As a dad how does it feel to have your children away from you? And how would you feel if they didn't contact you often?
Honestly? It's hell. I both love and am frustrated by them. My oldest is almost 3, and this is a hard age. I need breaks, but I loath being away from them.
As to the second part, I live my life do it wouldn't happen. If it did... That would be a pain beyond imagination.