Do people really think mental illness is cool? Really?

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I always wonder what it's like to have multiple personality disorder.


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Only good one is autism, but even that has too many down-sides.


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My sister is bipolar and I think she's pretty cool. But no, mental illness sucks; I think people may be curious about it, though. I wouldn't mistake interest for envy.


 
 
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To chip in on the bit with SecondClass/Dustin/Meta on the other page <.<

It is certainly possible to 'enjoy' your misery, it depends on how it affects you. The typical MDD person is pretty much dead inside because of it, they don't feel happy and it's just generally a crushing sense of defeat/futility - Depression.

However IIRC, a coping mechanism that can occur is to take comfort in the sadness. I can't remember the exact details but loosely when someone has cried - they feel 'better' afterwards. As dustin pointed out, it's likely something to do with the endorphins released during/after. So I wouldn't automatically dismiss his thought, but I'm not sure I'd call it masochism either.

The other way to view it is like this, say someone is depressed. Serious clinical depression. There is a reasonable chance they won't want to seek help for it, because it might be too painful/embarrassing/change. Taking 'comfort' in the status quo as it were, could be what he's referring to. I could be wrong, but I'd be a little unnerved if he actually meant he really fucking enjoyed it when he was depressed. Because that would certainly be masochistic ._.


 
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This is the way the world ends. Not with a bang but a whimper.

When I say masochism, I'm only speaking colloquially.

I don't mean some deep-seated, pathological enjoyment of his own emotional torment.


 
 
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OT: I guess it's just another thing to thank media portrayals for.

You don't see the downsides to the 'illness' a character has, usually, or it's done in such a sickly arty manner that it makes me want to break something.

It happens so often that I can't remember the actual one but it's roughly like this; grey filter on the camera, guy wearing a trenchcoat/greatcoat sort of thing, wandering around the city with his head hung down low, *sigh* every few seconds, mournful looks at XYZ, sad music, rain. Etc.

Instead of seeing him just lying on the floor shrieking and crying for no apparent reason. Or avoiding people relentlessly (and not for comedic effect). Or my equally favourite one, is how it only takes a friend shaking them and saying 'pull yourself together' to get them off the sofa and put a spring back in their step.
Ugh.

Then you have shit like Dexter/Sherlock which glamorises psychopaths/sociopaths to such an absurd degree, I still enjoy it (Dexter far more than sherlock) but it's pretty... ehh...
Usually they are protrayed as anti-heroes/misguided/noble at heart, instead of actual psychopaths. One makes for good TV and the other makes for a nightmare in a courtroom <_<

[rambling continues]


 
 
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When I say masochism, I'm only speaking colloquially.

I don't mean some deep-seated, pathological enjoyment of his own emotional torment.

I thought as much, hence I differentiated the two <_<


 
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probably just an attention seeking thing.


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OT: I guess it's just another thing to thank media portrayals for.

You don't see the downsides to the 'illness' a character has, usually, or it's done in such a sickly arty manner that it makes me want to break something.

It happens so often that I can't remember the actual one but it's roughly like this; grey filter on the camera, guy wearing a trenchcoat/greatcoat sort of thing, wandering around the city with his head hung down low, *sigh* every few seconds, mournful looks at XYZ, sad music, rain. Etc.

Instead of seeing him just lying on the floor shrieking and crying for no apparent reason. Or avoiding people relentlessly (and not for comedic effect). Or my equally favourite one, is how it only takes a friend shaking them and saying 'pull yourself together' to get them off the sofa and put a spring back in their step.
Ugh.

Then you have shit like Dexter/Sherlock which glamorises psychopaths/sociopaths to such an absurd degree, I still enjoy it (Dexter far more than sherlock) but it's pretty... ehh...
Usually they are protrayed as anti-heroes/misguided/noble at heart, instead of actual psychopaths. One makes for good TV and the other makes for a nightmare in a courtroom <_<

[rambling continues]

Sherlock has always had that comedic effect in certain parts though, where most of the time, stuff Sherlock says is partially to provide comedic effect in him having to correct everything people say to him and so forth.

I mean, is a "high-functioning sociopath" even a real thing?


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OT: I guess it's just another thing to thank media portrayals for.

You don't see the downsides to the 'illness' a character has, usually, or it's done in such a sickly arty manner that it makes me want to break something.

