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Hey you finally changed your avatar!No, but I'm a virgin.
Nope, not married yet.
Quote from: Snake on February 07, 2015, 02:39:20 AMHey you finally changed your avatar!No, but I'm a virgin.It's on a rotation now. 50% chance of the original, arms crossed avatar, and 50% chance of one of the top 3 choices in the Anarchy poll.
And that sucks, lol. Nothing to be ashamed of, though. I wish I lost mine in a better way, to be honest.
Quote from: Val 'Ketam on February 07, 2015, 02:39:38 AMNope, not married yet.Are you really "saving yourself" for marriage?I didn't know you were that Christian.
Quote from: SecondClass on February 07, 2015, 02:45:31 AMQuote from: Val 'Ketam on February 07, 2015, 02:39:38 AMNope, not married yet.Are you really "saving yourself" for marriage?I didn't know you were that Christian.That's the plan. Unless I have a moment of weakness or something.Did you expect anything less from me?
Quote from: Val 'Ketam on February 07, 2015, 02:47:51 AMQuote from: SecondClass on February 07, 2015, 02:45:31 AMQuote from: Val 'Ketam on February 07, 2015, 02:39:38 AMNope, not married yet.Are you really "saving yourself" for marriage?I didn't know you were that Christian.That's the plan. Unless I have a moment of weakness or something.Did you expect anything less from me?Yeah, I did. I didn't know that anyone other than 70 year old Catholic women still held the arbitrary and illogical notion that sex should wait until marriage. Marriage is more than emotional, to be completely frank. Before making that commitment, a couple should know that there's a raw physical connection, as well.
Quote from: SecondClass on February 07, 2015, 02:50:08 AMQuote from: Val 'Ketam on February 07, 2015, 02:47:51 AMQuote from: SecondClass on February 07, 2015, 02:45:31 AMQuote from: Val 'Ketam on February 07, 2015, 02:39:38 AMNope, not married yet.Are you really "saving yourself" for marriage?I didn't know you were that Christian.That's the plan. Unless I have a moment of weakness or something.Did you expect anything less from me?Yeah, I did. I didn't know that anyone other than 70 year old Catholic women still held the arbitrary and illogical notion that sex should wait until marriage. Marriage is more than emotional, to be completely frank. Before making that commitment, a couple should know that there's a raw physical connection, as well.The belief is still widespread, it's just poorly practiced.It's just how I'm going to go about it. I'll still have sex, I'm just going to do so on those terms.
Quote from: Val 'Ketam on February 07, 2015, 02:53:15 AMQuote from: SecondClass on February 07, 2015, 02:50:08 AMQuote from: Val 'Ketam on February 07, 2015, 02:47:51 AMQuote from: SecondClass on February 07, 2015, 02:45:31 AMQuote from: Val 'Ketam on February 07, 2015, 02:39:38 AMNope, not married yet.Are you really "saving yourself" for marriage?I didn't know you were that Christian.That's the plan. Unless I have a moment of weakness or something.Did you expect anything less from me?Yeah, I did. I didn't know that anyone other than 70 year old Catholic women still held the arbitrary and illogical notion that sex should wait until marriage. Marriage is more than emotional, to be completely frank. Before making that commitment, a couple should know that there's a raw physical connection, as well.The belief is still widespread, it's just poorly practiced.It's just how I'm going to go about it. I'll still have sex, I'm just going to do so on those terms.I first had sex when I was 15...would that be sinful in your eyes? lolSpoilerI'm pretty baked right now so forgive me if I'm seeming dumb haha
Quote from: SecondClass on February 07, 2015, 02:55:01 AMQuote from: Val 'Ketam on February 07, 2015, 02:53:15 AMQuote from: SecondClass on February 07, 2015, 02:50:08 AMQuote from: Val 'Ketam on February 07, 2015, 02:47:51 AMQuote from: SecondClass on February 07, 2015, 02:45:31 AMQuote from: Val 'Ketam on February 07, 2015, 02:39:38 AMNope, not married yet.Are you really "saving yourself" for marriage?I didn't know you were that Christian.That's the plan. Unless I have a moment of weakness or something.Did you expect anything less from me?Yeah, I did. I didn't know that anyone other than 70 year old Catholic women still held the arbitrary and illogical notion that sex should wait until marriage. Marriage is more than emotional, to be completely frank. Before making that commitment, a couple should know that there's a raw physical connection, as well.The belief is still widespread, it's just poorly practiced.It's just how I'm going to go about it. I'll still have sex, I'm just going to do so on those terms.I first had sex when I was 15...would that be sinful in your eyes? lolSpoilerI'm pretty baked right now so forgive me if I'm seeming dumb hahaWhat I believe doesn't affect you, so my view of your choice isn't needed.Unless you really really want it, then I will gladly tell you
Why the fuck do you care?
