describe your last breakup/rejection

The Hån · September 06, 2014, 05:00:20 PM

I told my ex at band camp that i wasn't interested in being a relationship with her anymore and i just wanted to be her friend. In reality, i just couldn't find her trustworthy and she just didn't seem to know what she exactly wanted. I realize that not everyone here has been in a realtionship so i threw in the rejection option.(not trying to sound pretentious or anything).

So describe Flood.

Septy · September 06, 2014, 05:00:47 PM

I killed them all

Juuzou · September 06, 2014, 05:01:28 PM

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Ásgeirr · September 06, 2014, 05:01:45 PM

Never bothered.

rC · September 06, 2014, 05:02:58 PM

>tfw never had a qt3.14 slap me and laugh, taking a picture and telling all of her friends what a faggot i am

Juuzou · September 06, 2014, 05:03:36 PM

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cxfhvxgkcf-56:7 · September 06, 2014, 05:04:00 PM

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rC · September 06, 2014, 05:04:08 PM

Quote from: Lady Noelle on September 06, 2014, 05:03:36 PM

Quote from: RC5908 on September 06, 2014, 05:02:58 PM
>tfw never had a qt3.14 slap me and laugh, taking a picture and telling all of her friends what a faggot i am
Please stop posting like an idiot.

Excuse me?

Super Irish · September 06, 2014, 05:08:41 PM

We met up, hung out for a while and then she told me she wanted to break up. She apologized (I said it was fine behind a straight face glazed eyes), and I waited with her to get the bus home and talked a bit.

We're still friends, and we talk and hang out occasionally. Possibly the best it could have ended, but it still sucked regardless. This has been for... 2 months now.

The Hån · September 06, 2014, 05:10:15 PM

Quote from: SoporificSlash on September 06, 2014, 05:04:00 PM

"Like this one time at band camp...."

OT: Well me and my last girlfriend kind of ended the relationship consensually, just kind of complicated. I guess nowadays we're like friends with benefits, either one of us has dated someone else since then.

i may not have described it in the OP, but it's pretty much like this too.

Yu · September 06, 2014, 05:15:48 PM

She told me we weren't a good match, I agreed.

Kinder Graham · September 06, 2014, 05:16:59 PM

Pretty meh all I can say. Had 2 rejections IRL and 1 on some internet forum like 4-5 months ago

More Than Mortal · September 06, 2014, 05:20:32 PM

Fuck me, let's see.

Well, my girlfriend originally thought I was Aspergic (her brother was autistic) and she ended up pushing me to see people like the psychology tutor at college and the college nurse. I didn't want to do it. Eventually, it became evident that I'm not autistic, just antisocial. I started getting "depression" (used flexibly) around November-time last year, and it just made me far, far worse and far, far more honest. I'd tell her that I didn't love her in the way that she loved me et cetera.

Eventually, around January-time, she came round my house one night and we had a great time. The next day at college something was clearly wrong. I took her into the corridor and she broke down crying. Told me she couldn't do it anymore and broke up with me. Can't say I blame her. I was pretty pissed off at first.

I tried to get her back on a number of occasions. When it didn't work, I made myself ultra-beta while we were on a college-trip to Poland. I rang her room and asked her to come and talk to me, made myself cry and apologise and all that. It didn't work. So, after we got back from Poland I sent her a message explaining everything (I actually posted the message on b.next) and we've been all right since.

It'll be exactly eight months one week ahead of tomorrow that we've not been together. She has another boyfriend now, and we actually talk pretty regularly.

More Than Mortal · September 06, 2014, 05:20:50 PM

Quote from: Kinder_ on September 06, 2014, 05:16:59 PM

Pretty meh all I can say. Had 2 rejections IRL and 1 on some internet forum like 4-5 months ago

Was it Noelle?

Kinder Graham · September 06, 2014, 05:33:29 PM

Quote from: Meta Cognition on September 06, 2014, 05:20:50 PM

Quote from: Kinder_ on September 06, 2014, 05:16:59 PM
Pretty meh all I can say. Had 2 rejections IRL and 1 on some internet forum like 4-5 months ago
Was it Noelle?

Nope

The Hån · September 06, 2014, 05:51:49 PM

Quote from: Meta Cognition on September 06, 2014, 05:20:32 PM

Fuck me, let's see.

Well, my girlfriend originally thought I was Aspergic (her brother was autistic) and she ended up pushing me to see people like the psychology tutor at college and the college nurse. I didn't want to do it. Eventually, it became evident that I'm not autistic, just antisocial. I started getting "depression" (used flexibly) around November-time last year, and it just made me far, far worse and far, far more honest. I'd tell her that I didn't love her in the way that she loved me et cetera.