It happens so often that I can't remember the actual one but it's roughly like this; grey filter on the camera, guy wearing a trenchcoat/greatcoat sort of thing, wandering around the city with his head hung down low, *sigh* every few seconds, mournful looks at XYZ, sad music, rain. Etc.

Instead of seeing him just lying on the floor shrieking and crying for no apparent reason. Or avoiding people relentlessly (and not for comedic effect). Or my equally favourite one, is how it only takes a friend shaking them and saying 'pull yourself together' to get them off the sofa and put a spring back in their step.
Ugh.

Then you have shit like Dexter/Sherlock which glamorises psychopaths/sociopaths to such an absurd degree, I still enjoy it (Dexter far more than sherlock) but it's pretty... ehh...
Usually they are protrayed as anti-heroes/misguided/noble at heart, instead of actual psychopaths. One makes for good TV and the other makes for a nightmare in a courtroom <_<

[rambling continues]

Sherlock has always had that comedic effect in certain parts though, where most of the time, stuff Sherlock says is partially to provide comedic effect in him having to correct everything people say to him and so forth.

I mean, is a "high-functioning sociopath" even a real thing?

I don't think it's a real term, but the parallel that comes to mind would be 'mildly sociopathic' <.<


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OT: I guess it's just another thing to thank media portrayals for.

You don't see the downsides to the 'illness' a character has, usually, or it's done in such a sickly arty manner that it makes me want to break something.

It happens so often that I can't remember the actual one but it's roughly like this; grey filter on the camera, guy wearing a trenchcoat/greatcoat sort of thing, wandering around the city with his head hung down low, *sigh* every few seconds, mournful looks at XYZ, sad music, rain. Etc.

Instead of seeing him just lying on the floor shrieking and crying for no apparent reason. Or avoiding people relentlessly (and not for comedic effect). Or my equally favourite one, is how it only takes a friend shaking them and saying 'pull yourself together' to get them off the sofa and put a spring back in their step.
Ugh.

Then you have shit like Dexter/Sherlock which glamorises psychopaths/sociopaths to such an absurd degree, I still enjoy it (Dexter far more than sherlock) but it's pretty... ehh...
Usually they are protrayed as anti-heroes/misguided/noble at heart, instead of actual psychopaths. One makes for good TV and the other makes for a nightmare in a courtroom <_<

[rambling continues]

Sherlock has always had that comedic effect in certain parts though, where most of the time, stuff Sherlock says is partially to provide comedic effect in him having to correct everything people say to him and so forth.

I mean, is a "high-functioning sociopath" even a real thing?

I don't think it's a real term, but the parallel that comes to mind would be 'mildly sociopathic' <.<

Yeah. Well, I guess the high functioning refers to intelligent, and sociopath is sociopath. So intelligent sociopath.


 
 
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OT: I guess it's just another thing to thank media portrayals for.

You don't see the downsides to the 'illness' a character has, usually, or it's done in such a sickly arty manner that it makes me want to break something.

It happens so often that I can't remember the actual one but it's roughly like this; grey filter on the camera, guy wearing a trenchcoat/greatcoat sort of thing, wandering around the city with his head hung down low, *sigh* every few seconds, mournful looks at XYZ, sad music, rain. Etc.

Instead of seeing him just lying on the floor shrieking and crying for no apparent reason. Or avoiding people relentlessly (and not for comedic effect). Or my equally favourite one, is how it only takes a friend shaking them and saying 'pull yourself together' to get them off the sofa and put a spring back in their step.
Ugh.

Then you have shit like Dexter/Sherlock which glamorises psychopaths/sociopaths to such an absurd degree, I still enjoy it (Dexter far more than sherlock) but it's pretty... ehh...
Usually they are protrayed as anti-heroes/misguided/noble at heart, instead of actual psychopaths. One makes for good TV and the other makes for a nightmare in a courtroom <_<

[rambling continues]

Sherlock has always had that comedic effect in certain parts though, where most of the time, stuff Sherlock says is partially to provide comedic effect in him having to correct everything people say to him and so forth.

I mean, is a "high-functioning sociopath" even a real thing?

I don't think it's a real term, but the parallel that comes to mind would be 'mildly sociopathic' <.<

Yeah. Well, I guess the high functioning refers to intelligent, and sociopath is sociopath. So intelligent sociopath.
I'd say it's more along the lines of 'not badly handicapped by' as in Autism, a high functioning autistic is usually 'just a bit weird' rather than completely hamstrung by autism <.<