Does somebody here escaped from their parents?

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How it was going? Don`t mention reasons behind it if you don`t want, just how you handled it.


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Pretty sure everybody here has mommy issues


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I got kicked out by my step dad, so not sure if that counts as running away.

I've handled it well. One of the best things to happen to me tbh.


 
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In my experience, if you genuinely make the effort to make things right, despite what they've done or do to you, things do get better.


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I wouldn't really call it "escaped". I just chose not to live with my mom and sister anymore and moved three houses down with friends. Now I plan on being in a legitimate apartment hopefully by the summer.

Pretty sure everybody here has mommy issues

I care deeply about my mother, no real issues with her at all; I just prefer not to live with her.


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Quite the opposite. I can't seem to escape from my mother.

Perhaps one day when I'm not a sickly deadbeat.


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I wouldn't really call it "escaped". I just chose not to live with my mom and sister anymore and moved three houses down with friends. Now I plan on being in a legitimate apartment hopefully by the summer.

Pretty sure everybody here has mommy issues

I care deeply about my mother, no real issues with her at all; I just prefer not to live with her.
I would really want to do the same thing and hope there would be no issue over it, but I'm not sure that it would work out.


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Make sure you get friends who aren't slobs. The two I'm with now are absolute pigs when it comes to cleanliness.

I would really want to do the same thing and hope there would be no issue over it, but I'm not sure that it would work out.


 
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Considered it once a long time ago and almost went through with it. I really hate drunk people.


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In my experience, if you genuinely make the effort to make things right, despite what they've done or do to you, things do get better.
    Well, my mother told me that I'll be kicked out of the house, if I don`t find job until summer. I also probably need along with it not to be kick out from uni and write my bachelor diploma. She also told me that she doesn`t want my money (I'm earning money as top rated student, then I'm paying back for it doing job for uni or companies my uni made partnership with), she also told me that she wants to make me happy, and if I gonna have a place in the world, I'll be happy. And you know what?
      I'll find a job. I'll finish uni and get bachelor and even masters degree, even if I know that I'm not gonna be happy of it, quite opposite - I'll probably hate it. But on one condition: I'm not gonna live with her. I'll take care of her, I'll move her to other country, I'll visit her regularly, but on my first good opportunity I'll move from her. And, after thinking about it for some time, I think it will be fine.
      Well, she was celebrating her birthday, which was 15 Jan, and her coworker birthday, which is today, and she got drunk despite her attempts to prevent it, it is very rare for her to get drunk, but this year is going shit on top of shit and it got her and it`s not her fault. It just hurts.


 
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In my experience, if you genuinely make the effort to make things right, despite what they've done or do to you, things do get better.
    Well, my mother told me that I'll be kicked out of the house, if I don`t find job until summer. I also probably need along with it not to be kick out from uni and write my bachelor diploma. She also told me that she doesn`t want my money (I'm earning money as top rated student, then I'm paying back for it doing job for uni or companies my uni made partnership with), she also told me that she wants to make me happy, and if I gonna have a place in the world, I'll be happy. And you know what?
      I'll find a job. I'll finish uni and get bachelor and even masters degree, even if I know that I'm not gonna be happy of it, quite opposite - I'll probably hate it. But on one condition: I'm not gonna live with her. I'll take care of her, I'll move her to other country, I'll visit her regularly, but on my first good opportunity I'll move from her. And, after thinking about it for some time, I think it will be fine.
      Well, she was celebrating her birthday, which was 15 Jan, and her coworker birthday, which is today, and she got drunk despite her attempts to prevent it, it is very rare for her to get drunk, but this year is going shit on top of shit and it got her and it`s not her fault. It just hurts.

Sounds like a pretty standard situation. Not to belittle your issues, but your mom is just worried about you. Find a way to convince her you've grown up and know what you're doing. Showing vulnerbility helps a parent understand your situation better than rebelling.