Quote from: Decimator Omega on February 07, 2015, 03:03:26 AMWhy the fuck do you care?That would be option four for you, then.
Quote from: Val 'Ketam on February 07, 2015, 02:56:45 AMQuote from: SecondClass on February 07, 2015, 02:55:01 AMQuote from: Val 'Ketam on February 07, 2015, 02:53:15 AMQuote from: SecondClass on February 07, 2015, 02:50:08 AMQuote from: Val 'Ketam on February 07, 2015, 02:47:51 AMQuote from: SecondClass on February 07, 2015, 02:45:31 AMQuote from: Val 'Ketam on February 07, 2015, 02:39:38 AMNope, not married yet.Are you really "saving yourself" for marriage?I didn't know you were that Christian.That's the plan. Unless I have a moment of weakness or something.Did you expect anything less from me?Yeah, I did. I didn't know that anyone other than 70 year old Catholic women still held the arbitrary and illogical notion that sex should wait until marriage. Marriage is more than emotional, to be completely frank. Before making that commitment, a couple should know that there's a raw physical connection, as well.The belief is still widespread, it's just poorly practiced.It's just how I'm going to go about it. I'll still have sex, I'm just going to do so on those terms.I first had sex when I was 15...would that be sinful in your eyes? lolSpoilerI'm pretty baked right now so forgive me if I'm seeming dumb hahaWhat I believe doesn't affect you, so my view of your choice isn't needed.Unless you really really want it, then I will gladly tell you I really really do
"It is what comes out of a person that defiles. For it is from within, from the human heart, that evil intentions come: fornication, theft, murder, adultery, avarice, wickedness, deceit, licentiousness, envy, slander, pride, folly. All these evil things come from within, and they defile a person." (NRSV, Mark 7:20-23)
The acts of the sinful nature are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God. (NIV, Galatians 5:19-21)
Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins people commit are outside their bodies, but those who sin sexually sin against their own bodies. Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies. (TNIV, 1 Corinthians 6:18-20)
It is God's will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality; that each of you should learn to control your own body in a way that is holy and honorable, not in passionate lust like the pagans, who do not know God; (TNIV, 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5)
Now to the unmarried and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I am. But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion. (NIV, 1 Corinthians 7:8-9)
That's all really fucking vague though. What the heck is "sexual immorality" supposed to mean?
But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. - Matthew 5:28
"It is what comes out of a person that defiles. For it is from within, from the human heart, that evil intentions come:
"Sexual immorality" is an inherent misnomer, though, because nothing two consenting adults do to each other behind closed doors could ever be unethical. Logically. Any belief to the contrary is just dogma talking.
Don't poison your life with this bullshit. There's absolutely nothing wrong with lust and having sex. Or greed or anything. We are what we are and there's nothing admirable about enjoying your very short life less because some bitter old men tell you to. Think for yourself.
Quote from: Val 'Ketam on February 07, 2015, 03:55:07 AMQuote from: SecondClass on February 07, 2015, 03:38:49 AM"Sexual immorality" is an inherent misnomer, though, because nothing two consenting adults do to each other behind closed doors could ever be unethical. Logically. Any belief to the contrary is just dogma talking.Quote from: challengerX on February 07, 2015, 03:52:00 AMDon't poison your life with this bullshit. There's absolutely nothing wrong with lust and having sex. Or greed or anything. We are what we are and there's nothing admirable about enjoying your very short life less because some bitter old men tell you to. Think for yourself. Simply put, it's not for everyone.It's not for ANYONE. There is NOTHING wrong with two adults consensually having sex. If I'm friends with a girl and have sex with her, what exactly is wrong with it in your mind? Honestly, I'm asking. I want to know what YOU think, not a book.
Quote from: SecondClass on February 07, 2015, 03:38:49 AM"Sexual immorality" is an inherent misnomer, though, because nothing two consenting adults do to each other behind closed doors could ever be unethical. Logically. Any belief to the contrary is just dogma talking.Quote from: challengerX on February 07, 2015, 03:52:00 AMDon't poison your life with this bullshit. There's absolutely nothing wrong with lust and having sex. Or greed or anything. We are what we are and there's nothing admirable about enjoying your very short life less because some bitter old men tell you to. Think for yourself. Simply put, it's not for everyone.
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