What I've noticed is when people bully you, all the stuff they choose to bully you for is stuff they wouldn't normally pick on someone for, unless there was something else you didn't do. I see it all the time, if someone is hated then people will choose any reason to pick on you for it. So it's easy to get caught up in all the stuff that people say, and think that they actually take issue with a bunch of things about you. It's good to remember that although the people act like they can write your biography about you because they act like they know you so well, they actually only take issue with something you may or may not remember, and they are low class because they're the ones who choose to start controversy.