 PM

It sounds to me like she's trying to avoid answering the question. Why else would she get all emotional about it?

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SecondClass · October 01, 2014, 08:20:55 PM

lol Ms. Charlie is a badass