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If you know, you know.
In my experience, if you genuinely make the effort to make things right, despite what they've done or do to you, things do get better.
    Well, my mother told me that I'll be kicked out of the house, if I don`t find job until summer. I also probably need along with it not to be kick out from uni and write my bachelor diploma. She also told me that she doesn`t want my money (I'm earning money as top rated student, then I'm paying back for it doing job for uni or companies my uni made partnership with), she also told me that she wants to make me happy, and if I gonna have a place in the world, I'll be happy. And you know what?
      I'll find a job. I'll finish uni and get bachelor and even masters degree, even if I know that I'm not gonna be happy of it, quite opposite - I'll probably hate it. But on one condition: I'm not gonna live with her. I'll take care of her, I'll move her to other country, I'll visit her regularly, but on my first good opportunity I'll move from her. And, after thinking about it for some time, I think it will be fine.
      Well, she was celebrating her birthday, which was 15 Jan, and her coworker birthday, which is today, and she got drunk despite her attempts to prevent it, it is very rare for her to get drunk, but this year is going shit on top of shit and it got her and it`s not her fault. It just hurts.
Any chance you can find work at Uni? Work in the cafeteria or a student shop or something? Maybe help grade assignments?


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Considered it once a long time ago and almost went through with it. I really hate drunk people.
       You don`t tell, I lived in my university hostel for two years with one drunktards and third year with other one, but they seem to "self-remove" them even without my help, in one case guy didn`t pay his rent due to spending all on alcohol and due to making party in room during holidays and he got kicked, second one just didn`t pay rent, left a note at one point and disappeared until this year when he came drunk, with nunchacks, to ask to stay for the night and I showed him way to exit, after which he kicked doors for some time.

       Then again, it depends on person, I know quite a few people which drink and don`t do shit, described above, they just know when to stop and just don`t lose control over their mind.


 
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Would never do that


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In my experience, if you genuinely make the effort to make things right, despite what they've done or do to you, things do get better.
    Well, my mother told me that I'll be kicked out of the house, if I don`t find job until summer. I also probably need along with it not to be kick out from uni and write my bachelor diploma. She also told me that she doesn`t want my money (I'm earning money as top rated student, then I'm paying back for it doing job for uni or companies my uni made partnership with), she also told me that she wants to make me happy, and if I gonna have a place in the world, I'll be happy. And you know what?
      I'll find a job. I'll finish uni and get bachelor and even masters degree, even if I know that I'm not gonna be happy of it, quite opposite - I'll probably hate it. But on one condition: I'm not gonna live with her. I'll take care of her, I'll move her to other country, I'll visit her regularly, but on my first good opportunity I'll move from her. And, after thinking about it for some time, I think it will be fine.
      Well, she was celebrating her birthday, which was 15 Jan, and her coworker birthday, which is today, and she got drunk despite her attempts to prevent it, it is very rare for her to get drunk, but this year is going shit on top of shit and it got her and it`s not her fault. It just hurts.

Sounds like a pretty standard situation. Not to belittle your issues, but your mom is just worried about you. Find a way to convince her you've grown up and know what you're doing. Showing vulnerbility helps a parent understand your situation better than rebelling.
It`s not just rebelling, my studying or job as programmer requires all my attention focused on study or job and I need to be alone and not bugged, so I need to move from my mom eventually. I told her that I want to live separately 2 years ago. But otherwise you are right, thanks for concern.


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In my experience, if you genuinely make the effort to make things right, despite what they've done or do to you, things do get better.
(I'm earning money as top rated student, then I'm paying back for it doing job for uni or companies my uni made partnership with)
Any chance you can find work at Uni? Work in the cafeteria or a student shop or something? Maybe help grade assignments?
I'm already working for uni in their center for distant studying.