Eventually, around January-time, she came round my house one night and we had a great time. The next day at college something was clearly wrong. I took her into the corridor and she broke down crying. Told me she couldn't do it anymore and broke up with me. Can't say I blame her. I was pretty pissed off at first.

I tried to get her back on a number of occasions. When it didn't work, I made myself ultra-beta while we were on a college-trip to Poland. I rang her room and asked her to come and talk to me, made myself cry and apologise and all that. It didn't work. So, after we got back from Poland I sent her a message explaining everything (I actually posted the message on b.next) and we've been all right since.

It'll be exactly eight months one week ahead of tomorrow that we've not been together. She has another boyfriend now, and we actually talk pretty regularly.

wow that kinda sux m8.

The Justicar · September 06, 2014, 06:20:23 PM

I'm the same as Noelle on this one. I've never experienced either.

True Turquoise · September 06, 2014, 06:28:28 PM

Quote from: Kitsune on September 06, 2014, 06:20:23 PM

I'm the same as Noelle on this one. I've never experienced either.

Half the forum probably hasn't

Kinder Graham · September 06, 2014, 06:29:33 PM

Quote from: True Turquoise on September 06, 2014, 06:28:28 PM

Quote from: Kitsune on September 06, 2014, 06:20:23 PM
I'm the same as Noelle on this one. I've never experienced either.

Half the forum probably hasn't

I'm sorry, this isn't working out. We're breaking up

True Turquoise · September 06, 2014, 06:30:38 PM

Quote from: Kinder_ on September 06, 2014, 06:29:33 PM

Quote from: True Turquoise on September 06, 2014, 06:28:28 PM
Quote from: Kitsune on September 06, 2014, 06:20:23 PM
I'm the same as Noelle on this one. I've never experienced either.

Half the forum probably hasn't
I'm sorry, this isn't working out. We're breaking up

We was going out?

BaconShelf · September 06, 2014, 06:38:20 PM

Well I was more upset that my preorder of halo CEA hadn't arrived than getting dumped. I'm presuming that's why I was dumped, though I didn't really care at the time and was more Inverness with playing Halo.

#noregrets

Casper · September 06, 2014, 07:09:26 PM

Let's... not..

Korra · September 06, 2014, 07:13:26 PM

I don't want to talk about it.

SecondClass · September 06, 2014, 07:17:53 PM

My last rejection was four years ago, when I asked some girl if she wanted to get some coffee after school and she said no. My last breakup was two years ago, when I dumped the girl I was dating because she was way too clingy.

rC · September 06, 2014, 07:21:10 PM

Quote from: SecondClass on September 06, 2014, 07:17:53 PM

My last rejection was four years ago, when I asked some girl if she wanted to get some coffee after school and she said no. My last breakup was two years ago, when I dumped the girl I was dating because she was way too clingy.

You drank coffee when you were 10?

SecondClass · September 06, 2014, 07:22:06 PM

Quote from: RC5908 on September 06, 2014, 07:21:10 PM

Quote from: SecondClass on September 06, 2014, 07:17:53 PM
My last rejection was four years ago, when I asked some girl if she wanted to get some coffee after school and she said no. My last breakup was two years ago, when I dumped the girl I was dating because she was way too clingy.
You drank coffee when you were 10?

I wasn't ten four years ago, but yeah, I did. I've been drinking coffee since I was 9.

gats · September 06, 2014, 08:01:07 PM

Spoiler

She told me not to but I still nut in her eye

Spoiler

P.S I didn't save her photo I got it from the picture thread, check the links if you want.

Ásgeirr · September 06, 2014, 08:02:52 PM

Quote from: Gatsby on September 06, 2014, 08:01:07 PM

Spoiler
She told me not to but I still nut in her eye

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P.S I didn't save her photo I got it from the picture thread, check the links if you want.

5/5

Casper · September 06, 2014, 08:06:47 PM

Quote from: Ossku on September 06, 2014, 08:02:52 PM

Quote from: Gatsby on September 06, 2014, 08:01:07 PM
Spoiler
She told me not to but I still nut in her eye

Spoiler
P.S I didn't save her photo I got it from the picture thread, check the links if you want.
5/5

low standards/5

True Turquoise · September 06, 2014, 08:08:22 PM

Quote from: Casper on September 06, 2014, 08:06:47 PM

Quote from: Ossku on September 06, 2014, 08:02:52 PM
Quote from: Gatsby on September 06, 2014, 08:01:07 PM
Spoiler
She told me not to but I still nut in her eye

Spoiler
P.S I didn't save her photo I got it from the picture thread, check the links if you want.
5/5
low standards/5

Ouch