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ive never had serious problems with my parents


 
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I DONT GIVE A SINGLE -blam!- MOTHER -blam!-ER ITS A MOTHER -blam!-ING FORUM, OH WOW, YOU HAVE THE WORD NINJA BELOW YOUR NAME, HOW MOTHER -blam!-ING COOL, NOT, YOUR ARE NOTHING TO ME BUT A BRAINWASHED PIECE OF SHIT BLOGGER, PEOPLE ONLY LIKE YOU BECAUSE YOU HAVE NINJA BELOW YOUR NAME, SO PLEASE PUNCH YOURAELF IN THE FACE AND STAB YOUR EYE BECAUSE YOU ARE NOTHING BUT A PIECE OF SHIT OF SOCIETY
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I think everyone feels that way eventually. I moved it when I was 18 and have been back to live with my parents/mom since then. Honestly it's nice to have the two separate. I love my mom but I much prefer to visit.


 
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You will find out who you are not a thousand times, before you ever discover who you are. I hope you find peace in yourself and learn to love instead of hate.
I lived without my parents from the ages of 16 until I was 21, hard at first obvs but simple to overcome if you're not retarded.


 
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"With the first link, the chain is forged. The first speech censured, the first thought forbidden, the first freedom denied, chains us all irrevocably."
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Pretty sure everybody here has mommy issues
my mom is awesome


 
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In my experience, if you genuinely make the effort to make things right, despite what they've done or do to you, things do get better.
    Well, my mother told me that I'll be kicked out of the house, if I don`t find job until summer. I also probably need along with it not to be kick out from uni and write my bachelor diploma. She also told me that she doesn`t want my money (I'm earning money as top rated student, then I'm paying back for it doing job for uni or companies my uni made partnership with), she also told me that she wants to make me happy, and if I gonna have a place in the world, I'll be happy. And you know what?
      I'll find a job. I'll finish uni and get bachelor and even masters degree, even if I know that I'm not gonna be happy of it, quite opposite - I'll probably hate it. But on one condition: I'm not gonna live with her. I'll take care of her, I'll move her to other country, I'll visit her regularly, but on my first good opportunity I'll move from her. And, after thinking about it for some time, I think it will be fine.
      Well, she was celebrating her birthday, which was 15 Jan, and her coworker birthday, which is today, and she got drunk despite her attempts to prevent it, it is very rare for her to get drunk, but this year is going shit on top of shit and it got her and it`s not her fault. It just hurts.

Sounds like a pretty standard situation. Not to belittle your issues, but your mom is just worried about you. Find a way to convince her you've grown up and know what you're doing. Showing vulnerbility helps a parent understand your situation better than rebelling.
It`s not just rebelling, my studying or job as programmer requires all my attention focused on study or job and I need to be alone and not bugged, so I need to move from my mom eventually. I told her that I want to live separately 2 years ago. But otherwise you are right, thanks for concern.

You have to make time for both studying and family.


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If you know, you know.
First of all, know that your mom will not kick you out.
Second, talk to her. Let her know what is going on in your head. What do you plan to do and why.
You don't sound like a waste of space child (even though you watch anime), you seem to know what you want to do so just let her know.
Oh and don't be afraid to let her know that you do not appreciate the extra pressure from her. You have enough stress as it is.


 
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I don't understand why so many parents threaten or actually kick their kids out. I've only ever seen that make the situation go from bad to much worse.

frustration and desperation.


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First of all, know that your mom will not kick you out.
Second, talk to her. Let her know what is going on in your head. What do you plan to do and why.
You don't sound like a waste of space child (even though you watch anime), you seem to know what you want to do so just let her know.
Oh and don't be afraid to let her know that you do not appreciate the extra pressure from her. You have enough stress as it is.
First, I don`t care if she kicks me or not. Second, I already did that.


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If you know, you know.
First of all, know that your mom will not kick you out.
Second, talk to her. Let her know what is going on in your head. What do you plan to do and why.
You don't sound like a waste of space child (even though you watch anime), you seem to know what you want to do so just let her know.
Oh and don't be afraid to let her know that you do not appreciate the extra pressure from her. You have enough stress as it is.
First, I don`t care if she kicks me or not. Second, I already did that.
Good, good. Now just focus on studies.


 
 
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I escaped.

Still running.